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I Don't Like Arguments

There are better ways to communicate. 1,822 People

    Impotence

    When someone is mad at me, especially if it is a special one, I'm overwhelmed by impotence.  I don't know how to react or what to do.  The harm has been done.  There I am, the guilty one, and I don't think of picking up the pieces.  Every argument is a...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 6 Responses Mar 12, 2010

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    My step daughter is yelling

    and my husband is trying to calm her down. I can't handle when she yells. I'm scared and can't deal with people yelling.
    FantasyDreamerWriting FantasyDreamerWriting 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    I'm the least argumentative person,

    I can't even remember the last time I raised my voice in anger. I would much rather try and talk it out then get into an argument. That **** is exhausting.
    0815Jade 0815Jade 22-25, F Nov 24, 2014

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    Especially when my mom

    and my aunts my mom's sisters argue I had to go into the bathroom so I didn't have to hear them argue
    bandit5320 bandit5320 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    But I Always Have :(

    I dont like arguments at all .. I wish ppl could talk to each other softly .. but sadly its not always like that in the real life .. especially when ppl are in high-tempered mood, that leads to the hell arguments ... :(
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    I totally switch off

    when someone raises their voice. I just never have the same level of energy as the other person in an argument. I'm soft spoken by nature. I prefer TALKING and LISTENING with an understanding of each others emotions. But boy it's such a wonderful feeling when the other person...
    Cocopunch Cocopunch 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F Apr 24

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F Apr 24

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bettycc11 bettycc11 26-30, F Apr 24

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    No Arguments Please

    I am always inspired by the rock solid men who speak less, do more and always have an impact when they say something. They speak and argue so less, that when once in a while they speak, everybody starts to listen to them. I speak very less. But there are some stimulating things...
    MeAgainstMyself MeAgainstMyself 31-35 Jun 20, 2013

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    babel123456 babel123456 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 3

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    Arguments are an unfortunate part of small

    group communications. Some arguments can indeed be productive if used right, but a lot of times they can get out of control and become forceful, trying to convince your fellow group members of your point of view through yelling or anger. When an argument gets close to being to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 24

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    Converted Converted 46-50, M Mar 22

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    I searched for "hate arguments",

    but I couldn't find it.. I think I had the most arguments with my current ex..lol..she was both my heaven n hell.. it was like dying everytime we had a fight.. and rebirth with the love we had n got back to each other.. I love that woman.. but I guess we were nt meant to be...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 3 Responses Apr 26

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    "Always say goodnight with a kiss,

    never an argument." Not tonight, apparently. :/
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2014

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    It's Not About Being Right Or Wrong

    Everyone has their own point of view, and when it differs from someone else their point of view, people often try to make clear how 'right' they are and how 'wrong' the other person is. Bad idea! TRY to UNDERSTAND each other, and LISTEN to each other. Do not start blaming each...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2011

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    I kinda just got in a argument with a guy

    because I didn't share the same beliefs as him. I still don't. Going back in forth with him didn't make me feel good because I knew we would never come to an understanding but I argued my point because it is my belief and I don't understand how someone could be mad at what I...
    bmorev bmorev 22-25, F Apr 24

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    So I had a fight with a friend the other day,

    that night he got into a wreck. Luckly he was ok. This taught me that life isn't promised.
    Runenox Runenox 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 23

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    babel123456 babel123456 26-30, M Dec 29, 2014

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    Do you guys think it IS possible

    for a husband and wife to live together and never argue once? obviously it's unlikely but can it happen and still be healthy?
    danondorf danondorf 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 3, 2014

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    It depends what kind.

    .. Smart arguments (aka debates) arent bad but arguments that have violence and loses control, I dont.
    Amy107 Amy107 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    Arguments literally make me sick to my stomach

    so I try to address the underlying issues early on and nip conflict in the bud before it turns into a full-blown argument.
    utahwriter utahwriter 41-45, M Jun 7, 2014

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    But I never say anything about it.

    My parents like arguing just outside my room and it just came to the point that I don't get suprised anymore and just wait for either my mom or dad to get out of the house after a few shouts directed to each other and drive away and come home two hours after without facing or...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 18-21, F Oct 5, 2014

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    Arguments with my crush.

    .. He'd giving me mix signals and stuff... -sad-
    HazeyHaley HazeyHaley 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    Because I'm the end we

    both just look like to idiots talking **** to one another
    caiseyi caiseyi 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I don't like rude comments.

    Especially when you create fights with it that are pointless in the end.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton 22-25, F Jun 28

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    I don't like Arguments My heart beat Fast

    When I'm about to fight or get into a argument I don't know why
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Oct 5, 2014

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    Non-confrontational--to A Fault

    I can't stand disagreements.  It's not that you have to see things my way; you're just wrong.  So stop trying to shove your point down my throat.  Get your facts straight and then try again.  I'm perfectly willing to acknowledge when I'm wrong, but you have to...
    DopeyGirl DopeyGirl 31-35, F 15 Responses Jan 13, 2010

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    Life is too short! There's no point in

    arguments, all they do is cause upset D:
    lostsoul4888 lostsoul4888 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    Arguments Terrify Me, Even If ...

    Arguments terrify me, even if they've got nothing to do with me. I hate people screaming. And I hate being caught in the middle of older people's conflicts. When I feel I have to stop everyone from hurting but can't. I can't choose sides - it kills me.
    Semety Semety 18-21, F Feb 6, 2008

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    I hate arguing but I love to rant.

    Usually when I'm trying to explain my opinion, people just take it too far and try to start something. I'm not saying I haven't done it myself, but I prefer not to have an argument so I'll try not to start one.
    Skuggington Skuggington 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    My parents used to argue constantly

    when I was a child. I always hid in my room and pretended I couldn't hear them. My father used to yell at me so loud that loose my breath. I still have issues being around loud people...
    FantasyDreamerWriting FantasyDreamerWriting 26-30, F Nov 23, 2014

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    I try and stay out of arguments on social

    network sites. They're just ridiculous and usually filled with people who think they know everything. I avoid Feminist vs anti feminist Atheists vs theists Political arguments I can't remember what else but hey it's morning time, I'm sleepy. Anyway, I believe what I believe, I...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    I had an argument with my wife tonight

    which began from something simple and ended with us shouting and her crying. I hated every minute of it, but we make up eventually.
    Kumaji Kumaji 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 10, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    miimii0069 miimii0069 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I Hate The Sound Of 'bla Bla Bla' In The Morning

    I'm at a point in my life were turning the other cheek is becoming difficult. I like things simple, thorough, and to the point. I really love to relax and have peace, I know that stress is apart of life, but I don't like fussing and fighting. I can respect a different opinion...
    1LongingRose 1LongingRose 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    The sad truth is that families fight,

    husbands and wives attack, neighbors feud, friends and coworkers criticize and children rebel
    Aaaashton Aaaashton 22-25, F Jun 27

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    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Apr 24

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    Arguments, Fights...

    I grew up in an environment where the way to settle your differences was debate, discussion, compromise. I am so ill equipped to deal with people fight and yell and throw insults around. It totally destroys how I feel towards the other person. In what I have experienced in...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Feb 15, 2011

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    Life Is Too Short!

    I think arguments are a waste of time! Life is too short for fights! Now I do understand that people won't always agree on things. Sometimes your personality will clash with someone else's. Sometimes someone will just get on your very last nerve!!! But I still don't think that...
    RaggedyAnn RaggedyAnn 26-30, F 1 Response May 7, 2007

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    I'm off to sleep !!!!

    !!! I hope I won't dream about my ******* ex tonight why I do I dream about her after she brutally dumped me the little ******* thing !?!?!
    babel123456 babel123456 26-30, M Oct 7, 2014

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    I always avoid them because I think it's just a

    waste of energy and it has no point, whatever who wins. I think it's just based of anger.
    whitenut whitenut 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    I am not someone that you can easily pull in to your life. I will abandon you if I have to, this goes for ANYONE at all. I don't care.
    PrestoAgitato PrestoAgitato 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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