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I Don't Know If I Should Get a Divorce

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 74 People

    Frustrated To The Core

    I was in a relationship for 10 yrs and ended up breaking the same. My parents convinced me to meet guys for an arrange marriage and i met someone and i left 10yr old relationship after meeting him but somehow even i could not get married to that guy and then i met an old friend...
    Revona777 Revona777 26-30, F 10 Responses Nov 30, 2011

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    Where To Turn....

    We were friends for 3-4 years before getting married...lived together for 2 of those 4 years. He was a cool friend, I like the fact that i could sleep in the same bed with him and he wouldn't touch me, the fact that I could trust him. Maybe I like the thought of helping someone...
    lovely618 lovely618 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 27, 2011

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    No one comes as a package.

    I know this .. but this is a hard question. - Do you love your wife? or Do you love your husband? - What are the defects or black spot (s) in your relationship?
    SwanLake78 SwanLake78 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 1

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    Indecision

    I can't decide what is best to do.  I have been married for 21 years.  I have 3 kids ages 19, 16 & 10.  The marriage,it seems to me, now that I think about it, has been going downhill for about the last 16 years.  I don't want to seem like I am whining but I...
    babasgirl babasgirl 41-45, F 8 Responses Jan 24, 2010

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    I'm seriously contemplating divorce.

    I have 3 kids. He doesn't talk to me, do things with me, or have sex with me. I signed up for a husband, not a roommate. What will this do to my children if I leave the marriage? What will it do to me if I stay. It us so miserable being constantly rejected, never touched....I...
    MLH205 MLH205 41-45, F 6 Responses Oct 17

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    I Can'T See Any Other Solution...

    Married my husband hoping my feelings for him would grow. I respected and admired him-what I could see. I never was too romantic and I really thought we were a good match. I just knew my feelings would deepen and our relationship would thrive. He seemed so giving. Well, I got...
    Leah44 Leah44 41-45, F 2 Responses May 28, 2013

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    Conflicted Emotions

    My current husband (I was married to another man before twice) and I have been married for 3.5 yrs.  But we seem to still be arguing over and over about the same topics since we first met.  Now we have kids involved to.  Finally in Jan I got tired of fighting...
    Mystgz Mystgz 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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