I Don't Know What Love Is

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    I'm 20 years old and to this day I still don't

    know what loving someone is... I have never had a girlfriend I have never felt like I connected with someone all I've ever known is to put on a mask and pretend I know hat it is.
    TheLynxx TheLynxx
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 21, 2015


    OK well I have no idea if I've ever been in love...I mean I like the person but if it was true love, I would be happy right? Well I'm just confused about this and I will remain confused until someone explains love to me.
    ApatheticBelle ApatheticBelle
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 5, 2008

    I Just Dont Know!!

    ive never had a girlfriend, ive never experienced true love!! i dont know why, but i just dont think im a lovable guy in a way, i mean, i know that im lovable as a friend, cos i have many friends, and even friends that are girls, but thats as far as it goes!!! i sometimes feel as...
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    7 Responses Oct 6, 2010

    Love! What’s love? Being attracted to

    someone? Having a deep emotional connection with a partner? Everyone has their own way of defining it. Is love an excuse that the human kind uses to justify their manipulation towards others or the needing of something for their own personal needs? Or is it a genuine feeling...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 14, 2015

    I love you, Helplessness,

    impatience ,the distances, the responsibilities,lack of grasping, Silences ,heights of craving, depths of longing ,loneliness, shadows ,disgraces, sparks, difficulties, astonishment, the heart's desires ,repentances, anxieties. The enigmas, the scary thoughts, the destruction...
    winterfall winterfall
    Dec 18, 2013

    What Is Love ?

    What Is Love ? Love Is Just A Word, Is Has Meaning, But Some People Just Say It &Don't Know What It Means. Sure, I Say It All The Time.. Everyone Does. When Someone Says "I Love You" It's Because They Don't Know What It Means. Some People Think It Means "I Like You Alot", &Some...
    Kristi13 Kristi13
    13-15, F
    Nov 19, 2011

    Here we are again. Rejection long

    since named me his mistress, and try as I may, I never can escape his grip. I wipe the black smudge that has collected on my cheeks off once again. Again. The thought of this second chance at rejection is filled with bitterness and a humming emptiness. If I'm to be honest...
    Mierne Mierne
    36-40, F
    Jan 12

    I've never thought about it

    until now. Often times I will confuse like with love, but then I realized that I wasn't even sure what liking someone really felt like. Never had too many friends, barely had a best or close friend. Those I thought were are no more, or rather I realized they never were. Even my...
    Paintbrushes Paintbrushes
    18-21, F
    May 31, 2014

    Who's To Say What Love Is?

    What is love? We supposedly see and feel it everyday, but does anyone really know what it is? When you’re young, you meet someone, and you think, “This is it. I love this person. This is the love of my life.” But you break up, you move on, you meet someone else. And you...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 3, 2011

    Love: I Don't Know

                    When it comes to love, I honestly don't get it or most of it anyways. The only form of love I know and understand is the love of family. My family is the one constant in my life so I know what it is to love them and I know they love me. But all the other...
    Miki2489 Miki2489
    22-25, F
    Apr 28, 2011

    I thought I knew what you were.

    I was pretty confident a few times, that I knew and felt the real you. But now I'm not so sure. When I thought I was in love, I still felt awkward and out of place...like I never got permission. Or everything came crashing down when the other person didn't feel a thing. I wound...
    iamrae22 iamrae22
    22-25, F
    Feb 23, 2014

    What Is Love

    Neo: I just have never...Rama-Kandra: ...heard a program speak of love?Neo: It's a... human emotion.Rama-Kandra: No, it is a word. What matters is the connection the word implies. I see that you are in love. Can you tell me what you would give to hold on to that connection?Neo...
    rpg456 rpg456
    51-55, M
    Dec 22, 2011

    What Is It?

    Ok, here it goes. *cracks fingers* What is love? i don't know, that's why i joined this group. I found it and wondered how could people just say 'i don't know what love is' and just leave it like that. So i'm going to explain what i don't understand of love. And don't come at me...
    jafetgx jafetgx
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 28, 2009

    Don't Know What Love Is

    I know that my parents love me unconditionally. However, I don't know what love is as terms of a starting relationship. I never had a girlfriend. People critcize me because I don't look good or based on my nationality, which I think is wrong. Every girl, whom I met,  had...
    dave0903 dave0903
    18-21, M
    Jan 11, 2010

    It has no width, no length,

    no height, and no shadow It has no shape, no sound, no taste, and no fragrance It has no mass, no speed, no direction, no sense It's a warmth in the chest, a colorful rainbow It makes the sun brighter, turns light to pure yellow It makes all the clouds, in the deep blue sky...
    lastbutterfly lastbutterfly
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Feb 24

    For 10 year since I was 10 year old no one ever

    look at me I never go outside anymore cause I am scared if I make a big fool of my self out there My heart is so dead and black and empty too. I don't know what real love is like I never had friends growing up I been alone for 20 years almost 21 years now My parents don't seen...
    winxcat93 winxcat93
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 29, 2014

    But I Do Know What Heartbreak Is.

     I've felt heartbroken before love numerous times. ******Family doesn't count! ********My heart feels so heavy and vacant at the same time. I don't know how else to explain it. 
    LSD8 LSD8
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2011

    Have many means about love.

    I still don't know what love is. I don't know where my answers are, or if I'll ever find them. I still believe in love. I'll find it.
    Sponge24 Sponge24
    22-25, M
    Jan 9, 2014

    My family was very dysfunctional

    and my mom was clinically depressed and my dad was and is bi-polar. I was a mid life baby and they really did not want me. I don't recall my parents or siblings doing much with me. My brother molested me from the time I was 3 until I could fight him off at twelve. couldn't mom...
    happybbw happybbw
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2014

    I Really Don't.

    Hey everyone :) nice to finally join this site and share my story. So... I think I'm in love. With someone who doesn't love me back. Well, he used to... but he let me go. He let me go without ever giving me a second chance "will you ever fall in love with me again?"...
    chilli013lilif chilli013lilif
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 13, 2009
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