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    I meet this girl, last summer.

    Friend of some friends with whom i went out last summer. We barely talked when we went out with our common friends until some months ago when we meet (again through common friends) and after a while, out of boredom (i think), we started talking on Facebook. One day, out of the...
    alecsadler alecsadler 22-25, M Sep 8

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    I love two people, I love one more

    even though I don't know her too well, but she lives in the USA, and one is my therapist and I know she loves me, I just don't know what to do.
    RazorToMySkin RazorToMySkin 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He's there to have fun with,

    to go out with. He's like a best friend I don't want to lose. He's a nice person. But am I just fooling myself? Would I want to be something more than friends with him someday? Will he fall for me? Or is he starting to already? I'll just enjoy my time with him.. And not worry...
    infinitexhope infinitexhope 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I feel like high school is a total waste of

    time. I was going to drop out and start college so in the next year I'd already be in uni, but then I got few people who persuaded me not to. Now I feel like I'm stuck because I don't believe I'm learning anything of use. But sometimes I also feel like I'm just complaining!
    Lostied Lostied 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    I don't know what's real anymore.

    I don't know what I feel and if what I think I do feel is real. I don't know who I am anymore. And I don't remember who I was. I feel so lost.
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    I hear things like voices in my head.

    This is the God and Goddess telling me what I should do They tell me in dreams to kill myself as an offering to them. Because the want me in another life. I have been getting these messeges I guess you could call them for a long time. But I've only just started noticing them...
    Unknown0324 Unknown0324 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    My Life Is At A Dead End

    And I don't know what to do. My husband only married me because he felt kinda sorry for me and because I'm a good person, he wanted to give me a better chance in life. As such, he doesn't want to spend any time with me because he thinks right now he should be single. I love him...
    aliceslade aliceslade 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2010

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    sometimes I don't know

    whether to love you or hate you. God. damn.
    Risingabovetheashes Risingabovetheashes 70+, F Sep 11

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    The Biggest Lie I Continuously Tell Myself

    On most days, I know perfectly well what I need to do.  Sometimes, I wish very much that I did not know.  In a way, I long for the time when I did not know, and it did not matter if I knew or not, because someone would always be there to help bail me out if things went...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    I have a male friend

    that I have been very close to since middle school. We're the best of friends, and I tell him more things than I've ever told even my closest female friends. I'd never thought of him in a romantic way before, and honestly based on physical and some mental traits I've known...
    Eliste Eliste 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 11

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    To wait till you start missing me

    or to tell you how badly I miss you. I am literally torn between these two. I want to talk to you so bad, tell you how much you mean to me, but I'm really scared to push you away. And then again, what I am most scared of is that you will never tell me you miss me if I remain...
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I dont know how to start my life

    now that i have nothing.
    andrenah andrenah 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 24

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    I met a guy. He just got out of a 7 year

    relationship. She moved out & he was looking for a place. She decided she wanted to stay and signed a one year lease with just her name on it and moved all of her things back in. He started looking for a hotel for himself and his dog. I told him to stay with me until he gets his...
    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    Two summers ago I moved in with my one of my

    older sisters. Ever since I moved in with her I have been watching her child for her while she worked. For the longest time I wasn't able to get a job because it would interfere with her doing whatever she wanted when she wanted. Basically I was the built in babysitter. My...
    MsHesitationsx3 MsHesitationsx3 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19

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    Resume

    Whilst I’m sat here on my shelfPlease allow me to introduce myself.I’m Feeble People,Passing myself over.I am my Job.Not my Dream. So, Hi There, Label on a Lariat here, a manager of people;Certified, salaried, passionate, therefore fascinating.I’ll be calm under pressure...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    I little while back I friended a guy named

    "hughgo" he seemed nice. We only talked on several occasions. Several nights back we were chatting, and I was discussing about my personal relationship with my husband. Those of you who are close to me, know what I am referring to. Apparently this did not sit well with him...
    heysho heysho 36-40, F 31 Responses Apr 8

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    Help!!!!!

    I like this guy but all he talks about is sex and that's not what I want to talk about.. and I have a boyfriend so I can't really talk to him like that.. he also has a girlfriend.. I kinda just want him to back off
    orlandosgurl orlandosgurl 13-15, F Sep 8, 2013

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    I have all these delusional thoughts.

    Like my dead parents are alive, like someone is plotting against me, that I'm being held captive by people who claim to be my family. I can't speak without stuttering a little bit and I often forget things. I just wish I could die and be free from all this delusions and thoughts...
    calliope95 calliope95 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So after I confronted my boyfriend about me

    finding out he has cheated on me i ended everything I was going to move in with him as I was going to transfer In two months time. Anyways I paid for my part of the bills and today I went and stopped everything. On Monday I'm planning to give his house keys back and tell him...
    shums shums 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    I wish I had someone to hang out with tonight.

    I feel like being social. But I don't know if I feel like going to a high school football game. It's kind if cold, I'd be going by myself, & the team really sucks. But I know a lot of people in the community & might get to talk to some people. Plus I love football. Another...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F Sep 12

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    I'm feeling such a mixed bag of emotions

    that I want to feel happy as I try to get myself to sleep, but I'm unsure. I'm a little confused. Discombobulated.
    Devilscar Devilscar 18-21, M 18 hrs ago

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    So I've been in my relationship

    for over a year now and things are getting rocky. It started out amazing but now that I look at it more and more I feel like it was only because I've never been in a serious relationship prior. It feels as though my love for him has faded dramatically. It's like I want some...
    wilfred13 wilfred13 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    My dad keeps telling me I'm living my life

    wrong. He thinks there is something wrong with me. I know I'm antisocial, but that's because I'm not allowed to go outside with one of my parents babysitting me. When i do talk to my friends they want to know what we were talking about. If they hear any part of what we say they...
    magicalunicornninja magicalunicornninja 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    What Should I Do?

    There's this new guy on my school, he's gay too. i have a crush on him.. I really want to talk to him but: 1) his friends are really popular, scary and mean 2) he's two years older, and here' on my school we only talk to people of the same age. So It's weird if I would go ane...
    Glacidee Glacidee 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    I have two paths to choose from.

    ..Both are easy and difficult in their own way. Stay where I am, in a place I hate, working 100 hours weekly but it's stable and has a promising future which is considered the best of what's available here. Or just give up on what I have here and my family and friends and seek...
    elpsy elpsy 26-30, M Sep 3

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    I've been working in an office

    for 2 years now. Early in this summer, I got a new boss. He is overly demanding and abusive. He always gives me unreasonable deadlines, and if I can't meet the deadlines, he yells at me. He is getting more and more demanding and I really don't know what to do...
    calmbear calmbear 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am bord and I would like someone to randomly

    message me something and start a conversation. I am interested in your sexuality, I just want to talk.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 11

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    Hey! I'm new here at EP

    and I really need someone to talk to, good advice, experiences and such.. I don't know what to do! My boyfriend did do drugs and tried to take his own life by an overdoze on morphine (dolcontine). He has been doing drugs for the last two years, but every day for the past 8th or...
    lilcarey lilcarey 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    The Letter I May Never Send..

    This letter is for you, the guy who managed to make me fall so deep in love with him and then rip my heart in half. What gives you the right.. to pick me up and chuck me whenever you feel like it? What gives you the right to fool my heart over and over again for your sad twisted...
    BeingSara BeingSara 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2012

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our

    school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my mind I was thinking "you know what, I'm gonna try to talk to her, I need to man up, I need to know how to talk to a girl and here's my first...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    Since the past year in a half with buying a

    house loosing my full-time job getting married husband lost his job dad died the renter for our house died problems with current renters sister wanting to move and take mom a good friend of the family is sick and her dtr took the poa from my sister... why does it feel like when...
    qtlonely qtlonely 36-40, F Sep 21

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    Motionless

    I don't know what to do when people cry, and not type of crying that is brought upon because of a movie, a book, or saying goodbyes to family which lives a great distance away. Im talking about the type of crying that breaks your own defences, it touches you beyond your physical...
    ObviousAnya ObviousAnya 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Okay so my ldr boyfriend

    and I have been going strong for 4 months now, we contact each other everyday and our relationship is thee best. Recently I've been the one that has to text him first all the time and yesterday I decided I'd wait for him to text me but he still hasn't... Another thing, on...
    lucywats lucywats 16-17 2 Responses Sep 14

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    I feel like lately I've been unlucky in love.

    Over and over again I get played by guys I've trusted and now I'm in a relationship that I thought was with a good guy because we've been friends forever but he's treating me like crap now that we're dating. It's barely been a month and I feel like the whole world decided to...
    alexmarie214 alexmarie214 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24

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    I am currently 17 (male) years old attending my

    final term of high school before I'm off to college here in Canada. My mother was diagnosed with MS a year or so I was born. Her MS progressed as I aged and by the time I was 9 she had moved out to live in a nursing home. We simply couldn't take care of her at home anymore. I...
    TheChosenOne2981 TheChosenOne2981 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 26

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    In a nut shell, my parents should have divorced

    about 5 years ago but they decided not to so that we, children, wouldn't be affected by the divorce. They didn't divorce firstly because my older sister wasabout to get married and they were worried about the social image. Secondly, I was in high school and that was going to...
    Gamal274 Gamal274 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Lonley Little Loser

    Im not usually the kind of person that can run around spilling their guts to people... but right now i dont think i have a choice... and since i have no friends and no family that i can talk to about all of this... i have turned to you... the World Wide Web. I am prepared for 99...
    lonleyloser lonleyloser 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    AbsssMullenxo AbsssMullenxo 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    So I'm need of getting a loan

    for the first time and i don't know **** about it sorry for language I'm just little frustrated with people ... Has anyone every heard of having to take a prepaid card from money gram in order to receive a loan
    ha33y2bm1 ha33y2bm1 22-25, F Sep 6

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    I'm 20 years old. I finish high school in

    December/2010 and back then I was really confused about career choices. I tried fashion, kinda liked it but not really. Then I thought I should try industrial design, as I'm creative and artistic, but ended up choosing architecture and urbanism. I'm on my 4th semester now and I...
    carolbarth carolbarth 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    The Joys of a Dysfunctional Reltionship

    I am feel so overwhelmed with losing a part of me. The other half of me. My stability, my well being, my lover and partner. I feel so alone without him. It hurts to think about him. When we speak he tells me of his old found life of self-destruction. I miss him but I hate him. e...
    Helplessness Helplessness 19-21, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2007

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    Why Is It So Hard To Love?

    I am lonely. Really, very lonely. I never told this to anyone, nobody would understand. I met him one beautiful day and I thought how lucky I was. But I was wrong. It was 2 years ago and I still love him like it was yesterday. He thinks we are just friends. He chosed another...
    Reita Reita 16-17 4 Responses Sep 10, 2010

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    Things are so wonderful

    and so awful, I got with a girl 13 days ago, thing is that people keep talking bad about her. Today my cousin, my parabati (for those of you who don't get that reference, it means "Best friend" or another part of one's soul.) Told me I wasn't fit to be in a relationship because...
    geary97 geary97 16-17, M 4 Responses Sep 16

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    I see these popular stories on EP,

    and most of them aren't too serious of an experience. I write stories and I see other great ones and they get very underrated attention. But when I see an eleven word story with 60 responses, I can't really comprehend what people like to read or see smh.
    QuietFreedom QuietFreedom 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 9

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    Snuggle13 Snuggle13 16-17 Sep 21

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    I met a guy on a dating website.

    I am married, he is separated. It is a site for affairs. I really care for him and he cares for me. We are having an affair. He has has bad experiences with woman cheating on him. I am always making the first move either by texting or asking if he wants to get together. I...
    jorobda1013 jorobda1013 46-50, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just don't know what to do.

    I feel like I have nothing. I feel like I have all the energy in the world but no idea what to do with it. It's like my head is spinning and I can't stop it. I'm going insane. I can't connect with people anymore, I want to but I just can't muster the willpower to do it...
    canudos canudos 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 14

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    Crying Is A Crutch

    Whenever I got yelled at as a child and teen I used to cry. I couldn't help it I can't sit there and get yelled at and act like I'm made of stone. I was told over and over again that crying is a crutch and it gets you know where. Now I just sit there and keep it all in and just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    30 years old and I never took things seriously,

    all I want/ed is a life of success doing what I love doing. I wish I could go back and try to retrace when and where this period of unhappiness started, but what's done, its done, the past can not be changed. Often I found my self emerged in daydreams of success or waking up...
    duplexoutlet duplexoutlet 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    Honestly. I'm just going to vent

    for myself and my needs. If you want to read and write something below as advice or anything, thank you. But it's not necessary. Well, here goes. There's this guy. Shocker, right? We're together but we're not. Not dating, not friends. We're closer than some but maybe not as...
    ImagineA ImagineA 16-17 1 Response Sep 7

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    So here's my story. Im 28

    and I've had 4 serious relationships. The first went to war and met someone. The second we were together for 4 years engaged then one day he came home and said he thinks he never really loved me. The third basically the same thing. He said he never loved me. The fourth and the...
    SheWasJaded SheWasJaded 26-30, F 11 Responses May 26

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    I feel myself slowly giving up

    and breaking under all the pressure and stress. I keep thinking, just one little cut no one will know. But I promised my brothers I promised my sister I promised my Koda bear that I wouldn't go back. But sometimes I just can't take it, and I want to go back. I keep thinking I...
    SlimsB SlimsB 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    So when I told my boyfriend I no something

    happened between him and this girl he denied it and when I said I saw messages he said it was all joke but them messages were not a joke at all! So I ended our relationship and now I miss him so much! All I think about is the good times we have had and for some reason I feel...
    shums shums 18-21, F Sep 19

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