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I Don't Know What to Do

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    I am bord and I would like someone to randomly

    message me something and start a conversation. I am interested in your sexuality, I just want to talk.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 11

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    Kinda freaking out right now.

    I know I could be just overreacting, but I can't help it.
    thequietpanda thequietpanda 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    About two/three months ago I got an

    apprenticeship in youth work and I really enjoy doing it, but in a months time I want to re-take music in college...I mean I'm only 18 and I can't describe how much music means to me, it is my one true passion and I want to carry on to do it in uni...I'm so stuck on what to do...
    leahmusic96 leahmusic96 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I just don't know anymore.

    I'm tired of lying to myself and being someone I'm not. I don't know if I should shut out the internet and go camping to clear my mind but I really need a break from all the people
    haileemattis haileemattis 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    I have a male friend

    that I have been very close to since middle school. We're the best of friends, and I tell him more things than I've ever told even my closest female friends. I'd never thought of him in a romantic way before, and honestly based on physical and some mental traits I've known...
    Eliste Eliste 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 11

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    My dad keeps telling me I'm living my life

    wrong. He thinks there is something wrong with me. I know I'm antisocial, but that's because I'm not allowed to go outside with one of my parents babysitting me. When i do talk to my friends they want to know what we were talking about. If they hear any part of what we say they...
    magicalunicornninja magicalunicornninja 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    Hey everyone, Last night

    when my boyfriend and I got home from a nice family gathering.....he found out his friend passed away who served in Afghanistan with him. I don't know what happened but I think it's a tragic accident involving falling in or out of the shower. This was last night and all I did...
    sarah143757 sarah143757 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was invited to a pool party.

    .. but I can't go because I have to many scars on me from cutting myself:( and I don't want my friends to see them, what if they leave me, and start to not like me:((( what am I gonna do, swim in pants and long sleeves???
    josephineclaire josephineclaire 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    life is a *****, one day everything is fine

    and going well, the next everything comes tumbling down. knowing what to do next and how to get over things is always hard, do you embrace what you feel or try to hide it? some people say that they've reached a brick wall, a dead end, but there never is any, you continue on...
    flashand00 flashand00 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I don't know what's real anymore.

    I don't know what I feel and if what I think I do feel is real. I don't know who I am anymore. And I don't remember who I was. I feel so lost.
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    30 years old and I never took things seriously,

    all I want/ed is a life of success doing what I love doing. I wish I could go back and try to retrace when and where this period of unhappiness started, but what's done, its done, the past can not be changed. Often I found my self emerged in daydreams of success or waking up...
    duplexoutlet duplexoutlet 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    AbsssMullenxo AbsssMullenxo 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    So my and my boyfriend have been dating

    for about 4 months but have been good friends for about 2 years. We are also both about to be seniors in high school. Although his guy friends are my friends too I don't really approve of him being friends with them. Considering how they are all very immature for their age and...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    So here's my story. Im 28

    and I've had 4 serious relationships. The first went to war and met someone. The second we were together for 4 years engaged then one day he came home and said he thinks he never really loved me. The third basically the same thing. He said he never loved me. The fourth and the...
    SheWasJaded SheWasJaded 26-30, F 11 Responses May 26

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    I just don't know what to do.

    I feel like I have nothing. I feel like I have all the energy in the world but no idea what to do with it. It's like my head is spinning and I can't stop it. I'm going insane. I can't connect with people anymore, I want to but I just can't muster the willpower to do it...
    canudos canudos 22-25, M 4 Responses Mar 14

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    I've been married to an alcoholic

    for 15 years and have a 16 yr old daughter. He helped raise my 3 boys and all was well except for a binge night now and again. The boys are grown and gone and now he is drunk at least 3-4 nights a week and I'm talking barely able to function drunk. We no longer have sex mostly...
    Pantra1961 Pantra1961 51-55, F Feb 1

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    What To Do With My Life.

    This is a very broad, general and short story. The thing is, I spend a lot of time alone (like a hermit or something, even though usually I'm perfectly sociable) and I don't do much with my life. It's ridiculously routine: get up, eat breakfast, go to school, come home, do...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 2

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    i am from poor family.

    .............i have completed my 12th class........i like to study further(medicine)...........i've written medicine entrance exam,but i didn't get a seat.........now i have two options...1)get a seat by paying donation 2)wait one more year and write exam..............i like to...
    jimmybf jimmybf 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Crying Is A Crutch

    Whenever I got yelled at as a child and teen I used to cry. I couldn't help it I can't sit there and get yelled at and act like I'm made of stone. I was told over and over again that crying is a crutch and it gets you know where. Now I just sit there and keep it all in and just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    When I was 17, I got pregnant with my oldest.

    He was a premature baby, so I got little to hardly any time to bond with him the first 3 months of his life. I spent 6 days a week next to him in the hospital. When he came home from the hospital, he was on an apnea monitor and oxygen tanks had to go with us everywhere we went...
    Krissysheart Krissysheart 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Motionless

    I don't know what to do when people cry, and not type of crying that is brought upon because of a movie, a book, or saying goodbyes to family which lives a great distance away. Im talking about the type of crying that breaks your own defences, it touches you beyond your physical...
    ObviousAnya ObviousAnya 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Okay, about a year ago,

    the guy that I liked (let's call him... Bob - for convenience sake) and I were trying to get married. There were so many issues, specifically with his ridiculously conservative family that we were forced to break up. Eventually, I decided I wanted to move on and met this...
    Susumu999 Susumu999 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Lonley Little Loser

    Im not usually the kind of person that can run around spilling their guts to people... but right now i dont think i have a choice... and since i have no friends and no family that i can talk to about all of this... i have turned to you... the World Wide Web. I am prepared for 99...
    lonleyloser lonleyloser 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    Resume

    Whilst I’m sat here on my shelfPlease allow me to introduce myself.I’m Feeble People,Passing myself over.I am my Job.Not my Dream. So, Hi There, Label on a Lariat here, a manager of people;Certified, salaried, passionate, therefore fascinating.I’ll be calm under pressure...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    I little while back I friended a guy named

    "hughgo" he seemed nice. We only talked on several occasions. Several nights back we were chatting, and I was discussing about my personal relationship with my husband. Those of you who are close to me, know what I am referring to. Apparently this did not sit well with him...
    heysho heysho 36-40, F 30 Responses Apr 8

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    So, there's this guy.

    He's everything I have ever dreamed about, despite the fact that he's nothing at all like the boys that most girls my age are into. He's funny, kind, sweet. He is a strong advocate for peace, justice, animal rights and everything I believe in. He's an artist, a musician, a...
    LeavesOfSunshine LeavesOfSunshine 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Yesterday, I went to a university to take a

    test with my review-mates. I had fun because I met a lot of people from other review centers and befriended them but I had this feeling of wanting to be alone so I isolated myself from them then my best bud in my review, Jay, pats me in the head and asked me if I was okay then I...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F Aug 11

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    I love a girl who loves me too bt she happens

    to be following another religion. This reduces the chances of us being together. I want to marry her. The problem doesn't end here I am critically ill and have just couple more years. I love her a lot and would do anything to be with her.
    prajaya123 prajaya123 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Why Is It So Hard To Love?

    I am lonely. Really, very lonely. I never told this to anyone, nobody would understand. I met him one beautiful day and I thought how lucky I was. But I was wrong. It was 2 years ago and I still love him like it was yesterday. He thinks we are just friends. He chosed another...
    Reita Reita 16-17 4 Responses Sep 10, 2010

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    I don't know what to post

    because I'm afraid people with judgmentally comment.
    SumtingWongg SumtingWongg 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    I feel like high school is a total waste of

    time. I was going to drop out and start college so in the next year I'd already be in uni, but then I got few people who persuaded me not to. Now I feel like I'm stuck because I don't believe I'm learning anything of use. But sometimes I also feel like I'm just complaining!
    Lostied Lostied 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I'm so confused, I was supposed to meet my

    girlfriend today, but it's like she disappeared.. She was only a town away, and all of a sudden her phone is off and it's been hours. I'm freaking out, no idea what to do.
    GuuIsAwesome GuuIsAwesome 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    I am currently 17 (male) years old attending my

    final term of high school before I'm off to college here in Canada. My mother was diagnosed with MS a year or so I was born. Her MS progressed as I aged and by the time I was 9 she had moved out to live in a nursing home. We simply couldn't take care of her at home anymore. I...
    TheChosenOne2981 TheChosenOne2981 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 26

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    My ex and I have 2 teenage boys.

    He has problems and has done alot of things for which my kids are resentful. I recently found out he is terminally ill. The kids now know too and still don't want to see or talk to him. While I completely understand my kids position, I don't want them to have regrets later...
    jerseygrl1103 jerseygrl1103 46-50, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    The Biggest Lie I Continuously Tell Myself

    On most days, I know perfectly well what I need to do.  Sometimes, I wish very much that I did not know.  In a way, I long for the time when I did not know, and it did not matter if I knew or not, because someone would always be there to help bail me out if things went...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    I feel like lately I've been unlucky in love.

    Over and over again I get played by guys I've trusted and now I'm in a relationship that I thought was with a good guy because we've been friends forever but he's treating me like crap now that we're dating. It's barely been a month and I feel like the whole world decided to...
    alexmarie214 alexmarie214 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24

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    So I have been researching a lot tonight

    and I'm debating about staying in New York, going to Massachusetts, Illinois, or Ohio. I don't know what to do. I really wanted to graduate from the school I am in now but it's a hassle to stay there even if it was my dream school. Decisions decisions...
    Mickey2021 Mickey2021 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Okay here it goes , you guys might not have any

    solution for this ! But I tent to create characters in my mind , I will name them and than ill act like they are real and talk to them , i even act out a situation that im having with this Character to me I think this is very normal I've been doing it since I was 9 I'm 16 now :P...
    Strange143 Strange143 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm having an emotional breakdown

    and honestly I don't know how to handle it. I love my step-father with all my heart and hate seeing him depressed. He won't tell me what is going on, and so all I know is he told his brother "life's hard right now, and also having a daughter don't make things any easier." I've...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I feel like I always have to tiptoe around my

    boyfriend cause everything I do tends to get him angry 😞
    crazyminds crazyminds 18-21, M Jul 24

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    What Should I Do?

    There's this new guy on my school, he's gay too. i have a crush on him.. I really want to talk to him but: 1) his friends are really popular, scary and mean 2) he's two years older, and here' on my school we only talk to people of the same age. So It's weird if I would go ane...
    Glacidee Glacidee 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I've been crushing on her

    for a year. She's this strong, independent 21, almost 22 year old girl that caught my attention the second I walked into my college class I had with her. Since then, I've been unable to stop thinking about her. I find the fact she pays her own bills, has her own place and has a...
    Taylor1993 Taylor1993 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My father has done so many things I am not

    proud of. But God, have I forgiven him? yes! problem is, my mother won't let me speak to him because she has not and will not forgive him. I do hurt so much when he sends me facebook messages asking me for forgiveness. asking me to be his friend. I never really had him around...
    mimosasgl mimosasgl 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Help!!!!!

    I like this guy but all he talks about is sex and that's not what I want to talk about.. and I have a boyfriend so I can't really talk to him like that.. he also has a girlfriend.. I kinda just want him to back off
    orlandosgurl orlandosgurl 13-15, F Sep 8, 2013

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    The Joys of a Dysfunctional Reltionship

    I am feel so overwhelmed with losing a part of me. The other half of me. My stability, my well being, my lover and partner. I feel so alone without him. It hurts to think about him. When we speak he tells me of his old found life of self-destruction. I miss him but I hate him. e...
    Helplessness Helplessness 19-21, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2007

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    I have a family but I'm not apart of my family.

    ..... Well anyways when I was younger I have had only one family member in my life my cousin but then one day he tells me Your not apart of the family and he regrets every time he sees looks & talks 2 me and he treats me like crap!!! Then just yesterday on my birthday he comes 2...
    christinababy23 christinababy23 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    The Letter I May Never Send..

    This letter is for you, the guy who managed to make me fall so deep in love with him and then rip my heart in half. What gives you the right.. to pick me up and chuck me whenever you feel like it? What gives you the right to fool my heart over and over again for your sad twisted...
    BeingSara BeingSara 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2012

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    My Life Is At A Dead End

    And I don't know what to do. My husband only married me because he felt kinda sorry for me and because I'm a good person, he wanted to give me a better chance in life. As such, he doesn't want to spend any time with me because he thinks right now he should be single. I love him...
    aliceslade aliceslade 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2010

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    My boyfriend's been playing these mind games

    with me lately, which I don't have time for, but he purposely doing things that he knows make me upset and thinking that I don't know, which I find very immature. He also hasn't texted me for 2 days which is not like him because we talk everyday. I am getting very fed up with...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Hey so I have been goin out with this guy

    since last summer. Last summer he was nice he talked to me hanged out with me whenev he had the time. I liked him because he changed my life around I got out of my house and made more friends. When school started he just stop calling me seeing me I thought it was because of the...
    ILoveMinecraft ILoveMinecraft 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 24

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    To wait till you start missing me

    or to tell you how badly I miss you. I am literally torn between these two. I want to talk to you so bad, tell you how much you mean to me, but I'm really scared to push you away. And then again, what I am most scared of is that you will never tell me you miss me if I remain...
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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