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I Don't Like Confrontations But Stand Up For What I Believe

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    Do Not Like Them...but Force Me......and You Will Not Like It!!

    I do not like confrontations....but someone forces me to be in them...well it will be your loss, I will fight to the bitter end, stand up for my self to the end. If one puts me in that situation, you better be ready for one hell of a fight, I do not back down for anything if I am...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Aug 23, 2010

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    To A Degree

    In short, I am not one to rock the boat but if my back is against the wall, regardless of the consequence, I will fight you. If I am threatened in any way, even if I have no chance of success, I will fight to the death. Of course, if I am not effected either way, and its just a...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M Dec 20, 2011

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    This explains it well.

    I hate confrontation. Hate it. I will often try to avoid meaningless and useless disputes. However, I will stand up for what I believe in, and I will stand up for myself - because no one has the right to tell me who or what I am, or what I should or should not be doing, or what...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F Feb 14

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    I Have To...

    I don't enjoy arguments or confrontations... I suffer from anxiety, so these two things makes things difficult for me and send me into panic attacks and have my life spiraling out of control. Sleepless nights, lots of tears, not eating, and jumpy too. :-( So, I try to avoid both...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 20, 2008

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    Hate It

    I hate conflict but there comes a time when you have to stand up for what is right.  I will always stand up for the underdog.  I will always stand up for abused persons.  I will always stand up for children. There are many things I believe in and will risk the...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Reluctantly, But It Must Be Done

    i don't like arguments. i don't like confrontation.   " If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything".   i definitely have beliefs and principles that i will stand up for, whenever and wherever the situation demands it. i will also stand...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    No Sense...

    ...having a belief without the will to stand up for it. I hate conflict... but I will stand up for what is right, even in the face of conflict. My beliefs would not mean that much to me if I was willing to see them trampled upon! But beyond that, I am very...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M Sep 9, 2009

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    You Gotta Fight For Your Right

    i think it takes alot of courage to be non confrontational especially if you really are
    theluckyduck theluckyduck 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 4, 2009

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    It Has...

    This has evolved within me.  I tend to avoid conflict, however if something is concerned with beliefs and principles, I will stand up for them.  It can be sometimes a weakness, as I still try to stand up against arrogance and opinions that will not change, as they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2008

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    Drama.

    I Hate Getting In Fights Or Arguing With People. Most Of The Time I Just Walk Away. And I Dont Get In An Argument Unless i Know I Am Right.     I Always Stand Up For What I Believe.
    cry7 cry7 22-25, M Feb 27, 2009

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    Conflict Resolution

    I never finished my degree, but when I was going to school, my major was communications.  I took a course in Conflict Resolution and Mediation.  I loved this course! I learned how to help solve a conflict between myself and others, and how...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    I Stand Up For What I Believe.

    I don't push my beliefs on other people but when I feel like my toes are getting stepped on I will say something. One thing that bothers me, for example, is how some people are offended by stuff like people celebrating Christmas or other holidays. I think everyone should be free...
    monsterdog81 monsterdog81 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 30, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Here on EP, I have met a lot of guys. Some are really older than me but sweet in friendly ways, however there are also some with different intentions. I'm going to state it now...
    PassionateIndifference PassionateIndifference 13-15, F 8 Responses Mar 3

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    I Know They're Trying To Help But....let's face it, I don't like having to wait in the hospital waiting room because I get bored easily - I mean there's no music for me to listen...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 9

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    I'll answer it but I don't like it. People who know me know that I prefer they call before they come over. People who don't know me seldom get through my front door.
    woundaround woundaround 56-60, F Mar 14

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    It's not that I don't like them exactly (and they aren't even in laws yet, but it's going to happen soon). It's just that they're constantly in our business and they blow things...
    imal0serbabyx imal0serbabyx 22-25, F Mar 19

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    Well I made it my goal today to call my doctor and ask her about my echocardiogram order so I can get my heart murmur checked out and (hopefully) get my birth control. I don't...
    HelloLovelyPerson HelloLovelyPerson 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    For romance. I don't like them dark, light, mixed. Any black I don't like. I'm black so I'm not racist, all my bffs are black. They make awesome friends but are very unattractive...
    TrackStackz TrackStackz 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I don't like MEN that use good hearted WOMEN
    starzzy333 starzzy333 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    My only major friend that I have never talks to me unless we are at school, I feel like she doesn't like me but knows that at school there is no way for me to leave her alone...
    puggy64 puggy64 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Don't Like Going To The Dentist At All
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    They scare me. I don't like the masses of people that a crowd is...
    flowahead flowahead 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Don't Like Going To The Dentist At All
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I constantly have dreams of going to the dentist and all my teeth fall out. I don't like people all up in my grill, or my mouth.
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 16-17, T 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've been alone for many years.The reasons to why are numerous.Life responsibilities and health issues kept getting in the way of living, in a relationship, with a woman. Things...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I don't want my girlfriend to move to Canada :'(
    illnameitlater illnameitlater 26-30, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I hate people. I don't see myself ever trusting another human being. He was suppose to be my friend that's what he said over and over thru out the years. I started to believe it...
    jadedforeternity jadedforeternity 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Like half of the comments are stupid.. Half. I need to learn to just not look at them. It's usually a waste of time, and there are always those next-level stupid comments that...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I draw, that is my talent. I draw whenever I have free time. I learned how to multitask so that I could just draw anytime. I also bring my Sketchpad anywhere we go, It calms me...
    ZairinChan ZairinChan 13-15 Mar 7

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    I hate it when my bf feels the need to hide his true self to me. I wonder why? It is painful. I respect privacy but if you feel there's something that should be left unsaid maybe...
    lkmlkmlkm lkmlkmlkm 26-30, F Mar 3

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    I've been in Erasmus last year and this semestre I can't relate to anybody, I don't know what I want, where to go, what to do, I get anxious, depressed, I don't know what to do...
    marihelena marihelena 22-25, F Mar 5

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    Especially when these people are close to you, be it friends, or in-laws. In my case its the ol' bad in-law story. I've fallen in love with a very good man and he's in love with me...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I have friends and family who are gay or lesbian and I love them to death :) At times I fear for them when it comes to homophobic people. Like one time at my second oldest brother...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I don't mean people wanting to talk or "cyber" All that's cool, but come on don't be a perv. Don't be disrespectful and disgusting. Don't jump right into it and start sending me d...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    I'm close with a few people in my life. I'm not anti social or anything like that, I just can't afford to get close to people. When I meet someone, I analyze and observe. I size...
    MajesticMia MajesticMia 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 13

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    WTF guy I do NOT look 18?! Wtf?? He looked like 30 so there's no excuse either smh.. I wasn't rude to him at the time, but this is basically what I was thinking. Lol it'd be sad if...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I'm starting to care less about people, which is terrifying because that's all I used to do. I was always the caring and listening one. I would always be there for other people no...
    Twon Twon 22-25 1 Response Mar 19

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    😮 Maybe this is because of my wifi, but I keep having glitches and other problems today.. Some of my replies double-post, some don't post at all, my messages are already read...
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F Mar 21

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    in my housekeeping department this has always been a big issue. coworkers talking about other coworkers how they don't do the job right or someway or another. like they are the...
    peppit peppit 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    But I care if you hurt me. Well........ actually, I don't care. Hahahaha.
    SynchronicityMagic SynchronicityMagic 61-65, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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    i always want to know the truth straight up no matter how much it's gonna hurt . i have noticed how so many people lie and don't even care about it . they don't feel bad for lying...
    OccultumLapidem OccultumLapidem 22-25, M Mar 6

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    i always want to know the truth straight up no matter how much it's gonna hurt . i have noticed how so many people lie and don't even care about it . they don't feel bad for lying...
    OccultumLapidem OccultumLapidem 22-25, M Mar 6

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    I just have to say this, I don't think anyone who is straight, knows the struggle that gay people go through. I know some straights are cool and chill to be around. And then you...
    taurusboi23 taurusboi23 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 7