I Don't Know If I Want Kids Ever

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    Someday?

    Growing up, I always thought I wanted children.  The older I get, the more I doubt it. I just simply don't know. In all honesty, I would love to be a foster parent.  There are plenty of children who need homes, even if they are just temporary. I'm just not sure what...
    NoOneOfConsequence NoOneOfConsequence
    22-25, F
    Apr 21, 2008

    I know most young girls dream about being a mom

    and when I was younger I did too; but now that I'm almost 20 I don't think I want kids. When I picture my future I just don't see kids in it. If I get married one day and my husband doesn't want kids, I would be fine with that. If he does, I would reconsider it but I hate that...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2014

    Nope

    I can't really picture myself ever having kids, at least not right now. It's not that I don't like them, I just feel no desire to be a mother. There are SO many countless things I would much rather do with my life that I can't really do if I have kids. To me, my life and dreams...
    idek idek
    22-25
    1 Response Apr 14, 2010

    When my significant other

    and I first met, we both wanted everything that life had to offer us. Children, marriage, house, cars, good careers. We didn't know what life would throw at us. Before we met, he went through a divorce and he has two girls with his previous wife. We have been together now for...
    Spakrs Spakrs
    18-21, F
    Jun 16, 2015
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