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I Don't Know What to Do

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    I just don't know what to do.

    I feel like I have nothing. I feel like I have all the energy in the world but no idea what to do with it. It's like my head is spinning and I can't stop it. I'm going insane. I can't connect with people anymore, I want to but I just can't muster the willpower to do it...
    canudos canudos 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 14

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    Okay so pretty much me

    and my ex broke up about 5 months ago because her parents wouldn't let her date me, we would fight too much , and she's going away for college next month.. The relationship was GREAT when it was going good.. But BAD when it wasn't going well... Well I started talking to this...
    Tssjonathan Tssjonathan 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I didn't have the best day I woke up early

    after going to bed late I had to clean the house cause a bunch of people were suppose to be coming over I fought with everyone in my house today the people that were planning on showing up didn't so I went and got one of my best friends and him and hi shot off our fireworks well...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F Jul 5

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    I've broken up with my partner

    because he decided he couldn't cope with standing by through my breast cancer. I really don't know if it's the right thing, but I feel empty right now without him. He restored my faith in men after I came out of a long term abusive relationship and I'm unsure if I can do this on...
    here444you here444you 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    The Biggest Lie I Continuously Tell Myself

    On most days, I know perfectly well what I need to do.  Sometimes, I wish very much that I did not know.  In a way, I long for the time when I did not know, and it did not matter if I knew or not, because someone would always be there to help bail me out if things went...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    I have a male friend

    that I have been very close to since middle school. We're the best of friends, and I tell him more things than I've ever told even my closest female friends. I'd never thought of him in a romantic way before, and honestly based on physical and some mental traits I've known...
    Eliste Eliste 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 11

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    My boss and I have the best relationship

    imaginable! We're like the perfect best friends. We're always talking to each other at work and he is the only person I actually feel comfortable talking about my feelings with. He listens and I listen, but today this lady at work told me that I shouldn't talk to him anymore...
    stef17 stef17 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    What are one supposed to do

    when their family is breaking apart, when the person they looked up to the most becomes the person they said they would never be, when you feel like everything that could go wrong has and there is no going back? Because I sure as he'll don't
    mjma mjma 16-17, F Jul 4

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    my mom constantly tells me how much she can't

    stand me. how much she's done with me. I have no one..
    caitlintagner caitlintagner 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Lonley Little Loser

    Im not usually the kind of person that can run around spilling their guts to people... but right now i dont think i have a choice... and since i have no friends and no family that i can talk to about all of this... i have turned to you... the World Wide Web. I am prepared for 99...
    lonleyloser lonleyloser 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 13, 2012

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    "When you grow older you realize there are two

    types of death, one the persons body goes away but thier soul still remains with you and you yet can feel them, and other is when you can see them and hear them but they are no longer with the soul you used to know and you realize its thier soul that had died, no matter what you...
    sollloo sollloo 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    i am from poor family.

    .............i have completed my 12th class........i like to study further(medicine)...........i've written medicine entrance exam,but i didn't get a seat.........now i have two options...1)get a seat by paying donation 2)wait one more year and write exam..............i like to...
    jimmybf jimmybf 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Why Is It So Hard To Love?

    I am lonely. Really, very lonely. I never told this to anyone, nobody would understand. I met him one beautiful day and I thought how lucky I was. But I was wrong. It was 2 years ago and I still love him like it was yesterday. He thinks we are just friends. He chosed another...
    Reita Reita 16-17 4 Responses Sep 10, 2010

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    My house is currently going into foreclosure.

    We do not have enough money to buy a new house nor do we have family that we can live with. We will be living in our car soon with three people and four pets. I cannot stay positive anymore. I do not know what to do.
    PrincessAphrodite PrincessAphrodite 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm having an emotional breakdown

    and honestly I don't know how to handle it. I love my step-father with all my heart and hate seeing him depressed. He won't tell me what is going on, and so all I know is he told his brother "life's hard right now, and also having a daughter don't make things any easier." I've...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I little while back I friended a guy named

    "hughgo" he seemed nice. We only talked on several occasions. Several nights back we were chatting, and I was discussing about my personal relationship with my husband. Those of you who are close to me, know what I am referring to. Apparently this did not sit well with him...
    heysho heysho 36-40, F 28 Responses Apr 8

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    I feel like lately I've been unlucky in love.

    Over and over again I get played by guys I've trusted and now I'm in a relationship that I thought was with a good guy because we've been friends forever but he's treating me like crap now that we're dating. It's barely been a month and I feel like the whole world decided to...
    alexmarie214 alexmarie214 18-21, F 2 Responses May 24

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    30 years old and I never took things seriously,

    all I want/ed is a life of success doing what I love doing. I wish I could go back and try to retrace when and where this period of unhappiness started, but what's done, its done, the past can not be changed. Often I found my self emerged in daydreams of success or waking up...
    duplexoutlet duplexoutlet 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Resume

    Whilst I’m sat here on my shelfPlease allow me to introduce myself.I’m Feeble People,Passing myself over.I am my Job.Not my Dream. So, Hi There, Label on a Lariat here, a manager of people;Certified, salaried, passionate, therefore fascinating.I’ll be calm under pressure...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    Motionless

    I don't know what to do when people cry, and not type of crying that is brought upon because of a movie, a book, or saying goodbyes to family which lives a great distance away. Im talking about the type of crying that breaks your own defences, it touches you beyond your physical...
    ObviousAnya ObviousAnya 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2013

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    Two days ago I was sick

    and yesterday and today I am feeling much better. I am still weak and not feeling perfect but I have a volleyball game tonight and I think I should play but I keep having second thoughts. I've told everyone that I'm fine but I really don't know if I should play or not. Any...
    username1230 username1230 13-15, F Jul 10

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    I don't know what's real anymore.

    I don't know what I feel and if what I think I do feel is real. I don't know who I am anymore. And I don't remember who I was. I feel so lost.
    Punk1n Punk1n 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    What Should I Do?

    There's this new guy on my school, he's gay too. i have a crush on him.. I really want to talk to him but: 1) his friends are really popular, scary and mean 2) he's two years older, and here' on my school we only talk to people of the same age. So It's weird if I would go ane...
    Glacidee Glacidee 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    The Letter I May Never Send..

    This letter is for you, the guy who managed to make me fall so deep in love with him and then rip my heart in half. What gives you the right.. to pick me up and chuck me whenever you feel like it? What gives you the right to fool my heart over and over again for your sad twisted...
    BeingSara BeingSara 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2012

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    My father has done so many things I am not

    proud of. But God, have I forgiven him? yes! problem is, my mother won't let me speak to him because she has not and will not forgive him. I do hurt so much when he sends me facebook messages asking me for forgiveness. asking me to be his friend. I never really had him around...
    mimosasgl mimosasgl 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't know what to post

    because I'm afraid people with judgmentally comment.
    SumtingWongg SumtingWongg 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    My dad got remarried a few months ago with the

    whole ceremony, to an awful goldigging woman. The worst part is, he didn't tell me or my brother, let alone invite us. I found out when an old childhood/family friend asked me if I knew. I never had a decent relationship with my dad. He was abusive and controlling and I was...
    jekkob jekkob 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 13

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    so I met this guy online on a chatting site in

    2012. He was 17, I was 16. We hit it off really well and he eventually asked me to be his girlfriend. I agreed. The only problem was that he lives in Cali and I live in Missouri. At the time I didn't really care. We shared alot about ourselves, family, goals, ect And we did...
    shay328 shay328 18-21, F Jul 7

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    My bf and I have been dating

    for 6 months. A little over a year ago him and his gf of 9 ys broke up because he did not want to marry her. He immediately rushed into our relationship. He wanted to tell her straight away he was dating somebody new and present me to his parents before I even knew him very...
    LD02 LD02 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 5

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    Help!!!!!

    I like this guy but all he talks about is sex and that's not what I want to talk about.. and I have a boyfriend so I can't really talk to him like that.. he also has a girlfriend.. I kinda just want him to back off
    orlandosgurl orlandosgurl 13-15, F Sep 8, 2013

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    I've dealt with an abusive father

    for most of my life. My biological dad nearly killed my mother on several separate occasions and my step dad had not only been physically violent but emotionally as well. I lived with my biological father up until I was 5 but my step father up until this point. Over the years...
    alexmarie214 alexmarie214 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Might not be pregnant.

    They only detected the sac. I'm 7weeks.
    hayhayes1 hayhayes1 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am currently 17 (male) years old attending my

    final term of high school before I'm off to college here in Canada. My mother was diagnosed with MS a year or so I was born. Her MS progressed as I aged and by the time I was 9 she had moved out to live in a nursing home. We simply couldn't take care of her at home anymore. I...
    TheChosenOne2981 TheChosenOne2981 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 26

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    i just went through a painful break up

    after 5 years 3 days ago and everyone is saying go out be with friends, and i do that but when i come home i just burst crying and ending up calling her trying to fix things out and she keeps saying no. and yes i know it will be better and ill be happy she is gone but right now...
    zerlad zerlad 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Dating a man that is married,

    and I knew he was married to going into it. It's been three months, I know I'm in love with this guy, I believe that he loves me, we know better than to say this. When he goes home to see his family on the weekends, and returns on Monday the first thing he talks about how much...
    rinda67 rinda67 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I am bord and I would like someone to randomly

    message me something and start a conversation. I am interested in your sexuality, I just want to talk.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 11

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    The guy I've been seeing behind all of our

    friends backs for 2 years, admitted he's not been able to take his mind of me, and that he loves me, and he said a few months ago he won't tell anyone he loves them until he means it, and he said it yesterday, but we were drunk, so did he really mean it😭
    Paigeykinns Paigeykinns 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    So here's my story. Im 28

    and I've had 4 serious relationships. The first went to war and met someone. The second we were together for 4 years engaged then one day he came home and said he thinks he never really loved me. The third basically the same thing. He said he never loved me. The fourth and the...
    SheWasJaded SheWasJaded 26-30, F 10 Responses May 26

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    I dont know how to start my life

    now that i have nothing.
    andrenah andrenah 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 24

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    Okay, about a year ago,

    the guy that I liked (let's call him... Bob - for convenience sake) and I were trying to get married. There were so many issues, specifically with his ridiculously conservative family that we were forced to break up. Eventually, I decided I wanted to move on and met this...
    Susumu999 Susumu999 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The Joys of a Dysfunctional Reltionship

    I am feel so overwhelmed with losing a part of me. The other half of me. My stability, my well being, my lover and partner. I feel so alone without him. It hurts to think about him. When we speak he tells me of his old found life of self-destruction. I miss him but I hate him. e...
    Helplessness Helplessness 19-21, F 3 Responses Sep 21, 2007

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    Okay, so for those who don't follow my

    experiences, this is about a guy who supposedly likes me, but told me after I got back with my current boyfriend, he didn't know I had gotten back with him. I told him, and he didn't text me or call me for a few days. We started texting again but not as much. Anyways he wants...
    annieannana annieannana 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I feel like high school is a total waste of

    time. I was going to drop out and start college so in the next year I'd already be in uni, but then I got few people who persuaded me not to. Now I feel like I'm stuck because I don't believe I'm learning anything of use. But sometimes I also feel like I'm just complaining!
    Lostied Lostied 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    My bf and I have completely hit rock bottom it

    feels like and I don't know what to do. His name is Steve and we've been dating for about 2.5 years now. We've been living together for the past year and a half. We met my freshman year of college and completely fell in love with each other from the moment we first hung out...
    kikipee kikipee 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    To wait till you start missing me

    or to tell you how badly I miss you. I am literally torn between these two. I want to talk to you so bad, tell you how much you mean to me, but I'm really scared to push you away. And then again, what I am most scared of is that you will never tell me you miss me if I remain...
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I just hate life. People say I'm hormonal

    as I'm a teenager but seriously I just have no friends. I'm not bullied or anything but I am ignored and get embarrassed easily. I cry every night. I don't know what to do
    hannahllama hannahllama 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Ever since me and girlfriend got together every

    single girl that I talked to before stopped talking to me. I understand that this is a necessity but sometimes I think it would be nice to have another lady to talk to other than my girlfriend and grandma lol. Is this wrong of me to think this way? I love my girlfriend so much...
    TRMB TRMB 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 7

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    My Life Is At A Dead End

    And I don't know what to do. My husband only married me because he felt kinda sorry for me and because I'm a good person, he wanted to give me a better chance in life. As such, he doesn't want to spend any time with me because he thinks right now he should be single. I love him...
    aliceslade aliceslade 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2010

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    You don't know what to do

    because you know for certain, in your right mind, that whatever you do or decide to do or end up being forced to/not to, either way - nothing good will at its best come out of it. I don't know what to do means there is nothing greater left to do. I don't know what to do is the...
    pforpaul pforpaul 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 27, 2013

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    AbsssMullenxo AbsssMullenxo 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    My friend and I have been bestfriends

    since seventh grade. We graduated high school in may. Sa out two weeks ago was the last time he talked to me. He invited my other friends places but not me. We were playing video games with some friends today and it seemed like he made every effort not to talk to me. I laughed...
    TRMB TRMB 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Crying Is A Crutch

    Whenever I got yelled at as a child and teen I used to cry. I couldn't help it I can't sit there and get yelled at and act like I'm made of stone. I was told over and over again that crying is a crutch and it gets you know where. Now I just sit there and keep it all in and just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    I met a guy. He just got out of a 7 year

    relationship. She moved out & he was looking for a place. She decided she wanted to stay and signed a one year lease with just her name on it and moved all of her things back in. He started looking for a hotel for himself and his dog. I told him to stay with me until he gets his...
    dammitjanit dammitjanit 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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