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I Don't Know If I Should Get a Divorce

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 92 People

    Where To Turn....

    We were friends for 3-4 years before getting married...lived together for 2 of those 4 years. He was a cool friend, I like the fact that i could sleep in the same bed with him and he wouldn't touch me, the fact that I could trust him. Maybe I like the thought of helping someone...
    lovely618 lovely618 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    i never thought I'd be in this position.

    i don't think anyone ever thinks it. i was so in love. He wants everything to go back to the way it was. But the damage is done. I can't be that way anymore. As for my kids, i wish we could do family counseling. he's traumatized them too. i know he's doing the best he can with...
    Platana2100 Platana2100 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Indecision

    I can't decide what is best to do.  I have been married for 21 years.  I have 3 kids ages 19, 16 & 10.  The marriage,it seems to me, now that I think about it, has been going downhill for about the last 16 years.  I don't want to seem like I am whining but I...
    babasgirl babasgirl 41-45, F 8 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    Frustrated To The Core

    I was in a relationship for 10 yrs and ended up breaking the same. My parents convinced me to meet guys for an arrange marriage and i met someone and i left 10yr old relationship after meeting him but somehow even i could not get married to that guy and then i met an old friend...
    Revona777 Revona777 26-30, F 10 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    No one comes as a package.

    I know this .. but this is a hard question. - Do you love your wife? or Do you love your husband? - What are the defects or black spot (s) in your relationship?
    cherry2015 cherry2015 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 1, 2014

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    I'm seriously contemplating divorce.

    I have 3 kids. He doesn't talk to me, do things with me, or have sex with me. I signed up for a husband, not a roommate. What will this do to my children if I leave the marriage? What will it do to me if I stay. It us so miserable being constantly rejected, never touched....I...
    MLH205 MLH205 41-45, F 10 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    I Can'T See Any Other Solution...

    Married my husband hoping my feelings for him would grow. I respected and admired him-what I could see. I never was too romantic and I really thought we were a good match. I just knew my feelings would deepen and our relationship would thrive. He seemed so giving. Well, I got...
    Leah44 Leah44 41-45, F 1 Response May 28, 2013

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    Conflicted Emotions

    My current husband (I was married to another man before twice) and I have been married for 3.5 yrs.  But we seem to still be arguing over and over about the same topics since we first met.  Now we have kids involved to.  Finally in Jan I got tired of fighting...
    Mystgz Mystgz 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    i don't believe I will make it life. why? nothing means much to me...i know there are days when I have 'bliss' because of distractions, but in the end I can't find meaning in much...
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    I'm such a **** up, I can't continue on like this forever and I don't know what to do anymore. I have no future, I can't afford one.
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    I have been married for a little over 10 years and have been miserable for about 9 of it. I have 2 beautiful girls both under the age of 10 whom I love to the moon and back. After...
    laiken20 laiken20 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I live in Santa Ana California and I am very concerned about my niece. My niece lives with here mom in a car/Cheap Motels. Her loser dad which is my brother is in jail and her mom...
    Sublimegirl Sublimegirl 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I know that I'm cute but that's not what men seem to want they want sexy you know And I know that I'm just a cute girl. I'm fit with a good body and I'm not only cute but pretty...
    bemmie bemmie 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    He's gone and I don't know how to breathe properly without him. He's gone and every sight, sound and word assaults my mind with thoughts of him. It didn't matter that his part was...
    forgedindarkness forgedindarkness 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I look at the sunset and inwardly smile. I know it's always going to be there for me. I look at the moon and worry. I don't know why I get so scared at night. I can feel the tiny...
    zax2 zax2 51-55, M 5 days ago

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    I feel like I'm unlovable. People always say great things about me. My friends say I know a lot of people at school and they always say hi. But no one ever makes an effort to get...
    RileyRed RileyRed 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My first real best friend who turned out to be a *****, I don't know how to get her damned voice out of my head. The more I think about it, the more I'm realizing how I didn't...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    .. I feel homesick it was eversince I was young, but it didn't really bother me back then now I came into a realization that I want to go home but I don't know where It is, a while...
    franchezca franchezca 13-15, F a week ago

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    My mother and father are so stupid. I am really smart. My whole life I have had to deal with morons that don't know how to spell, communicate with people correctly, or do anything...
    bjssoi bjssoi 31-35, F a week ago

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    June 21, 2009 I never knew that day could end up being one that was burned in the back of my brain for ever. Well buddy it's been six years since mommy lost you. To top that off...
    forgottenheart forgottenheart 18-21, F Jun 21

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    I'm 24 years old. I have 2 useless degrees. I don't want to live in a city and work in an office and die there. I want to travel the world and meet people and do good. I don't know...
    yayaya24 yayaya24 26-30, F Jun 21

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    My husband gets infuriated when I don't see something the same way he does. Even if I do see it his way but also see it a different way, he gets incredibly upset about it. I don't...
    thatonecxnt thatonecxnt 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    well first I rarely get them. So when I do, it's pretty weird and I feel awkward somehow. So from that, I even don't know how to compliment others which suck. In my head I'd be...
    CallMeShayYeah CallMeShayYeah 16-17, F Jun 20

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    i don't want to leave my room and face reality but i know i have to. no matter how many times i tell everyone i'm fine everybody believes it.... no one sees the lie anymore. i...
    catsrule5678 catsrule5678 18-21, F Jun 20

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    I really don't know. I don't think so, but i can't tell.
    Nicodemus1223 Nicodemus1223 18-21, M Jun 19

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    I know who my name and such. I just don't know me or what I am supposed to be. I haven't found anything yet I like to really do or any close friends.
    idodger idodger 13-15, M Jun 19

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    Alot of times I just don't know what to say too people so I just avoid them sometimes in general. But don't get me wrong I actually have made some really good freinds who I no...
    vnon123 vnon123 16-17, M Jun 19

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    I'm a smart *** and so is my little brother yet it astounds me how he can save me from myself with the simplest of gestures and words. After a conversation with him, I feel like I...
    WarriorsHeart WarriorsHeart 22-25, M Jun 17

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    I don't get it. Is it me? Do I do or say things to make people disappear on me? I'm I boring to talk to? And is it too hard to tell me what I may have done to make you not want to...
    saram1985 saram1985 26-30, F Jun 16

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    i am in troubel cause i may fail at school and that is making me very nervous and driving me crazy cause i have to wait untill the results come out and i know that i didn't do well...
    najibasouissi najibasouissi 16-17, F Jun 16

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    When my significant other and I first met, we both wanted everything that life had to offer us. Children, marriage, house, cars, good careers. We didn't know what life would throw...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F Jun 16

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    I don't know why I keep watching the same movie and expect a different ending??? One of these days maybe my common sense will catch up to my (supposed) intellect....
    alteregoeleven alteregoeleven 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 16

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    It's so confusing. Sometimes, I say yes.. But a little later, regret and say no. I don't even know what I do want... It's so frustrating. And it doesn't just frustrates me but...
    Undecodable Undecodable 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    I don't know if I am or not because a lot of people call me fat and ugly so I don't really know.
    PinkyChristina PinkyChristina 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    So, recently my boyfriend of a year and eight months broke up, which sucks but isn't the point. The point is that i then started to think over the relationship and the fact that he...
    Anna10987654321 Anna10987654321 16-17 Jun 15

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    I've tried. I worked really hard to make my wants and needs clear to him. I don't know if he's not willing or not able to meet them but regardless, I'm sad and lonely...what do I...
    Sweetdaisymae Sweetdaisymae 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    I know that there are hundreds, if not, thousands like me who don't know what exactly they want or are looking for in life. Unfortunately, I am one of them. Yesterday, I met up...
    SlowlyDrifting SlowlyDrifting 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Okay anybody else parents said "she's not shy " or "speak!" If you have your not the only one. Everytime I don't know somebody I'm very quiet unless they talk to me first. But one...
    lifeisastruggle4ever lifeisastruggle4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    I have always found comfort in talking to people who I did not know. This was the case since I was 14 because I couldn't talk to anyone I knew about my issues. When I was 14 I...
    CrimsonKnight117 CrimsonKnight117 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I've been dating this guy for a couple weeks. He is really sweet and seems to really like me. He treats me really well. He's done alot for me already. I think he's cute. Not the...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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