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I Don't Know What to Do

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    I've never thought that I'll be a real victim

    of peer pressure, but this year I realized I've got myself into a trap. I blame my upbringings and highschool that forces me to hide my true personality. My real personality can be described as bubbly, happy, adventerous, energetic, and even WILD. Like I dare to dance around in...
    uniqueresonance uniqueresonance 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 11

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    You know that feeling?

    When your just waiting. Waiting to get home, into your room, Close the door, fall into bed, And just let everything out that you kept in the day. That feeling of bot helier and desperation. Nothing is wrong. But nothing is right either. And your tired. Tired of everything, tired...
    LonelyMystery LonelyMystery 16-17, F Dec 6, 2015

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    Hello, What I'm about to say I have never told

    anyone for fear of rejection or criticism. I feel lost, I feel like no matter what I do it's always a step back. 3 years ago I moved from another state to the current state I reside, didn't graduate from high school, a main reason why I felt my life would go no where back home...
    Thranix Thranix 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Should I text him or wait

    for him to text me? We've talked before, went out with friends, and planned to meet (a date?) but he couldnt make it because of work... Then he said, maybe after new year. So what should i do now?
    PokeNams PokeNams 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I'm 14 years old and well I was getting an mri

    the other day and they asked my mom for consent instead of me. Then I asked why and they said I was too young. This frustrates me to the point where I feel like crying and I don't know why. I just feel like I don't have control over my own life and it scares me. I might...
    snowballcupcake snowballcupcake 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    Months ago u said that u didn't want to talk in

    "this level", that u had never liked me in that sort of way. I was devastated. I laid so many emotions on u and for you to say that, it really crushed me. I stepped back from you and figured that we could still be friends. But then it was you who started going down this "more...
    Laraamani Laraamani 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I had been talking to this guy

    for more than four months, we literally talked every singe day, we weren't dating but we decided to be fwb. I have feelings for him, I was falling in love with him, and suddenly he stopped talking, it has been six days and nothing. The first four days I pretended that I don't...
    ruthm ruthm 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Lately I have been feeling pretty down.

    I don't feel motivated to do anything, I don't put any effort into things that need to be done. I can't focus... I start doing whatever the hell I need to do and I end up staring at 3 lizards chilling on my rooftop for 2 hours. I feel slightly lonely yet I don't wish to talk...
    Gelezinis Gelezinis 70+ Apr 12, 2015

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    So I love my boyfriend a lot.

    More than I could ever have imagined loving anyone. He makes me a better person, and so happy. We're currently looking for places to move into when I finish college this May. Which is, you know, exciting, and I'm super happy at even the prospect . . . if it weren't for my...
    xxnotherexx xxnotherexx 22-25, F Jan 23

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    Hey. I wonder what u have planned

    for me. What does my future look like? I know I will never find out and all I can do is to follow the path u have planned for me. What I came to think of was why u have sent me this beautifully wonderful guy if you are just going to take him away from me? What should I do after...
    Laraamani Laraamani 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I honestly need advice from people I don't know.

    I am an introverted person, I don't keep much company. However I do keep a few close friends. One of friends (let's call him Sean) is supposedly best friends with my other friends (Hanna). Hanna had talked to me a while ago to say that she wasn't really friends with Sean anymore...
    VerityVogel VerityVogel 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 5, 2015

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    Oh. my. god. My sister just set me up on a

    blind date with a friend of hers from work. "You'll like her", she says. When I asked her if this friend knew about me all she will say is. "She knows enough...". F.m.l. I can't even call to cancel. My sister refuses to hand over the number just tells me where we're meeting...
    Triscuitan Triscuitan 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 30, 2014

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    I just don't know what to do.

    I feel like I have nothing. I feel like I have all the energy in the world but no idea what to do with it. It's like my head is spinning and I can't stop it. I'm going insane. I can't connect with people anymore, I want to but I just can't muster the willpower to do it...
    canudos canudos 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 14, 2014

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    So I'm in a relationship of one year

    and four months. I'm 18 years old. He is my first love. I love him, I really do. We started as best friends and fell in love. We already had al lot of great moments together. However, we had a lot of fights and bad moments either. I'm confused. There's a boy, who I've known...
    1brokenwing 1brokenwing 18-21 1 Response Jan 5

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    I just finish my bachelor degree 3 months ago.

    Up until now, I just stay home. I don't know what to do and I don't know what I want in my life now. I don't feel like to work. I want to continue my study but my family kinda broke.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 11, 2015

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    I am bord and I would like someone to randomly

    message me something and start a conversation. I am interested in your sexuality, I just want to talk.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 11, 2014

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    I'm tired. tired of being around someone

    yet still feeling Alone... I'm tired of arguing. I want my best friend back. I would trade all the sex, kissing and cuddling if I could have my best friend back. I want someone to talk to, who I can hang out with and laugh with. I'm tired of arguing. I'm tired of fighting. there...
    debonaireash debonaireash 18-21, M Jan 5

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    I get this feeling that makes me sunken

    that I am a nobody. The past few years I have wasted my life, trying to run away from reality and shut it off completely by staying inside my bedroom making no human contact or effort to get out in the outside. I have been unproductive because of this and I have caught myself in...
    Mjstudios97 Mjstudios97 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    Low self esteem is one of my greatest enemy.

    I have been like this since I was in elementary up to college until I graduated college. I worked for German Doctors (field worker) previously, thankful that I finally gained my self confidence at work. I did a lot of medical mission with them. They praised me of the good...
    joyazi joyazi 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2015

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    So there's this guy that I've met online.

    He's white, I'm black. Okay. We've been talking, texting, exchanging pictures and all that good stuff over a month now. I'm 21 aaand he's 38. I don't know if that matters but....we both agree that there's a connection there. So much in common and a lot of values too. I was...
    vadupree vadupree 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I don't know if I want to kill myself

    or laugh. What is this ******* mind I have?!
    MartinTheFirst MartinTheFirst 16-17 1 Response Jun 6, 2015

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    What do you do when your close family member is

    in so much pain? Physically, mentally and emotionally? She told me a few years ago that she's only staying around for a few more years. This is her last year. In August she is going to stop taking her meds and basically die. It's becoming more and more real and I can't look at...
    js246 js246 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So, I'm in high school,

    I graduate this year, my boyfriend Matt, (that's hat I have been calling him from day one) has this friend, Carl. Well before Matt and I started to date I really liked Carl. Turns out the feeling was mutual. Carl liked me six months ago, and dated my best friend try and get to...
    TheWayLifeShouldBe TheWayLifeShouldBe 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hi reader ^^ Here's the issue I'm facing: I am

    currently at my dads place to get some time away from the chaos where I live with just having moved and my breakup turning sour all of a sudden. My sister is taking Dad and his girlfriend out to dinner and offered me to join as well. My dad is fully aware of me wanting to...
    Joceline93 Joceline93 22-25, T 2 Responses Oct 18, 2014

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    So here's my story. Im 28

    and I've had 4 serious relationships. The first went to war and met someone. The second we were together for 4 years engaged then one day he came home and said he thinks he never really loved me. The third basically the same thing. He said he never loved me. The fourth and the...
    SheWasJaded SheWasJaded 26-30, F 9 Responses May 26, 2014

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    Today again, I was fighting with my brother,

    because he was the last who had rice and he didn't even bother to cook us, I was mad and I told him he should have told me or cooked some for us, but the argue when into a fight I didn't fight back, I was trying to do the right thing, but it went into this. He thrown me a water...
    PerfectlySwear PerfectlySwear 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    hello, i'm new, but i'm just going to tell my

    story because i just have to. okay, i'm 21. i grew up in a loving family and everything, and when i was 18, i was in a great relationship. i thought everything was gonna mess up when i got pregnant, but it didn't. my boyfriend james understood and was really great to me and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 4, 2015

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    I posted yesterday about how I was recently

    hacked by my former best friend of five years. I've called the cops, the magistrate, ranted and raved. Nobody can do anything evidently. As Sara said, all they'll do is apparently laugh at me. But you see, I'm not going to just "let it go". She hacked my account, changed my...
    Mystigent Mystigent 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    I have a girl I like.

    Last month, she started pressuring me to tell her who I like. Ever since I told her..... She's been ignoring me. I've sent a few messages, but I haven't gotten any responses. I'm thinking about sending a "last regards" to tell her everything I feel about her, but I'm unsure. Ugh...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 9

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    Money is gone. I have $200 in my account.

    I've sent hundreds of resumes. I have 2 interviews next week. In the meantime, I need to pay rent, utilities, car insurance, gas, some groceries. If I get the job next week I still won't be paid until next payday and it won't be enough to pay this month's rent and next month...
    absolom absolom 41-45 5 Responses May 7, 2015

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    I feel conflicted about everything today.

    For any normal person, today would have been utterly relaxing. practically doing nothing, no errands to run, not scheduled for any job, no one but yourself home. Sounds like a peaceful heaven right? but I'm sad and lonely. I can't shake this feeling and it grows deeper now...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2015

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    Crying Is A Crutch

    Whenever I got yelled at as a child and teen I used to cry. I couldn't help it I can't sit there and get yelled at and act like I'm made of stone. I was told over and over again that crying is a crutch and it gets you know where. Now I just sit there and keep it all in and just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    I don't know what's real anymore.

    I don't know what I feel and if what I think I do feel is real. I don't know who I am anymore. And I don't remember who I was. I feel so lost.
    Punk1n Punk1n 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2014

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    My boyfriend Matt and I keep fighting.

    I don't want to break up with him because I know it will get better. I love him and I know he loves me. I've been so stressed out about a lot of things recently and it delayed my period an I thought I was pregnant. I guess my biggest fear is him leaving me for his best friend...
    TheWayLifeShouldBe TheWayLifeShouldBe 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I've not done a post

    for a while that's basically cause I just haven't been in the mood to or too much going on. At the moment I'm in such a **** situation and not got the foggiest clue what to do! Some help will be nice.. What do you do when you've basically had something happen more than once with...
    Kimmyextreme Kimmyextreme 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    my friend is saying she's going insane

    and a lot of other things. I want to tell her mother but her friendship is everything to me. she's my only friend and I can't loose her. I told her I'd tell her mom but she said if I did shed never talk to me again and... I just feel helpless..
    XDeadxNxAliveX XDeadxNxAliveX 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I met a guy. He just got out of a 7 year

    relationship. She moved out & he was looking for a place. She decided she wanted to stay and signed a one year lease with just her name on it and moved all of her things back in. He started looking for a hotel for himself and his dog. I told him to stay with me until he gets his...
    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18, 2014

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    I think I like this one guy.

    Yeah, yeah, I know. (Gossip and Drama always start that way. . .) He is cute and sweet. However I do not think I am ready, but I do not want to lose this guy. I have been frustrated with men online. Except I am shy in real life. What to do? What to do? I really feel this one...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    He broke me down. There are people in your life

    who mean so much to you and there are people who will hurt you, but when someone who was once a big part of your life hurts you, it brings a pain that is deep. He was my best friend. we told each other everything and he meant a lot to me. We had been arguing and having issues...
    EssScissorHands EssScissorHands 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

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    I'm having a personal weekend getaway,

    & I'm not sure if I should use it to examine my current life circumstances, or just escape them for a bit. I hope to somehow accomplish both. Right now I'm having a hard time thinking.
    SaundraMae SaundraMae 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 13, 2015

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    I have Uterine Fibroids.

    .....and they suck big floppy donkey dicks!!!!!!
    BakaNekoDansu BakaNekoDansu 26-30 Jan 18

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    The Biggest Lie I Continuously Tell Myself

    On most days, I know perfectly well what I need to do.  Sometimes, I wish very much that I did not know.  In a way, I long for the time when I did not know, and it did not matter if I knew or not, because someone would always be there to help bail me out if things went...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    But here's to hoping

    that 2016 will help me figure it out.
    ImagineA ImagineA 18-21 2 Responses Jan 2

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    AbsssMullenxo AbsssMullenxo 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2014

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