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I Dont Like Being Pushed Into Things

I don't agree with tough love pushing people into sex or things they don't want for themselves....that is how I got raped! 1,346 People

    Hi I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15 I love him to

    bits but recently he's been asking for sex and trying to do stuff with me. Whenever we're out with friends he's always like "do you want to go for a walk" or "do you wanna come back to mine" he's always trying stuff and I don't know how to say no. I dont know if I want to make...
    megzboo megzboo 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22, 2015

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    I met someone that wants me to love them

    when I don't. I'm not attracted to them in that way for many reasons but I care about them deeply. They got so mad when I told them this and it's killing me. I've cried all day.
    RealMsKate RealMsKate 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2015

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    The more you push, the more I'll stand firm.

    Push me less or not at all and I might be more willing.
    theotherusernamesweretaken theotherusernamesweretaken 26-30, M Jul 30, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 8, 2015

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    I just hate being pushed into things

    so much that I have been compared to and called a wild dog by some of my friends and family, only for the reason that the harder they push me, the more I fight back until at least one of us gives up. I will say that if they would just let me decide or given a choice instead of...
    REY98 REY98 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    I Think Some Have Taken Tough Love Too Far!

    a psychologist from Qc Move said to me... "you don't appear to be the type of person who would benefit from being bullied into doing things do you?" I thought this was the most stupid statement out... tough love gone too far = bullying... pushing and controlling .... that is not...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2011

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    My entire family keeps asking

    and bringing up driving and I just don't want to do it. Yeah, I realize then I'll have more freedom but I'm terrified of driving. Everyone I know has gotten a ticket or has been in a car crash. My moms forcing me to go tomorrow :ccccccc ugh
    StayAliveFriend StayAliveFriend 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2015

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    I don't like anybody forcing me into anything.

    Especially eating, if I don't like a food and someone tries to make me try it I get angry. All because my ex controlled me, I don't make decisions myself until someone tries to force me into doing things!!
    Lalaleia Lalaleia 18-21, F Jun 8, 2015

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    I'm bisexual,but don't want anything with males

    at the moment. Well,a friend of my friend started to talk with me few days ago and he asked me if i could go out with him to eat some pizza. I accepted in the friendly way,but didn't explain to him. So he asked if i could do it on his house (Sex involved,obviously!). I don't...
    TRextasy TRextasy 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 13, 2015

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    I like to sing. Heck,

    I might even LOVE to sing, but whenever somebody tries to force me to do it I stop wanting to do it anymore. It has been specially annoying at family reunions and jam sessions, even though I know I sing well. If I'm not in the mood, don't ******* insist!
    Hypersomnia Hypersomnia 18-21, F Jun 9, 2015

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    When I was younger I had sex with my boss

    after a meeting when I was drunk. I realized what a mistake that was but the next time he saw me he was all over me and me had me give him oral. He like did what he wanted with me until I quit, saying if I didn't my husband would find out. Years later I told my best friend...
    donna415 donna415 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 18, 2015

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    There's a school bbq tomorrow

    and my mom is making me go...sorry mom I don't wanna see people from school during my summer :/
    Seven1645 Seven1645 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

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    danny158 danny158 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2, 2015

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    Seriously. Don't push me.

    Just don't. I don't like it. I rarely even Allow it. And if I Let you push me?? Don't think it's going to continue being a privilege I grant you. You have a time limit on that gift. Not that I know the exact amount of time I'll allow it for, but Know This: Abuse the...
    AdoraGel AdoraGel 31-35, F Jul 30, 2015

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    It always happens because I am more often

    than not incapable of saying no.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    i will do it at my my pace,

    or not at all if i dont want to
    Pandorazz Pandorazz 26-30 1 Response May 11, 2014

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    I hate it. I have anxiety

    and I hate it when people who know I have anxiety push me to do things that they know I'm not comfortable with. It makes me feel bad for not being able to do simple normal things.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 9, 2015

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    I was forced to have sex today by my one

    boyfriend. We've been together for nine months but I've known him all my life, we started out as the best of the friends and a couple of years later we started dating. Let me note that it wasn't the first time we had sex or something. We were at his house and due to some recent...
    kostkayx kostkayx 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 25

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    Don't Force Me

    If I don't want to do something I'm not going to do it. There might be a way to convince me otherwise if the rationale is good enough but if it's a situation that's going to result in the same old outcome as before then forget about it. Forcing me isn't going to do any good...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2011

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    You could never push me to do something I don't

    want to do. I don't have that followers mentality. I move to the beat of my own drum.
    Royced45 Royced45 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 6, 2014

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    People around me need to stop pushing me around

    so much. I try to be accommodating and nice just to get my **** over with and go along with my life, but people keep pushing and pulling me in all different directions and expect me to just sit there and take it without any opposition. And it's not like I'm a push-over, because...
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 4, 2015

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    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2014

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    I don't like it when people push me & rush me

    into things. I like doing things on my own time, but then I'm also a big procrastinator. So even though I know they're only doing to help me, it's done aggressively, which ****** me off and makes me not want to do it. I'm 21 & a manager at mcdonalds. My family always makes me...
    elease2430 elease2430 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

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    I lose respect for people

    who want me do things not of my own will. Can you not tell I am not interested?
    plsdontsitonme plsdontsitonme 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2015

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    Being Pressured Scares Me .

    I like to feel like I'm doing it myself .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2015

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    Right never let this happen so

    for the ones who like to send me megs saying how you would love to rape and smack me around Well lets just say i,m sure you well never be added as friends..I have found the block button and it works well..
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 28, 2015

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    Why do guys think just cause they pick u up

    hitchhiking that u owe them sumthing, specially the older guys?
    Donna15 Donna15 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 11, 2015

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    Tomorrow is the last day go give a reply,

    I think i'll just do it today before going to bed. I have to say no to something I really want to do, because I don't have the energy to go against my parents which oppose the offer. I really want to follow my heart, this is almost a once in a lifetime offer. Someone else who...
    1Miranda 1Miranda 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2015

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    to be honest, as much

    as I like sex, I find that I just am not sexually attracted to anyone, ever. like, people I know always talk about a kid they hooked up with or whatever, and I'm always sitting there like "I don't care much but go on" see...I'm gay. I like men, but I'm not someone who would...
    Kairics Kairics 13-15, T 1 Response May 11, 2015

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    If I tell you I'm not comfortable sending you a

    picture, then respect that! Be nice, not pushy then maybe I'll send you one ... But only when and if "I" want to send you one. Thanks.
    StarLily71 StarLily71 41-45, F 3 Responses May 13, 2014

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    Sometimes, I realized,

    that most of the things I get pushed into are actually necessary for development. But still, someone forcing you to do something you never thought to or is scared of doing, it never really pays the first few times you play, but once you adapt, it doesn't feel all that bad...
    wolfIncheapclothing wolfIncheapclothing 22-25 Mar 10, 2014

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    I'm always pushed into doing things

    and being told what to do. I just want to be an individual
    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2014

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    AsianGirlSwimmer AsianGirlSwimmer 13-15, F May 26, 2015

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    A friend of mine was forced into activities

    that he wasn't consensual with. It's horrible to hear to and to think that a person doesn't understand the words "no" or "stop" They are simple words and it's doesn't matter if at first they want to in gage in the activity. If they say stop and that they don't want to a few...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 30, 2015

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    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2015

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    Do not force me to do something I do not want

    to do. Respect me and my body. #1 reason I left you.
    Sen22 Sen22 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 19, 2015

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    domrep2 domrep2 31-35, F 5 Responses May 15, 2015

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    I'm shy. I have been told to GET OVER my

    shyness. How can you magically just get over shyness? I was forced to talk to people. You can't force anyone to talk to people if they don't feel comfortable doing it. People may think it helps but it doesn't. It makes the person to become even more anxious. Also, being angry at...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 14, 2015

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