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I Don't Like Conflict

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    I Hate It

    As far back as I can remember my parents were always arguing either with each other, with me, or with some random person we knew. Every day, everywhere I go there's people yelling at each other and at me. I hate it. I usually either run away and find some place to wait it out...
    L96Arctic L96Arctic 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 23, 2012

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    Shell Shock

     i blame it on all the violence when i was small.when i hear someone rasing their voice i get jumpy .and i will leave.but ,when someone pushes it.i will get into an argument.i try to avoid this,but there are those who love doing that.when i ws younger,if i heard my parents...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Aug 22, 2009

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    I'm Sick Of Drama

    my life has been one long soap opera since I was a baby.. Dear Lord if I were to tell you it all I'd have to write a series of novels! So I'll put it simply.. I'm sick of it! I just want a simple quiet life of happiness! Thanks for listening.. just needed to explode. :)
    lovingexpress lovingexpress 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2011

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    The Let It Go Song

    It's that time of year, so I wrote a little ditty to the tune of "Let It Snow". LET IT GO!   Oh, the weather online is frightful, And some folks are getting spiteful. The quarrel has no place to go. Let it go!  Let it go!  Let it go!  ...
    Myonis108 Myonis108 56-60, F 10 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    What Is Conflict?

    division is the cause to all conflict!!? right? and we make divisions very personal not just national? we hurt with our division we hate - kill - steal - lie - division means to seprate from the root!... that is powerful stuff right if we look at the meaning of words and the...
    burwi333 burwi333 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2010

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    All The Peace In The World ...

    I hate conflicts .. I hate fighting .. I wish all the peace in the world .. You may say Im a dreamer .. But Im not the only one .. And If I was a dreamer .. I would rather live in the dream world .. Than this cruel world ..
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Upsetting

    screaming was usually the way my family communicated with each other and i remember countless times when my dad would yell at me til i cried now i've noticed whenever i hear someone shouting at another person, i start tearing up and on the rare occasion i actually start to...
    AllHallowsEve AllHallowsEve 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Can't We All Just Get Along?

    Of course not. I don't like conflict, especially when there is no good cause, but I'm not one to avoid it either. I just stay lost in my own little world until provoked.
    butterflygirl09 butterflygirl09 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    It Causes Me Pain

    stressful situations cause my fibromyalgia pain to kick into high gear. yet another reason why i don't like conflict. i also hate pointless debate-type forums where people attack each other for their beliefs, knowing that neither side is going to change their mind. why not just...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2007

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    The Conflict Button Died

    I grew up in a small town was i guess i should of seen this coming in box full of drama. Its the same circle that goes around in my town and i find even in some of my past relationship's you always have the one person who stand out, who tries to make trouble where there isn't any...
    Thewarriorofheart Thewarriorofheart 18-21, T Jan 25, 2012

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    Can't Stand It..but It Likes Me

    I hate conflict I guess because I grew up in a home full of it, my parents fighting over stuff, and me fighting with my father cause for some reason that was the only way we could communicate, then it was like that with some guys I dated not all but some, and then of course other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    Too Much Drama

    I hate conflict and I dont know many who like it,But I am not stupid enough to avoid it at all cost like I want to be. Sometimes you have to go through it in order for things to work out.
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2007

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    Conflict

    I rarely confront people because I don't like conflict. I'd rather just live with the problem, solve it myself, or let it fade away over time. I only confront people if it's absolutely necessary, and usually it isn't.
    sondosia sondosia 18-21, F Jul 17, 2007

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    Conflict

    Conflict,Hate it,Avoid at all cost,It's just not worth it.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Apr 29, 2012

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    UnrealSpectre UnrealSpectre 26-30, M 6 days ago

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    Know what i mean? I don't like to be forced to learn something.
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    My Dad is unemployed and a sore loser. He is an alcoholic who like to spend his time going to bars and getting drunk. I hate when my parents have to argue and fight sometimes. My...
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    Not really, I don't much give a damn personally. I don't have a dad and never really did, much like a few of my friends and few others with particularly BAD fathers. We've...
    elipses elipses 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I feel like if you're a stranger and you call me these names, you've already explained how you feel about me. When a man that I don't know says this to me, it usually has some...
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    In every love story, there will always be a Romeo and a Juliet. Happily Ever Afters. Battles. And fighting for a loved one. It's been written in book for years, decades...
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    but sometimes people are just annoying and can be over confident so I just tell them how it is but most times I don't like it because people feel sad and selfless
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