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I Don't Like Being Told to Get Out More

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    It's a Little Something Called.

    AGORAPHOBIA!  It's not a joke or something I made up.  It is a real thing that I suffer from. Not only that, but I don't have transportation to get anywhere.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2009

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    The Dumbest Suggestion I've Ever Heard

    If I could get out, I wouldn't be sittin' here, discussing it with you now would I?
    TurboSaxophonic TurboSaxophonic 16-17, M Jul 5, 2012

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    True

    I'm fine to stay at home. I can be on the net, read, watch my DVD's.  
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 13, 2009

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    I Don't Like Going Out....

    I don't like going out. I don't feel safe being out there. I have a hard time trusting people. I just don't feel comfortable being around people. I just hate it all to start with. That is why I do most of my schooling online. I don't go out unless I really...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    Hi

    I do not like being told this either. I am a strong willed person at times and I think sometimes that I can only cure my own problems. In my case I need extra help from people and wellness and such. When I only rely on myself I fail in helping myself adn others.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 5, 2010

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    Why Can't You Understand?

     I have major anxiety issues. I don't want to face the world too much. Putting up this fake, normal front is getting to be too much. I can't take it anymore. I just want to hide and disappear forever. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    Get Out?

    Where am i suppose to go to get out more? if you are going to tell me to get out more then give me my options. I hang out with friends, play pool, see a movie, or go shopping. On occasion i have even been known to go to a party. Where else do you want me to go? Hang out at the...
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    I Don'T Like Being Told To Get Out More

    I'm glad to know other people who usually have fun on their own at home and have been told to "get out more." I have been comfortable with doing fun things at home regularly.  I get told something like the "get out more" by my older sister.  She wants me to do this, and I have...
    MDenise MDenise 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2013

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