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I Don't Like Conflict

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    All The Peace In The World ...

    I hate conflicts .. I hate fighting .. I wish all the peace in the world .. You may say Im a dreamer .. But Im not the only one .. And If I was a dreamer .. I would rather live in the dream world .. Than this cruel world ..
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Shell Shock

     i blame it on all the violence when i was small.when i hear someone rasing their voice i get jumpy .and i will leave.but ,when someone pushes it.i will get into an argument.i try to avoid this,but there are those who love doing that.when i ws younger,if i heard my parents...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Aug 22, 2009

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    Conflict

    I rarely confront people because I don't like conflict. I'd rather just live with the problem, solve it myself, or let it fade away over time. I only confront people if it's absolutely necessary, and usually it isn't.
    sondosia sondosia 18-21, F Jul 17, 2007

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    Upsetting

    screaming was usually the way my family communicated with each other and i remember countless times when my dad would yell at me til i cried now i've noticed whenever i hear someone shouting at another person, i start tearing up and on the rare occasion i actually start to...
    AllHallowsEve AllHallowsEve 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    What Is Conflict?

    division is the cause to all conflict!!? right? and we make divisions very personal not just national? we hurt with our division we hate - kill - steal - lie - division means to seprate from the root!... that is powerful stuff right if we look at the meaning of words and the...
    burwi333 burwi333 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2010

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    Too Much Drama

    I hate conflict and I dont know many who like it,But I am not stupid enough to avoid it at all cost like I want to be. Sometimes you have to go through it in order for things to work out.
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2007

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    The Let It Go Song

    It's that time of year, so I wrote a little ditty to the tune of "Let It Snow". LET IT GO!   Oh, the weather online is frightful, And some folks are getting spiteful. The quarrel has no place to go. Let it go!  Let it go!  Let it go!  ...
    Myonis108 Myonis108 56-60, F 10 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    Conflict

    Conflict,Hate it,Avoid at all cost,It's just not worth it.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Apr 29, 2012

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    Especially conflicts online.

    I completely understand that your personal opinions might not gel with the next person's but I don't see it as a reason to go apeshit and start yelling at your monitor in the hopes that the person you are replying to might possibly hear you. Maybe try screaming louder...
    KarlKadaver KarlKadaver 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 21, 2015

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    Can't Stand It..but It Likes Me

    I hate conflict I guess because I grew up in a home full of it, my parents fighting over stuff, and me fighting with my father cause for some reason that was the only way we could communicate, then it was like that with some guys I dated not all but some, and then of course other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    Can't We All Just Get Along?

    Of course not. I don't like conflict, especially when there is no good cause, but I'm not one to avoid it either. I just stay lost in my own little world until provoked.
    butterflygirl09 butterflygirl09 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    The Conflict Button Died

    I grew up in a small town was i guess i should of seen this coming in box full of drama. Its the same circle that goes around in my town and i find even in some of my past relationship's you always have the one person who stand out, who tries to make trouble where there isn't any...
    Thewarriorofheart Thewarriorofheart 18-21, T Jan 25, 2012

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    I try my best not to get into conflicts with

    people especially with family or friends. I don't have enough energy anymore for stupidity so I simply ignore and keep away.
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    It Causes Me Pain

    stressful situations cause my fibromyalgia pain to kick into high gear. yet another reason why i don't like conflict. i also hate pointless debate-type forums where people attack each other for their beliefs, knowing that neither side is going to change their mind. why not just...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2007

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    I Hate It

    As far back as I can remember my parents were always arguing either with each other, with me, or with some random person we knew. Every day, everywhere I go there's people yelling at each other and at me. I hate it. I usually either run away and find some place to wait it out...
    L96Arctic L96Arctic 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 23, 2012

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    I'm Sick Of Drama

    my life has been one long soap opera since I was a baby.. Dear Lord if I were to tell you it all I'd have to write a series of novels! So I'll put it simply.. I'm sick of it! I just want a simple quiet life of happiness! Thanks for listening.. just needed to explode. :)
    lovingexpress lovingexpress 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2011

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    I've had my share of conflicts in my past

    and have learned many lessons. It not worth all the stress.
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I guess it's truly an ugly feeling to feel ignored until someone needs you for something, and even then they just don't. It feels like friends or family members and relatives...
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    Neither do I. That is one item of clothing that I'll never wear, pants or even shorts. Besides in my eyes, that's never in style. What I think, in my eyes would be in style, would...
    JamieLynnCarlin45 JamieLynnCarlin45 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Now it's not that I don't LIKE my friend anymore, but it's complicated so I'm open to any suggestions anyone can give me. I never really had many friends up until college, I was...
    Carver112 Carver112 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    Elspet Elspet 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It has always felt like an indulgence I don't have time for on my already long list of indulgences. Plus..when I eat plain toast like I usually do everyday I feel inescapably...
    Dan412 Dan412 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Here we go again.......I've been hearing lately about all the bullshit crap going on in Hollywood about the white man dissing the black man again...AGAIN!!! I am so F'N SICK of...
    Spitbak Spitbak 46-50, M a week ago

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    I probably don't like you either. Just means one less person talking to me for no reason.
    Ordinarylady Ordinarylady 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    Please youngsters, don't be offended by what i have to say. I have nothing against you, i just am at a different time in my life. I've become a little more impatient. I don't...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I'll tell you the truth...even when you don't want to hear it. slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    To an extent* if I don't want to but I know I should I'll do it, but if I don't want to and I don't have to I'll get out of it somehow unless it would hurt someone else's feelings...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 27

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    Ugh especially at school when the lunch room area or a class room gets too loud. All those voices talking at once. It gets too loud that I get annoyed and I feel like yelling at...
    EnigmaticPerson EnigmaticPerson 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Every now and then, I get this overwhelming feeling. I start noticing how most people I meet or know don't talk to me. My family puts me on the bottom of their priority list and...
    Dereth Dereth 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    But I don't have to put up with you being an ******* either.
    savoy2 savoy2 46-50, M Jan 26

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    And here we go with yet another reason to cut all ties with my family. My youngest niece was taking part in the annual Music Festival in the local town hall today, so I took mum...
    Rjb1970 Rjb1970 41-45, M Jan 25

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    1: People who want an animal but know nothing about the animal they want. 2: People who only see what's in front of themselves. 3: People who worry about what is on their plate...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 25

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    1. Insincerity 2. Cats - Deathly allergic 3. Political and religious strong arm and fear mongers 4. Ketchup 5. Close minded people - racist, those that don't look at the handicap...
    NobleDebaucher NobleDebaucher 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I don't know how to express my feelings so I tend to just ignore them. Like when I do know I'm feeling upset, I pretend I'm fine.
    Juliette20 Juliette20 18-21, F Jan 23

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    nobody understands ... I don't know how to deal with the pain anymore
    Nadiarenee Nadiarenee 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    that moment you are so happy you found someone to trust, but then you say something so stupid that they begin to think wrong and you loose them....:'( don't be stupid like me or...
    gabster0425 gabster0425 13-15, F Jan 21

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    I ended up marrying a man 30 years older than me and I regret it every day. I was 16 when we meet and it was just 3 months after losing my mother who I was extremely close to. We...
    PeyMae PeyMae 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21

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