Post

I Don't Like Confrontations But Stand Up For What I Believe

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 285 People

    I Stand Up For What I Believe.

    I don't push my beliefs on other people but when I feel like my toes are getting stepped on I will say something. One thing that bothers me, for example, is how some people are offended by stuff like people celebrating Christmas or other holidays. I think everyone should be free...
    monsterdog81 monsterdog81 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 30, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Hate It

    I hate conflict but there comes a time when you have to stand up for what is right.  I will always stand up for the underdog.  I will always stand up for abused persons.  I will always stand up for children. There are many things I believe in and will risk the...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Conflict Resolution

    I never finished my degree, but when I was going to school, my major was communications.  I took a course in Conflict Resolution and Mediation.  I loved this course! I learned how to help solve a conflict between myself and others, and how...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Reluctantly, But It Must Be Done

    i don't like arguments. i don't like confrontation.   " If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything".   i definitely have beliefs and principles that i will stand up for, whenever and wherever the situation demands it. i will also stand...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Dec 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Has...

    This has evolved within me.  I tend to avoid conflict, however if something is concerned with beliefs and principles, I will stand up for them.  It can be sometimes a weakness, as I still try to stand up against arrogance and opinions that will not change, as they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    To A Degree

    In short, I am not one to rock the boat but if my back is against the wall, regardless of the consequence, I will fight you. If I am threatened in any way, even if I have no chance of success, I will fight to the death. Of course, if I am not effected either way, and its just a...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M Dec 20, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Drama.

    I Hate Getting In Fights Or Arguing With People. Most Of The Time I Just Walk Away. And I Dont Get In An Argument Unless i Know I Am Right.     I Always Stand Up For What I Believe.
    cry7 cry7 22-25, M Feb 27, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Don't Get Me Going..

    I will listen but if someone is trodding on my beliefs..I ill..ahem..debate them...or if they are trying to mentally push me around...
    txwoman2 txwoman2 36-40, F Feb 12, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    You Gotta Fight For Your Right

    i think it takes alot of courage to be non confrontational especially if you really are
    theluckyduck theluckyduck 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 4, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Have To...

    I don't enjoy arguments or confrontations... I suffer from anxiety, so these two things makes things difficult for me and send me into panic attacks and have my life spiraling out of control. Sleepless nights, lots of tears, not eating, and jumpy too. :-( So, I try to avoid both...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 20, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Do Not Like Them...but Force Me......and You Will Not Like It!!

    I do not like confrontations....but someone forces me to be in them...well it will be your loss, I will fight to the bitter end, stand up for my self to the end. If one puts me in that situation, you better be ready for one hell of a fight, I do not back down for anything if I am...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Aug 23, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No Sense...

    ...having a belief without the will to stand up for it. I hate conflict... but I will stand up for what is right, even in the face of conflict. My beliefs would not mean that much to me if I was willing to see them trampled upon! But beyond that, I am very...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M Sep 9, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Ughhhhh don't like it but I eat it because it's sooooo healthy...
    Stubborngirll Stubborngirll 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You don't like me? Aww that's so sweet now go tell someone that cares.!!! ._.)/
    PrincessShanti PrincessShanti 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If you don't like me. You can kiss my ***, both cheeks
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I like my private space, my bubble. People around me all seem to like keeping close to each other, touching hands legs, arms, shoulders, whatever. I can't stand being touched. I...
    Liz1795 Liz1795 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't like small children. There, I've said it. Why? I find them annoying, cloying, demanding, messy and destructive. I can't talk to them about anything, and cannot stand...
    Petcentric Petcentric 56-60 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    To me, it's awkward unless I'm close or comfortable with the person. Otherwise, I have to scramble to think of something to say. Most of the time the people I talk to on the phone...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I came to this realization today.. I do not like my job.. It's too random and you never know where your going with the task, you end up repeating it multiple times different ways...
    ThePeach ThePeach 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don't read my posts if you don't like what I have to say. It's not like my posts are shoved in your face. And don't comment on something if you're just going to hate on the way I...
    Sugarcoatedfatty Sugarcoatedfatty 18-21, F Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've never fit in. And I'm okay with that. I remember my best friend telling me that when she turns 18, she is going to get extremely drunk on her birthday. I begged her not to but...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really don't care if people don't like me I'm still gonna be me and be doing me if people don't like you the way you are **** Them that's all I got to say
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don't Care If You Don't Like Me
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's weird, but whenever I'm with friends, I basically look at myself from an outside sort of view. When I'm with them and I say something inappropriate or if I use a curse word, I...
    londontravella londontravella 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don't Care If You Don't Like Me
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't like hugs because I'm very closed up to new people. It's like, opening your arms and letting someone in near your heart. I have trust issues and I'm always scared of being...
    nightcreature16 nightcreature16 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's not that I don't like them, it's more like they're just so annoying and often times you can't say anything to them because it's their way or no way. They're always right...my...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't like cooking because it almost never turns out the way it should. Too salty!! Too sour!! Over cooked!! Awwww :/
    desperatelyshywomen desperatelyshywomen 22-25, F Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So many people lie especially on-line. I don't see the point of it. Who you are is who you are if you don't like it change it. Just my opinion.
    cutsy cutsy 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Him Or Us? Thank God my mother wasn't mancrazy.Anyone who knows me knows I am true Mama's Boy. I have loved my mother intensely and possesively my entire life. Since my mother...
    Eitan Eitan 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Or maybe I just don't like my bathroom... But either way, getting into the shower is such a pain in the neck.
    Someoneatschoolfoundme Someoneatschoolfoundme 16-17, F Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I definitely don't like bullying. I was bullied the first three years of high-school. The worst was junior year. A whole group of friends that I had turned on me because I stood up...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F Jul 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Now it's so warm sometimes I don't like it. Why you ask yourself? Because every lady can wear very flimsy dresses and wear beautiful tops and skirts if they want. I would love to...
    babyannie57 babyannie57 56-60, M 3 Responses Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don't Like Going To The Dentist At All
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don't Like It When People Are Fake
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really don't like to wear them and sometimes I just wear short dresses or skirts without underwear it's more comfortable
    AshleyYoung98 AshleyYoung98 16-17, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Because i don't like waking up
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't like to sweat. But I do wear running shoes, jogging pants/leggings, sport bra, & tank top. Why because i love the way they fit on me.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If my body tells me I should go to some specialist..I've got shivers. I don't like think about diseases, because this makes me sick. I hate to worry about health. I feel healthy if...
    hisamedusssa hisamedusssa 22-25, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't like talking on the phone when I hear the other person tv blasting, music blasting. I also hate when they interrupt my conversation for the other person topic then come...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't like the effect it gives me. Mostly, I overthink things, get paranoid, etc. I just feel slow, boring and tired. At rare occassions i might find something funny and keep...
    Jennyboii Jennyboii 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 14 years old and i just don't like my mom. Im not even sure if I love her. It sounds horrible I know. I am thankful she takes care of me and stuff like that but we are just too...
    Zoenepsa Zoenepsa 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm reading For One More Day by Mitch Albom. I really like his books. I am really just beginning this one. It's open in front of me and I'm on page six. This book explores the...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't like eating alone. I end up not really eating because of it. I'll have a protein bar and coffee in the morning and then at like 4pm be so fatigued that I remember I should...
    CoffeeBrewin14 CoffeeBrewin14 31-35, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been really down on myself. I just don't feel pretty anymore. I don't think I'm sexy or cute, or attractive. I don't dress like a normal girl. tshirts and jeans are my...
    helreb helreb 18-21, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really like a boy who I have been speaking to but someone from work also likes me even though I haven't given the impression I feel so tight and don't have a clue how to go about...
    littlemonkey97 littlemonkey97 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I say I don't, but I really do
    EvaSFenty EvaSFenty 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't really care just me knowing that I like you I won't give up until you're mine and no one can keep me from that you atleast have to give me a chance.
    LGKolor LGKolor 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel