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    Please Help me. Me and my boyfriend just have

    our break-up and were acting like it's never happened, and were back from being friends. I want to totally detached myself from him, but everytime he message me I just can't control than to answer back. I really don't know what else to do.
    myleslus myleslus 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    So my ex is talking to me again.

    He's talking about being friends with benefits. I'm thinking this will just hurt me even more. But at the same time I'm thinking, what if he still loves me and this is his way of still being able to be with me. Maybe he'll realize how much he still loves me and he'll want to be...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 26-30, F 60 Responses Jan 29

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    I've been taking this human biology exam

    preparation course at uni. The guy teaching in this course is a medical student and the same age as me (24). I know it's inappropriate but .. I think he is really cute, smart and good looking and I really wish that I knew how to start a conversation with him .. But I'm really...
    skullyme skullyme 22-25, F Jun 5

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    Money is gone. I have $200 in my account.

    I've sent hundreds of resumes. I have 2 interviews next week. In the meantime, I need to pay rent, utilities, car insurance, gas, some groceries. If I get the job next week I still won't be paid until next payday and it won't be enough to pay this month's rent and next month...
    absolom absolom 41-45 5 Responses May 7

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    My family owns a small local hotel

    and we also live in it. Yesterday, I was getting late for my interview and was in a rush and it was raining. I backed out of the parking lot, and accidentally hit an old man. I quickly got out of my car to see if the man was ok. He was on the ground and he a bleeding a little...
    Rpatel15 Rpatel15 16-17, F 1 Response May 16

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    So here's my story. Im 28

    and I've had 4 serious relationships. The first went to war and met someone. The second we were together for 4 years engaged then one day he came home and said he thinks he never really loved me. The third basically the same thing. He said he never loved me. The fourth and the...
    SheWasJaded SheWasJaded 26-30, F 10 Responses May 26, 2014

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    i'm currently in NY,

    so i am literally walking EVERYWHERE. I'm also dancing 3 times a week. But i havent lost ANY WEIGHT!!! I'm so confused and frustrated. I just dont know what to do to lose the weight. I feel like my body just won't drop it.
    casey9599 casey9599 18-21, F Jun 3

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    I've been seeing this girl

    for a few months, and I'm already sick of her. Right from the get go I told her that I didn't want anything serious, not to get attached etc. I've already had to talk to her twice about how she was getting too clingy and how uncomfortable it made me. She's clearly more invested...
    N9nefan N9nefan 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 3

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    I just don't know what to do.

    I feel like I have nothing. I feel like I have all the energy in the world but no idea what to do with it. It's like my head is spinning and I can't stop it. I'm going insane. I can't connect with people anymore, I want to but I just can't muster the willpower to do it...
    canudos canudos 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2014

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    I just finished my exams

    after my first year in college, this year has been very fun. But next fall almost all my friends are moving away. I don't want to go to a school where I have no friends. What do I do? I have no interest in getting to know the other people becouse they smoke and drink every...
    veitekkialveg veitekkialveg 16-17, F 1 Response May 18

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    hello everyone . i need help

    and suggestion as i am suffering from recurrent bartholin cyst and been to doctor twice and right now i am taking antibiotics. i have read some home remedies for treatment but i am worried about this . i am only 23 and confused that how to get rid off this
    baljit7701 baljit7701 22-25, F Jun 8

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for a year now but I did something and betrayed him and I ****** up badly. I haven't been honest with him lately and it has really hurt him. I love him a lot but know we've broken up. We've decided that we'll both just keep going with our live and still keep each other in our...
    laxlife laxlife 18-21, F 2 Responses May 18

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    i dont know, i just dont want to do anything.

    ... :'( ...no matter what i do, nothing seems to help.... :'( ...feel like curling up in a little ball....ever since court with son today.....i also went to other children's school and program this afternoon....i just cant stop this feeling.....helplessness...despair....PLEASE...
    turnpike1971 turnpike1971 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Hi reader ^^ Here's the issue I'm facing: I am

    currently at my dads place to get some time away from the chaos where I live with just having moved and my breakup turning sour all of a sudden. My sister is taking Dad and his girlfriend out to dinner and offered me to join as well. My dad is fully aware of me wanting to...
    Lydia93 Lydia93 18-21, T 2 Responses Oct 18, 2014

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    I don't know what's real anymore.

    I don't know what I feel and if what I think I do feel is real. I don't know who I am anymore. And I don't remember who I was. I feel so lost.
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    My husband gets infuriated

    when I don't see something the same way he does. Even if I do see it his way but also see it a different way, he gets incredibly upset about it. I don't know what to do. I feel like he wants me to agree with him on everything and listen to him and take his advice on every...
    thatonecxnt thatonecxnt 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    Oh. my. god. My sister just set me up on a

    blind date with a friend of hers from work. "You'll like her", she says. When I asked her if this friend knew about me all she will say is. "She knows enough...". F.m.l. I can't even call to cancel. My sister refuses to hand over the number just tells me where we're meeting...
    Triscuitan Triscuitan 26-30, M 4 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I have always found comfort in talking to people

    who I did not know. This was the case since I was 14 because I couldn't talk to anyone I knew about my issues. When I was 14 I started dating online and it lasted about 2 years. We broke up but through her I met another girl who was her friend. The friend and I began talking and...
    CrimsonKnight117 CrimsonKnight117 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Whilst I’m sat here on my shelfPlease allow me to introduce myself.I’m Feeble People,Passing myself over.I am my Job.Not my Dream. So, Hi There, Label on a Lariat here, a manager of people;Certified, salaried, passionate, therefore fascinating.I’ll be calm under pressure...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    I live in Santa Ana California

    and I am very concerned about my niece. My niece lives with here mom in a car/Cheap Motels. Her loser dad which is my brother is in jail and her mom is just as much of a loser junkie. Her mom has 3 kids herself included. The oldest is 6 my niece is 4 and the youngest is 6months...
    Sublimegirl Sublimegirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    AbsssMullenxo AbsssMullenxo 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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    With my life! I want to be a teacher

    so badly, I didn't pass the Math part of the Praxis and I have to re due my interview I suck at life :(
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    This summer I'm going to be able to get into my

    savings. I'm angry at myself for not finishing high school. I'm angry at myself for making excuses, because now I have to deal with those consequences. I have to put off moving on with my life to stay home another year to graduate. I mean, I could go ahead and move up to...
    TheRisingPhoenix TheRisingPhoenix 16-17, F 1 Response May 14

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    My dad keeps telling me I'm living my life

    wrong. He thinks there is something wrong with me. I know I'm antisocial, but that's because I'm not allowed to go outside with one of my parents babysitting me. When i do talk to my friends they want to know what we were talking about. If they hear any part of what we say they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    I feel like my goals are

    so far away even though I keep on striving...
    kushhqueen kushhqueen 18-21, F May 18

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    To wait till you start missing me

    or to tell you how badly I miss you. I am literally torn between these two. I want to talk to you so bad, tell you how much you mean to me, but I'm really scared to push you away. And then again, what I am most scared of is that you will never tell me you miss me if I remain...
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2014

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    I just want someone to hold me

    while I cry... Just hold me...
    lovelywarpedlemon lovelywarpedlemon 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    I didn't mean to make her feel this way I wish

    she'd talk to me I think everything could've been ok idk what to do about it now
    ForeverDenyingIt ForeverDenyingIt 13-15, F May 17

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    I have been married about 6 years

    and we have one child. My husband doesn't want to spend time with me at all. He is always trying to find things to do that do t include me. He tells me I suck the life out of him. I nag him and that I'm a piece of crap when we argue. I just want him to spend time with me. I'm so...
    DLJ1 DLJ1 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I met this guy a yr ago.

    . Internet messaging turned into texting phone call and face time. We met once and spent time together. We live in different states. He'd call me his girl but I never really felt like I was because of the distance. Now I seem to be getting bored and annoyed with how random he is...
    CJ0181 CJ0181 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    The Biggest Lie I Continuously Tell Myself

    On most days, I know perfectly well what I need to do.  Sometimes, I wish very much that I did not know.  In a way, I long for the time when I did not know, and it did not matter if I knew or not, because someone would always be there to help bail me out if things went...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    I know that there are hundreds,

    if not, thousands like me who don't know what exactly they want or are looking for in life. Unfortunately, I am one of them. Yesterday, I met up with my friend and she and I got into talking about our future (something which I dread to talk about tbh). I normally don't get...
    SlowlyDrifting SlowlyDrifting 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I dont know how to start my life

    now that i have nothing.
    andrenah andrenah 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 24, 2014

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    I've been dating this guy

    for a couple weeks. He is really sweet and seems to really like me. He treats me really well. He's done alot for me already. I think he's cute. Not the best looking guy but adorable and cute. We had sex for the first time last night and it was kind of awful. I don't really care...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I mean, we see each other pretty much everyday

    because we're both studying the same thing at the same college and when I'm at home we talk through snapchat. He's a bit older because he changed his career choice so he's going on 20 this year, and our friends always tease him about it because most us are 18-19 (me being the...
    breathinghurts breathinghurts 16-17, F May 15

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    Hope you like reading,

    this is a really long venting session: There was this girl named Brooke... she is a total *****. We were best friends ever since we met in kindergarten but she became aggressive and she started talking about me behind my back in fourth grade. In fifth grade my parents got...
    CyanideSpider CyanideSpider 13-15, F 2 Responses May 30

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    I don't know if I want to kill myself

    or laugh. What is this ******* mind I have?!
    MartinTheFirst MartinTheFirst 16-17 1 Response Jun 6

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    Lanigga14 Lanigga14 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 4

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    I little while back I friended a guy named

    "hughgo" he seemed nice. We only talked on several occasions. Several nights back we were chatting, and I was discussing about my personal relationship with my husband. Those of you who are close to me, know what I am referring to. Apparently this did not sit well with him...
    heysho heysho 36-40, F 29 Responses Apr 8, 2014

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    So after months of debate between my parents

    and I, it's settled. They're forcing me to get an eating disorder assessment. I know what the results are going to be. After so long I've finally made good friends and I don't want to have to give it all up. On top of that, I have no idea what to expect when I do go in. HELP!
    Justanothergirl2000 Justanothergirl2000 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    I'm having a blank mind,

    I don't know if I should be happy/ sad/ angry/ annoyed etc... I'm unable to think properly. Do you feel like that too?
    exhuberantviolet exhuberantviolet 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    My office romance is hotting up,

    but I can't decide whether to take it further or not. We've not had penetrative sex yet and I'm worried that if we do, I might start to feel guilty. The flirting, kissing and touching has been fun and exciting - I've not felt like I've been too unfaithful. Would full sex change...
    Officeromance Officeromance 51-55 Jun 9

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    my mom treats me like ****,

    she's hurt me physically and emotionally. recently we went to go get a phone and she lied to me, she got in my face and spit on me. She treats my older brother completely different, to her he's an angel, but when something happens with me she yells at me, screams in my face...
    2anxious 2anxious 13-15, F 3 Responses May 19

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    Well I am just tired of this situation.

    There is good times but most of the time its just hard to deal with. I do not know what have i done to be treated like this and i truly hate being somebody's punching bag.
    nofuturenopast nofuturenopast 26-30, M May 12

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    Lonley Little Loser

    Im not usually the kind of person that can run around spilling their guts to people... but right now i dont think i have a choice... and since i have no friends and no family that i can talk to about all of this... i have turned to you... the World Wide Web. I am prepared for 99...
    lonleyloser lonleyloser 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    I met a guy. He just got out of a 7 year

    relationship. She moved out & he was looking for a place. She decided she wanted to stay and signed a one year lease with just her name on it and moved all of her things back in. He started looking for a hotel for himself and his dog. I told him to stay with me until he gets his...
    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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