I Don't Know If I'm Attractive

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    I'm a normal asian girl with straight black hair

    and if some dudes don't like me well I don't care
    Khatu Khatu
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Oct 23, 2015

    I chose this group when I joined ep just now.

    And I don't know. One of my friends said I should wear my hair down cos I always have a pony tail. But my hair is wild! Is that attractive?
    Blodyn16 Blodyn16
    16-17, F
    Oct 22, 2015

    Sometimes I wish I was conventionally attractive

    but that's dumb. I'm a thick, curvy black girl and if guys don't like that, that's too bad for them
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Sep 15, 2015

    But you know, it really doesn't matter to me.

    Besides, I really don't want to get married or have a girlfriend, so the less attractive I am, the better of I'll be.
    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999
    18-21, M
    Sep 12, 2015

    I don't know if I look attractive to girls

    but as girls don't talk to me or want to go out with me I guess that's the answer
    cane4500 cane4500
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 9, 2015

    I've never looked at myself

    and hated my body, but I've never loved it either. I've never had someone interested in dating me and I've never kissed anyone, I know that doesn't mean I'm not attractive but it hasn't helped in my confidence.
    doughnutcookie doughnutcookie
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 4, 2015

    no girls ever compliment me,

    only boys do, and when they do its strictly only about my body which makes me very very insecure.
    Alycat05 Alycat05
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Aug 9, 2015

    I feel like guys only look

    for the looks and not the personality and/or loyalty
    heartcoaster1 heartcoaster1
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    my hair looks perfect

    when i wake up if i try to to anything to it i hate how it looks
    HellishAnime914 HellishAnime914
    13-15, M
    Aug 1, 2015

    I just don't know because I don't have a lot of

    friends at school because I like school and homework and tests so people tease me and I really don't care when they do but I start to wonder if I'm even attractive
    AmyPond11th AmyPond11th
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2015
    LukeH01 LukeH01
    13-15
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2015
    Bennythebull7 Bennythebull7
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2015
    KamilaCullen KamilaCullen
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 24, 2015

    I wish people thought I was attractive

    and loved me for who I am and not someone I'm not, nobody likes me anyway cause I'm ugly apparently
    Whatsgood14 Whatsgood14
    16-17, M
    6 Responses Jul 20, 2015

    Oh, well. There's worse things in life

    than not being attractive. :P
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jul 18, 2015

    In my head I'm either 1) ugly

    and need to put a bag over my head 2) or "damn, girl. work it! you are smokin'. " there is no in between. my mind can't choose.
    Tovar Tovar
    13-15, F
    Jul 10, 2015
    JordanLyle JordanLyle
    16-17, M
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2015
    bloodofcour bloodofcour
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    I don't know. I don't think I am.

    I've got long brown hair in a pony-tail, haven't shaved in a while...I sort of look like Kahl Drogo from Game of Thrones but WAY less buff/confident. I've got large hands, pale skin, scars, and deep brown eyes and the voice of a tenor. But my girlfriend loves me, and I love her...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 3, 2015

    Well...i don't think i am😂

    and I definitely know im not...i guess. I just wanna know what you guys think about me. Try not to be too harsh😖😬
    nerdgirl233 nerdgirl233
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 29, 2015

    I know that I'm cute

    but that's not what men seem to want they want sexy you know And I know that I'm just a cute girl. I'm fit with a good body and I'm not only cute but pretty but guys don't approach me like they do other girls and ask me out on dates or anything like that. I really don't know...
    bemmie bemmie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2015

    I'm not attractive to anyone.

    I haven't had a boyfriend in a long time. I'm going to be forever alone
    snbreeden20000 snbreeden20000
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    "I'm not attractive naturally I'm just decent

    looking at the right angle, in the right light with the right makeup, once in a while on a good day." Never could describe to people if I thought I was attractive or not until I saw this on tumblr lol
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    I'm 13, and weigh 108 lbs.

    My thighs feel fat, but my mom says they're "curves." nah. I just don't know.
    avreyyh avreyyh
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Jun 24, 2015

    I don't really consider myself attractive.

    But I'm sure some people might...
    DdawgRW DdawgRW
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 20, 2015
    Nicodemus1223 Nicodemus1223
    18-21, M
    Jun 19, 2015
    seanisaacparry seanisaacparry
    18-21, M
    7 Responses Jun 19, 2015

    i think i am attractive,

    but i'm not pretty.
    screambloodygore screambloodygore
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2015

    I just uploaded a picture collage,

    a picture of me before (without glasses), and me now (with glasses). Tell me what you think. I'm 14 by the way.
    Ilooklikeageek Ilooklikeageek
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2015
    jjaynes01 jjaynes01
    22-25, M
    Jun 15, 2015

    I don't know if I am

    or not because a lot of people call me fat and ugly so I don't really know.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    I know a lot of people on this page are here

    simply because they are insecure about themselves. I just want to let everyone know that if anyone needs to talk about anything, I'm here for you.
    madelinedowell madelinedowell
    16-17, F
    Jun 11, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015
    vf702 vf702
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    Sometimes I don't feel anyone will find me

    attractive or really give me their 100% all. It scares me some days.
    chamicus chamicus
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jun 11, 2015

    We R ALL Beautiful and I Do NOT CARE WHAT

    ANYONE SAID OR TELLS U ! GOD MADE EACH AND EVERYONE DIFFERENT AND OUR OWN WAY!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 10, 2015

    Boys at school call me ugly all the time

    for no reason. I've done nothing to them. I'm always as nice as I can be. They've lowered my confidence down so much but I try not to let it effect me.
    xokekeox xokekeox
    16-17, F
    9 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    When no one tell you about it,

    you begin to think that the main reason for this is that you are simply not attractive at all.
    MaryGord MaryGord
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    I am a breast cancer survivor

    who had gone through a ton of surgeries. Both my breasts are covered in scars and one is a complete reconstruction. I have lost over 100 pounds and kept it off, but I still have all the stretch marks from when I ballooned up as a teenager. I had to have a hysterectomy as part...
    cherrybabomb cherrybabomb
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    I don't know if I am attractive.

    people simply don't like my appearance
    Chang94 Chang94
    22-25, M
    Jun 10, 2015

    I didnt think i was ugly

    until someone told me i was.
    izzieebee izzieebee
    16-17, F
    11 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    Seems like everyones doing this

    so id like you all to judge me...I've been told that I have a kissable lips ;)
    ivyblood ivyblood
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 11, 2015
    brittyxmatts brittyxmatts
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 11, 2015

    I don't know because I don't know entirely what

    determines what 'attractive' is.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 10, 2015
    xxtoxiccupcakexx xxtoxiccupcakexx
    18-21, F
    36 Responses May 10, 2015
    olivias78 olivias78
    18-21, F
    46 Responses May 9, 2015

    Might as well lol am I?

    All thoughts are welcomed.
    WardenChult WardenChult
    18-21, M
    May 9, 2015

    Shaywen Shaywen
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2015

    It sucks to be an older woman.

    ..Your man loses interest, the guys stop checking you out, the dates dry up, the sex is either dutiful or ************, and every time you look in the mirror you realize it just gets worse from here. This after a whole life time of being told the pretty girl gets the life. After...
    wanderingwacky wanderingwacky
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    not only bettle depression I battle low self

    image! I am so frustrated how guys tend to base a girl on what she looks like when we all get older and ugly with age your wife you marry will not always be skinny. she gain weight each child and new stretch marks her hair will turn gray and her boobs sag. So why this world so...
    MichaelaG MichaelaG
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    Honest opinions. I think I'm ugly

    and I find myself disgusting. This was taken a little while ago. Haven't taken any pics recently to use.
    persononinternet persononinternet
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2015

    I wonder if im a decent looking human being.

    Either way, -shrugs- whatever xD
    raynbow32 raynbow32
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 4, 2015

    i have seen many handsome boys eyes brighten

    when they see me.i am mostly on my own.i don't give them a single hint in order to attract them nor do i dress like a fashionista.but when i see my face in the mirror i can't convince to my heart i am attractive.if handsome boys look at me when i come to home i look in the...
    jez999 jez999
    22-25, F
    Mar 4, 2015

    I don't no if im attractive I really don't

    think I am like ive never been told im cute or pretty or sexy all anyone ever says to me is im dumb or stupid or ugly so ya I really don't feel attractive.
    laura1303 laura1303
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2015

    I've always been bullied

    which haven't exactly boosted my self-esteem. But I really wonder how other people see me and what it would be like to see myself through others eyes. What's your brutally honest opinion on my appearance? Don't hold back!
    MissClueless MissClueless
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Feb 12, 2015
    MrSoundWave MrSoundWave
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2015
    Lollipop948 Lollipop948
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 10, 2015

    Well it's not that I don't know I just don't

    think that I am at all I think I'm freaking ugly
    MrSoundWave MrSoundWave
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2015

    I've been told by a few people

    that I am but I just don't believe them like I don't see the appeal :/
    TheMadHatteri TheMadHatteri
    18-21, M
    Jan 3, 2015

    When I was little I was always told

    that I was ugly and fat by my older sister....and I started believing her and all the people who would bully me. Now I cant go anywhere with out trying to look good. Putting on makeup, doing my hair. All of it. Even if I was just staying home. Now people tell me how beautiful I...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jan 3, 2015
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