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I Dont Know What to Do

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    I've never had to make the decision between a

    relationship with a female and a man. I am so stuck. I have history with both of these people and great friendships. They are so different but the chemistry is equal. I wish I could have both She is the cutest thing, petite, blonde, natural beauty. She speaks russian, which I...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I don't know what the hell's wrong with me.

    I'm so stupid sometimes. :(
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    Loving another man who is my best friend,

    4 days over the past 8 together becoming lovers at last, but he has a girlfriend and I'm married. He says he's torn between safety and excitement. But it's been 2.5 years between us, but only physical last week. Yet we've always excited each other. But now it's real, the guilt...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 2 Responses May 26

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    I'm at a loss with my life right now.

    living on my own, paying bills, my hours being cut, barely having money to support myself. I'm so close to giving up. I don't even know what to do anymore. I'm just depressed all the time, and nothing seems to help. I'm only 19, most people my age are still living at home and...
    feoxy feoxy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    My Angel

    Today I got to see the most beautiful Angel! It started as any other day...a normal average day until I received a phone call.. The call was from my daughter mom asking if I wanted to see my daughter...my reply was the obvious..."yes definately" so they stopped by... As soon as...
    SingleDad40 SingleDad40 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 31, 2012

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    Go to school, grow up,

    get a job, get married, have kids, follow the rules and repeat after me I am free -- anonymous 2013
    goldenWish goldenWish 18-21, M Aug 31

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    I started to trust someone a little on here

    and I got blocked for doing nothing wrong. Honestly I feel a bit used. Anyone else???
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I wonder if the love is gone.

    ..I don't know why there is a void in me...I loved you so much...but now I doubt us..and it hurts...And I wonder...is it over?
    genesis99 genesis99 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    So me and this person used to txt all the time

    and then she just stop txting. I really care a lot about her. But now she doesn't really txt me anymore. But when she does we don't really finish a conversation. I txt her and she doesn't txt me until a couple days now. Doesn't mean she doesn't wanna be friends ??
    PedroNune PedroNune 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I'm a bisexual guy. I'm having strong feelings

    for one of my good friends all of a sudden. His breath, his smell, his looks, his touch, everything about him excites me. He flirts with me all the time but says he's straight. It's killing me slowly.
    rico7652 rico7652 18-21, M 7 Responses Jun 7

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    I'm trying really hard to be happy.

    But reality just keeps getting in the way.
    gentlepanic gentlepanic 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I am 36. In three months my father died,

    my partner left me with our children(2 girls) and my job finished. My father died of a long term illness. The relationship was a long one and throughout I lost contact with friends, and moved to a different area. I was liked at work, but my ex was possessive hence I never had...
    cosmicpenguin cosmicpenguin 36-40, M 1 Response May 16

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    I had some history work to do,

    for my GCSE, and I was supposed to do in the holidays.. I'm going back to school on Thursday and I still haven't done it though. It's like every time I even think about it I just feel like I'm stupid. I want to do the homework but something in me just won't let me bring myself...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    Me and this girl who I care

    so much about were talking. And she thinks I said something to her I told her what I actually said But she doesn't believe me. So now I guess I can't talk to her again. Hopefully I can get some stuff for tonight so I can forget
    PedroNune PedroNune 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    It's been rough time

    for me and i hope i get over it and wish i could just make this happen, then will know i am done with it, and face another part of my life.
    chibufem505 chibufem505 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    ok so my boyfriend and i have been together

    for 3 1/2 years. we have been living together for 2 1/2 years... here lately everything has been going down hill... i cant have kids so our dogs are our kids. 3 weeks ago one of our dog died. his name was budd. 8 days ago i got robbed and my bf went to jail for a stem. that...
    raechols raechols 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 26

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    my dad wants me to have a "practical" job.

    im 16, next year ill be a senior and im trying to convince him art is what i want to do. i love art and i feel like i wouldnt be happy with a normal boring job but he said if i dont listen to him i have to pay for college on my own. im so unsure of what to do and if cutting him...
    mariie97 mariie97 16-17, F 8 Responses Jan 22

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    I feel like i love this guy Please read my

    experience about I met a guy online before continuing. I would love all the help i get in making my decision with such an awesome community Its been 6 months that weve been talking. He has a gf whom he loves and she loves him too. But the way that he gives up time with her to...
    NikkiCena NikkiCena 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I Don't Know What To Do!

    well its been 3 years since Matt died and its been a hard week but i'm getting though, i start college tomorrow and i really don't want to go, today is also my birthday so its just a hard week and i really don't know what to do or what to feel, i just have so much on my mind and...
    Lauren1307 Lauren1307 18-21, F Sep 3, 2013

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    Why?

    I always know how to ruin conversations with girls, I can never talk to girls. It always makes me look like a *****. All I am is different. That doesn't mean I don't treat girls right.
    sch4denfr3ude sch4denfr3ude 18-21, M Nov 3, 2013

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    Every Thursday, my mom usually takes my little

    sister to her dance class . That dance studio is located right next to a gymnastics place . My mom has always been trying to convince me into to taking dance or gymnastics, but I've always been into other things besides that . I was never a girly girl growing up until now...
    Zubylovesyou16 Zubylovesyou16 16-17, F 12 Responses Jan 24

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    i never experience being in love with someone,

    i never had a relationship, love for me is a feeling i have for my family and friends,and i never got the chance to have that special someone in my life,
    jellynecaryl jellynecaryl 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Im going through alot including depression

    but im very luck my Gf helped me overcome self harm just by being there for me showing me that someone cares but then there are so many problems now like she lives 100s of miles away so what should i do
    mrgears20 mrgears20 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So im 24 still living at home.

    .i work full time and go to school..i want to finish my undergraduate degree and then transfer to a university of my choice and get my bachelors( somewhere other than where i live) ....but....my parents..idk where to begin i can go on forever so i wont...their in their 50's...my...
    reaper7021020 reaper7021020 18-21 2 Responses Jun 8

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    Currently feeling super useless.

    I'm lonely, I'm tired all the time, I literally lie in bed and eat. I'm waiting to start my new job but they need to do lots of security checks and it seems to be taking a lifetime. So here I am, being useless old me. I'm at the heaviest I've ever been and I feel utterly...
    vikkixoxox vikkixoxox 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    My grandma is coming over this weekend,

    I haven't seen her in a while. Shes my dad's mom. My dad is in prison. He can only call one person, that person being my grandma, his mom. they know how I want him in my life, and how my life has been ****** cuz hes never been around. He apparently wants me and my brother in his...
    Blissfulkissofdeath Blissfulkissofdeath 13-15, F Feb 24

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    Have you ever been through times

    where you just don't talk to people? Where you can't make yourself talk to people no matter how much you know you probably should? Sometimes it can be as short as a week but other times it's half a year or even longer. I've been trying to get better but when it happens to me no...
    rottenroses rottenroses 16-17, F Aug 29

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    I have a really drastic,

    life changing choice to make, and I have to make it soon. For the past two years, I finally reached a point in my life where I was capable enough to finally join the general world and the world of employment. After five years of isolation and being controlled by fears and...
    tianajade tianajade 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 1

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    Not even one clue. I don't have any passion,

    drive, or really any interest anymore. I use to think I had "seasonal depression", well it's summer when I'm usually not depressed, and I can say I've never been so depressed in my life. I've been stuck in a rut for five years and I feel like I'm just wasting away. I feel like...
    ironaddict ironaddict 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    Why is God testing me more

    than my capacity, more than I can handle?
    bar206 bar206 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    My antidepressants have been helping me

    so much, but sometimes things happen that send my emotions spiraling down. Sadly the LDS church is a big part of that. Tomorrow early in the morning my family is going to do baptisms for the dead in the temple. I don't want to go! The thought of going just makes me wanna curl up...
    kberry95 kberry95 18-21, F Sep 6

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    I have two friends at the moment - these are

    the only people in my life, outside my family, who I talk to on a regular basis. One is my boyfriend - we've been going out for a few months now, though we've known each other for a few years and are in a very strong relationship. The second is another friend of mine that I have...
    LittleClouds LittleClouds 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I put on a request for leave today,

    it was decline on one of the dates because two managers are off, and the so called rule is only two people at one time... Now I'm pissed because I am requesting this leave 8 weeks in advance when the said time is 6 weeks and last week two mangrs were off plus another member of...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    DarianB DarianB 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I'm gay, i just had a break up.

    . :( It's so painful,, it seems like the pain is not going away..:(
    arciebuenaventura arciebuenaventura 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 8

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    I have a serious problem

    but first heres the back story. I've had a boyfriend for almost two years, I love him so much I can't imagine ever leaving him. Hes sweet and caring and everything a girl could ask for but he is also very stubborn and a little controlling. Then all of the sudden this guy who...
    Trouble15 Trouble15 13-15, F Sep 2

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    My mom keeps telling me

    that my friend is very manipulating and rude. I mean, I know what she means, but that girl is also my friend. I don't know if I should agree with my mom or keep my definition of how I represent my friend. I know, this seems kind of stupid for this topic, but I seriously have no...
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F Jun 25

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    breannawoodard breannawoodard 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 3

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    I don't know what to do with my life I left my

    job in July I was working with special educational needs children I left because something was telling me I can do more than this but now I'm jobless and don't know that to do
    fairycake1 fairycake1 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I got this weird text last night from some

    email ---> cheatersbusted101@..." and so on. It had multiple pictures of my father sent with it at some restaurant or bar looking type place. I don't know if he was by himself or with another woman. The caption read "is this your dad??". Scarily, it was. So I'm freaked out...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F Aug 30

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    This is taking a toll on me .

    It's messing me up mentally #feelinginsane­čś×
    amvndah amvndah 22-25, F Aug 28

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    So there is this new girl in my my history

    and English class. I really like her but she has a boyfriend. Keep in mind she moved and its kinda a long distance thing, but sometimes they meet up. He lives really far away. So my main point is how do i ask her to homecoming as a friend? I would really want to get to know her...
    saladbarchris saladbarchris 16-17, M Sep 12

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    I feel like I don't do enough

    for my boyfriend in the bedroom. I'm not sure what he will really like and such. Does anyone have any advice to what I could do to really surprise him or make him happy?
    usernamesarelamex3 usernamesarelamex3 18-21, F 9 Responses Jun 14

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    I hate being conflicted over putting another

    persons emotions in front of mine. It's always the way I've been, when I convince myself that I really care about someone I always put that person first. This is the case with my ex, who happens to be my first and only girlfriend. I thought we were just friends now, I thought I...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    The signs have been there all along

    and I chose to see only the good. There is a lot of good. He is kind to me, gentle with me. Though if I think about it, right now he is not being kind at all. He knows I'm crying and he does nothing. I can't be with him anymore. This is going nowhere. I give up. Another failed...
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    You see.... Things are.

    ..... Yeah..... What?
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I don't know what I'm good at I have no passion

    to go to a job interview for a school based job. I don't know what my passion is ??
    fairycake1 fairycake1 22-25, F Sep 1

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    The thing is,on one hand I know I should enjoy

    life because one day I will be dead and I will not have enjoyed things.But then on the other,I wanna drop out now
    DarianB DarianB 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    My Rock...my Strength

    May I start by stating that this story is about that one special person in my life. He is wise beyond his years....for such the short time he has been in my life he has amazed me every step of the way.. From the moment I laid my eyes on him...I knew in my heart he was and is...
    SingleDad40 SingleDad40 41-45, M 6 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    breannawoodard breannawoodard 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    So my 8yr old niece just asked,

    "Isn't the statue of liberty dead?"
    aliiceViictoria aliiceViictoria 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 7

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    Idk what to do anymore.

    I'm just lost. Here, this is what I want. I want to be a beautiful house wife with 3 beautiful children and a loving husband who comes home to me every night. We have date nights. Vacations. Family game night. Things like that. It's all I've ever wanted.
    JordanJessie JordanJessie 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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