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I Dont Like Anal Sex

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    Nope. Don't like it.  Tried it, I am open to anything, but it just isn't my cup of tea. 
    Michiganmom Michiganmom 46-50, F 1 Response May 8, 2008

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    And This Is Why

    Although I have never tried anal sex with either a woman or a man, I do not want to go down that road. One of my girl friends did want to penetrate her anally but I refused. If I am honest, I have to admit that my disinclination is on aesthetic grounds; I see the anus as an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 9, 2013

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    We has human are curious and like to experiment.  Whether we admit it or not, many did try it or are bound to.  We do need using lots of lube and be relaxed when performing anal.  I personally tried it once and did not like it, it is very painful. ...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 2, 2010

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    I Dont Understand

    i dont understand why people like this, it seems like such an act of humilation. it just stands against everything i believe to be beautiful and joyous about sex maybe for others but not something i could ever believe in
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2008

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    Coprophobia Perhaps?

    I know this is actually quite hypocritical, I have no desire to place my penis in a woman's (certainly not a man's) ***. I LOVE "*** play" as it is called. A little *******. Some skilled tickling. Perhaps one joint or two of a digit, I'm good with. Somehow it crosses a line for...
    milkit7 milkit7 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 1, 2011

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    Want To Stop

    always wanted to try anal and when i finally did it wasnt anything special well i didnt think so anyway.the inserting part when id slowly push it in would feel really good but as soon as you start going in and out as normal then the tight feeling completely goes and its like your...
    gudfella gudfella 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 15, 2011

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    No Thanks...

    I'm very open sexually, but one thing that I hate and will never do again is anal. Tried it once, and it hurt. Yeah yeah, I know 'I have to get use to it first' Well I don't care how use to it other people are, to me, that area is an exist only, ok? Not an entrance. lol
    SmexiKay SmexiKay 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 11, 2010

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    No matter what you say to me or do to me I will not try anal. I have been raped anally and I couldn't get it out of my head for a long time. I hate when guys try to talk me into it because I just break down. I am not a fan. It hurts. I like a little pain with my pleasure don't...
    wh0r3 wh0r3 18-21, F Oct 18, 2012

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    No Thank You

    It ****** hurts so I'd rather have sex the traditional wayy
    joycub joycub 18-21, F Feb 25, 2013

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    My Partner Loves It?!?!?! Gay

    Hey all,I hate the idea of bum (you know what!!), I have tried it once but it hurt and was very degrading.My partner mentions it alot, jokey and I always say never again. Why does he want to???? Gay men do it to each other I suppose to feel the intimacy we get from sex but why do...
    dollyrose4 dollyrose4 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 19, 2010

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    If Some One Stuck There D**k In My A** Id Punch Them In the Throat

    i love gay guys...they can do it all they want....but if some one does it to me thats it...its painfull...id have to be a gay male and really love whoever i was with...even then...it would probally not happen..id like to get to the bottom (lol) of why gay guys do it..i have had...
    helentheripper14 helentheripper14 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 3, 2008

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    No, Thank You.

    It just... doesn't feel good... I think I've mentioned this is another story somewhere, but to me, it just feels like pooping in reverse. Stuff's meant to come out. Not go in. So not fun.
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2007

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    No Anal!

    This tush is for grabbing purposes only. I did anal once, and the guy was a *****! His voice got all high pitched "OH thats so tight" That was not attractive to me. blaaaaaaaaaaah He sounded like someone punched him in the gut but he liked it. eguh.
    ShirtlessBetty ShirtlessBetty 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 20, 2011

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    I Dont Like Anal Sex

    My husband has been on me to take it up the ***... literally....we have tried several times and it HURTS. We have tried lube and several different positions to make it work. I told him hes too big but he says hes not b/c hes seen **** where the guy is huge. He really pushes this...
    cherrybomb17 cherrybomb17 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Because Of My First Anal Experience

    My first anal experience may have put me off, but I have never really gotten to like it. Though I have allowed many things to ne inserted up my ***. My first time was at a outdoor Sex BBQ in tropical Queensland. It was out the back of a big house just out of town., quite...
    painpuppy painpuppy 41-45, M Nov 20, 2010

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    Can't Say I Do R Don't

    I tryed "it" with my guy 2 years ago and I did not like it... I let him try "it" the other night and i just felt like i had to ****, sorry,  but at one point for one second it felt good so .. I'm going to give this another try but with lub.
    MomaLibra MomaLibra 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2008

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    No Hurry To Repeat It!

    Ive had anal sex with four different partners (two of them were as a ********* and took turns to have anal with me when I was drunk and stupid) and never really enjoyed it any of those times. My ex found it a massive turn on to have me anally, but enough was enough when our...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Ucky

    I'm sure it's great for people who like it. but for me it's just painful, humiliating, and disturbing. I don't get why boys would do that to girls *LOL* It seems more like something boys would do to boys.
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 25, 2008

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    Haven't Tried It Yet

    My wife is curious about it, but I feel that it would be painful and messy. Once posted a question about it in a sex site, and someone suggested using a enema with perfume before having anal sex. A friend told me that the penetration would be less painful if it is done gradually...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 6, 2008

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    A Man's Perspective...

    Sodomites shall BURN in hell!!! Now that I've got your attention. Let me tell you why I don't really fancy anal sex. This will probably shock you but even I as a guy don't find anal sex appealing. It's the whole biological aspect that disturbs me. In my mind, that area is for...
    Scorpio1987 Scorpio1987 22-25, M Jun 28, 2012

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    Fun to talk about and even more fun and sexy to experience it. But really sexy to hear others experiences :)
    WhereIsHome WhereIsHome 36-40, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Reiomnion Reiomnion 26-30, T 1 Response Apr 13

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    I love anal and my boyfriend loves giving it
    100slut 100slut 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    Is it me or do I find anal better than vaginal for more pleasure
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