I Don't Like Being Judged

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 871 People

    View Askew

    I like to wear clothes for comfort, not for fashion. I have tattoos and piercings. I get judged constantly due to my appearance and I am SO TIRED OF IT! I might be an *******, but at least base your opinion of me who I am, not how I look!
    undeadsarcasm undeadsarcasm
    26-30, F
    Dec 27, 2009

    Specially By

    People who have no idea what they are talking about, I think I should shoot him with pins!
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 12, 2009

    I hate being judged because I'm skinny.

    There are these girls at school who talk about everyone. The are extreme rumorists. They tell me I'm anorexic or bulimic and that I don't eat because I want to be skinny. That's not true. And I could do this thing where I twist my leg around to the right and it touches my...
    Musicgirl32558 Musicgirl32558
    16-17, F
    Apr 15, 2014

    And yet I keep asking

    for critique from my writers group. :-)
    utahwriter utahwriter
    41-45, M
    Jun 7, 2014

    Don't let them tell you what they think of me.

    A lot of people who know me OL probably think of me as some kind of weird with all sorts of bizarre 'fascinations' that wishes he was someone else, which isn't true. I'm happy with what I am. So..what if I like monsters and the idea of turning into one? That sort of thing...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    Mar 25

    Especially By People Who Barely Know Me.

    You can't judge someone by the way they dress, by the way they talk, by the way they act the first, second, third time you meet them. Yet so many people do. It doesn't work. First impressions arn't always right. In fact, they seldom ever are.Why would someone want to judge? Why...
    WinterPrincess21 WinterPrincess21
    22-25, F
    Jan 10, 2010

    Hate Being Judged!!

    i dont judge others and i hate being judged. i always feel that people who do judge are shallow individuals who either dont bother to look at whats inside or find out why a particular person might find themselves in a certain situation in their lives!! i always find that its best...
    cowshed123 cowshed123
    36-40, M
    Jan 1, 2013

    People Arent Food They Are Humans

    I cannot stand when people are judged. I think in todays society its like people just either care about themselves or just stay with the in crowd and if people aren't with the in crowd well then that's just not cool to the in crowd so not taking the time to get to know that...
    Liz5589 Liz5589
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 5, 2010

    While I don't like being judged I understand

    that some people will judge me which I can accept. What I won't accept is someone on here sending me a private message judging me based on my posted experiences. It is fine if you don't agree with me because I know that not everyone will agree with me or like me but please be...
    curiousgirl1214 curiousgirl1214
    26-30, F
    Nov 10, 2015

    Your Words Hurt..

    You're to fat, You always too happy, You're too white, Your make up is ugly, You're not bitchy enough and yes Am ugly.. Even though am not as overweight as i was when i was a teenager, i still have that mentality that i have to hid my body from people. And i don't mind, i feel...
    PandaaMee PandaaMee
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2013

    People always judge me

    because i like mermaids and magick , i'm not crazy for fu**'s sake!!!! Other people are trying to become mermaids too
    savannahmermaid863 savannahmermaid863
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 2, 2014

    I don't lik meeting new people,

    I mean on websites and stuff sure but in person? I dont lik putting up with people, and all there judging, theres no block button for that. Haha no thank you :D
    LifeRebel LifeRebel
    16-17, F
    Jul 5, 2014


    Place me in a box For it is all you can think To do with me It's all you've ever done Taught to you by your kin And by your whispering peers For I must be something to you What do you see me as? What is my box labelled? Does it say ″DANGEROUS, BEWARE″or ″caution, fragile...
    BloodRedShadow BloodRedShadow
    Jul 5, 2012

    I feel the ones that are closet to me don't

    understand me which comes off as they're judging me which makes communications horrible
    Rainbowkissesxo Rainbowkissesxo
    22-25, F
    Jul 5, 2014

    It's Because I'm Fat And Young

     People think cause I'm fat i cant be vegetarian even though I've been one for 5 years.people think because I'm a young lady that I'm not a virgin and i am and it will stay like that for a long time.
    IsraeliPrincess IsraeliPrincess
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2010

    It a thing that people do without realizing it.

    You know the feeling but you still do it, right?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 16

    I Can't Stop Judgement, But I Hate It

    I hate that feeling of being watched and critisized. You're walking through town when a person walks by and looks you up and down with a look on their face that just screams "EW." As much as I hate it, I've learned to deal with it, even to ignore it sometimes. Even...
    TheRamenNoodle TheRamenNoodle
    13-15, F
    Dec 25, 2009

    The Cover Of The Book Before The Pages

    I hate being judged before people even have a chance to know me. I am not an angel, I have judged people before I have gotten to them. I use to pick my friends by what are called cliques. I use to think the cool kids were the best but I was wrong. They were judging people before...
    superherojustin superherojustin
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Jun 17, 2012

    What Gives You The Right

    You have no right to judge me ive made mistakes who hasnt. No one is perfect thats just life I may not be super skinny but im not overweight... so dont call me fat I may not be the prettiest...but never call me ugly I may not have a tan...but dont call me a ghost I may have...
    gurlonthemove gurlonthemove
    22-25, F
    Jul 13, 2013

    So My Uncles Wife (40 Something) And Her

    Daughter (20 Something) Are Talking To My Mom About How She Shouldn't Let Me Wear Makeup And That She Didn't Let Her Daughter Do It When She Was Growing Up. -_- My Mom Is Already Barely Letting Me Do Anything. And It's ******* Me Off. They Aren't My Parents, It's Actually None...
    ChocolateCloud ChocolateCloud
    16-17, F
    Dec 7, 2014

    I worry about how people think of me a lot.

    I am a person who worries a lot. I usually don't like showing pictures of me, what I'm doing,or anything that has to do with me because I am scared of the opinions other people will have on me and what they will think of what I just showed them. I also don't like giving an...
    Musicgirl32558 Musicgirl32558
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2014

    Hate It.

    I really hate when people judge me, especially when they judge me "down."  That is basically when someone makes an assumption about you that is so totally below you, that you become appaulled upon learning that you were judged in this manner.  This is why I tend to...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2010


    Why must it be this way? I dont like being judged at all. I used to be judged by my weight and teeth as a kid. Now people dont say anything about it but they dont have to. I can see it in their eyes. Its almost as if i can read their thoughts. I get so confused with this. People...
    angeliceyes11 angeliceyes11
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 15, 2011

    Ouch (8)

    people tend to probably see me as quieter just the one with the BIG nose :D they never even make an attempt to know me its just the way i look that they judge i used to do this but i have grown to realise that you shouldnt judge a book by its cover you need to learn there...
    Keelie Keelie
    66-70, F
    May 12, 2009

    I especially don't like being judged

    because of my age. Just because I'm 16 doesn't mean I can't relate to things older people are going through.
    Brenbrensthoughts Brenbrensthoughts
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 31, 2014

    I Hate Judgemental People N Comments

    I do what i do n i know what i do is legit! if you have probs wid that then u can bang yer head on the wall........ STOP judging me
    HelenParis HelenParis
    Mar 16, 2012


    I am 47. My girlfriend is 19. We have been together three years. Even though she has always been over the age of consent that is all many people need to know to judge us, in fact often they refuse to listen to more. That is all they need to know. Obviously I am an exploitive...
    BittenDog BittenDog
    46-50, M
    Dec 13, 2010

    If I'm rolling on the floor

    for no apparent reason.....just keep your eyes down and keep walking 😂😂😂😂😂🙈
    spanishcowboys4eva spanishcowboys4eva
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2014

    Because Maybe I'm Not Like That

    I have been a lot of things in my life.  And, I'm not gonna lie, I can really fake it. I can be a hippie, a geek, a jock, a snob, a ****.  But you know what?  Lately, I am really not in the mood to fake it.  I hate feeling pressured to act a way...
    MoonGirl12 MoonGirl12
    1 Response Sep 7, 2009

    I'm afraid of posting something on here

    and being attacked by judgemental people :/
    xoxosabrinaxoxo xoxosabrinaxoxo
    18-21, F
    Jan 10, 2014

    Stop Judging Me!

    I am so sick of people judging me and telling me what I'm doing wrong, and what I should be doing!  I am not a pathetic sack of ****, I am a person!  I am an individual.  I am different!  I wish people would realize that I wake up every single day, wishing that I could be...
    livingdeadgirl26 livingdeadgirl26
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 6, 2011

    Don't Judge Me!

    The yellow cat was running in the rain. Two crows ate a bug. Then a lion came and ate them all up. Stop judging me! Stop judging my post! Hender ispot gianini jendo stru lapsoton. Stop judging me! The truth i'm always trying to be a certain way so you don't judge me and no...
    rsll1986 rsll1986
    Jan 24, 2012

    Just Think About It

    I was looking about questions, when one popped up with the description of "so-and-so is a pedo, block him!" So I looked into the profile, and I saw a perfectly normal man with a different taste in women. At this point I wanted to talk to him, so I did. Perfectly normal man...
    BloodRedShadow BloodRedShadow
    Jul 5, 2012

    Like really?! I have my style; skinny jeans,

    band/graphic tees, and beans/hats. I have my bands; BVB, NSN, SWS, P!ATD, and PTV. If you don't like how I live my life, **** off!!! It's MY life let ME live it how I want!!! So STOP JUDGING ME!!!!
    UniversalCutie UniversalCutie
    13-15, F
    Aug 14, 2015

    Not As Good

    well i have always been a daddy's girl and my little sister (by2.5 yrs) has always been closer with my mom i don't know why, thats just how it has always been. my mom pretty much always ruled the roost between her and dad so it's not like my dad could do things  4 me like my...
    fatgurl09 fatgurl09
    26-30, F
    Aug 25, 2009


    It's really annoying. I am tired of closed minded people who think everyone should obey their prejudice, racist, .... Never mind! it's not worth it.
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort
    36-40, F
    16 Responses Apr 3, 2010


    Labels, are in my humble opinion, horrible and needlessly over used. When you are labeled, people tend to hear the labels before the name. I have been labeled Depressed, Self-Harming, Suicidal, Hypochondriac, Insomniac, Nerd, Teachers Pet. Although some of them are still true...
    waonderinggirl waonderinggirl
    18-21, F
    Apr 24, 2013

    Please Do Not Understand Me Too Quickly-andre Gide

    There is a reason that my favorite quote is “Please do not understand me too quickly” by Andre Gide. I used to tell my students not to think they understand any complex thing to quickly as once they think they understand they will stop thinking.   If...
    Dewduster Dewduster
    66-70, M
    32 Responses Apr 12, 2010

    Judging Usually Gives False Impressions

    I guess that's why God only gets it right.  Man is the only species of life that cannot get along with his own species or the rest of the planet.   We are the only species of life that separate ourselves from each other only because we judge.  We don't even...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Sep 26, 2009

    Who Made You A Judge ??

    Where did you get the Judgement certificate from ? i see every one running around Judging, but why? The crab in the bucket likes to pull other crabs back down ,and it seems we do too. What is the difference from seeing something ,and Judging something, well we see a broken glass...
    whoisjohngalt2 whoisjohngalt2
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jul 27, 2011
More Stories