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    I was offered a full time job.

    Reasons to accept : - full time jobs are rare (where I live it's mostly seasonal jobs) - I really like working there (at the moment I work income tax season 3 months) - my SO is on unemployment and does not have a job to go back to. Reasons to refuse: - 4 kids to raise...
    Blanche08 Blanche08 31-35, F 6 Responses Feb 21

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    I'm so stressed out and scared.

    This guy is threatening to ruin my life. I don't know him well but I'm really scared.... I blocked him from all my social media but I don't know what to do.... Please help me........
    grace97eun grace97eun 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    So my ex just asked me to be his kinda sorta

    girlfriend who's also a secret and when I said no he flipped his **** on me. Then 20 minutes later my other ex texted me that they still loved me... What the actual **** is going on right now? Is it annual take me back day or what.
    lilly756 lilly756 18-21, F Jul 8

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    Why?

    I always know how to ruin conversations with girls, I can never talk to girls. It always makes me look like a *****. All I am is different. That doesn't mean I don't treat girls right.
    sch4denfr3ude sch4denfr3ude 18-21, M Nov 3, 2013

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    Asia06 Asia06 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I keep overthinking everything.

    I have no one to talk to and school is coming up. Im getting dragged into this dark, dark place again and I don't know how I can get out of it. People are just pushing me further down and everything I do that makes me happy people try to take away from me. I don't know what to...
    lycancrux lycancrux 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Caution for people ages 18+ I don't

    know what to do so my best guy friend is dating my best friend and I'm always making fun of the fact that I am a huge third wheel by saying we should have a three sum and so today my best guy friend asks me if I want to do it they both want to have it they just need another girl...
    Desire97 Desire97 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    My Rock...my Strength

    May I start by stating that this story is about that one special person in my life. He is wise beyond his years....for such the short time he has been in my life he has amazed me every step of the way.. From the moment I laid my eyes on him...I knew in my heart he was and is...
    SingleDad40 SingleDad40 41-45, M 6 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    I am one of those females

    that likes to make her man happy and believes in us both having our own time. He goes to his bowling tournaments without a peep from me besides the fact that he almost never contacts me during it then says "oh we were playing cornhole" or whatever which I can believe as is a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 3

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    I am so confused right now.

    I try and try and try to make things work, I do everything and yet he never seems to appreciate anything. I love him I really do, I can't let him go because of that. But just recently I moved with him and found out that he has been talking to other females and even admitted to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 5

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    It's official now both my daughters have moved

    out of the house and now it's just me. The oldest got her own apartment months ago and the youngest moved in with some friends a few weeks ago. It's creepy coming home to a quiet house. I'm used to the tv being on or someone playing music or talking and walking around. It just...
    flyingmonkies flyingmonkies 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I'm trying really hard to be happy.

    But reality just keeps getting in the way.
    gentlepanic gentlepanic 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 30, 2014

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    I have been stuck in a circle kind of

    relationship/seeing someone now for 2 years. I don't know what to do, were closer than ever but how long do I have to wait for him to commit? He is so afraid of commitment and getting hurt and controlled and I dont know what more I can do to convince him that i wont hurt him...
    DollyR12 DollyR12 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    I keep trying I keep my head up

    but it's getting hard I can't do this anymore I need change I'm dying here...
    R3493r R3493r 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    Every Thursday, my mom usually takes my little

    sister to her dance class . That dance studio is located right next to a gymnastics place . My mom has always been trying to convince me into to taking dance or gymnastics, but I've always been into other things besides that . I was never a girly girl growing up until now...
    Zubylovesyou16 Zubylovesyou16 16-17, F 12 Responses Jan 24, 2014

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    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Itt Hurtss Too Lett Goo,

    Btt Sometimes Itt Hurtss Moree To Holdd Onn .
    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Not even one clue. I don't have any passion,

    drive, or really any interest anymore. I use to think I had "seasonal depression", well it's summer when I'm usually not depressed, and I can say I've never been so depressed in my life. I've been stuck in a rut for five years and I feel like I'm just wasting away. I feel like...
    ironaddict ironaddict 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 23, 2014

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    Well I finally know the reason the bf rarely

    wants it anymore. I tried grabbing him the other night and he said no! I was like why can you do stuff like that to me, but I can't do it to you. He said "cause I don't want you to think it's too easy." I then asked if I am too easy for him and I got a dreaded pause. I don't get...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jun 1

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    This started 6 months ago.

    I was in school as I normally am and over the day my eye started to hurt at the back I could see floaters flying across my sight. It seemed to get worse when light went into the eyes. It used to happen maybe 1/20 days. Now it happens everyday. I went to see an eye doctor and...
    imme163 imme163 13-15, F Jul 15

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    So I don't know what to do.

    . My pup isn't bad. He just has some very bad habits, so he was left unattended when my mum left this morning and I guess he dug at the couch. This stupid guy my mums with has been looking for an excuse to get rid of him for awhile because he hates dogs, and he isn't too fond of...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I have nothing but complications,

    why can't things be simpler?
    Starfire7747 Starfire7747 18-21, T Jun 12

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    I feel like I don't do enough

    for my boyfriend in the bedroom. I'm not sure what he will really like and such. Does anyone have any advice to what I could do to really surprise him or make him happy?
    usernamesarelamex3 usernamesarelamex3 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2014

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    breannawoodard breannawoodard 18-21, F Jul 3, 2014

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    I can either stay with my mom

    and her ****** husband feeling like a guest in my own home or move like 300 miles away to live with my dad but leave all my friends behind :/
    sodapopfiction sodapopfiction 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    My parents are deep into the idea of

    Christianity, our family is very centered around Christianity and I've grown up in a church since I could remember. My grandfather is the pastor of a church and his children, I.e my father are very religious. My mother isn't so traditional yet would very much say she is deep in...
    LegitimateRabbit LegitimateRabbit 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I'm 49 yrs. Old, disabled,

    can't work. Get 733 dollars a month and that's all. I've lost my folks, my car, am about to lose my home, don't qualify for housing assistance, my washing machine is broke down. My utilities are past due and on top of everything else, my health is not good. I don't know what...
    jradc jradc 46-50, M May 26

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    Currently feeling super useless.

    I'm lonely, I'm tired all the time, I literally lie in bed and eat. I'm waiting to start my new job but they need to do lots of security checks and it seems to be taking a lifetime. So here I am, being useless old me. I'm at the heaviest I've ever been and I feel utterly...
    vikkixoxox vikkixoxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2014

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    I've been going to therapy

    and I really want to embrace my Crohn's. But every time I'm about to share, I back out. I want to but I'm just not mentally ready. I don't know, I just don't know what to do. Should I tell people, is it lying to them if I don't.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 14

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    I see a cute girl and think hey girl how are

    you, all confident. But we i cute guy walk by I turn into a nerves wreak. Haha damn.
    NomadAngel117 NomadAngel117 18-21, M May 27

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    My parents are really conservative

    and have some strict religious beliefs. They will literally disown me when they know that i want to spend my life with someone who according to them is forbidden for me to be with because he isn't from a certain ancestry, yeah I know it sounds ridiculous because he has no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    Kinda wish I could just end it all.

    I'm sick of myself. I keep telling myself I'll go nowhere in life. So what's the point of delaying my exit when I can just do it now? End it all. Get it over and done with. But as much as I keep thinking that I have nothing to live for, I know that I have everything to live for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Dec 14, 2014

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    So I met this guy a couple weeks back.

    And we've recently been text, and he pretty much told me he liked me. And the other night we talked until 2 am! But then yesterday he texted me for a couple hours then stopped responding. So way later last night I decided to be brave and text him. And no response. Not even today...
    LiveLoveCoffee LiveLoveCoffee 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I'm in a big hole right now

    and not sure what to do can someone help me?
    xXTheLastFallenXx xXTheLastFallenXx 16-17, F 9 Responses Jan 10

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    Losing a loved one is hard,

    losing a loved one twice is ******* crazy.... But this time I've lost them forever
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I'm not sure what to do.

    A friend of mine just came into my office. He's been married 11 years and has kids. Sunday his wife told him there was someone else (in front of his whole family), he just broke down in tears and asked me if he was a bad person and why is she doing this? I would usually have an...
    FreudianSlip13 FreudianSlip13 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    ok so my boyfriend and i have been together

    for 3 1/2 years. we have been living together for 2 1/2 years... here lately everything has been going down hill... i cant have kids so our dogs are our kids. 3 weeks ago one of our dog died. his name was budd. 8 days ago i got robbed and my bf went to jail for a stem. that...
    raechols raechols 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    I was on the first truck out i studied

    and studied to make sure i knew where all the equipment was on the trucks and i could tell you anything you wanted to knkw but as we rolled up to the scene i forgot everything the mangeled mess of steal the some how held a person inside of what was once a car was pinned against...
    firefighter413 firefighter413 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 23

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    I have a crush on a guy

    who has a girlfriend but he's in an unhealthy relationship. It's pretty obvious that he should break up with her. They have been together for 3 years and he's thought about marrying her. I'm very concerned about him but I don't know what to do. If he gets married to her, he'll...
    negativestnancy negativestnancy 22-25, F Jun 1

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    So, idk how to deal with this?

    I used to hang out with this guy a lot 2 years ago, around that time my anxiety kicked in, I stopped going places, he got a girlfriend (me and him dated when I was 12, but I mean.. Seriously.. 12..) and he's 16. Now, all of a sudden, he started texting me again, and idk what...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    My friend and I are close in the middle of a

    big bunch of "friends" and someone had started a rumour (in the world of the poplars) that me and her we're going out. We decided to go along with it as a joke but I rly like her more than a friend and I'm not sure what she thinks about me. We would hold hands and stuff before...
    AnoynomousReader AnoynomousReader 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    This is my first experience

    which I will share with you. Let me quickly introduce myself..; Im eve, 22 years old and diagnosed with bpd since I was 16. My past has been a on going drama with my parents, impulsiveness and boys.. Until I met my current boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years now and...
    evext evext 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't know anymore.

    ........... I'm at my lowest
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 5

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    I caught my teenage son wearing my bra

    and panties. Then i was on his phone and found a picture of him in my clothes. Idk what to do. I thought i raised him better
    Mom0912 Mom0912 36-40, F Jul 9

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    I'm a bisexual guy. I'm having strong feelings

    for one of my good friends all of a sudden. His breath, his smell, his looks, his touch, everything about him excites me. He flirts with me all the time but says he's straight. It's killing me slowly.
    rico7652 rico7652 22-25, M 6 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    It's been rough time

    for me and i hope i get over it and wish i could just make this happen, then will know i am done with it, and face another part of my life.
    chibufem305 chibufem305 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 4, 2014

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