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I Don't Like Arguments

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    I hate arguments there is no need

    for them really, I have spent too many years screaming and shouting but now I have become calm and laid back. Me and my husband spend 24/7 with each other and our arguments now are a few raised words then cuddles lol. We hardly ever row these days and some may say it's not...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    For All You Men Out There: Guess What

    There's a reason why people always say 'never argue with women'. First of all, in our minds, we are always right even when we're not. Whether we are right or not isn't even the point at all. Shocking discovery isn't it? Why would we argue if it isn't about proving we are...
    kimmy159 kimmy159 22-25, F 5 Responses May 22, 2013

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    What's your opinion on this situation: 2

    friends jokingly frape there friend on a group chat and say some things a bit to mature for the ppl in the group chat but the 2 friends didn't mean to cause any serious trouble. Mother of person from group chat is very angry even though no one in specific was targeted at all but...
    ImagineTheMelody ImagineTheMelody 13-15, F Feb 19

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    I Try To Make Peace With God's Love And Help

    When there is an argument, I try to make peace. If it cannot be helped, I will do what I can to make the situation better. If nothing works, I try to pray ,and help me through the situation. I know in many cases God will help me through. If nothing does work out, than I leave the...
    Alicehath Alicehath 56-60, F Sep 22, 2013

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    Thoughts

    How do I save my relationship? We argue everyday! Every time i turn around she's talking to other guys. A week before our 3 year anniversary she was talking to a guy about how wet her ***** was. I feel like I can't trust her. When I get anywhere near her phone even to check the...
    Harisu Harisu 18-21, M May 30, 2013

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    I Don't Typically Like

    I don't typically like real arguments.  I only like them if it's a stupid one, like the ones me and my best friend have about which one of us Johnny Depp would rather be with... we actually get a little mad or jealous to the point that it just is super funny.  However...
    AshleyVanC AshleyVanC F Feb 6, 2008

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    Its One of Those Things That I Fear...

    i hate arguing it is one of those things that makes me want to sit in a corner in a ball all alone. it doesnt matter if im in the argument or even if it is people i know.
    Silentlife Silentlife 18-21, M Aug 10, 2008

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    Stop Screaming.

    Imagine this. Its 6 in the morning and you just fell asleep a couple hours ago.. then you hear banging on the walls and glass breaking.. its pitch dark in the house and you have no idea whats going on.. then you hear she screaming... stepmom fighting with dad... again.. you try...
    love071 love071 13-15, F Nov 24, 2012

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    Life Is Too Short!

    I think arguments are a waste of time! Life is too short for fights! Now I do understand that people won't always agree on things. Sometimes your personality will clash with someone else's. Sometimes someone will just get on your very last nerve!!! But I still don't think that...
    RaggedyAnn RaggedyAnn 26-30, F 1 Response May 7, 2007

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    Be A Peacemaker

    Sometimes there are people who bother me so much I want to scream. But i've learned personally that fighting and arguing doesn't sollve anything. There are alot of people who haven't learned to control their anger. So they just let it out. With absolutly no consideration for...
    brenabey brenabey 13-15 2 Responses Aug 15, 2012

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    Got Love...?

    I sent my girlfriend a mornin text what i though wouldve been romantc but aperently she found it scary an creepy.. Without meaning to she called me a creep.. Why the **** do i even try to be romantic an **** if clearly all it does is blow up in my face. Starting to think im meant...
    Idkvince Idkvince 18-21, M Sep 30, 2013

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    I Panic

    I hate it when people raise their voices.  Obviously, it upsets me more if their raised voices are aimed at me, but I feel equally as uncomfortable when people near me are being shouted at.  It makes me start to panic and then I'll usually just cry.  This is part...
    Ryuuzaki Ryuuzaki 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    No Arguments Please

    I am always inspired by the rock solid men who speak less, do more and always have an impact when they say something. They speak and argue so less, that when once in a while they speak, everybody starts to listen to them. I speak very less. But there are some stimulating things...
    MeAgainstMyself MeAgainstMyself 26-30 Jun 20, 2013

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    Stop Screaming.

    Imagine this. Its 6 in the morning and you just fell asleep a couple hours ago.. then you hear banging on the walls and glass breaking.. its pitch dark in the house and you have no idea whats going on.. then you hear she screaming... stepmom fighting with dad... again.. you try...
    love071 love071 13-15, F Nov 24, 2012

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    Not Only a Waste of Time..

    Also a waste of energy! It's so sad to see all these people being totally down because of an argument. Life would be so much better if everyone felt like talking in a calm way and not shouting. It's okey to discuss.. But shouting does not mean discussion.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 3, 2007

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    Non-confrontational--to A Fault

    I can't stand disagreements.  It's not that you have to see things my way; you're just wrong.  So stop trying to shove your point down my throat.  Get your facts straight and then try again.  I'm perfectly willing to acknowledge when I'm wrong, but you have to...
    DopeyGirl DopeyGirl 31-35, F 15 Responses Jan 13, 2010

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    I Can Shout

    I don't like arguments but i'm very often in an argument at the end when i'm sure i'm right and the other person is wrong i just impose my opinion by shouting i have really strong voice! If i'm wrong i just admit my mistake calmly.
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Aug 31, 2013

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    Arguments

    I really dislike arguments and it seems to get caught up in them, damn!
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F May 21, 2011

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    Stop!

    Just stopping fighting for once! Take a breath, relax and talk it over, like a civilised being! Stop shouting this bullshit at each other and for fukk sake clam down! At home, all you do is try and start an argument, all I need to say is, What time is it? And then you go off for...
    ImOkayNow ImOkayNow 16-17, F Nov 5, 2011

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    I Woke Up Happy. Now Im Sad

    I wake up happy, smiling. What shall we do today? This? No. How about this? No. You put negative into everything u moan at me say my ideas are stupidity. U dont want to do them. U wind me up start an argument. I start to feel worthless. I love u I dont want to argue. I cry...
    Tori91 Tori91 22-25, F Jun 6, 2013

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    But I Always Have :(

    I dont like arguments at all .. I wish ppl could talk to each other softly .. but sadly its not always like that in the real life .. especially when ppl are in high-tempered mood, that leads to the hell arguments ... :(
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    It's Not About Being Right Or Wrong

    Everyone has their own point of view, and when it differs from someone else their point of view, people often try to make clear how 'right' they are and how 'wrong' the other person is. Bad idea! TRY to UNDERSTAND each other, and LISTEN to each other. Do not start blaming each...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2011

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    Dont Know How

    well, to be honest, i just never learned how to argue. as a kid, i just gave in, and as a teenager, i would escalate any argument to a physical confrontation. now as an adult, i find myself avoiding situations that would cause an argument.
    nine4dnine nine4dnine 41-45, M Feb 28, 2008

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    I Hate The Sound Of 'bla Bla Bla' In The Morning

    I'm at a point in my life were turning the other cheek is becoming difficult. I like things simple, thorough, and to the point. I really love to relax and have peace, I know that stress is apart of life, but I don't like fussing and fighting. I can respect a different opinion...
    1LongingRose 1LongingRose 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    Dont Know How

    well, to be honest, i just never learned how to argue. as a kid, i just gave in, and as a teenager, i would escalate any argument to a physical confrontation. now as an adult, i find myself avoiding situations that would cause an argument.
    nine4dnine nine4dnine 41-45, M Feb 28, 2008

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    Arguments

    I hate seeing people fight.It make me upset to see people hate eachother that bad.
    kime kime 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2008

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    Arguments Terrify Me, Even If ...

    Arguments terrify me, even if they've got nothing to do with me. I hate people screaming. And I hate being caught in the middle of older people's conflicts. When I feel I have to stop everyone from hurting but can't. I can't choose sides - it kills me.
    Semety Semety 18-21, F Feb 6, 2008

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    No Thanx...

    When I had someone to date or when I do date I never would argue. When I am with someone I am always the one to just stop and listen to the other person. When people yell at me I stay calm and try to listen and let them get all their anger out. That actually works believe it or...
    crookedspoons crookedspoons 16-17, F Jul 5, 2008

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    Or Any Conflict...

    I don't like them and I try to avoid it. Though, as I were explaining to my sister, sometimes it's not possible to avoid conflicts. Sometimes, you have to face them, to keep others from running over you. It's always hard and painful, but sometimes you gotta stick up for yourself...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 26, 2008

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    I totally switch off

    when someone raises their voice. I just never have the same level of energy as the other person in an argument. I'm soft spoken by nature. I prefer TALKING and LISTENING with an understanding of each others emotions. But boy it's such a wonderful feeling when the other person...
    Cocopunch Cocopunch 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Arguments, Fights...

    I grew up in an environment where the way to settle your differences was debate, discussion, compromise. I am so ill equipped to deal with people fight and yell and throw insults around. It totally destroys how I feel towards the other person. In what I have experienced in...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Feb 15, 2011

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    Allways The Piggy In The Middle :/

    Arguments suck !...  think ppl should try to put themselves in others shoes more and try to understand y ppl are sticking up for something they believe in, or just the fact ppl have crappy days and u might of just caught them at the wrong time ...
    zeea zeea 26-30, F Mar 25, 2010

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    I Despise It

    my ultimate defense mechanism to arguing is i get tired .....  im not big on arguing although i love to debate things ....  arguing is a part of daily life and im really to stubborn  i refuse to be wrong ... its not something i can do .....
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F Dec 28, 2007

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    Roll Over

    If I feel an argument brewing, I will roll over and give in before it even has a chance to bud.  I HATE confrontations.  If I'm not in it, I will leave the room or change the subject myself.  I don't like friction. Of course sometimes it can't be helped...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 25, 2009

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    I'm So Tired of It All.._x

    my mum argued all the time with my "dad", i couldn't stand the things he'd call her. he'd swear and shout and he didnt care that me and my brother could hear it all, he didnt care that it upset us.. ive had my fair share of arguments with so called friends, and my mum...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2007

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    Why Are They Even Together?

    My parents are constantly arguing and it just keeps getting worse my whole life this has been going on and I'm the only one that's always home and hears it all and when it gets really bad my dad goes somewhere and then comes home late and he's about to leave and it's 11pm but...
    Hydergirl4ever Hydergirl4ever 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2013

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    I Can Not Argue

    I argue then I am in the hospital. Then I am sick . And it is one of those things. And then i am sick for a week. Then I try to stay way from it .
    bronica bronica 51-55, F Feb 27, 2013

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    A Waste Of Energy

    I find that arguments are a waste of energy. Instead of arguing one could use that energy to do anything else desired. Arguments cause a lot of hurt and pain between people. I know I don't want to see it that's why I don't like arguments and I will do what ever I can to avoid...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 19, 2011

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    I don't care if you don't like me...I don't even like you too so stop minding my business and get a life of your own.
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I think I don't like them because they seem too busy for me most of the time. I don't care so much that they're busy but if I go to a doctor, I want them to listen to me, listen to...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't like seeing rude comments anywhere! Come on people - step it up a little. People who come here and poetically pour their heart out don't do it to get rude comments! They...
    GeekyLittleThing GeekyLittleThing 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My in laws hate me yet they don't know me. They blame me for everything my husband does or doesn't do that they don't like. I've been with my husband 5 years yet I don't think I've...
    l2thedoublej l2thedoublej 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I... I don't like players, I'm just usually not in the same game they are and it's like I'm that dumb bird who's flying around the baseball field and almost gets hit with the ball...
    fearlessbae fearlessbae 16-17, F Mar 25

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    It's crazy. If you could see me in the flesh, you might say I am not fat and you'd tell me to stop whining and all but I just don't like the way my belly bulges.Honestly, I'd agree...
    baseCharlie baseCharlie 18-21, M Mar 27

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    I don't exactly dislike everyone; I just don't like most people. I don't expect most people to like me either.
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ 1 Response Apr 13

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    I wouldn't say I don't like eating per say. I just don't know the aftermath. I have ednos and I know I should eat, but I feel like once I do, I won't be able to stop. My mind says...
    PanicAtTheDiscount PanicAtTheDiscount 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    It's just a pet peeve of mine. Yes, "I do like Cookies". No. I don't like cookys. That's just an example. I also hate it when the groups don't make any sense or even when the...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's not in a 'i'm too good for people' kind of way, its just that i don't feel any connections to them. I don't like relationships that are entirely based on small talk and i hate...
    grungehippy grungehippy 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I don't like my body. I think I'm a bit fat.. I exercise every evening to get a flatter stomach and less round hips. But I still see no difference. It's demotivating. I'm searching...
    SkateDutch SkateDutch 16-17, M Mar 21

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    They terrify me. I'm really a huge chicken. Of winds. I always think it will develop into a tornado. I'm like that with life. I don't like the tornado so much might become. "Might...
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It's not that I don't like him... It's i fricken hate politics.
    Awesome5790 Awesome5790 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I feel the same way I think they don't like me because of my race what's your reason
    beingamermaidismydream beingamermaidismydream 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28