I Dont Like Being Ignored

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    Hard On the Self-esteem

    I know my self-esteem is not the greatest...and being ignored can make it even harder on me.  I start wondering if I did something wrong/bad or made the person mad at me.  It's especially hard just now when I'm feeling really fragile. Logically I understand that it's...
    Geode Geode
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2009

    I hate when I'm with someone

    who loves me...and I notice that they are never looking at me when I look at them. or when we are in a group, they stop talking if I'm the only one listening. I'm not important enough for their story. ..or I'm not the one they wanted to hear it. I would never do that to somebody...
    GirlEnigma GirlEnigma
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2015

    Whoa Whoa Whoa? I'm Not Your Fan!

    So, you think you're too busy / engaged to respond to people who take an interest in you? What are you, the president? Prime Minister of Uganda? On-call Neurosurgeon? Peacekeeper in the middle east? Nuclear engineer? Who the **** do you think you are? Are your small issues...
    Jul 1, 2012

    I Can'T Move On..

    I hate being ignored. If you ignore me my conscience leads me to a different thought. I then will think you're mad at me. I can't move on with life knowing or thinking someone is mad at me. My ex-best friend is mad at me. I'm mad at her to though. But I have to see her in the...
    DollyD123 DollyD123
    16-17, F
    Jun 8, 2013

    Wonder Why I Like Living A Hermit Life?

    Especially around my Apartment Complex. But as soon as I try to come out of my Shell, with Curiosity and try my best to meet with others.  I want to know what is going on. I find everyone on an Evasiveness Behavior and doing their damn-est at trying to Ignore ... (Me). ...
    ChakraSolipsismMGP ChakraSolipsismMGP
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jul 22, 2010

    Any time I talk at the dinner table

    even if I talk loud no one hears me. Am I invisible to my family? I am tired of being ignored.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 25, 2014
    alliemonster alliemonster
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 19, 2014

    I really don't like to be ignored it tells me

    I'm a boring and hateful person when I talk to them may be I don't deserve friends if they are just going to ignore me
    SexyLez101 SexyLez101
    16-17, F
    Apr 25, 2014

    Being Ignored

    So its not like am alone , but am not the most fun person but i try, but at the end it feels bad when u chat with people nd ur trying to entertain them or w/e nd they just dnt reply back, go offline, or chat with u like they dont rlly want to as if they must chat with u. i had...
    th3jok3r th3jok3r
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 30, 2012

    This is one of those things

    that drives me absolutely crazy I hate being ignored there's no excuse for it at all
    woodyemma2013 woodyemma2013
    31-35, F
    Feb 21, 2014

    I Don't Know Why It Hurts So Much.

    It hurts so much to be ignored. It sort of feels like I've literally been painlessly slapped across the face or painfully punched in the stomach. Sometimes, it takes so much effort to contact someone. Whenever I'm ignored, after trying so hard, I feel so ashamed for being stupid...
    itsjustme1001 itsjustme1001
    22-25, F
    Sep 10, 2011

    I dislike being ignored,

    it's my biggest pet peeve.....
    deleted deleted
    Feb 9, 2015

    They ignore u, they don't care,

    they don't care they don't love u. No one is entitled to love u, so don't whine about no one caring.The only person who needs to love u, is yourself. just zaain... love can be found elsewhere
    crazcat97 crazcat97
    16-17, F
    Jul 10, 2015

    Your now in the queue,

    please hold and our team will be speaking to you shortly...
    issimma issimma
    36-40, F
    Jul 22, 2015

    Just what the ******* ****.

    How does ignoring someone who loves you and cares about you possibly create something good!? Like what the ****!? There's this girl I like (well used to like -_-) and I was already friends with her and I told her how I feel then she just outright says no and hardly ever talks to...
    Mrmanaphy Mrmanaphy
    May 18, 2015

    I don't like it but it happens.

    I'm the person who gets ignored and or forgotten, but I've gotten used to it over the years .
    LurkingShadow LurkingShadow
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2015

    Who Does, Honestly? ...

    Who does, honestly? I hate being ignored because I always feel like I've done something wrong, and then I get scared to talk to them in case they're super mad at me and I've ruined every chance of them ever not being mad at me. wow, just typing that out, I realized how crazy...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 24, 2009

    nobody Likes Being Ignored ...

    nobody likes being ignored !  Everybody deserves respect.
    MolleyMo MolleyMo
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 24, 2009

    I Hate It

    I feel like im being ignored. Some ppl are so cruel sometime. Im not a bad person... Why do they have to be so mean?
    ptown1 ptown1
    18-21, F
    Nov 14, 2011

    i feel like a ghost..

    like people look right through me..my dad committed suicide..and i seen his blood and remains after he shot his head off with a 16 gauge double barrell
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 12, 2015

    Why does my sister not want a sisterly bond

    like other sisters. She don't give a ****. She has her "family" in the forces and doesn't give a ****.
    issimma issimma
    36-40, F
    Jul 14, 2015

    Kind of Ingrained In Me

    I was an only child and it was just me and my mom.  I was also the oldest grandchild, and the oldest great-grandchild.  I think that may have something to do with this. (Even though I have a cousin nine days younger than me) But while I hate being ignored, I also don't...
    axelval axelval
    18-21, T
    1 Response Sep 24, 2009

    My boyfriend told me he try's to talk to me

    less (avoid me) when I'm on my period because "I get mean". He still talks to me but I notice whenever I start he tends to hang around his friend Justin more often -_- I'm not that bad
    JuBear424 JuBear424
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 23, 2014

    Ignoring someone is a childish way of dealing

    with your problems. It makes me feel uncomfortable and sad when someone ignores me.
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    22-25, F
    Mar 16, 2014

    Being ignored is probably the worst thing ever.

    What's worse is being ignored by a person who you felt you were close to. But now, they only recognize you when they want you.
    yazminf yazminf
    18-21, F
    May 5, 2014

    It's annoying. Is this just an American thing

    or other places! Please let me know and do not bash I'm just curious and a bit ignorant to other cultures. Not overly ignorant but more could be known.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 10, 2015

    I don't like it but I get ignored on all fronts,

    when I text... Ignored, when I phone... Ignored, in person... I'm assuming I'll be ignored - when I give affection... Ignored, when I need a friend... Ignored. Just checking, I'm not actually invisible am I???
    MrsStrangeLust MrsStrangeLust
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Sep 16, 2015

    I met someone the other night

    and really like her, but she hasn't responded to my text from seven hours ago. Guess she's either busy, playing a game, or isn't really interested.
    nocturnalhound nocturnalhound
    31-35, M
    Sep 6, 2015

    I probably won't message any one first today.

    Because I'm not in a mood to be ignored or rejected. And if I message someone I know they won't want to talk to me. Buuuutt I don't blame em.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014
    deleted deleted
    Jul 9, 2014

    Sometimes I think it's rude.

    .. most times I find it hurtful.
    utahwriter utahwriter
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 7, 2014

    Nothing is perhaps quite

    as rude as when somebody pretends they can't hear you when you're talking directly to them.
    JackMann JackMann
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2016

    I Used To Care

    I used to care big time. Not so much anymore. I just needed to put that down in writing. I got to start realizing my strengths and not wallowing only over my weaknesses.
    startingpointguard33 startingpointguard33
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 21, 2013

    I try to avoid talking to my mom

    unless I need something for this very reason. I hate that she ignores me almost everytime and I have to repeat myself. And a lot of times when I repeat myself she interrupts. She was ignoring me when I was telling her about issue at school last year. She only started to...
    moose73630 moose73630
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 10, 2015

    I hate being ignored.

    I hate it when all of the sudden someone has nothing to do with you .
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty
    22-25, F
    Feb 8, 2015

    I like it... when I don't feed into it the

    other person is Confused because I their Bunk Jedi Mind Trick doesn't work on a SITH LORD :)
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 12, 2016

    Literally this gets me more angry

    than anything else there is no other feeling than messaging someone and pouring your heart out for them to reply with silence! It's a form of torture and cowardliness have some balls and talk to me like a grown up rather than acting like a child and giving people no closure it's...
    TashaBbb TashaBbb
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    Haha if you ignore me,

    I'll ignore you so hard you doubt your own existence!
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    Feb 9, 2015

    It makes me TICK! I can lose my frickin' mind

    if I even THINK some one might be annoying me.
    ThisGirlLovesNerds12 ThisGirlLovesNerds12
    18-21, F
    Feb 9, 2015

    Last night I saw my counselor

    and after my session I waited almost an hour for my husband to come and pick me up, but he never showed. This was the first time this has happened, because usually after I see my counselor once a month he is waiting in our car for me, but this time his car wasn't sitting parked...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 8, 2014

    Trying to stay calm while being ignored.

    . Literally no one I can talk to and I'm slowly falling into a deep frustration
    dino94 dino94
    22-25, M
    Apr 25, 2014

    Plz Dont Leave Me

    ok so i'm havin a hard time because i have been best friends with the most amazing person ever for many years now and she is always sooo much fun! we can always goof off and be crazy together or be sad and share our problems, and you know, we're everything and even more of what...
    blueeyedblonde blueeyedblonde
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 2, 2009
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