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I Don't Know My Best Friend Anymore

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    One-way Friendship

    We met in college. She was somewhat older and our younger colleagues didn`t care much to make friends with her. I thought she was just ok. In fact I thought she was a very good and kind person. She was very religious and I guess that gave me the idea that she was a  great...
    loona loona 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    She Was, But Is No More.

    My best friend left me. She was my everything, the girl I shared secrets with, the girl who I spent every weekend hanging out with, the girl I knew I could trust with my life. Yeah, that's all over now. Honestly, I don't even know how it ended or why it ended. She stopped talking...
    HopeInConstruction HopeInConstruction 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 7, 2010

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    Preggers...

    This describes it better than I can.. and I wrote this..You've switched it upYou've changed it all up.Who are you?We don't know you?We only know who you were.Remember, a beautiful, young girl.You're still young, don't forget that.We're all still young, you need to remember that...
    WiltingBlossom WiltingBlossom 18-21, F Jul 17, 2011

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    Where Is That Girl I Once Knew?

    My best friend is the best-est best friend a girl can ever have. I’m pretty sure everyone would call their best friend that. But really, we’ve been best friends for years and nothing has ever come between us. She knows what I’m thinking and she...
    littlemisshulkette littlemisshulkette 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2007

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    A Changing Friend

    I have 3 best friends so we are a group of four. Two of them got into a fight and me and my best friend were caught in the middle. The two that were fighting stopped talking to each other. One of them then came up to me and asked me to choose. Choose who I wanted to hang out with...
    ControlledFears ControlledFears 13-15, F Jun 7, 2010

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    Does She Even Still Consider Me Her Best Friend?

    Probably not.  We used to be best friends, we used to have sleepovers and laugh until our stomachs hurt and share our secrets and gush over our latest crush.  But now we never hang out, and I don't even know if she still considers me her best friend.  She's the...
    FallingStarr FallingStarr 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    When I Look At Her In The Pictures, I Feel Like Who Is This Girl? I Don't Know Her Anymore

    Social media help us to connect with people around us, to know what is going around our friends and family...and today I stumble on my (used-to-be) best friend wall. Her status was coming up on my notification because I list her as one of my best friend. Every time she post...
    mellowrain mellowrain 22-25 1 Response Nov 22, 2012

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    I Don't Know Her Anymore And She Doesn't Want To Know Her Either

    My best friend was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder and I don't know what to do or how to deal with it. She gets in the whole mania phase and she thinks that she has control over it when really she doesn't. She doesn't really talk to me anymore and she is always dressing...
    punxrnvrdead punxrnvrdead 26-30 Oct 28, 2010

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    I Dont Like My Best Friend Anymore

    I Dont Like My Best Friend Anymore Since We Went Into High School,We Seem To Be Okay In The First Year Of High School But By The Second Year Its Gone A Lot Worse, Since Then I've Found Out That Shes Called Me Behind My Back, Told People I Wanted Cosmetic Surgery And Joked About...
    Baybeestace95 Baybeestace95 16-17 Jul 26, 2008

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    I Dont Like My Best Friend Anymore

    I Dont Like My Best Friend Anymore Since We Went Into High School,We Seem To Be Okay In The First Year Of High School But By The Second Year Its Gone A Lot Worse, Since Then I've Found Out That Shes Called Me Behind My Back, Told People I Wanted Cosmetic Surgery And Joked About...
    Baybeestace95 Baybeestace95 16-17 Jul 26, 2008

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