I Don't Know If I'm Bi

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 301 People

    So So Lost...

    A few month's ago I got a job everything was normal or as normal as it can be. I was crushing on one of my co-workers. I would get shy whenever we talked and all that other crap. Then I met a girl at first I thought she was a cool friend and nothing else. I mean I never gave it...
    Brokenxxworld Brokenxxworld
    18-21, F
    Sep 24, 2013
    leavemebe234 leavemebe234
    22-25, F
    Nov 1, 2015

    I Really Want To Know

    I recently started to wonder if i am bi sexual or if i am just curious. I have always been attracted to girls, but recently I started to notice that some guys look really cute and then i start to think about him and I kissing. But it's not like I'm sexually attracted to boys. I...
    MyNameIsAwesome MyNameIsAwesome
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2012

    But there is times I think bout certain sexy

    black men , sometimes they really make me feel submissive , I want to experience a sexual thing with s black man
    bifreaky42 bifreaky42
    1 Response Aug 12, 2015

    Only Sometimes? Maybe Not.

    The truth is, I really just don't know. I've always been straight, and I've never thought of myself as being attracted to girls. I've also always thought of some girls as hot, and some guys as hot. When I was little, those ads for underwear or something with the half naked...
    lmarney lmarney
    Nov 15, 2009

    I don't know if I'm Bi.

    I'm really confused :( I've been feeling this since I'm im 8th grade and now I'm a fresh college graduate. I get really attracted to girls, I mean really "attracted" not just crush. Like, I really want to be with them and touch them. So I like this girl from my university and...
    nocturnalninja nocturnalninja
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2014

    I'm not sure if I'm bi

    or not because I've never been with a girl. But the thought had crossed my mind once or twice. Maybe I'm just curious
    AmorTiana AmorTiana
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 21, 2015


    I am 19 years old. I know that I enjoy sex with other guys. I have had sex with 3 females so far and I have enjoyed the experiences. I might just be so horny that I don't care as long as I get off.
    markmyballs markmyballs
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Feb 2, 2012

    It's strange I've never had any really good

    girl friends in my life I always just kinda hung out with guys but I still always feel something for another really cute girl like I was one of the guys. Not sure how to take it since I know the feeling is common to have but I just don't know what to do with it. How do lesbian...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 29, 2014
    leavemebe234 leavemebe234
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    I'm Confused!

    i don't have any sisters i only have brothers and because of that i thought, wanting to have a girl close friend was just because i've always wanted to have a sister. and because of that i've always been close to girls.. but then one day my brothers are teasing me that i'm a...
    smile0214 smile0214
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 6, 2011

    This Feeling? This Girl? How And When Will I Know?

    Latley i have been kinda changing my cycle was iregular and is now regular but also i have been bi curious. I have always liked guys ...and now for a month i have been wondering what it would be like in a reltationship with a girl and to kiss a girl....i have always stared at...
    meris24 meris24
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2012

    I Don't Know What To Think Anymore!

    Well, all my life I've grown up believing that one day I'll get a boyfriend and get married and have kids, etc. But, to be honest, I was never really attracted to anyone until I was about 12 and I felt a little attracted to guys but not girls. I started being attracted to girls...
    Nooni95 Nooni95
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2011

    Sexuality is confusing

    I didn't doubt my sexuality until october of last year, when I had my first boyfriend. We had dated for a month and I was really attracted to him. Talking on the phone one night, he asked me if I was bi sexual. Not being totally naive I had heard rumors that guys found that...
    ttauri ttauri
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Mar 14, 2009

    I'm Not Sure How To Feel

    i have thought i was always straight and i was fine with that. however whenever i'd see a hot girl i'd get really excited. i thought that was weird so i just pushed the thought down. whenever i'd have dreams about girls i'd pretend like it didn't happen, i didn't want to except...
    britneyy1701 britneyy1701
    Jun 1, 2012
    romanalanski romanalanski
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 1, 2014

    Do I Sound Bi To You?

    I'm pretty sure I've kissed more girls than guys in my life, or atleast just as many, but the thing is, I've never kissed a girl because I was attracted to her, I only did it because I was curious (even though that curiosity lasted for quite a few years). And all of my...
    CleverName94 CleverName94
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 10, 2013

    I Don't Know..

    I don't know if I'm bi or not. I'm not as turned on to guys as I am to girls. I mean I like guys, but I'm not attracted to their actual face. Am I just curious or what? Because I really don't know.
    deleted deleted
    Jun 25, 2012

    I honestly I don't know

    if I'm gay or bisexual. I have a girlfriend and she's a really good and caring person but I have dreams at night about men and boys in like a sexual way. Like I'm romantically attracted to women and not to men. At the same time I'm not romantically attracted to men but just...
    fraeddyr fraeddyr
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 12, 2015

    (Any comments/help are really appreciated) I

    have a best friend, who is a girl, named holly. She's 5'4, very slim as she's a dancer, beautiful brown hair and eyes. She has an amazing body but also a wonderful personality too..she's my best friend in all the world We've been best friends for around 2 years. Around a year...
    megboundyx megboundyx
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 1, 2014

    I can't tell if I'm bi

    but I fell in love with just one girl. But I don't like any other girls. What is this? 🙈
    nicoleleightonx nicoleleightonx
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 30, 2014

    I'm very certain I prefer guys

    for all the intimate reasons. Kissing, making out, cuddling, sex, a relationship. But sometimes, when I come across certain girls, I have unstoppable thoughts like "She looks good to kiss." and I get uncomfortable with those girls I get these thoughts about. Maybe I'm just...
    ANNunknowngirl ANNunknowngirl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2014

    It's so confusing, how do you know?

    !? Can anyone help me figure this out?
    haiimlola haiimlola
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2015

    I Dont Know What I Am? All I Know Is That I Have This Lifelong Attraction

    Although it may seem that going up in New York you are exposed to open mindedness that a big city has to offer, things are a little different outside of Manhattan. When you grow up in a very conservative Dominican family you could live in the most open minded environment and...
    graciella22 graciella22
    26-30, F
    Jun 18, 2013

    How am I supposed to be sure like I haven't

    been with a boy nor a girl but I sorta feel attracted to both. How's that even possible? lol... Even though I think I like boys better. It's so confusing... I've never fallen in in love either so I guess I can't say I'm definitely bi or gay or straight, isn't it when you fall in...
    Shadowykidd Shadowykidd
    16-17, M
    5 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    Im Just Confuse

     I have many gay and bi friends, one of my best friends is gay. some of them even told me that  they liked me and for the longest time i told them no I'm not bi. there was girls i found very pretty or had nice bodies but recently there was one...
    gypsygurl1192 gypsygurl1192
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2010


    Hi. I'm Hannah.. And I'm 12 (Im more mature than an average one haha.) Im bicurious. Idk guys, I'm like really scared to tell someone... Help ._.
    Hannah1D Hannah1D
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2013

    I now I like men and women

    but I'm no sure if I'm the only one how goes to what I call seasons. What I mean by that is I like more women during one period of time and some times I like more men . Just one to know if there is any more people that goes to this seasons.
    Juant93 Juant93
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Oct 1, 2014

    I don't know if I'm bi

    or if I'm just lesbian honestly. I've never really had thoughts about guys like that but I've always kind of pictured myself marrying one since I was younger. Now I'm not so sure really.
    SarahTWD SarahTWD
    16-17, F
    Nov 26, 2014

    Im 14 And Bi Curious

    I'm a guy and i am bi curious. I have been wondering what a date with a bi guy would be like. i know for sure he would like my options for wat to do then some of my friends. i just want to have a fun relationship with another fellow bi guy. i have not told my parents yet and i...
    gamerstyle gamerstyle
    13-15, M
    1 Response Aug 18, 2010

    I'm not sure if I'm bi

    or not. But about a year ago, I started feeling really strongly for my (female) best friend. One of my other friends introduced me to her, and we got really close and now she's my best friend, and I love her, but I think I love her a little more than the rest of my friends which...
    skywords skywords
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2014

    i'm so confused at times i'm attracted to girls

    for a while then i'm attracted to guys, a majority of times i feel more attracted to guys even though i'v never dated one, i sometimes think i might be gay in total instead of being bisexual, maybe so? i'm not sure
    MyBleedingRose227 MyBleedingRose227
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 12, 2014


          I may a 14 year old boy and I saw the a boy my upstairs neighbor he was nothing special just so nice and one of the only boys I think I have a had a crush on. I never acted bi around my family I always liked a girl but always thought the guy in the...
    RedPhish43 RedPhish43
    1 Response Mar 22, 2009

    If I Knew, I'd Tell You (..maybe?)

    I'm 15 and by now, I know I'm attracted to guys. For some reason when I was little, there was this nagging feeling in the back of my head that seemed to say, "You like girls. You're not like everyone else," and since society generally creates the idea in children's minds that...
    songwriter9 songwriter9
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2011

    it's really confusing

    and weird for your, I find both males and females attractive, but once I am reminded that I have a male body it just ****** me off and I lose my internet in the males, maybe once I fix my life so I can be happy then I can fix this problem too
    Zurea Zurea
    31-35, T
    Sep 3, 2015

    Confused As Hell

    so here is a little background information about me. i was a rebellious kid. in my teen years, i dressed like i am a freaking male model. (i am a girl). i cut my hair, i used binders. i was your typical asian tomboy. well. i dated some girls, but they all didn't turn out well...
    MsJims MsJims
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2013

    Help Me

    I don't know what it is. I do get attracted to girls sometimes and also while ************ I usually get ******* when I fantasize about sexy women. Is it because I have never had any physical relationship with a guy or a girl ever in my life? I've never kissed anyone as well. Is...
    Blueride23 Blueride23
    1 Response Oct 4, 2013


    So I guess I'm a weird one. I am essentially straight. I'm not attracted to women generally, and I like guys and being with guys. But I am massively attracted to women who look like me. For example, Lilith from Borderlands. I've had fantasies about her. Or Gaige from Borderlands...
    Versch Versch
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 29, 2013

    Am I Bi? Or Just Curious?

    I've been straight my whole life dated girls all throughout middle school into freshman year. When I broke up with my girlfriend I had all this free time, so I hung out with my friend more, we have the same humor, same taste in music and games and a lot in common. We started...
    Jun 7, 2012
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