I Don't Know Who My Father Is

This is the place to be if you are clueless about the guy your mom had sex with to help make you. 71 People

    A Letter From Your Unknown Dad

    I don't know what you've been told, but I would never purposely hurt you. I don't care how you got here, or who your mother is, you are part of me, and hurting you is hurting myself. I know we have never met, but I want to explain something to you just in case we never do. There...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2013

    My mum passed away when I was eleven years old.

    Her sister and the husband took me in when I was two years old. They eventually adopted me as their own after my mum passed away. I never knew my father and know NOTHING about him. In fact no one in my mum's family has any idea who my father is. No name, where he's from, what...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 30, 2014

    Wish I Would Have Met My Dad

    It may seam that I can't miss him because I've not met him. But that's only a lie. Deep down there has always been a part of me that has been missing. I turned into a tomboy without my dad, probably would have been one with my dad. But a certain thing is missing when a little...
    PoemSinger45 PoemSinger45
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2011

    OKAY I'M A MOM AND AM LOOKING FOR A MAN NAMED

    JOE WHO WENT TO ARKANSAS TOWN OF NORTH LITTLE ROCK AND HE MEET A YOUNG GIRL AND GOT ME PREGNANT AT LEAST I THINK ITS HIM SINCE I FINALLY GOT A DNA TEST FROM OTHER POSSIBLE FATHER MARK AND HE AINT THE DAD SO NOW AFTER 32 YRS I AM STILL SEARCHING FOR MY DAUGHTERS FATHER HE WORKED...
    JACOBRAT36 JACOBRAT36
    51-55, F
    1 Response Feb 9

    I don't know who my birth father is.

    ... I was told he was this one guy since as long as I can remember. Age 3 or 4... So this summer I hired a PI to find this man. We found him and I had a DNA test and blood work with him... And it turns out he is not my father. My mother and I are not on speaking terms right now...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 19, 2015

    This is a very long post,

    so I apologize. I would be grateful for your adviceā€¦ I recently found out that my dad is not my biological father. The news was a big surprise to me as it was to my mother. My mother is an amazing woman full of love, and is the single most important person in my life. How can...
    aemegece aemegece
    26-30, F
    Jun 18, 2015

    My experience isn't as heartbreaking

    as some. My father is dead, however he died before I was born so I never had to deal or mourn the loss of him. Especially since I had the privilege of having a stepfather from age two, who I recognize as my Dad. I recently had the opportunity to have a relationship with my...
    poodahpop poodahpop
    22-25, T
    Mar 18, 2015

    I Don't Know Who My Father Is

    Five yrs ago my mother passed away and the man I thought was my father for 47 yrs decided to tell me that he wasn't my dad and was bitter for having worked and taken care of me through age 18. He passed away two yrs later and was estranged from me that whole time; never told me...
    mschihuahua1 mschihuahua1
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jun 11, 2012

    My mom has always said my father was a man

    named Craig. I tracked him down and he told me he had known my mom in high school but that he had never been intimate with her. He seemed sincere and wished me luck. I was given names of other men by my Granny and my uncles but all dead ends. I'm almost 42 and I doubt I'll ever...
    naknuwisha naknuwisha
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2014

    I just had a DNA test to prove

    that the man on my birth certificate is not my father. I am 46 and knew my whole life, but my mother was in deep denial. The man who is my father is dead. He had other children. All this happened in a fairly small town and some of my family knows the family of this man. I have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 22, 2015

    I have every reason to believe (too many to

    list) that my mother had an affair with her sister's husband and became pregnant with me. Because of her shame and fear of people finding out, she tried to smother me with a pillow. I was a very sickly child and had kidney and a blood disorder because of low iron and B12. I...
    hendrk01 hendrk01
    51-55, F
    May 6, 2014

    i tried looking for my dad amad bajo again

    today...im 24, i havent even seen him since i was 2 and i dont remember him at all. it always gets me very depressed. i think i found him and his sister, now its just a matter of getting them to talk to me...
    emoXkitty emoXkitty
    22-25, F
    Dec 26, 2014

    Who Is Dadee?

    Back in Russha me mothur was a ho and had sex with thousands of mens every year. Mommy got pregnat from the regimant of the russhan army she got ****** by for monies. Who is my daddee?
    russnmandee21 russnmandee21
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2012

    Family Secret

    I don't really know why I am here, I guess it's because I really don't know where else to go. I am 40 years old this year. When I was 33, my mom and I had a big blowup over my children. I a very heated argument my mom told me that my dad, was not my real father. At first I did...
    XSJohnK XSJohnK
    36-40, M
    Jan 28, 2011

    My mother claims she doesn't know how to find

    him. She said after I was born she ran into him in the mall. He said "Cute baby" and she told him it was his and he denied it. Then there was this rumor that my aunt caught my mom in bed with her husband. So that's a possibility. Not sure why this bothers me so much. I'm...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon
    31-35, F
    Sep 13, 2014

    My Real Father...

    I never know my real dad. At first I didn't care, but last year when my mom started getting in touch with people she slept with and trying to find out who my dad could possibly be, the more I thought about it. I have done one DNA test, but he turned out not to be. I did another...
    dirtyicing dirtyicing
    18-21, F
    Jul 11, 2012

    I don't know who my Father is?

    I was born in 1965, my mother was very promiscuous in the summer of love. I don't blame her for this. Life's been very tough without a dad. I will die never knowing.
    roots2life roots2life
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Aug 1, 2015
    BeYourBest007 BeYourBest007
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 20, 2015
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