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I Don't Like Conflict

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 323 People

    What Is Conflict?

    division is the cause to all conflict!!? right? and we make divisions very personal not just national? we hurt with our division we hate - kill - steal - lie - division means to seprate from the root!... that is powerful stuff right if we look at the meaning of words and the...
    burwi333 burwi333 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 24, 2010

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    Can't Stand It..but It Likes Me

    I hate conflict I guess because I grew up in a home full of it, my parents fighting over stuff, and me fighting with my father cause for some reason that was the only way we could communicate, then it was like that with some guys I dated not all but some, and then of course other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    All The Peace In The World ...

    I hate conflicts .. I hate fighting .. I wish all the peace in the world .. You may say Im a dreamer .. But Im not the only one .. And If I was a dreamer .. I would rather live in the dream world .. Than this cruel world ..
    DollyDiva DollyDiva 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    Conflict

    Conflict,Hate it,Avoid at all cost,It's just not worth it.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Apr 29, 2012

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    It Causes Me Pain

    stressful situations cause my fibromyalgia pain to kick into high gear. yet another reason why i don't like conflict. i also hate pointless debate-type forums where people attack each other for their beliefs, knowing that neither side is going to change their mind. why not just...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2007

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    The Let It Go Song

    It's that time of year, so I wrote a little ditty to the tune of "Let It Snow". LET IT GO!   Oh, the weather online is frightful, And some folks are getting spiteful. The quarrel has no place to go. Let it go!  Let it go!  Let it go!  ...
    Myonis108 Myonis108 56-60, F 10 Responses Dec 1, 2008

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    Can't We All Just Get Along?

    Of course not. I don't like conflict, especially when there is no good cause, but I'm not one to avoid it either. I just stay lost in my own little world until provoked.
    butterflygirl09 butterflygirl09 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Shell Shock

     i blame it on all the violence when i was small.when i hear someone rasing their voice i get jumpy .and i will leave.but ,when someone pushes it.i will get into an argument.i try to avoid this,but there are those who love doing that.when i ws younger,if i heard my parents...
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 Aug 22, 2009

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    Too Much Drama

    I hate conflict and I dont know many who like it,But I am not stupid enough to avoid it at all cost like I want to be. Sometimes you have to go through it in order for things to work out.
    blackcat blackcat 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2007

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    Upsetting

    screaming was usually the way my family communicated with each other and i remember countless times when my dad would yell at me til i cried now i've noticed whenever i hear someone shouting at another person, i start tearing up and on the rare occasion i actually start to...
    AllHallowsEve AllHallowsEve 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 3, 2010

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    War

    Seems strange doesn't it? For a full blooded Aries to say that they don't like conflict would seem to be a gross oxymoron but I really don't enjoy fighting. I hate hurting people, plenty of my detractors and enemies will say otherwise. You ever wonder what the difference between...
    RoaringFlameLostinShadow RoaringFlameLostinShadow 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 21, 2011

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    Conflict

    I rarely confront people because I don't like conflict. I'd rather just live with the problem, solve it myself, or let it fade away over time. I only confront people if it's absolutely necessary, and usually it isn't.
    sondosia sondosia 18-21, F Jul 17, 2007

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    I'm Sick Of Drama

    my life has been one long soap opera since I was a baby.. Dear Lord if I were to tell you it all I'd have to write a series of novels! So I'll put it simply.. I'm sick of it! I just want a simple quiet life of happiness! Thanks for listening.. just needed to explode. :)
    lovingexpress lovingexpress 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2011

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    I Hate It

    As far back as I can remember my parents were always arguing either with each other, with me, or with some random person we knew. Every day, everywhere I go there's people yelling at each other and at me. I hate it. I usually either run away and find some place to wait it out...
    L96Arctic L96Arctic 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 23, 2012

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    Give In Too Often

     I hate it when there's a hairy argument.  I'd just as rather give in than fight about most anything.  That has been a problem all my life.  My parents fought a lot, maybe I just hate to hear people shouting and so on.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 4 Responses Apr 6, 2009

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    The Conflict Button Died

    I grew up in a small town was i guess i should of seen this coming in box full of drama. Its the same circle that goes around in my town and i find even in some of my past relationship's you always have the one person who stand out, who tries to make trouble where there isn't any...
    Thewarriorofheart Thewarriorofheart 18-21, T Jan 25, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I hate the image and cage engraved by the ppl who don't like me. I don't like them either but I don't spread my opinions about them. just because my individual experience with them...
    TheAnonymous99 TheAnonymous99 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    I really don't care. I accepted way back that not everyone is going to like me. Sure it may have bothered me a time or two. Now What bothers me is people who pretend to like me but...
    lake1107 lake1107 31-35, F Nov 29

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    I don't really get the whole process of doing this? Like who are you to shame someone for being themselves. I feel if you don't like something about yourself change it. And for...
    AshCakes AshCakes 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    I don't feel comfortable in a swimsuit with my body type. Not even a one piece I just don't want others to see my stretch marks and I don't like my thighs
    AshCakes AshCakes 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    Okay so my in laws and I don't get along! They are sneaky, deceptive, fake, and the list could go on and on One example out of many is when I was in the hospital having my...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I really don't like how they portray gay people in the media as these really flamboyant and fashion savvy men with heavy lisps and these butch lesbians with short hair, deep voices...
    SylverCoyote SylverCoyote 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 29

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    I literally met this guy on this app and he chatted me first. At first it was okay until he started being mean. He mad me feel terrible on the inside and I just wanted to meet new...
    quarioj quarioj 16-17, M 3 Responses Dec 1

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    I am who i am, unless your close to me i could care less if you don't like me. Everybody can't like everybody. That would just be boring
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M Nov 23

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    Yeah I don't like it, I don't find it sexist I just think it's a bit personal for a stranger to call me that, babe is the worst!
    claireblack claireblack 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 25

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    I don't like labels. Why so we have to label everything? I don't know care if you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender etc. if that's who you are, I totally and utterly respect...
    trappedgirl17 trappedgirl17 16-17, F Nov 28

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    some of my old ex women I don't like running into they as lost it in the head
    marvel901jones marvel901jones 41-45, M Nov 19

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    I don't like wearing bikinis because of my stretch marks being on my butt cheeks and lower back. It's Embarrassing. I wouldn't even go skinny dipping with friends. If I do put on a...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Nov 21

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    Seriously though, grow up. what are we 5? Im not even gay and i don't like it. People do stuff. Get over it
    TheWickedJester TheWickedJester 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I don't like it because I hate silent moments when I said what I needed to say and want to hang up but you still want to stay on the phone. Rather text, so I could reply when I see...
    samsdname samsdname 18-21, F Nov 25

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    I hate wearing skirts ever since my step dad started touching me so no I don't like them
    cattie1283 cattie1283 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 8

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    They don't like me because I'm getting in the way of their beloved future med school graduate.
    twelves twelves 22-25 Dec 11

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    Last night, I was knackered because of the work. So I hit the bed just to relax. The time was 19:30 hours, at that moment, if I am not wrong and the next thing I know is, I was...
    M3MC M3MC 22-25, M a week ago

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    First, you lied about your job. Second, you lied about your name. Third, I don't know maybe you're married after all? I'd like to be your friend. It was clear to you what my...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I just feel really awkward when it happens. I've ran into a few people & it's been an alright experience I've said hi or hey, throw a smile...if it's an old high school friend...
    Isayis23 Isayis23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    Its really hard when you've lived with a parent who is so against people who are gay and you are completely for it. You don't want to cause problems so you don't disagree with them...
    Lai96 Lai96 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I am a 21 year old college student. I have a narcissistic personality disorder, but am seeing a counselor and dealing with it day to day.My family has supported me my entire life...
    Anon0ne Anon0ne 18-21, M Nov 27

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    That moment when people talk about their relationship, and how it's working so well ect. I really try to be happy for those people, but in truth I just feel like someone is waving...
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M Dec 6

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    AM I A SCROOGE? Christmas for me has become, in the passed few years a major downer. It's not that I think that Christmas is stupid, I just can't seem to enjoy it anymore. When...
    mrbill349 mrbill349 66-70, M 4 days ago

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    I don't mind a hand squeeze every now and then, but no I don't generally like to hold hands...unless it's with small children. There is something so sweet when my little students...
    HeavensSkies HeavensSkies 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    Makes me nervous. Especially if I don't know them, I never enjoy concerts because of it, I don't get nervous attacks but nonetheless, I hate crowds.
    LeoNyxus LeoNyxus 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 19

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    i like to get right to the point if you would like to message me feel free to but please get to the point don't be afraid of how i might respond i will be direct but nice i really...
    tbobo1 tbobo1 46-50, M Nov 23

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    ... I am married and in a committed and Polyamorous marriage.. I love my lovers.. what I don't have to do is bring their lovers into my marriage or my relationships. If their...
    GypsyHeartedPoet GypsyHeartedPoet 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    They tend to be loud, they have nothing sensible to say, they act or are stupid, they are selfish and self-centered, many of them don't have the sense to stay out from behind the...
    paulie138 paulie138 66-70, M 1 Response Nov 28

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    Please.. Don't even bother trying to offend me/hurt my feelings, belittle me...it just won't work-_-. You end up just wasting your time, and I just continue being content. :)
    TrixtenB TrixtenB 22-25, F Nov 29

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    I've learned to hate them instead of love them. But you know what? It doesn't matter because when you don't know a girl and you try to talk too her don't keep trying if she says...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 29

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    I was speaking to a friend of mine and my sexuality came up, unfortunately this is a regular occurrence. She said "why can't I have a gay best friend? I know you're bi but I want a...
    flamingfangirl flamingfangirl 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 29

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