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I Dont Like Being Pushed Into Things

I don't agree with tough love pushing people into sex or things they don't want for themselves....that is how I got raped! 970 People

    The first time anyone tries to push me into

    something I dont want to, I try to avoid it as much as possible. But if they push me to much Ill rebel. And then get in trouble for it if its my parents doing the pushing.
    tikani tikani 16-17, F Apr 11, 2014

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    When I was younger I had sex with my boss

    after a meeting when I was drunk. I realized what a mistake that was but the next time he saw me he was all over me and me had me give him oral. He like did what he wanted with me until I quit, saying if I didn't my husband would find out. Years later I told my best friend...
    donna415 donna415 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 18

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    I liek how itz a school bus.

    I shall push it into a rivah.
    DELETEDANDGONE DELETEDANDGONE 70+, T Aug 27, 2014

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    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I just hate being pushed into things

    so much that I have been compared to and called a wild dog by some of my friends and family, only for the reason that the harder they push me, the more I fight back until at least one of us gives up. I will say that if they would just let me decide or given a choice instead of...
    REY98 REY98 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2014

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    Sometimes, I realized,

    that most of the things I get pushed into are actually necessary for development. But still, someone forcing you to do something you never thought to or is scared of doing, it never really pays the first few times you play, but once you adapt, it doesn't feel all that bad...
    wolfIncheapclothing wolfIncheapclothing 22-25 Mar 10, 2014

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    A friend of mine was forced into activities

    that he wasn't consensual with. It's horrible to hear to and to think that a person doesn't understand the words "no" or "stop" They are simple words and it's doesn't matter if at first they want to in gage in the activity. If they say stop and that they don't want to a few...
    Jusjellybean Jusjellybean 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I lose respect for people

    who want me do things not of my own will. Can you not tell I am not interested?
    plsdontsitonme plsdontsitonme 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 13

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    Ugh! How many times have I helped family,

    friends,bosses with things that are none of my business! But because they bribe,fiddle or worst MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY......
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M May 11, 2014

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    My entire family keeps asking

    and bringing up driving and I just don't want to do it. Yeah, I realize then I'll have more freedom but I'm terrified of driving. Everyone I know has gotten a ticket or has been in a car crash. My moms forcing me to go tomorrow :ccccccc ugh
    StayAliveFriend StayAliveFriend 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    I'm always pushed into doing things

    and being told what to do. I just want to be an individual
    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2014

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    years ago at work a co-worker got hold of my

    cell phone, sent himself a sexy picture of myself and then texted back and forth between his and my cell phones, making it look like I was like texting him things I didn't. He showed me and said he would show my husband if I didnt do what he wanted
    donna415 donna415 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    If I tell you I'm not comfortable sending you a

    picture, then respect that! Be nice, not pushy then maybe I'll send you one ... But only when and if "I" want to send you one. Thanks.
    StarLily71 StarLily71 41-45, F 3 Responses May 13, 2014

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    AsianGirlSwimmer AsianGirlSwimmer 13-15, F May 26

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    I Think Some Have Taken Tough Love Too Far!

    a psychologist from Qc Move said to me... "you don't appear to be the type of person who would benefit from being bullied into doing things do you?" I thought this was the most stupid statement out... tough love gone too far = bullying... pushing and controlling .... that is not...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2011

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    Once one of my friends tried to hook me up with

    a guy she new sense she was a kid I said no to her about 6 times but on the seventh time I said yes and hanged out with him at the skatepark. It was really fun I learnt how to skat on a skateboard all in a days work he said to me that he really likes spending time with me and he...
    nicole1dreamatatime nicole1dreamatatime 13-15, F Mar 26, 2014

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    domrep2 domrep2 31-35, F 4 Responses May 15

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    i will do it at my my pace,

    or not at all if i dont want to
    Pandorazz Pandorazz 26-30 1 Response May 11, 2014

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    I like to sing. Heck,

    I might even LOVE to sing, but whenever somebody tries to force me to do it I stop wanting to do it anymore. It has been specially annoying at family reunions and jam sessions, even though I know I sing well. If I'm not in the mood, don't ******* insist!
    Hypersomnia Hypersomnia 18-21, F Jun 9

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    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2014

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    You could never push me to do something I don't

    want to do. I don't have that followers mentality. I move to the beat of my own drum.
    Royced45 Royced45 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    Being Pressured Scares Me .

    I like to feel like I'm doing it myself .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Not I

    Not I, You won’t push me, You can try, You won’t succeed, If I don’t want to, Be warned, I won’t!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Sep 26, 2011

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    I Push Back

    It must be a stubborn streak in me, but I absolutely refuse to be pushed into anything.  People who deal with me should learn to be much more savvy so that I don't have a knee-jerk reaction and push back. 
    PrincessAstrid PrincessAstrid 31-35, F Sep 26, 2011

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    Don't Force Me

    If I don't want to do something I'm not going to do it. There might be a way to convince me otherwise if the rationale is good enough but if it's a situation that's going to result in the same old outcome as before then forget about it. Forcing me isn't going to do any good...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2011

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    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F Jun 8

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    I don't like anybody forcing me into anything.

    Especially eating, if I don't like a food and someone tries to make me try it I get angry. All because my ex controlled me, I don't make decisions myself until someone tries to force me into doing things!!
    Lalaleia Lalaleia 18-21, F Jun 8

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    to be honest, as much

    as I like sex, I find that I just am not sexually attracted to anyone, ever. like, people I know always talk about a kid they hooked up with or whatever, and I'm always sitting there like "I don't care much but go on" see...I'm gay. I like men, but I'm not someone who would...
    Kairics Kairics 13-15, T 1 Response May 11

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    So I have know this guy

    since Thursday and I like him a lot and he likes me and he hasn't even asked me out.. But we are both 16 and I feel like I'm ready to loose it! Problem is neither of us don't have protection. What do I do?
    ChattyCathy16 ChattyCathy16 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 21, 2014

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    I'm shy. I have been told to GET OVER my

    shyness. How can you magically just get over shyness? I was forced to talk to people. You can't force anyone to talk to people if they don't feel comfortable doing it. People may think it helps but it doesn't. It makes the person to become even more anxious. Also, being angry at...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Forced Love

    He's so sweat. He's perfect in every way. He's likes me a lot. But I just can't bring myself to have feelings for him, they just aren't there. There's no passion. What do I do what's wrong with me
    Thatbitch13 Thatbitch13 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    There's a school bbq tomorrow

    and my mom is making me go...sorry mom I don't wanna see people from school during my summer :/
    Seven1645 Seven1645 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

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    I hate when people dont take no

    for answer or insist push stuff onto you like going places you rather not or insist you attend stuff with them your not into. pushy people... how would they like it I was pushy back to them? maybe they will get my point.
    freestyleskater freestyleskater 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    I don't like it when people push me & rush me

    into things. I like doing things on my own time, but then I'm also a big procrastinator. So even though I know they're only doing to help me, it's done aggressively, which ****** me off and makes me not want to do it. I'm 21 & a manager at mcdonalds. My family always makes me...
    elease2430 elease2430 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27, 2014

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    danny158 danny158 18-21, M Apr 2

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    I'm bisexual,but don't want anything with males

    at the moment. Well,a friend of my friend started to talk with me few days ago and he asked me if i could go out with him to eat some pizza. I accepted in the friendly way,but didn't explain to him. So he asked if i could do it on his house (Sex involved,obviously!). I don't...
    TRextasy TRextasy 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    Hi I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15 I love him to

    bits but recently he's been asking for sex and trying to do stuff with me. Whenever we're out with friends he's always like "do you want to go for a walk" or "do you wanna come back to mine" he's always trying stuff and I don't know how to say no. I dont know if I want to make...
    megzboo megzboo 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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