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I Don't Like Asking For Help

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    Scared To

    I guess for me asking for anyone to help me is a weakness.. I am scared that if I tell someone that I need help that they will see it as a sign of weakness. I don't want to be seen as a needy person..
    kthimm12 kthimm12 18-21, F Apr 19, 2011

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    Asking For Help Is the Worst.

    i cant ask for help. i feel as if my problems will effect other people if i tell them about it. i dont wnat to hurt anyone with my own issius. i hate to ahve people worry about me, and i also hate when people love me. i know it sounds weird. but its easier to just not have people...
    broken23 broken23 13-15 2 Responses Apr 23, 2009

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    I Am In No Compitition

    I am in no competition with no one. I run my own race. I have no desire to play the game of being better than anyone, in anyway shape or form. I just aim to improve to be better than I was before.
    emadesam emadesam 41-45, M 1 Response Feb 5, 2013

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    Hate It!

    I didn't get help from my parents when I had questions as a kid, I had to figure things out for myself. Help with homework? Yeah, right. When I became an adult I found I had a hard time asking for help in any area of my life which still holds true today. I'm...
    zillaron zillaron 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    I Hate It

    i would rather take double the time and figure it out by myself than ask someone for help. recently i have been asking for help to certain people with life situations and it has helped so much lol so i guess asking for help can be beneficial sometimes.
    boby6 boby6 22-25, M Aug 8, 2009

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    My Lips Won't Move To Even Ask For It

    Or my brain won't even consider it. I'm TOO stubborn and most likely prideful when asking for help. You see the reason being is that a lot of times I've asked for help :in the past: and received it BUT then the person wanted something in return. Sometimes, I couldn't cater to...
    thanatophobic thanatophobic 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2009

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    I've been independent

    for so long and it bothers me to have to ask for help. But people encourage me too I try to ask for help when I need it
    WellDressedandDepressed WellDressedandDepressed 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    More Baby Drama

    WOW what an emotional roller coaster of things today. I had to send an email today that just about broke my heart. I had to tell the Tae Kwon Do studio that I'd have to pull my son out of classes because I just can't afford it. When I enrolled him I was working several...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Apr 23, 2009

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    Due to my independent nature it's difficult

    for me to reach out for help. I found out that you have to depend on yourself, because people with good intentions tend to not want to really help when it comes down to it. I like to figure out things on my own, that's how I learn. When people tell me how to do a certain task, I...
    LillyPad80 LillyPad80 41-45, F Jul 14

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    I Don't....

    I do not like asking for help, No matter what it is for. My Left arm, could be falling off, and I would still say "im fine" or "no, i'll be okay" its just my personalitly. I have always been told, that if I ask for help, that I am weak, and I guess, that is something that has...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 30, 2010

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    This Is Where..

    This is where my independence comes into play.  I like ot figure things out on my own.  That is what I know will truly push myself to utilize my mind and my brain.  So I truly hate asking for help.  But the other part of it is this, "I don't think I know how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Nov 30, 2010

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    Why can't I just let him help me?

    Sometimes when I feel this horrible I just push him away and I don't want to. I want him to be here with me and I don't know how to ask for help because I've dealt with everything alone for so long. I don't want to trap him or make him feel obligated to deal with me at my worst...
    Bandgeek1025 Bandgeek1025 16-17, F Dec 29, 2013

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    But now I need it. Just someone to listen I

    guess, I don't really know. I had a moral dilemma two nights ago. A friends cousin hit on me. I absolutely reveled in the attention. But he began to make me feel uncomfortable. He made a move on me and I'm terrified to tell my boyfriend. Like after he propositioned me I...
    thetruthaboutthedollhouse thetruthaboutthedollhouse 26-30, F Jul 2

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    I Don't Like To Ask For Help

    Although I don't like to ask for help, If I think I really need help I will ask for help.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Jan 15, 2012

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    But I need it tonight ,

    as I try to sleep but feel my tears flowing...I miss him so much. I am so sad and broken tonight. I don't wish it never happened. I just wish the hurt would stop. I wish I could live with happiness. I just want to turn the page. I never thought I would be this person.
    goodnightangel goodnightangel 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    "figure It Out On Your Own"

    It's not that Im too proud, it's just that my family always admonished me for not knowing something or not being able to do something on my own. When I asked a question the answer I always got back was "Figure it out " or "You're always on the internet so look it...
    Lostsoul22 Lostsoul22 22-25, F Dec 20, 2009

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    I Hate It

    I either ask for help and get help and feel very guilty about it. Or I ask for help, don't get help and feel very very ashamed. Seems like when I do screw up my nerve, something bad happens. I just can't do it right. so i gave up on it. I hate being in a place where I even have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 26, 2013

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    Makes Me Feel Stupid

    I don't like to ask for help unless I absolutely have to. I like to prove to myself and others that I can do something on my own.For example if something is broken I will always try to tinker with it for a while to see if I can repair it. Then if I realize I've tried everything I...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Aug 12, 2011

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    I Help Other When I Need Help Myself

    I help all my friends the best I can but the thing is... Im not OK.. Im not very happy and its hard because while balancing their problems i have to balance my sh!t too. I know i shouldnt help other people to but I cant not help my friends when they need help!! But juggling their...
    GuardianAngel9400 GuardianAngel9400 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    I hate asking for help because I'm too difficult to help, I feel like such a burden because when people try to help me I always think of ways in which it won't work and then they...
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    I don't like judges either. I don't like how they tell you everything your doing wrong. I don't need you telling me about all the mistakes I made. It can ruin people and make them...
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    I used to really care but what's it going to matter in the future? All the people that says they don't like me never has a good reason, and I still don't care. Because they don't...
    icecreamsoda icecreamsoda 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 30

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    I think I have an exceptional body and I accept that others think I'm pretty- but it doesn't do me any good. I don't like to see myself in the mirror. I don't like being...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 14

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    I don't like feeling lonely, but I cant imagine not feeling lonely. Its my defining characteristic. But I draw on the 'loneliness' do some really creative things. And I'd hate to...
    Anch0rMan Anch0rMan 41-45, M Oct 25

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    I don't like the word "tolerate" because it sounds negative. I don't like how people use it I guess. They can tolerate a person but can't accept them. 
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M Oct 26

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    I really don't like one of my closest friends anymore. Honestly, she's done a lot of things that I don't like. Last year, she consantly told me that I should tell the guy I like I...
    p3ppermint p3ppermint 18-21, F Oct 26

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    Look at me, look at me! Does this look like a face that gives a **** if you don't like me? I'll give you a hint: NO! I don't want people to like me anyway! It means I'm not doing...
    ThereIsNoName ThereIsNoName 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    I'm focused on getting mula , πŸ’΅ sittin' pretty , getting a good education and staying blessed πŸ™ . Your opinion of me is worth $0.00 and it costs $0.00 to keep it in your head...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 13-15, F Oct 30

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    I don't like it either. You know people say that people fear what they don't understand especially if you can't understand yourself or don't want to, ignoring your true sexual...
    Aindru21 Aindru21 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 5

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    It's not like I don't like eating in front of everybody, but I just don't feel comfortable eating with anyone except my family and my close friends. I always feel like other people...
    eclairec eclairec 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    If you don't like the Way I talk , the way I dress, the things I post , then I want to say that from the bottom of my heart I sincerely .... Don't give a rats behind !
    Fallenprinceofthedarkside Fallenprinceofthedarkside 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't really get the whole process of doing this? Like who are you to shame someone for being themselves. I feel if you don't like something about yourself change it. And for...
    AshCakes AshCakes 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't feel comfortable in a swimsuit with my body type. Not even a one piece I just don't want others to see my stretch marks and I don't like my thighs
    AshCakes AshCakes 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Okay so my in laws and I don't get along! They are sneaky, deceptive, fake, and the list could go on and on One example out of many is when I was in the hospital having my...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am who i am, unless your close to me i could care less if you don't like me. Everybody can't like everybody. That would just be boring
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    I don't like depending on people because people leave all the time. Because at the end of the day, all you have is yourself and that has to be enough.
    Aubreyxoxoxo Aubreyxoxoxo 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    I change, and shower with the lights off, because i don't like my reflection. I was anorexic and bulimic for quite a long time, and now that i'm better i see how much weight ive...
    Anika1258 Anika1258 13-15, F Nov 2

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    Don't like being lied to, lead on, confused, none of that mess, so just tell me how it is from the start! πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ ~Tyga~
    Briilashun Briilashun 16-17, F Nov 7

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    Females as a group are hard to work with. I am more interested in doing my work properly than playing their social games. It seems like they have to test you...put you through a...
    SeaSpray01 SeaSpray01 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 7

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    I don't like wearing bras. and as a general rule I don't. not that I have the boobs for bras anyway. And if my older sister is any judge I doubt I ever will have to wear a bra😜
    samthegirl samthegirl 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 8

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    It's gotten really cold and I don't like the cold. I think it's time to go south in the warm weather!
    justtoocurious2 justtoocurious2 36-40, M Nov 13

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    I don't like using public restrooms not because I that think it's gross, but I just don't feel comfortable. I'm paranoid. "What if I forgot to flush the toilet, others will know...
    eclairec eclairec 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    The thing about public restrooms that bothers me is that there is a little gap on each side of the stall door and that makes it easy for people to see in! I don't like it.
    Sierra346 Sierra346 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    No I don't like wearing pants. I have worn them most of my life. The are uncomfortable and boring. I much prefer skirts or dresses. If I could I would wear them all the time. The...
    Adam59 Adam59 56-60, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    my late high school sweetheart when we were driving and she had to pee so bad and we were an hour from home. and she don't like using public bathrooms so she told me she was going...
    sexycountryboy911 sexycountryboy911 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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