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I Don't Know If I Should Get a Divorce

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 73 People

    Frustrated To The Core

    I was in a relationship for 10 yrs and ended up breaking the same. My parents convinced me to meet guys for an arrange marriage and i met someone and i left 10yr old relationship after meeting him but somehow even i could not get married to that guy and then i met an old friend...
    Revona777 Revona777 26-30, F 10 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Indecision

    I can't decide what is best to do.  I have been married for 21 years.  I have 3 kids ages 19, 16 & 10.  The marriage,it seems to me, now that I think about it, has been going downhill for about the last 16 years.  I don't want to seem like I am whining but I...
    babasgirl babasgirl 41-45, F 8 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    I'm seriously contemplating divorce.

    I have 3 kids. He doesn't talk to me, do things with me, or have sex with me. I signed up for a husband, not a roommate. What will this do to my children if I leave the marriage? What will it do to me if I stay. It us so miserable being constantly rejected, never touched....I...
    MLH205 MLH205 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 17

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    I Can'T See Any Other Solution...

    Married my husband hoping my feelings for him would grow. I respected and admired him-what I could see. I never was too romantic and I really thought we were a good match. I just knew my feelings would deepen and our relationship would thrive. He seemed so giving. Well, I got...
    Leah44 Leah44 41-45, F 2 Responses May 28, 2013

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    No one comes as a package.

    I know this .. but this is a hard question. - Do you love your wife? or Do you love your husband? - What are the defects or black spot (s) in your relationship?
    SwanLake78 SwanLake78 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 1

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    Where To Turn....

    We were friends for 3-4 years before getting married...lived together for 2 of those 4 years. He was a cool friend, I like the fact that i could sleep in the same bed with him and he wouldn't touch me, the fact that I could trust him. Maybe I like the thought of helping someone...
    lovely618 lovely618 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    Conflicted Emotions

    My current husband (I was married to another man before twice) and I have been married for 3.5 yrs.  But we seem to still be arguing over and over about the same topics since we first met.  Now we have kids involved to.  Finally in Jan I got tired of fighting...
    Mystgz Mystgz 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Everything in my life is going wrong yet I'm calm and so relaxed :/ I don't know what's wrong with me. How can I be like this? I used to be so ****** tense about each and every...
    lostnsad lostnsad 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    So before I get into the deep stuff, let me fill you in. I grew up an only child in a happy home, my parents were never married but were always together, I am 22, my mom is 44...
    Chelssea Chelssea 18-21 Oct 3

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    The last decade has been full of death, layoffs, financial crisis, betrayal and divorce. Luckily I have two kids who are making a difference in this world and a job that works me...
    Sleeplessinwa Sleeplessinwa 51-55, M Oct 6

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    First things first, a guy told me he kinda likes me, and I kind of like him, but I don't know what to do about it. Also, I moved recently, as most of you know, and the new...
    PercyJacksonisAWESOME PercyJacksonisAWESOME 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I've been away from home for 6 months, to a country where I could escape from the troubles in life. I felt like there was nothing to worry about and above all enjoyed the FREEDOM...
    hopefaithtrust hopefaithtrust 18-21, F Oct 11

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    I'm very lost and don't know what to do next. I feel so bored of life that a lot of times I wonder if death would be better you know. I don't know what to do in order to keep my...
    Zoned1 Zoned1 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 14

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    I have been with my husband for 6 years. Nothing was ever normal. He is a recovering alcoholic for the past year. Once he stopped drinking many smaller issues started sprouting...
    emotionalshreds emotionalshreds 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 14

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    I'm feeling really worthless. I'm not very good at anything, I can't hold a job because I'm not very good at even waitressing. How complicated is waitressing even and yet I'm never...
    mc020130 mc020130 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 16

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    I am so very scared. I don't know which way turn anymore. I have managed to royally **** up my life....again. I feel completely worthless. I don't know what I want anymore. On the...
    onebirdinacage onebirdinacage 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 16

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    This is a problem for me. I don't know how to ask for help. There were times when I could've solved all my problems just by asking for help. There were willing people, I remember...
    migs1910 migs1910 26-30, M Oct 17

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    I’ve been talking to this guy/boy/man that I met online around a year ago. He is older than me. I’m 21 and he’s 26. He has a secure and successful career, went to school on...
    lookingatstars lookingatstars 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 22

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    Am I kind? Am I heartless? Am I purely seductive? Am I sensitive? Can I love? Am I crazy? Sadly I don't know. I have so many roles that I have used to protect myself. I think the...
    butterflyhearts17 butterflyhearts17 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    If somebody ever asked me about my life, I will always refer to you. It will always start with the day I first saw your face, and how everything seemed to change. I will continue...
    Darkthoughtsallover Darkthoughtsallover 16-17, F a week ago

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    I go to school 6 days a week including language school, i used to be an straight A student, but what happened to me since I start yr7?! My parents didn't mind at first, and I...
    sohee25 sohee25 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I would like to and want to believe that I do have a future but it is hard to tell I am only living at the moment and right now its hard to say I would say maybe as long as my...
    jon200547 jon200547 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    Sorry for everyone who thinks this is an update. That guy I mentioned before? He told me actually does like me, and we've talked a lot, but the thing is, I don't know if I like him...
    PercyJacksonisAWESOME PercyJacksonisAWESOME 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 8

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    I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm 16 and in the 12th grade, and I've skipped so many classes that I could have to do another year. But that would honestly be devastating...
    dickdurk dickdurk 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    I am married for 22yrs. My relationship at home is abusive and working has really helped me to become stronger and more independent. I still don't have the confidence to leave but...
    Dinkiel Dinkiel 41-45 Oct 11

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    I'm 18 and I'm 10 weeks pregnant. I want to keep it but I jst don't know if I can afford it. My partner is very supportive but I know he wants the abortion. He sleeps at night with...
    Jessica169 Jessica169 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    I'm in a constant state of unrest. At any given moment I feel as though I am either about to explode violently or will break down and begin hyperventilating. This is my life and...
    Tantalustay Tantalustay 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 16

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    I have been married for the past 5 years. We have 2 kids 3 and 1 years old. I am with my kids all the time. Can't wait to leave work to see them. My husband on the other hand...
    carol723 carol723 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    I feel like saying sorry, but I don't even know what for. The past few days have just been blurry. I don't know what to think. My boyfriend seems to be hurting quite a bit n I feel...
    TallyO TallyO 13-15, F Oct 18

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    I am almost 25 and I just don't know what is wrong with me. Sometimes I am high, (like I was stoned or something, but I don't do drugs, don't even smoke...) sleep only for a few...
    girlwithrunes girlwithrunes 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'll probably delete this after a while because I don't like talking about about such things. Anyways, I've been in a couple online relationships over long distance. I haven't a...
    aFuzzyBlouw aFuzzyBlouw 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Well, i don't know what is this felling should be called... Met this young tall good looking guy in a meeting. Known him for almost a year. From the first time i saw him, i said...
    fitflop fitflop 31-35 1 day ago

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    Why is he making it hard for me? ;~; I can't tell my childhood friend about this matter because he'll just make me feel bad about this... I don't know whose shoulder I could cry...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    I don't know how to flirt... well, that's an understatement. For that matter I don't even know how to talk to my crush! Anyways, I try to laugh my fails off so I feel less...
    dandeelaion dandeelaion 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    i had an online fight with my long distant ex boyfriend at may, in which he had gone mad at me and he went offline saying that i destroyed his life and he is going to kill himself...
    oceanend oceanend 18-21 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I don't know what I am doing anymore. I am going in circles, I am okay for a few days and then randomly I get bad again. I don't know what to do or what is going on. I just want to...
    Scaredmonster Scaredmonster 16-17, F Oct 7

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    Hey guys, Firstly, this is a question but since the details were long I couldn't post it in the Questions section. So there's this guy (he's the son of my dad's colleague) and we...
    MissGorgeous MissGorgeous 13-15, F Oct 10

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    I do love my parents, they are fighting.. as in Right now! I'm not used to it.. I feel broken seeing them fighting..I really don't know what to do.. They don't even think what...
    Kyouko05 Kyouko05 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    My boyfriend is currently in basic training for the United States Marines. He's been gone for almost a month and a half, which means he's almost half done. Now I don't get anyone...
    kaylafitz kaylafitz 18-21, F Oct 13

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    I love wicca and himduism. The thing is that I can't chose a religion I'm in love with a million different ones. I'm raised a Christian but I don't fell. I don't know the word...
    Ginnylove Ginnylove 13-15, F Oct 13

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    I love wicca and himduism. The thing is that I can't chose a religion I'm in love with a million different ones. I'm raised a Christian but I don't fell. I don't know the word...
    Ginnylove Ginnylove 13-15, F Oct 13

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    I love wicca and himduism. The thing is that I can't chose a religion I'm in love with a million different ones. I'm raised a Christian but I don't fell. I don't know the word...
    Ginnylove Ginnylove 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    I feel somewhat selfish for even thinking this as there are so many people worse off than me. It's just been so long without simple touch,intimacy, or even conversation. I have...
    Lovinu0429 Lovinu0429 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 13

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    I'm really not much of one, and don't know how to for the most part. If I do, it's only if I liked the person, otherwise I don't have it in me. I know someone won't believe this...
    liberty2 liberty2 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 18

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    My gf and I have just had a huge falling out, down to the fact something about her past I just can't get my head around. It goes against every value I have as a person and its hard...
    Lightandshadows Lightandshadows 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 20

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    It's strange I've never had any really good girl friends in my life I always just kinda hung out with guys but I still always feel something for another really cute girl like I was...
    JustYourOrdinaryGirl JustYourOrdinaryGirl 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm naive. I'm a baby. It seems like everyone around me thinks a 21 year old has to be a certain way and I don't fit those requirementS. I'm not immature, mostly. I'm just...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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