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I Dont Like Being Pushed Into Things

I don't agree with tough love pushing people into sex or things they don't want for themselves....that is how I got raped! 480 People

    If I tell you I'm not comfortable sending you a

    picture, then respect that! Be nice, not pushy then maybe I'll send you one ... But only when and if "I" want to send you one. Thanks.
    StarLily71 StarLily71 41-45, F 4 Responses May 13

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    I don't like it when people push me & rush me

    into things. I like doing things on my own time, but then I'm also a big procrastinator. So even though I know they're only doing to help me, it's done aggressively, which ****** me off and makes me not want to do it. I'm 21 & a manager at mcdonalds. My family always makes me...
    elease2430 elease2430 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Forced Love

    He's so sweat. He's perfect in every way. He's likes me a lot. But I just can't bring myself to have feelings for him, they just aren't there. There's no passion. What do I do what's wrong with me
    Thatbitch13 Thatbitch13 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    Don't Force Me

    If I don't want to do something I'm not going to do it. There might be a way to convince me otherwise if the rationale is good enough but if it's a situation that's going to result in the same old outcome as before then forget about it. Forcing me isn't going to do any good...
    Morgause Morgause 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2011

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    I Think Some Have Taken Tough Love Too Far!

    a psychologist from Qc Move said to me... "you don't appear to be the type of person who would benefit from being bullied into doing things do you?" I thought this was the most stupid statement out... tough love gone too far = bullying... pushing and controlling .... that is not...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 10, 2011

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    Not I

    Not I, You won’t push me, You can try, You won’t succeed, If I don’t want to, Be warned, I won’t!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Sep 26, 2011

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    I Push Back

    It must be a stubborn streak in me, but I absolutely refuse to be pushed into anything.  People who deal with me should learn to be much more savvy so that I don't have a knee-jerk reaction and push back. 
    PrincessAstrid PrincessAstrid 31-35, F Sep 26, 2011

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    You could never push me to do something I don't

    want to do. I don't have that followers mentality. I move to the beat of my own drum.
    Royced45 Royced45 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Once one of my friends tried to hook me up with

    a guy she new sense she was a kid I said no to her about 6 times but on the seventh time I said yes and hanged out with him at the skatepark. It was really fun I learnt how to skat on a skateboard all in a days work he said to me that he really likes spending time with me and he...
    nicole1dreamatatime nicole1dreamatatime 13-15, F Mar 26

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    Sometimes, I realized,

    that most of the things I get pushed into are actually necessary for development. But still, someone forcing you to do something you never thought to or is scared of doing, it never really pays the first few times you play, but once you adapt, it doesn't feel all that bad...
    sheepInwolfsclothing sheepInwolfsclothing 22-25 1 Response Mar 10

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    I liek how itz a school bus.

    I shall push it into a rivah.
    thelonerinyourbed thelonerinyourbed 70+, T Aug 27

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    There's a school bbq tomorrow

    and my mom is making me go...sorry mom I don't wanna see people from school during my summer :/
    Seven1645 Seven1645 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    My mother was an opera singer

    and while growing up I got forced into singing as well and I hated it but you could never tell her you wanted to quit because she'd get mad at you for it.
    SchwarzeWitwe SchwarzeWitwe 26-30, M Aug 15

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    Ugh! How many times have I helped family,

    friends,bosses with things that are none of my business! But because they bribe,fiddle or worst MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY......
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M May 11

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    The first time anyone tries to push me into

    something I dont want to, I try to avoid it as much as possible. But if they push me to much Ill rebel. And then get in trouble for it if its my parents doing the pushing.
    tikani tikani 16-17, F Apr 11

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    So I have know this guy

    since Thursday and I like him a lot and he likes me and he hasn't even asked me out.. But we are both 16 and I feel like I'm ready to loose it! Problem is neither of us don't have protection. What do I do?
    ChattyCathy16 ChattyCathy16 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 21

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    i will do it at my my pace,

    or not at all if i dont want to
    Pandorazz Pandorazz 26-30 1 Response May 11

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