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I Don't Know Who to Trust

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    People Are So Predictably Backstabbing

    It's hard to trust people anymore. People in this country (New Zealand) are very dishonest and they tend to do a lot of drugs and drinking and stuff like that. We have problems with child poverty, drinking, gangs and smoking and issues such as Maori rights which divide people...
    Franurtle Franurtle 26-30, M Nov 9, 2012

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    Smh On Trust

    i can only trust the most high,....sometimes i cant even trust myself.
    aliceinwonderment aliceinwonderment 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2010

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    Is It Just Me?

    Is it just me or lately everyone is SO predictable? You meet someone, both of you get closer and sometimes it doesn't get past stage 2 before you regret ever tried to have that someone as a friend... people are just too disappointing! Even if you get to know them for 3 to 4...
    soulme soulme 18-21, F Feb 13, 2010

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    Alone In My Head

    I don’t know who I can trust anymore, I feel so alone. My father raped me when I was 10 and I think it's affected me, whenever a boy tries to get close to me I cant trust him, people tell me I’m pretty but I don’t feel pretty, I feel disgusting... I just don’t know what...
    rosyberg rosyberg 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 27, 2011

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    Who?

    TRUST is defined as assured reliance on the character, ability, strength or truth of someone or something on in which confidence is placed.   Trust has always been an issue with me, as a child I was lead to believe that everyone's out to get you in some way, as I grew...
    drkiris drkiris 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    Nobody

    If I can't trust you, then we have a problem. I can trust 1 person in my life & thats about it.
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 14, 2009

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    Betrayed and Hurt

    Most of the times its my best friends that have really hurt me. All the people I trusted and loved n held close to my heart have left me one by one. In times of trouble, they refused to help me... Let alone help, they chose not to believe in me. And this has left an impact on my...
    Sofia Sofia 16-18, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2007

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    I Dont Fully Trust Many People

     its too hard , my whole life people have betrayed me and f'ed me over ... even people who were supposed to be my best friends ... i dont know  i feel that trust is earned not fully given and i wont give any of it to anyone for the most part ... i trust people when...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2007

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    The Greatest Risk

    Trusting man is always a risk.  Every man is prone to human weakness and no one is infallible. With that knowledge comes the fear of trust. Who do I trust?  Because, trust opens you up to the deepest hurts possible. The person you trust has the ability to hurt you when...
    eternalhope eternalhope 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 23, 2010

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    Last Sunday I had another anger episode. I took a baseball bat to the mailbox, I put my knee through some pictures, I punched a hole in the wall, and I said some things I think are...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Aug 9

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    Last Sunday I had another anger episode. I took a baseball bat to the mailbox, I put my knee through some pictures, I punched a hole in the wall, and I said some things I think are...
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    I feel like I've been suspended in space. I'm floating. Not living, just floating. It's like I've drifted out into the sea with no will to return home. I'm talking about losing...
    cecimaldonado cecimaldonado 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I really don't. I don't even know if I knew who I used to be or who I ever was. I have no purpose at the moment. I don't know where I'm going or where I want to go. Can I please...
    ImagineA ImagineA 16-17 4 days ago

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    I gave in and took three anti anxieties instead of just one. I'm not high. I'm in the lowest low I can imagine. Why do I do this to myself. I could have gone through my day without...
    NoraDysphoria NoraDysphoria 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I used to be a really nice and sweet girl. Really immature and innocent. That was 5 years ago. 3 years later I'm still the lil innocent girl who does not talk back. Did not even...
    MeXYours MeXYours 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I have been behind the shadow of people around me. As a kid, I was very shy so I couldn't talk to people, even to kids in my age. I had a very weak personality, I tend to follow...
    LuxDavid542 LuxDavid542 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    Honestly I'm sick of the damn search. I've been trying to find myself probably since middle school, and my confidence has dwindled and dwindled and dwindled to the point where I...
    SkyVision SkyVision 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    My sleep is so restless. I wake up so early every morning and sit in bed looking out the window for hours until I can feel my eyes close again and sink back down. I wake up once...
    wanderquietly wanderquietly 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I've changed so much these years it's unbelievable! I was such a sweet girl when I was little, but starting at age 12 I was a little dirty devil aha. Oh well, I don't worry that...
    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I use to be this girl with anger issues and now it seems that I don't have any anger. I am scared of the day that I'll snap and hate everyone and everything. But for now I am just...
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    It's been somewhere around seven months since I've posted here, and about eight months that I've been clean from adderall. I miss it everyday and constantly regret my decision to...
    Paige5 Paige5 18-21, F Jul 23

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    As I type I feel regret and doubt. I am: lonely, befuddled, pessimistic, overwhelming, depressing, apathetic, hypocritical, arrogant, lazy, careless, ugly, overweight, indecisive...
    LazarusMalice LazarusMalice 18-21, M Jul 29

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    On second I feel like who I always have been wise and nice playful funny sad chained stuck person I feel like what I call my second personality a sassy diva I want to slap on my...
    Dinosaurfanatic Dinosaurfanatic 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I've been living with this person I'm with, for three years now. He's the first man I've been with, the only man I've been with. And I haven't been honest with him...not at all...
    RedRidingHood97 RedRidingHood97 22-25 1 Response Jul 28

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    After a very long time I am writing here anything. Just feel like figuring out why I do things that I do everyday can't seem to find a proper answer except for doing everything for...
    aloserlikeme aloserlikeme 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    MsRugbygirl19 MsRugbygirl19 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    My husband and I are going through something very personal right now and it's slowly tearing our marriage apart. All I can say here is I hurt him and made him feel like I didn't...
    Justalicia Justalicia 31-35, F Aug 4

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    I feel as if I truly don't have a personality, or I don't know who I am. What makes me, me? What is so different or special about myself that differentiates me from others. Who am...
    Genesisandstuff Genesisandstuff 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I love him, yes I want him to be mine, yes But it’s impossible, yes I’m having hard time defining what we have been going through. I’m having hard time positioning myself to...
    HikoukiGumo HikoukiGumo 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Yesterday, I went to a university to take a test with my review-mates. I had fun because I met a lot of people from other review centers and befriended them but I had this feeling...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F Aug 11

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    I don't know it all and some tell me I know a lot for someone my age. I like to learn and I know that I really won't or never will know it all. Some people don't want to know...
    KawaiiDemon KawaiiDemon 18-21 2 hrs ago

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    Honestly I need I girlfriend. I don't know why but the girls at my school always go for the douches while the actual popular people (im a part of) get none of them. Im nice, I care...
    GingaJustice GingaJustice 13-15, M 8 hrs ago

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    I don't know where I'm heading, but I'll try my best to keep going, because I want to be "there" so fûcking badly
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M 1 hr ago

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    I have been talking to this guy named Warner close to 3 years. We would only Skype, text (rarely), and message on Facebook because he lives in another country. I know that people...
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    I have no clue what career I want to pursue although I have Ideas but I haven't made up my mind yet. I love biology and I sort of conquered chemistry this year although it was...
    l212 l212 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I need to write this somewhere to get it out of my head. I have been feeling extremely suicidal recently and I just had one of the most disturbing yet eye-opening dreams. I...
    SaphiraJane SaphiraJane 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Is there anyone out there who can tell me who, or what I am... If you can please tell me, I don't know. Story: My mother did not expect to be pregnant, after I was born I remember...
    kierra172 kierra172 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I get into these relationships that seem to be going really well and then it's like as soon as we get serious, everything goes wrong. I live with my boyfriend who I've been with...
    Christuh Christuh 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    So I'm a trans guy, female to male, and only one who knows this my psychologist. I still don't know how they haven't discovered it... My friends, family, almost everyone knew that...
    LeoThePandaHero LeoThePandaHero 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    With all this Robin Williams suicide discussion, I have had a nerve hit. I am 22 years old and lost my uncle to suicide when i was 18. He was only 28 and was very close to me. I...
    MrJosiah MrJosiah 22-25, M Aug 12

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    Hmmm there are so many things I really feel inadequate to deal with. stupidity being at the top of the list. I can't. I don't know how to. It's that simple. My passive aggressive...
    Lovinu0429 Lovinu0429 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Hey everyone, Last night when my boyfriend and I got home from a nice family gathering.....he found out his friend passed away who served in Afghanistan with him. I don't know...
    sarah143757 sarah143757 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 4 days ago

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    I don't know either i'm loving him or not, although I'm doing everything to please him and let him love me, I never was that nice with anyone as much as I do with him, he is not...
    Fireywavee Fireywavee 26-30, F Aug 5

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    So this girl who lives near me keeps showing up at my house unexpected and uninvited. She is really strange and today she slapped my little brother with a fish and molested my...
    Curiousgirl1999 Curiousgirl1999 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    As a kid my parents were never the affectionate type, never said 'I love you', never hugged or kissed each other let alone us kids. I wouldn't say I had a bad childhood as we had a...
    megannicole1996 megannicole1996 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    I'm trying to be positive, trying to find a hobby to keep myself occupied, but it's not working. It probably doesn't help that its the start of the summer holidays and my son is at...
    russianpenguin23 russianpenguin23 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 25