I Don't Know If I'm Attractive

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    i dont know if im attractive

    and i have no confidence but i usually dont wear makeup....
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Nov 6, 2015

    People told me all throughout middle school I

    was ugly. But I go to highschool and all I get told is that I am beautiful. (My appearance didn't change at all. I just moved school districts.)
    AlmightyPanda AlmightyPanda
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2016

    With my success with women I don't think so

    but I've been told other wise. Honest opinions.
    rideordie310 rideordie310
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2016

    I honestly think I'm an idiotic girl

    who is ugly as hell.......
    LucyGirlAkita2 LucyGirlAkita2
    18-21, F
    44 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    I would hope that I am at least average,

    but believe it or not no one has ever commented on my looks. I'll admit that I am not perfect but would be interested in hearing a few opinions.
    barefootfun42 barefootfun42
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Dec 16, 2015

    What even is this? Lol yes of course everyone

    is attractive and unique in their own way
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2014

    I don't think I'm attractive at all.

    I think I'm one ugly bastard lol
    ACyanideSurprise ACyanideSurprise
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Dec 30, 2014

    There is only one way to find out

    so what dose ep think about my new looks? :P
    Eli072 Eli072
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jan 30, 2016

    When I was little I was always told

    that I was ugly and fat by my older sister....and I started believing her and all the people who would bully me. Now I cant go anywhere with out trying to look good. Putting on makeup, doing my hair. All of it. Even if I was just staying home. Now people tell me how beautiful I...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jan 3, 2015

    Are red heads attractive?

    In three years, I've dropped from a size 16 (AU) to size 8-10 (AU). So that's something.
    TheTenthEleventhDoctor TheTenthEleventhDoctor
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2016
    bloodofcour bloodofcour
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    Here is the picture of myself

    that was asked or for
    abrokendreamer abrokendreamer
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 28, 2014
    daynicus daynicus
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Jul 28, 2014

    Sometimes I wish I was conventionally attractive

    but that's dumb. I'm a thick, curvy black girl and if guys don't like that, that's too bad for them
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    When my friends say I'm pretty I think it's just

    because they're being nice Opinions??
    charlotte8482 charlotte8482
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Feb 6, 2016

    Oh, well. There's worse things in life

    than not being attractive. :P
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jul 18, 2015

    My girlfriend tells me I am,

    but I can't help but feel like she's sorta obligated to say yes.. Although I have other past girlfriends say I was but again, I feel like they are obligated to or more influenced to since they are 'Inlove' with me..
    JordanTheLost6 JordanTheLost6
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    no one as I can remember has said

    that I was hot or very good looking. people said that I am cute a lot of the time. I wonder sometimes hope I am not a minger.
    Leylandlad Leylandlad
    41-45, M
    Dec 15, 2015

    What I do know is that I'm perfectly flawed :)

    and this is what makes me beautiful as a person
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 12, 2014

    People have told me I'm cute

    and pretty but when I look in the mirror I don't think I am. Please give me your honest opinion
    deleted deleted
    11 Responses Oct 11, 2014
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 10, 2016

    I honestly don't.either I am

    or I'm not.but I just don't know.hopefully I am I guess.it's a good thing right.
    cieloissky cieloissky
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    There is some people

    that would find you attractive and others don't. I've learned to love myself.. It took me a lot of work and sometimes I fail but I'm stronger than I was. It's important that you can find yourself attractive, cause that's the most important part. I mean if you let your opinions...
    Jessoka Jessoka
    22-25, F
    7 Responses May 30, 2014

    Not sure if I am. A lot of girls seems to like

    to trade pics with me a couple of times, they tell me I'm hot, and then all of a sudden it's like I never existed.
    zachlkg zachlkg
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 3, 2015
    BootyHadMeLikeDamn BootyHadMeLikeDamn
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Dec 7, 2014
    YoungDisobedientSlave YoungDisobedientSlave
    16-17, F
    24 Responses Nov 19, 2015

    I wonder if im a decent looking human being.

    Either way, -shrugs- whatever xD
    raynbow32 raynbow32
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Mar 4, 2015
    elsharkawey elsharkawey
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2016

    I don't see myself as an "attractive" person

    because barely guys had a crush on me...but most girls did have a crush on me
    anon189 anon189
    18-21, F
    Nov 12, 2015

    I need a serious answer,

    what can I change to be more atractive?
    isoyalvaro isoyalvaro
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Nov 19, 2015
    olivias78 olivias78
    18-21, F
    46 Responses May 9, 2015
    seanisaacparry seanisaacparry
    18-21, M
    7 Responses Jun 19, 2015
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Jun 22, 2014

    im not sure but many times I notice girls

    starin at me,I thought they see me cause I see them n one day I n ma frnd went to a programme,I didn't see girls at all but ma frnd said a no of girls looked at me..iz it coincedially or something other??
    nishh8888 nishh8888
    22-25, M
    Nov 26, 2015

    I honestly have no clue,

    I just know I sometimes get mistaken for a 10 year old without any makeup lol. But apparently that's a good thing for when I'm much older. On the other hand some people say I look older than my age. But idk if I'm attractive, I wouldn't want to sound vein lol. Either way...
    Bhavika18 Bhavika18
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2014

    i get compliments from my friends

    but i never know if there just being nice or they really mean it because i dont think i look attractive
    kittycat626 kittycat626
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2015
    vf702 vf702
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    I just never feel good enough.

    Here's my pic, no hate..
    olivias78 olivias78
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Apr 22, 2014
    countrybabe16 countrybabe16
    18-21, F
    25 Responses Aug 6, 2014

    Boys at school call me ugly all the time

    for no reason. I've done nothing to them. I'm always as nice as I can be. They've lowered my confidence down so much but I try not to let it effect me.
    xokekeox xokekeox
    16-17, F
    9 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    Some days, when I wear makeup,

    some light foundation and fleeking of the eyebrows (cause its obvious), I feel fake. made up you know? but when I don't wear it, my skin is so oily and I'm self conscious. but at least my eyebrows look good??
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    What even is attractiveness?

    It changes depending on where you're situated and the beauty standards of that particular area. If you consider yourself unattractive then just remember, in some place of the world, you meet someone's beauty standards. That's what I tell myself anyways haha πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
    emoghost833 emoghost833
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2016
    xxtoxiccupcakexx xxtoxiccupcakexx
    18-21, F
    36 Responses May 10, 2015

    I have never felt beautiful.

    Ever. I suppose this comes from deep insecurity and self worth issues, because some people have said that I am pretty (even if it feels like they say that because, as my friends, they have to). I doubt anyone will ever love me because of how I look.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 23, 2016

    I don't really ever feel pretty.

    ...But I don't care what people think about me anywaysπŸ˜‡πŸ˜‚
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    Guys call me ugly but girls call me pretty

    and it's really confusing
    causeclifford causeclifford
    16-17, F
    32 Responses Jun 21, 2014

    Am I pretty? I have low self esteem,

    so...what do you think?
    DreamOfAFox DreamOfAFox
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    Haha we all have our insecurities mine is how

    skinny I am - 6'4 and weigh 143lbs
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    How can a someone say they are attractive?

    thats a bit up but my girlfriends and my boyfriend say I am. Lol they can keep saying it because i like that :)
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 24, 2016

    I don't feel attractive at all.

    Literally my self-esteem and no confidence has taken over. Any tips for hair or makeup to help me boost this confidence? I just want to feel pretty .
    Aleexo96 Aleexo96
    18-21, F
    19 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    I would say I look average.

    My above average personality makes up for it though.
    JohnnnnM96 JohnnnnM96
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2015

    I always look at these magazines

    and on social media and see people who are just so beautiful. And when I look back at myself and I just feel even lesser then before
    olive8976 olive8976
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    What's the point of living?

    No no one will ever like me...
    NoneCares NoneCares
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Jan 21, 2016
    Mollythebunnie Mollythebunnie
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 20, 2015

    It sucks to be an older woman.

    ..Your man loses interest, the guys stop checking you out, the dates dry up, the sex is either dutiful or ************, and every time you look in the mirror you realize it just gets worse from here. This after a whole life time of being told the pretty girl gets the life. After...
    wanderingwacky wanderingwacky
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Mar 5, 2015
    1Miserablemind 1Miserablemind
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 1, 2014

    ... I'm what to think.

    . if it's just another game life is throwing at me.. or is this girl possibly the real deal?..
    geeconniexxx geeconniexxx
    26-30, F
    Mar 5, 2016

    I'm actually really pretty.

    When your eyes are closed πŸ‘Œ
    justme1996 justme1996
    18-21, F
    18 Responses Dec 6, 2014
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