I Don't Know If I Want to Be Married Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 116 People

    What To Do..

    Let me start with i just turned 20 year old. When I met my husband, i had just gotten out of a very terrible break up. a depressing break up where i moved back in with my parents and stayed in my room for weeks. We went on our first date and things were good.. and a few short...
    keahlee keahlee
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 9, 2012

    Tough Decisions

    I have been married 17 years. We met when I was 18 and we were married when I was 18 and a half! We have 3 wonderful children and I have the dream life. Beautiful house.... money when I need/want it...friends and family.. but I know this isn't what I want anymore. My husband...
    spaceprincess spaceprincess
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Aug 2, 2011

    What Is It I Feel Like Is Missing....

    I face a very tough decision in the coming months....do I confess to my husband that even though he is wonderful and I love him and have no good reason to leave that I am not happy and feel I need to be alone to figure out what is missing? or do I stay and accept I will never...
    moretolifethanthis2013 moretolifethanthis2013
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Nov 3, 2013

    Marriage shouldn't exist anymore.

    Everyone don't follow the rules. Everyone fuckkk everyone else but they're husband or wife. Why get married? You know you can't control your penisss why get freaking married to a women. Ladies you know you can't keep your legs closed why get married? I don't want to get married...
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 23, 2015

    Reconsidering Being Married

    I've been with my husband for 7 years and married for 3. We have no kids yet and live what people would consider a great life: nice house, good jobs, well educated. By husband is a good guy and loves me very much but we've been bickering more lately and I feel like I've been...
    NatureFae NatureFae
    14 Responses Jul 8, 2008

    She Loves Me So Much.

    This is kind of weird for me. I'm not one for feelings. (That's probably one of the problems.) I've been married for almost 7 years. I've been with my wife for about 12 in total. (Since I was 18) She is a fantastic wife, mother and homemaker. I really can't complain about much...
    Torn0319 Torn0319
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Nov 6, 2013

    Family Trouble

    Today I was SO sure I wanted out of this marraige... then my family kept telling me how I should work on it more and it's not worth losing. I'm staying at my mom's house while I'm thinking about it, and she asked if my husband wanted to come stay the night here too. Obviously I...
    keahlee keahlee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2013


    I've been living in a unbareable marraige for quite a while. I've been wanting to get out of it for more than 7 months now, and last night he told me he was ready for it to, so we decided I'd move to my moms until we decided what to do. Today I came home after work to grab some...
    keahlee keahlee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 1, 2013

    I love my wife, but I hate my life.

    The only way I can see to change the things I want changed, is for us to go our separate ways. We don't see eye to eye on where we want to live as that is big deal for me. I detest cold and snow. I'm going to live where it's warm. I drive a truck and gone all week. I need a...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 10, 2015

    The End

    I don't know where to begin but let me just throw out the facts. This is my 2nd marriage and I felt at the time it was a bad idea. we both worked. we both were military. I got out search for work and paid my bills. i didn't put a burden on him. when we first dated 2 years prior...
    Jordanl1 Jordanl1
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 12, 2013

    Today a very attractive woman was flirting with

    me. It should have made me feel good but instead it just made me depressed because I know I will never be attracted to my wife that way.
    sbdbritt sbdbritt
    41-45, M
    Jun 1, 2015

    Feel Tied Down

    Im 20 yrs old and i feel extremely tied down we have two kids and have only been married for 2 1/2 yrs... He cant do anything with out his moms opinion, she runs his life, he complains that he cant take care of kids alone, idk... Im just wanted to wait to get married but we got...
    tidbit234 tidbit234
    1 Response Nov 28, 2012

    Well I'm new here, just really flustrated.

    I've been married for 4 years. Guess when I'm married him I thought he would feel content. He spent years in his past drinking at bars, different women, and lots of ****. When we hooked up, he was totally in love, he said he could have normal life and respectful one. be happy...
    shelovesherdogs shelovesherdogs
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    I'm 27 and recently married (5months) I've been

    with my husband since high school. We made a drastic move to a new state that was not planned. He found a place and I followed. He has friends here and he goes out a lot, I'm constantly alone I have no friends or family here. I tell him all the time I feel alone and he acts like...
    ALB650 ALB650
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 25, 2015

    Should I Stay Or Go...

    I have been married for nearly 5yrs. We met and married within 6months! We fell in love with each other for our own different reasons. I loved how he showed love to me and my children and he loved the the wife/mother instincts that I have. Well over the course of the years we...
    sprinkles609 sprinkles609
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2010

    I am 32 years old and have been with my husband

    for 13 years, married for 6.5 years. We have a 4 year old daughter together. When we first met he was everything I ever wanted (I was only 18 or 19 at the time and he is the only guy I have been with). For the last 2 years, I have had these feelings that I want to leave. I feel...
    Yummymummy32 Yummymummy32
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    I have only been married a mere 4 months

    and already I am feeling out of my comfort zone. I'm 33 and have one child from a previous relationship but this is my first marriage. My husband is a wonderful person - but before him I was dating several different people.... I'm a very sexual person, so being able to have...
    Piperlou Piperlou
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    Not Sure Marriage Was The Right Road To Take

    I am 27. My husband 37. He has 3 kids and i have none. We cant have kids together nor do i want too after raising his children. In fact im tired of raising his children period. I take more responsibility than he does. I know i love him but im not sure i am in love anymore. I have...
    jiavonne jiavonne
    Dec 19, 2012
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 31, 2015


    Me and my husband just decided to get a seperation last night. We seem to think that me still staying in the house won't hurt and he's been pretty good about giving me my space. Last night he said that a divorce would be alright. But this morning he decided he wants to work on it...
    keahlee keahlee
    18-21, F
    Apr 2, 2013

    Not Sure If I Want To Be Married

    I'm 23 and been married for 2 years... We don't have any children. I work full time and go to school full time. He works about 3-4 days a week and isn't motivated to get a better job ... He's been lying to me about smoking cigarettes our whole marriage.. I thought he quit a long...
    Estefanny Estefanny
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2013

    I have been married for almost 8 years.

    I fell for her at first sight, but she wouldn't give me the time of day. It was several months before she would even give me a chance. Well we started dating months turned into years on again and off again. Then one day when we were on a break she called to tell me she was...
    texproud184 texproud184
    26-30, M
    Mar 29
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