I Don't Like Arguments

There are better ways to communicate. 2,194 People

    It's Not About Being Right Or Wrong

    Everyone has their own point of view, and when it differs from someone else their point of view, people often try to make clear how 'right' they are and how 'wrong' the other person is. Bad idea! TRY to UNDERSTAND each other, and LISTEN to each other. Do not start blaming each...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 9, 2011

    My parents used to argue constantly

    when I was a child. I always hid in my room and pretended I couldn't hear them. My father used to yell at me so loud that loose my breath. I still have issues being around loud people...
    PoetPrincess85 PoetPrincess85
    31-35, F
    Nov 23, 2014

    Do you guys think it IS possible

    for a husband and wife to live together and never argue once? obviously it's unlikely but can it happen and still be healthy?
    danondorf danondorf
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014
    babel123456 babel123456
    26-30, M
    Dec 29, 2014

    My boyfriend and I just had our first

    misunderstanding tonight. It wasn't a huge misunderstanding but I still felt terrible about it. It was one of those things that started of as a joke then with sarcasm mixed into it, it turned into something a bit more. I'm not gonna go to the details of it since that would be...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    22-25, F
    Mar 7, 2016

    I hate arguing but I love to rant.

    Usually when I'm trying to explain my opinion, people just take it too far and try to start something. I'm not saying I haven't done it myself, but I prefer not to have an argument so I'll try not to start one.
    Skuggington Skuggington
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 24, 2014

    Life Is Too Short!

    I think arguments are a waste of time! Life is too short for fights! Now I do understand that people won't always agree on things. Sometimes your personality will clash with someone else's. Sometimes someone will just get on your very last nerve!!! But I still don't think that...
    RaggedyAnn RaggedyAnn
    26-30, F
    May 7, 2007

    I always avoid them because I think it's just a

    waste of energy and it has no point, whatever who wins. I think it's just based of anger.
    whitenut whitenut
    18-21, F
    Apr 21, 2015

    I wish people would here me out

    and I just ug help
    deleted deleted
    Oct 16, 2015

    Life is too short! There's no point in

    arguments, all they do is cause upset D:
    lostsoul4888 lostsoul4888
    22-25, F
    Apr 23, 2015

    I am not a fighter. I don't like the negativity

    of an argument. they scare me so much I will always retreat. hence my experiences amd my life. some thrive on arguments I just am not that person.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 26, 2015

    So I had a fight with a friend the other day,

    that night he got into a wreck. Luckly he was ok. This taught me that life isn't promised.
    Runenox Runenox
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2015
    deleted deleted
    Aug 21, 2015

    If I see people arguing,

    then I will try to break it up. If someone trys to start one with me, I will remain calm and try to make him/her calm as well. If that fails, I just walk away. ~ Lys ♪
    LysChan LysChan
    22-25, F
    Sep 27, 2015

    Arguments, Fights...

    I grew up in an environment where the way to settle your differences was debate, discussion, compromise. I am so ill equipped to deal with people fight and yell and throw insults around. It totally destroys how I feel towards the other person. In what I have experienced in...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat
    41-45, F
    Feb 15, 2011

    it's not that I don't

    or do like arguments or that i look to stir one up but if one happens yes I'll defend myself. if I see someone being cornered I will help them. I know how to stand my ground. and I know how to back someone up. that's both online and offline.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 9, 2015

    Because I'm the end we

    both just look like to idiots talking **** to one another
    caiseyi caiseyi
    26-30, F
    Mar 29, 2015

    I dislike arguing. I want to have a discussion,

    not argue. I also dislike listening to other people argue, even if it's from a tv show or movie. I will walk out if others are arguing and I will skip/mute my show if the characters are arguing too much...
    oyhoy oyhoy
    26-30, F
    Sep 27, 2015
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Apr 24, 2015

    I searched for "hate arguments",

    but I couldn't find it.. I think I had the most arguments with my current ex..lol..she was both my heaven n hell.. it was like dying everytime we had a fight.. and rebirth with the love we had n got back to each other.. I love that woman.. but I guess we were nt meant to be...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i
    70+, M
    2 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    Arguments literally make me sick to my stomach

    so I try to address the underlying issues early on and nip conflict in the bud before it turns into a full-blown argument.
    utahwriter utahwriter
    41-45, M
    Jun 7, 2014

    What do you mean? Ohh ohh ohh When you nod your

    head yes But you wanna say no What do you mean? Hey yeah When you don't want me to move But you tell me to go What do you mean? Ohh What do you mean? Said we're running out of time What do you mean? Ohh ohh ohh What do you mean? Better make up your mind What do you mean?
    redDya91 redDya91
    26-30, F
    Mar 30, 2016
    babel123456 babel123456
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jan 3, 2015

    I got into an argument with my cousin

    and I told her "that's why you love math because you're the least common denominator" Ha, I won!
    3dayweekend 3dayweekend
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    But I Always Have :(

    I dont like arguments at all .. I wish ppl could talk to each other softly .. but sadly its not always like that in the real life .. especially when ppl are in high-tempered mood, that leads to the hell arguments ... :(
    DollyDiva DollyDiva
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 4, 2009

    I totally switch off

    when someone raises their voice. I just never have the same level of energy as the other person in an argument. I'm soft spoken by nature. I prefer TALKING and LISTENING with an understanding of each others emotions. But boy it's such a wonderful feeling when the other person...
    Cocopunch Cocopunch
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 3, 2014

    Arguments with my crush.

    .. He'd giving me mix signals and stuff... -sad-
    HazeyHaley HazeyHaley
    16-17, F
    Apr 23, 2015

    "Always say goodnight with a kiss,

    never an argument." Not tonight, apparently. :/
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 4, 2014

    I'm the least argumentative person,

    I can't even remember the last time I raised my voice in anger. I would much rather try and talk it out then get into an argument. That **** is exhausting.
    0815Jade 0815Jade
    22-25, F
    Nov 24, 2014

    Arguments are an unfortunate part of small

    group communications. Some arguments can indeed be productive if used right, but a lot of times they can get out of control and become forceful, trying to convince your fellow group members of your point of view through yelling or anger. When an argument gets close to being to...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 24, 2015

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11
    26-30, F
    Jan 3, 2015

    I try and stay out of arguments on social

    network sites. They're just ridiculous and usually filled with people who think they know everything. I avoid Feminist vs anti feminist Atheists vs theists Political arguments I can't remember what else but hey it's morning time, I'm sleepy. Anyway, I believe what I believe, I...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2014

    I don't like rude comments.

    Especially when you create fights with it that are pointless in the end.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    Jun 28, 2015


    When someone is mad at me, especially if it is a special one, I'm overwhelmed by impotence.  I don't know how to react or what to do.  The harm has been done.  There I am, the guilty one, and I don't think of picking up the pieces.  Every argument is a...
    moreandless moreandless
    56-60, M
    6 Responses Mar 12, 2010

    Especially when my mom

    and my aunts my mom's sisters argue I had to go into the bathroom so I didn't have to hear them argue
    bandit5320 bandit5320
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 27, 2015

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11
    26-30, F
    Jan 3, 2015

    No Arguments Please

    I am always inspired by the rock solid men who speak less, do more and always have an impact when they say something. They speak and argue so less, that when once in a while they speak, everybody starts to listen to them. I speak very less. But there are some stimulating things...
    MeAgainstMyself MeAgainstMyself
    Jun 20, 2013

    It depends what kind.

    .. Smart arguments (aka debates) arent bad but arguments that have violence and loses control, I dont.
    Amy107 Amy107
    18-21, F
    Nov 24, 2014

    I Hate The Sound Of 'bla Bla Bla' In The Morning

    I'm at a point in my life were turning the other cheek is becoming difficult. I like things simple, thorough, and to the point. I really love to relax and have peace, I know that stress is apart of life, but I don't like fussing and fighting. I can respect a different opinion...
    1LongingRose 1LongingRose
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2012

    My step daughter is yelling

    and my husband is trying to calm her down. I can't handle when she yells. I'm scared and can't deal with people yelling.
    PoetPrincess85 PoetPrincess85
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2014

    my wife isn't happy with an argument.

    she wants to destroy my life
    TheDevilsSon666 TheDevilsSon666
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 3, 2015

    The sad truth is that families fight,

    husbands and wives attack, neighbors feud, friends and coworkers criticize and children rebel
    Aaaashton Aaaashton
    26-30, F
    Jun 27, 2015

    I Try To Make Peace With God's Love And Help

    When there is an argument, I try to make peace. If it cannot be helped, I will do what I can to make the situation better. If nothing works, I try to pray ,and help me through the situation. I know in many cases God will help me through. If nothing does work out, than I leave the...
    Alicehath Alicehath
    56-60, F
    Sep 22, 2013
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