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I Dont Know Whether I Should Hate Him Or Love Him

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    I have been with my.husband since we were 16. We are 27 and 28 now. I have expressed my want for a baby for 2 years. He always said i had bad credit and too much debt right then. I finally paid off all my debt, have good credit and saved 10 grand. He now still says not yet and...
    aloneinthisworld27 aloneinthisworld27 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    Guys please help, do not know what to do,

    I know this guy for a month, we were missing each other, sending kisses by texting, talking on phone, and met for some time, now he has become cold, he does not call back, and when I call him, he says that he was waiting for my call, where was I, but he is a guy and he should...
    chicoSabina chicoSabina 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Made a Decision

    There have been a few men in my life that I have felt this way about.  I have made a decision that it is way to much effort to hate them after the love is gone.  I will like them or just be indifferent.  Life is to short to hate anyone.
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2008

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    We were together 2 different times

    and we are together for the 3rd time. But no one knows because everyone dosnt want us together what do I do
    lycaios lycaios 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    This is not about a real person.

    This is actually about fictional characters. You know the one that is actually the villain but they've got that twisted sense of humor and charm that you grow to sort of love. I just.... That's what's makes me want bad boys. But then I remember, bad boys in real life just do...
    3milyFaye 3milyFaye 18-21, F Mar 21

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    My Only True Love

    Six years ago I met the man who will forever be my one true love. I married him and then for the next several years I was so afraid of commitment that I threw him out and then dragged him back in a number of times; until he could take no more. He is now being very ugly to me and...
    Angel111302 Angel111302 46-50, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2006

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    I Will Always Love Him Even If...

    I will always love him even if he never returns my feelings for him. He has a special place in my heart.
    girlwhoalwayshasdrama girlwhoalwayshasdrama 19-21, F 2 Responses Jan 15, 2007

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    I fell in love with this one boy on Facebook

    were in a relationship right now but I'm his queen he's my king and I don't know if I love him or hate him he's never on that much but I love him now and forever
    AnnLittle AnnLittle 18-21, F Mar 24

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    2 years ago I started dating my first love.

    I'm 17 and he's 20 and we've been through a lot at this point .He's the only guy I ever truly felt loved me. I lost my virginity at 14 when I was sexually assaulted and ever since then I had been unable to feel close in relationships at all. Until I met this guy. We met through...
    spac3cadet spac3cadet 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Hes An Angel, But His Love Is Poison

    Addiction, jealousy rage anger tears. hate. Hugs kisses texts calls. love. why? i dont know... He is the most faithful man you will ever meet. His love is real. But he likes to put me down. I have been around long enough to know the phycological advances and reasons people do...
    TamaraKay TamaraKay 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2011

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    Be With Him Or Not

    When I was with him I was happier then I have ever been with a guy. He was sweet and never lied to me. One time though he broke up with me over the dumest thing and 5 hours later we got back together. Now laste week I broke up with him cuz I liked someone else or so I thought...
    JezzicaSixx JezzicaSixx 13-15, F May 23, 2011

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    Right Now I Hate Him!!

    GRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have just got of the phone to my "wonderful" hubby! He is so controlling...he is telling me I can't go out with my friends WTF! I don't think so somehow! It's okay for him to go out clubbing in Essex and London with his mates...but I can't...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2007

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    Clueless

    So I'm 13 bare with me. There is this guy. Hunter. Is is ehh atractj e and really a douch to most of the girls I got to school with. I dated him then he broke up w/ me Ovr txt saying we should b fwb ur I'm 13. Later tht night I though HE was sexting me by it was his bro. I still...
    Rjoe Rjoe 13-15 Apr 18, 2012

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    the Only Time He Seems Intr...

    the only time he seems intreasted in me is at 2am other wise i getno replys or anything. but i want to love him
    MissMadz MissMadz 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15, 2007

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    I have loved him since I was 13

    and I know people say you can't fall inlove when you are still in school but from the moment we first meet I knew that I loved him its weird to know that all I do is try to forget about him but when I'm with him my whole horible life I forget it and I'm so happy I just feel so...
    sadandalonegirl sadandalonegirl 16-17 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I Just Can't Hate Him

    though this guy broke my heart many times, i just can't hate him maybe because i still love him. he dumped me thrice, too pathetic right? but i kept on accepting him over and over again. i don't know why, i can't think of any reasons why i feel this way towards him. now, i'm...
    naejseth naejseth 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    That F***er Used Me!!!

    so i fell in love with a jerk... according to what he said to me on facebook yesterday he was dared to date me. why tell me this now months after we broke up? when we were together he seemed like the sweetest guy ever. so i fell deeply in love. he told me he wanted to marry me...
    angelofblood angelofblood 16-17, F Jul 8, 2012

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    So today I found out

    that the reason you left was because you were cheating Which makes things even worse Why did you cheat When you could have just broken up with me I loved you with all my might No one will ever love you like I do . It's the point right ? I'm sorry I wasn't better for you. I'm...
    lunasolis lunasolis 16-17, F Mar 16

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    On the Contrary, I Know Perfec...

    On the contrary, I know perfectly well which one.
    sondosia sondosia 18-21, F Jan 15, 2007

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    My boyfriend calls me a little child,

    just because I tell my friends about my relationship and ask them for advice and listen to them. He calls me a child because I'm 18 and still living with my parents and don't want to leave and being in a family of 8 being the second youngest I still do act like a child to my...
    rubina18 rubina18 18-21, F Jun 24

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    I don't know if I am emotionally unavailable

    or stupid. Or maybe I'm just ugly. WTF man, wtf.
    etraw2A368 etraw2A368 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    I have a celebrity crush on Jamie Campbell

    Bower. I don't know if I should love him or hate him. I wish we could meet one day but he wouldn't care. I'm one of the thousand people that like him. All I can hope for is for this obsession/crush to go away as soon as possible. It's hopeless and sad having a crush on a...
    Mia97 Mia97 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Worthless Is As Worthless Does

    I've been married for 13 years...It's never been easy because we grew up in two totally different ways. But it's getting harder, and he just keeps making it worse. I suffer from depression and eating disorders which means, yes, I have horrible self body issues. I learned long ago...
    Silvertwil Silvertwil 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 26, 2012

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    I Really Really Wonder About Him...

    I love this boy..his perfect his name was Masiyuki. I know Im just some kind of randomn loser but he hangs around me... Im terribly bad at my maths but you know this is Highschool. Masiyuki is soooo cute I love him alot I wonder about him I talk about him I talk him on the...
    Bayleef Bayleef 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    I'm Confused..i Need Help

    I've been with this guy for over 9 years now. First few years, it was rough. He was very violent. He did drugs, he hit me, he stabbed me, and he even tried to kill me. I tried to leave him then, but he would not let me, he would threaten to find me and kill me and my parents if I...
    confused802 confused802 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 16, 2011

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    I Think I Hate My Boyfriend

    My boyfriend and I are very serious. We have been in a four year relationship and we are getting ready to go down the marriage path. I love him so much. But, recently things have been very heated. We've had a couple large arguments which aren't completely rare, but these have...
    leelie leelie 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2013

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    He Will Never Know.

    I bet you he thinks its easy.  I bet you he think its a walk in the park.  I bet you he thinks I don't love him anymore.  But that is just what I want him to think.  I'll love him until the day I die.  But he'll never even know that.Loving him is tearing me apart. 
    Elatedtobe Elatedtobe 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2011

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    I hate myself for missing him.

    I hate him for making me feel like this. I hate how we used to be and love it at the same time, but then I start hating him and myself all over again. I hate how he can go on with his life, and never think about me. I hate how I can't do that because I'm the one who obviously...
    RightThroughMe RightThroughMe 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Yup Brandon. He says he loves me

    but every one else says he's a huge player with girls. I love it when I am in his muscular arms though . He makes me feel loved and safe .
    GraceUS99 GraceUS99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    He Cheated

    Boyfriend of 3+ years recently admitted to cheated. Im so angry, but so ready to forgive and take him back. But the trust is destroyed and so am I. I hate that I love him.
    KShae KShae 22-25 2 Responses Jan 20, 2011

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    I Feel That Hate Can Be a V...

    I feel that hate can be a very useless and personally damaging emotion however we all do it. it is in thwe aspect of how long we hate and can we let go that people get hung up. So while your question itself maybe true, it is my person feeling we should try and let hate go and...
    Midnightlvr1 Midnightlvr1 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 15, 2007

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    How I Love Him More Now Than Then

    I WAS WALKING DOWN THE STREET I SEEN THIS YOUNG GENTLEMEN I SAID TO HIM CAN I GET WITH YOUR P.G., AND HE WAS LIKE WHAT'S THAT? I SAID YOUR YOUR PROGRAM. HE SAID TO ME SURE! BUT SOMETIME I THINK I SHOULD OF KEEP WALKING WHEN I SEEN HIM. LOL
    angelawilliams8871 angelawilliams8871 36-40 Dec 28, 2011

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    My boyfriend keeps getting worked up the fact I

    had once drank alcohol with out him, I am a religious girl who actually did not drink before I met him and even now when he tells me to drink I didn't. The day I once drank at a pub with a friend, my boyfriend getting all worked up about it. I kind of understand like I'd hate...
    rubina18 rubina18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Whats Wrong??

    I recently(Oct.2012) started talking to a new guy everything was going great we talked everyday I didnt even mind that he NEVER texted me goodmorning or goodnight because whenever he did have time he made sure I was apart of it but he went to visit family in a different city...
    Lross20 Lross20 18-21, F Feb 13, 2013

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    F--- You

     This guy made me love again..when I finally achieved the status of being a cold *****...Now I'm so weak
    reset reset 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2010

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    Be With Him Or Not

    When I was with him I was happier then I have ever been with a guy. He was sweet and never lied to me. One time though he broke up with me over the dumest thing and 5 hours later we got back together. Now laste week I broke up with him cuz I liked someone else or so I thought...
    JezzicaSixx JezzicaSixx 13-15, F May 23, 2011

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    Again?

    He message me on fb. He askd do. Still have feeling for him. Yes I do but I dont want to tell him. He always does this to me. I feel as if want to tell me something but it gets mixed up n we end up fighting. Tue worst part is our prides. They are so big that ugh it stops us from...
    sabedoria sabedoria 18-21, F Jan 11, 2013

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    Ma Life Misery

    he left me so should i hate him or just let him go ?
    s12e20 s12e20 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2012

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    Security Or Love?

    It all started when I was 17.... A boy from my past was suddenly back in my life and making a lasting impression, he was funny, smart, and very attractive. It was easy to fall in love with someone who made you feel like something in life mattered and that you were not just a...
    beautifullyconfused beautifullyconfused 22-25, F Jun 21, 2011

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    So my boyfriend just left me

    and said he'll only come back to me if I end up pregnant. Right not I'm 50/50 that I may be, but going to wait for another month and see if I start my period. Firstly I just think what he'll only force love me only if I'm pregnant, and said I better get in contact with him only...
    rubina18 rubina18 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    he and I have been.on

    and off for a year now but never stopped sleeping.together. we are having a baby but I recently found out that he was also sleeping with anothrr woman no strings attached about 6 months ago. he told me and everyone how he ****** up and will do anything to fix it. he has been...
    tragedyhappens tragedyhappens 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    ~I Dont If I Will Love Him Or Hate Him..,~

    ~wAhhhHh!!..,~becAuse sometimes when im with him i feel he loves me too.., but sometimes his just ignoring me.., so thats why I dont know if im going to love him or not..,~  
    kk29 kk29 16-18, F Dec 28, 2007

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    There is some one I have known since I was in 4th grade and by the time we were juniors in High School we had become very close friends. He knew every thing about me, right down to when ever I tried to commit suicide or cut myself... But by the end of our Senior year he became...
    GTMarie GTMarie 18-21, F Oct 15, 2007

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    I Had A Wrong Love.

    He was the man I want to spent my life with, but he does not love me, so I did not insist. I still have pride, but I admit its always killing me. I want to end this feeling that i'm feeling for him. but dont know how to stop it. I tried everything but my love for has turned...
    emikei emikei 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2010

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    Sometimes It Feels Like That B...

    Sometimes it feels like that but in the end love prevails.
    sexybrownsuga sexybrownsuga 19-21, F Jan 14, 2007

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    Hangin' In Dead Air

    he courted me for at least a month and a half and i only said yes to him last February 18 through a phone call. I really don't know why i said yes. It is not my intention to hurt or just play with him, i just really don't know. I like him, he's sweet and caring. But i really don...
    mhel0w8 mhel0w8 18-21, F Feb 19, 2009

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    Cheating Men

    Did it ever occur to anybody that the moral and ethics code of the modern western world might be misguided? That monogamy is after all is said and done, impractical? If you poor ladies accept the fact that men are really created to have more than one woman at once you would not...
    ryksteman ryksteman 56-60, M 9 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    So Much History

    I sit here so upset with this man that I want to hate him in the worse way, but at the same time my heart is breaking for the indifference he is showing me right now. I have loved him for so long now that it is so natural. I cannot seem to get over him for some reason.He is...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 6 Responses Feb 12, 2008

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    I met him when I was a sophomore in highschool. I had a loving and caring boyfriend at the time but I liked a little spice. Being young and naive I had interest in this bad boy. I...
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    strong bond where we could tell each other anything and everything without any judgment. Our relationship was great physically and emotionally. I am however a virgin and he wasn't...
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