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I Don't Know What to Do Next

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    Ex-boyfriend Problems...i Am Really Angry And Need Help - I broke up with my boyfriend in October, and he has been texting me non-stop. Two weekends ago, he texted my best friend...
    Silentflower44 Silentflower44 13-15, F Nov 18, 2012

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    Alone - I separated from my husband. Things were not working out. well,now im lonely dont have any friends and im bored as hell. Anyone want to chat?
    ladybugjj ladybugjj 31-35, F Aug 21, 2012

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    Bestfriend...or Maybe Not - So me and my best friend got in a huge fight about her online boyfriend. We've been fighting about this since July and it's become worse every time. She...
    Silentflower44 Silentflower44 13-15, F Sep 23, 2012

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    What Will I Do? - What will I do?I don't know,What to do next,I'm so stuck,The mud so deep,It's over my head,Someone,Please,Pull me out.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 22, 2011

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    Lets Just See What I Get For This... - dont think me pretentious, or a cold hearted soul, but i am a manipulator. i find what people want, and i use it to get what i want, and...
    ThePuppetMaster ThePuppetMaster 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    I'm So Confused.... - i've just always done what everyone else told me to do.  people told me i should go to college, so i did.  i've always just worked and did what was...
    quarterlife quarterlife 26-30 Dec 27, 2008

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    Der.... - Well... I have finished my work for today, check. Touched bases with my EPeeps, check. Wrote an EP story, check. Followed some links people shared with me, check...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 22, 2009

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    Feeling Lost - I don't know what to do next really. I'm going to be 21 years old in 21 days and I feel like i'm failing at life. I'm trying to do the best I can in the...
    popt popt 18-21, M Sep 8, 2013

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    So What Next? - I been going on about people not accepting me who I'm, people getting sick of me within time and only want to be my friend for short term. But the question is, will...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    Don't Know What To Do About Getting A Job - any advice would be great - Okay, so the truth is that i don't HAVE to get a job, but i feel pretty useless without a job. But I have...
    emilystrange105 emilystrange105 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2011

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    Overwhelmed By Too Much - I have so much to get done that I sometimes just don't know where to start.  So I just skip everything.  If something is on a deadline, then...
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 13, 2008

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    Plateaued? - I feel like my life have plateaued...It seems as if it is not going anywhere at all. Like I live by the day doing the same routine crap. I know I shouldn't be...
    hopelessaddict hopelessaddict 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 9, 2012

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    I May Have Made A Mistake, But Maybe Not.. - I have been dating a gent who is 9 years my junior for about 5 months now. We moved like lightning speed; living together for 4 of...
    eatenpie eatenpie 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    Something Tells Me... - ...I should be looking for my shine.   I lost my shine about 4 months ago. It's got to be somewhere.
    Lilt Lilt 46-50 37 Responses Oct 9, 2010

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    I Dont Know What Will Happen - first off, it feels great to know i can share my experience.          So here's my story: It all started a few weeks ago. My friend was not...
    UtterlyMistaken UtterlyMistaken 18-21 Jul 12, 2011

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    Hmm She Unblocked Me On Msn Yesterday! - Of course she blocked me since she doesn’t want me in her life anymore! So it has been a long time since I‘ve seen her online, I even...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2011

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    I Dont Know What To Do Next. - I guess I shouldn't't complain. I have a nice life. A job that I like, my family is healthy and lets face it, I have enough money to do what I need...
    jett18 jett18 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 23, 2010

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    Now What? - I went to college and after 4 years I got a degree. Wonderful. That was in 2008.Almost four years later, and every job I've had related to my field I have disliked or...
    RapunzelTangledUp RapunzelTangledUp 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 22, 2012

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    At Work.. - i'm stuck.. and i'm waiting for God's help.. i know he won't let me down..i just need to be patient.. i can't take my  job anymore... i want to quit.. but given the...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F Mar 18, 2013

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    Looking - I'm looking for something to believe in, but the truth is I don't expect it to happen that way, you want something and you let it slip away I guess. So I guess I can't...
    iminpain iminpain 18-21, M 5 Responses Oct 10, 2010

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    I Am Going To Lose Everything - Two years ago, I had a pretty optimistic point of view. I didn't have a job, but I had moved out of a homeless shelter into our very own apartment...
    kyanna12 kyanna12 26-30 1 Response Mar 10, 2012

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    I Didn't Know Which Group to Write This In... -  Okay so, I'm newly diagnosed with a very strange, uncommon type of diabetes. The thing is, I'm going to have to start taking a...
    brighteyed brighteyed 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    No Emotion. - This is ******* ridiculous. It's 2:30 and I'm so tired and I have things to do in the morning. I want to sleep, I need to sleep, but I don't like...
    flyawayhome flyawayhome 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2009

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    What Now? - Should I just go along for the ride, or take control of my destiny (life)?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 8, 2011

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    Graduated College..now What? -  I spent four years studying Journalism/Mass Communications and Marketing at a small, Franciscan university in Olean, NY. I didn't know what I...
    s2t0b0u9 s2t0b0u9 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2009

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    Umm.... - No, I don't really know what to do next.  To use an overused metaphor, I am at a crossroads in life.  I see two paths ahead of me.  Along Path No.1 I can...
    Opalgem Opalgem 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 29, 2010

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    Clueless - I have no idea what my next step in life should be. I think about my options over and over again. It only makes my head spin & I'm nowhere close to figuring it out. So...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 31-35, F Jan 16, 2013

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    What Do I Do Now? - Well, after the whole hospital trip, I get a call from her the next Friday, and she asks me about what if we were to give it a second chance, and we talk for a...
    bigchuck1397 bigchuck1397 26-30, M 5 Responses Jul 6, 2007

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    I Cant Tell If What Im Thinking Is Real Or Just Crazy And Im Kinda Going Off The Ddep End - Hi there every drink yourself into a higher state of being?me neither, but in a wayso...
    offtardmegurk offtardmegurk 22-25 2 Responses Mar 29, 2012

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    Probably The Wrong Place For This Story But Anyway... - Why is it that I spend so much time worrying about something instead of just getting on with it!!??
    Isshe Isshe 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 4, 2011

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    Stuck In College - I'm in college majoring in Education and it is my senior year. Everyone is so excited about student teaching and I'm terrified. I know that teaching is...
    LoveGreen810 LoveGreen810 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2009

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    I Was Happy, But Then Everything Went Downhill - I have been dating this girl for almost 7 months. We have snuck out twice and had sex each time. On tuesday our parents interrogate...
    SwiftArrow6225 SwiftArrow6225 16-17, M Sep 7, 2012

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    The Future Is Daunting - As my time with at university closes, I'm suddenly faced with my career prospects and going out into the "real world" and actually making something of my...
    Faerdie Faerdie 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2011

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    Now What? - So, you go into life and for the first while you have everything planned out for you.  You go to school, you go to school, you go to school, you go to college...
    Foltor Foltor 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 19, 2007

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    To Delete Or Not To Delete, That Is My Question - I have shared my experience about a bad break-up on this site too. After a relationship of several years and even having lived...
    Analeigh Analeigh 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Next Or Not - If I speak up, I'm kinda screwed.  If I don't speak up, I'm royally screwed. And hey, I'm still happy, anxious but happy and a brainiac.  :)
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Trust And Betrayal - I was talking to a person I know. Well not really. He asked for a pic of my boobs and I said no but he kept asking. He told me he will delete them after he saw...
    Trustisgolden Trustisgolden 16-17, F Nov 15, 2012

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    I don't know what I'm doing with my life. And that scares the hell out of me. I am told constantly to be better in every area of life, yet I can't be. I can't be perfect...
    monsterchic monsterchic 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I really don't know. It's been years, to be completely honest. There's something, making me feel something that's close to anxiousnes and sadness, but I don't know what it is. When...
    OskarDR OskarDR 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    So there's this girl I'm seeing. I really like her and i know she likes me too but just when i started to develop strong feelings for her, she had leave back to london with her...
    kar9 kar9 26-30, F Mar 25

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    I have a friend who lives in South Carolina who calls me often anytime she has trouble with her husband or her three kids. Now, I've known this girl for years, but when she calls...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I don't know what to do at this point. My boyfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago. I'm very depressed all the time and cry too much. I think I'm mourning, but I'm so sick of...
    Ijustdontknow44 Ijustdontknow44 18-21 1 Response Mar 20

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    what is friendship worth? my so-called friend,best friend she lied. she still is. i found out that she went behind my back . i trusted her with everything. but she was telling...
    secretwriterx secretwriterx 16-17, F Mar 22

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    When is enough, enough? I honestly don't know what to do. My husband is secretive and I feel like he is extremely deceitful. This ***** with my head in the worst way possible...
    lj1127 lj1127 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 23