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I Don't Like Conflict

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 317 People

    Upsetting

    screaming was usually the way my family communicated with each other and i remember countless times when my dad would yell at me til i cried now i've noticed whenever i hear someone shouting at another person, i start tearing up and on the rare occasion i actually start to...
    AllHallowsEve AllHallowsEve 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Can't Stand It..but It Likes Me

    I hate conflict I guess because I grew up in a home full of it, my parents fighting over stuff, and me fighting with my father cause for some reason that was the only way we could communicate, then it was like that with some guys I dated not all but some, and then of course other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    Shell Shock

     i blame it on all the violence when i was small.when i hear someone rasing their voice i get jumpy .and i will leave.but ,when someone pushes it.i will get into an argument.i try to avoid this,but there are those who love doing that.when i ws younger,if i heard my parents...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Aug 22, 2009

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    I Hate It

    As far back as I can remember my parents were always arguing either with each other, with me, or with some random person we knew. Every day, everywhere I go there's people yelling at each other and at me. I hate it. I usually either run away and find some place to wait it out...
    L96Arctic L96Arctic 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 23, 2012

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    Too Much Drama

    I hate conflict and I dont know many who like it,But I am not stupid enough to avoid it at all cost like I want to be. Sometimes you have to go through it in order for things to work out.
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2007

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    Can't We All Just Get Along?

    Of course not. I don't like conflict, especially when there is no good cause, but I'm not one to avoid it either. I just stay lost in my own little world until provoked.
    butterflygirl09 butterflygirl09 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    The Conflict Button Died

    I grew up in a small town was i guess i should of seen this coming in box full of drama. Its the same circle that goes around in my town and i find even in some of my past relationship's you always have the one person who stand out, who tries to make trouble where there isn't any...
    Thewarriorofheart Thewarriorofheart 18-21, T Jan 25, 2012

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    All The Peace In The World ...

    I hate conflicts .. I hate fighting .. I wish all the peace in the world .. You may say Im a dreamer .. But Im not the only one .. And If I was a dreamer .. I would rather live in the dream world .. Than this cruel world ..
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Conflict

    Conflict,Hate it,Avoid at all cost,It's just not worth it.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Apr 29, 2012

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    The Let It Go Song

    It's that time of year, so I wrote a little ditty to the tune of "Let It Snow". LET IT GO!   Oh, the weather online is frightful, And some folks are getting spiteful. The quarrel has no place to go. Let it go!  Let it go!  Let it go!  ...
    Myonis108 Myonis108 56-60, F 10 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    What Is Conflict?

    division is the cause to all conflict!!? right? and we make divisions very personal not just national? we hurt with our division we hate - kill - steal - lie - division means to seprate from the root!... that is powerful stuff right if we look at the meaning of words and the...
    burwi333 burwi333 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2010

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    I'm Sick Of Drama

    my life has been one long soap opera since I was a baby.. Dear Lord if I were to tell you it all I'd have to write a series of novels! So I'll put it simply.. I'm sick of it! I just want a simple quiet life of happiness! Thanks for listening.. just needed to explode. :)
    lovingexpress lovingexpress 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2011

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    Conflict

    I rarely confront people because I don't like conflict. I'd rather just live with the problem, solve it myself, or let it fade away over time. I only confront people if it's absolutely necessary, and usually it isn't.
    sondosia sondosia 18-21, F Jul 17, 2007

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    It Causes Me Pain

    stressful situations cause my fibromyalgia pain to kick into high gear. yet another reason why i don't like conflict. i also hate pointless debate-type forums where people attack each other for their beliefs, knowing that neither side is going to change their mind. why not just...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2007

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    I don't like any feelings they hurt too much...
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    They scare me. I don't like the masses of people that a crowd is...
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    in my housekeeping department this has always been a big issue. coworkers talking about other coworkers how they don't do the job right or someway or another. like they are the...
    peppit peppit 36-40, M 2 hrs ago

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    Especially when these people are close to you, be it friends, or in-laws. In my case its the ol' bad in-law story. I've fallen in love with a very good man and he's in love with me...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I hate it when my bf feels the need to hide his true self to me. I wonder why? It is painful. I respect privacy but if you feel there's something that should be left unsaid maybe...
    lkmlkmlkm lkmlkmlkm 26-30, F Mar 3

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    i always want to know the truth straight up no matter how much it's gonna hurt . i have noticed how so many people lie and don't even care about it . they don't feel bad for lying...
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    i always want to know the truth straight up no matter how much it's gonna hurt . i have noticed how so many people lie and don't even care about it . they don't feel bad for lying...
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    I suffer from terrible anxiety but I don't know if that has anything to do with it....however whenever I am on the phone to someone I am always worrying that I will have something...
    TheHeartOfALovingSoul TheHeartOfALovingSoul 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    I'm close with a few people in my life. I'm not anti social or anything like that, I just can't afford to get close to people. When I meet someone, I analyze and observe. I size...
    MajesticMia MajesticMia 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    I like a few kids who are well behaved, more laidback, and easygoing. Ones who don't constantly give back talk and they can be taken in public, know how to clean up after their...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I have friends and family who are gay or lesbian and I love them to death :) At times I fear for them when it comes to homophobic people. Like one time at my second oldest brother...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    'Coz l only care and feel sad when my favorite friends doesn't talk to me. I don't care others hate me. Oh hate me if you want.lol HATERS everywhere.
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F Feb 27

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    And I don't mean in a game of scrabble. I am talking about those people who have fidelity issues. I am so loyal and when I give love I give it all, so I would appreciate it if the...
    DaffodilDeary95 DaffodilDeary95 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    So for Christmas my husband bought me tickets to see Garth brooks which I'm super excited about. Today is the concert and we are staying overnight in Detroit we went up early to do...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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