I Don't Know If I Should Get a Divorce

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    Frustrated To The Core

    I was in a relationship for 10 yrs and ended up breaking the same. My parents convinced me to meet guys for an arrange marriage and i met someone and i left 10yr old relationship after meeting him but somehow even i could not get married to that guy and then i met an old friend...
    Revona777 Revona777
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Nov 30, 2011

    Indecision

    I can't decide what is best to do.  I have been married for 21 years.  I have 3 kids ages 19, 16 & 10.  The marriage,it seems to me, now that I think about it, has been going downhill for about the last 16 years.  I don't want to seem like I am whining but I...
    babasgirl babasgirl
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Jan 24, 2010

    I Can'T See Any Other Solution...

    Married my husband hoping my feelings for him would grow. I respected and admired him-what I could see. I never was too romantic and I really thought we were a good match. I just knew my feelings would deepen and our relationship would thrive. He seemed so giving. Well, I got...
    Leah44 Leah44
    41-45, F
    1 Response May 28, 2013

    Conflicted Emotions

    My current husband (I was married to another man before twice) and I have been married for 3.5 yrs.  But we seem to still be arguing over and over about the same topics since we first met.  Now we have kids involved to.  Finally in Jan I got tired of fighting...
    Mystgz Mystgz
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

    I'm seriously contemplating divorce.

    I have 3 kids. He doesn't talk to me, do things with me, or have sex with me. I signed up for a husband, not a roommate. What will this do to my children if I leave the marriage? What will it do to me if I stay. It us so miserable being constantly rejected, never touched....I...
    MLH205 MLH205
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    i never thought I'd be in this position.

    i don't think anyone ever thinks it. i was so in love. He wants everything to go back to the way it was. But the damage is done. I can't be that way anymore. As for my kids, i wish we could do family counseling. he's traumatized them too. i know he's doing the best he can with...
    Platana2100 Platana2100
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 5, 2015

    Where To Turn....

    We were friends for 3-4 years before getting married...lived together for 2 of those 4 years. He was a cool friend, I like the fact that i could sleep in the same bed with him and he wouldn't touch me, the fact that I could trust him. Maybe I like the thought of helping someone...
    lovely618 lovely618
    26-30, F
    12 Responses Jan 27, 2011
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