I Don't Like Being On A Pedestal

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    I have put people on a pedestal in the past,

    it was not good for my self esteem and not fair for them. I may admire you, but not like a god or goddess, like a human being with good traits I will appreciate, and that will get me close to you, and with adorable flaws that will make me smile and get me close to you too.
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    Apr 19, 2015

    No Pedestals Wanted

    No i don`t like people putting me on a pedestal, as i am just plain old me and noone special, i do what i do because i like to and not for the glory
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    3 Responses Mar 26, 2010

    I made this mistake a

    while ago, and I've learned: Don't put people on a pedestal. If you do, you may not realize how short sighted you are, and you won't be able to see the flaws in the person. Will you be able to deal with those flaws kindly? I wasn't able to at first. If we had just come out...
    AlwaysPersevere71 AlwaysPersevere71
    41-45, M
    Jul 2, 2014

    I Never Have

    I want to be played with and if he puts me on a pedestal and treats me like a little doll I don't get what I need from our relationship. I like to play hard and love harder. No pedestal for this woman. 
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    Mar 26, 2010
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