I Don't Like Confrontations But Stand Up For What I Believe

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    I have story to tell you guys

    whenever I was littlemy teacher called my best friend and Nit really set me off and I beat her up for doing this I almost got put in jail
    Ladystone Ladystone
    18-21, F
    Jul 4, 2015

    Do Not Like Them...but Force Me......and You Will Not Like It!!

    I do not like confrontations....but someone forces me to be in them...well it will be your loss, I will fight to the bitter end, stand up for my self to the end. If one puts me in that situation, you better be ready for one hell of a fight, I do not back down for anything if I am...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 23, 2010

    Reluctantly, But It Must Be Done

    i don't like arguments. i don't like confrontation.   " If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything".   i definitely have beliefs and principles that i will stand up for, whenever and wherever the situation demands it. i will also stand...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    4 Responses Dec 19, 2008

    I Have To...

    I don't enjoy arguments or confrontations... I suffer from anxiety, so these two things makes things difficult for me and send me into panic attacks and have my life spiraling out of control. Sleepless nights, lots of tears, not eating, and jumpy too. :-( So, I try to avoid both...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 20, 2008

    Drama.

    I Hate Getting In Fights Or Arguing With People. Most Of The Time I Just Walk Away. And I Dont Get In An Argument Unless i Know I Am Right.     I Always Stand Up For What I Believe.
    cry7 cry7
    22-25, M
    Feb 27, 2009

    It Has...

    This has evolved within me.  I tend to avoid conflict, however if something is concerned with beliefs and principles, I will stand up for them.  It can be sometimes a weakness, as I still try to stand up against arrogance and opinions that will not change, as they...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 30, 2008

    You Gotta Fight For Your Right

    i think it takes alot of courage to be non confrontational especially if you really are
    theluckyduck theluckyduck
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jan 4, 2009

    No Sense...

    ...having a belief without the will to stand up for it. I hate conflict... but I will stand up for what is right, even in the face of conflict. My beliefs would not mean that much to me if I was willing to see them trampled upon! But beyond that, I am very...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine
    31-35, M
    Sep 9, 2009

    I´ve never liked discussions,

    let alone arguements, and on a site like this, I find it pointless to have confrontations on sensitive issues like politics, religious beliefs, etc. I respect people´s beliefs and opinions, listen to them if they share them with me, but I don´t enter into any discussion on...
    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 21

    Many people fail to realize that

    if everyone strived to obtain better careers then your a** wouldn't be able to get a cheeseburger from McDonalds at 1 A.M. People who put down others that work in places like these shouldn't be allowed to order food. You can't demand a service while simultaneously degrading...
    CherBliss CherBliss
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 12, 2015

    This explains it well.

    I hate confrontation. Hate it. I will often try to avoid meaningless and useless disputes. However, I will stand up for what I believe in, and I will stand up for myself - because no one has the right to tell me who or what I am, or what I should or should not be doing, or what...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94
    18-21, F
    Feb 14, 2015

    Hate It

    I hate conflict but there comes a time when you have to stand up for what is right.  I will always stand up for the underdog.  I will always stand up for abused persons.  I will always stand up for children. There are many things I believe in and will risk the...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2008

    Hi this I can really relate to I don't like

    arguments but I will stand up for myself when people are horrible to me something which I've had to do all my life as no one else will they go against me why doesn't anyone stay with me
    lor44 lor44
    16-17, F
    Oct 10, 2015

    I Stand Up For What I Believe.

    I don't push my beliefs on other people but when I feel like my toes are getting stepped on I will say something. One thing that bothers me, for example, is how some people are offended by stuff like people celebrating Christmas or other holidays. I think everyone should be free...
    monsterdog81 monsterdog81
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 30, 2010

    Because if I sit back

    and just thinking about it I am not actually making a STAND about what I believe in
    gallagher1969 gallagher1969
    46-50, F
    May 9, 2015

    To A Degree

    In short, I am not one to rock the boat but if my back is against the wall, regardless of the consequence, I will fight you. If I am threatened in any way, even if I have no chance of success, I will fight to the death. Of course, if I am not effected either way, and its just a...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper
    26-30, M
    Dec 20, 2011

    Many people fail to realize that

    if everyone strived to obtain better careers then your a** wouldn't be able to get a cheeseburger from McDonalds at 1 A.M. People who put down others that work in places like these shouldn't be allowed to order food. You can't demand a service while simultaneously degrading...
    KaterinaPetr0va KaterinaPetr0va
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2015

    Conflict Resolution

    I never finished my degree, but when I was going to school, my major was communications.  I took a course in Conflict Resolution and Mediation.  I loved this course! I learned how to help solve a conflict between myself and others, and how...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 27, 2008
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