while ago, and I've learned:
Don't put people on a pedestal. If you do, you may not realize how short sighted you are, and you won't be able to see the flaws in the person. Will you be able to deal with those flaws kindly? I wasn't able to at first. If we had just come out...
it was not good for my self esteem and not fair for them.
I may admire you, but not like a god or goddess, like a human being with good traits I will appreciate, and that will get me close to you, and with adorable flaws that will make me smile and get me close to you too.
I want to be played with and if he puts me on a pedestal and treats me like a little doll I don't get what I need from our relationship. I like to play hard and love harder. No pedestal for this woman.