I Don't Know If My "Crush" Is Straight Or Gay

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    I finally found someone

    who i really liked i had fun with him and we could talk about everything. then i found out he was gay. i'm so confused.
    unidentiffied unidentiffied
    18-21, F
    Aug 10, 2014

    I swear.... I have terrible "gaydar".

    ... Being attracted to the more masculine guys doesn't help either...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 17, 2014

    My Crush...help

    so, I see this girl in the gym at college every once in a while, when I first saw her I thought she was someone else so I said hi to her, she is very pretty and I am attracted to her. mind you, before I said hi to her that day, she was looking at me while I was on the tread mill...
    skate17 skate17
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2012

    Somewhat Frustrating

    This is really awkward and pretty embarrassing for me to admit, but yeah, A good deal of the girls I see that I think are cute usually have a high chance of being lesbian, or at the very least bi. I think it might be the style, I like tomboys and somewhat androgynous females to...
    schemashatter schemashatter
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

    Cute Guy In Gym Class..

    So... I go to gym at my school and we are all in rows/ classes. well.. this guy sits in the row next to me and I have no flippen Idea if he is straight or gay. He only has girlfriends as far as i can see. But I have offered to find him a GF and he accepted.. so, doesn't that mean...
    Alittlebitofsomething Alittlebitofsomething
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2012

    About three years ago I met this guy

    and we became fast friends. I divulged to him that I was gay and he said he was straight but didn't mind the my sexual preference was different. We began hanging out more and more and eventually things started happening. We went from going to movies and dinner to coming dinners...
    nowun nowun
    36-40, M
    Dec 19, 2014

    I hate it i like this guy

    and just have no idea ugh!!!
    soxman97 soxman97
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 21, 2015

    I like this guy but not sure whther he is gay

    or straight. Do anyone have any ways to find out like a small test or something?
    jxmon jxmon
    18-21, M
    Aug 27, 2015

    Gay Advicetot

    I've known this guy since freshmen year of high school but at first I never really talked to him. He tried to befriend me a couple of times but I really didn't respond. When late sophomore year hit, I started noticing how much I liked him. I noticed that whenever he saw me...
    Unclear Unclear
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Jan 2, 2010

    Summer Crush

    So this summer I got to know my co-worker a bit more as we both shared the same office for a month or so. We were together in the same room for about 5-6 hours each day. At first I found it awkward when he would be in the room by ourselves I noticed there might have been some...
    greenmonster92 greenmonster92
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

    Dressing Up

    i have beenĀ  into womans underware for as many years as i can remember first mothers and sisters behind closed doors then mom found out helped me bye my own .it all stoped when my mother arranged a marrage for me.It was 12 months before my wife found out .I have just got back...
    dareian dareian
    Feb 5, 2012

    Confused Lady.... Same Mistake Twice? Is It Possible??

    marherr marherr
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2010

    I Don't Know If My Boyfriend Is Straight Or Gay

    I s my boyfriend heterosexual or gay? Is his behavior normal...let me tell you: My boyfriend twice have said on the phone, "we are 2 men that are mature enough in this relationship..." I wonder why he said that, does this means he is used to be with another men and for...
    confuse2 confuse2
    4 Responses Oct 14, 2008

    Update On 'My Girl, Or At Least I Wish...'

    if you haven't read the first bit of this then this update wont make sense so feel free to read the first half on my profile before you read this :)sooo much has changed between me and Frankie since i last wrote in, i think i'll start with the dofe (camping + hiking) weekend.so...
    Kristen8098 Kristen8098
    26-30, F
    Aug 5, 2013

    I'll Probably Never Have The Guts To Find Out...

    We work together and she seems so awesome and it seems like we would have a lot in common. She seems really down to earth and mellow and she's beautiful! We have talked a little bit but I barely know anything about her. Sometimes it seems like she flirting of giving me "the eyes...
    Aleesiam Aleesiam
    18-21, F
    Dec 9, 2011

    My Girl, Or At Least I Wish...

    okay so this is a bit of a long story but i would appreciate it if you guys could read the whole way through and give me some advise :) just a bit of information: i'm 15, female and bisexual so theres this girl, lets call her frankie. She was my first girl crush and my biggest...
    Kristen8098 Kristen8098
    26-30, F
    Apr 14, 2013

    Well, to give a little backstory,

    I'm Bisexual. And there's this one guy at school that I find really cute. He's my age and in a few of my classes. The way he acts towards me makes me think he might be gay, or bi. I hope he is. I have a feeling that If I was to "come out" he might tell me his sexuality. I've...
    sturmgewher44 sturmgewher44
    18-21, M
    Feb 22, 2014

    So for the past few years,

    I've had this guy friend who I've begun to like, and some people have said that we should just date because we're constantly 'flirting' with one another. But the problem is that I don't know whether or not he likes me back or if it's just in his personality to be a constant...
    TheSilentRaven TheSilentRaven
    18-21, M
    May 30, 2015

    Well I like this guy.

    .. Haha! But like i talked to him and asked him who does he like, and he said this girl named Maddy, she is one of the most popular girls in my school, and he says he likes her... BUT, like the way he dresses is so nice and Hot, the way he walks is so weird but yet still walks...
    DG952 DG952
    16-17, M
    1 Response Mar 12, 2014

    I like this guy but I would really like to know

    if he's gay or not. He's into one direction and Justin Bieber more than any girl that I know. He is pretty feminine and likes to watch hot shirtless guys and hangs around girls all the time. I've seen him flirt with girls and guys but mostly girls. Could you guys help? I really...
    Jeisac Jeisac
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 14, 2013

    Happens all the times with boys.

    And I never even get close to them. Is the best way to see how they treat you compared to other people? Maybe ask around if he's ever had a gf? Cause if he hasnt and he's super cute it's sort of strange right? Any ideas?
    Ilovecharlie Ilovecharlie
    18-21, M
    May 11, 2014
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