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I Don't Like Confrontations But Stand Up For What I Believe

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    Do Not Like Them...but Force Me......and You Will Not Like It!!

    I do not like confrontations....but someone forces me to be in them...well it will be your loss, I will fight to the bitter end, stand up for my self to the end. If one puts me in that situation, you better be ready for one hell of a fight, I do not back down for anything if I am...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F Aug 23, 2010

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    This explains it well.

    I hate confrontation. Hate it. I will often try to avoid meaningless and useless disputes. However, I will stand up for what I believe in, and I will stand up for myself - because no one has the right to tell me who or what I am, or what I should or should not be doing, or what...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F Feb 14

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    To A Degree

    In short, I am not one to rock the boat but if my back is against the wall, regardless of the consequence, I will fight you. If I am threatened in any way, even if I have no chance of success, I will fight to the death. Of course, if I am not effected either way, and its just a...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M Dec 20, 2011

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    Conflict Resolution

    I never finished my degree, but when I was going to school, my major was communications.  I took a course in Conflict Resolution and Mediation.  I loved this course! I learned how to help solve a conflict between myself and others, and how...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2008

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    No Sense...

    ...having a belief without the will to stand up for it. I hate conflict... but I will stand up for what is right, even in the face of conflict. My beliefs would not mean that much to me if I was willing to see them trampled upon! But beyond that, I am very...
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M Sep 9, 2009

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    It amazes me how shy

    and scared I am to have disagreements and debates with people except for with two subjects. I'm always self conscious, thinking "maybe I shouldn't speak because I'm probably wrong" but when it comes to defending God, and when it comes to defending my family I know I KNOW BEST...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Apr 5

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    It Has...

    This has evolved within me.  I tend to avoid conflict, however if something is concerned with beliefs and principles, I will stand up for them.  It can be sometimes a weakness, as I still try to stand up against arrogance and opinions that will not change, as they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 30, 2008

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    The FightOne Sunday my husband

    and I spent the day cleaning up an empty house. So full of dust and paint, we were looking forward to a hot shower. Parking the van at a petrol station shop, I waited in the driver's seat as my partner went in to get supplies. When he came back he walked towards me, handed me...
    SwanSongRebeL SwanSongRebeL 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    You Gotta Fight For Your Right

    i think it takes alot of courage to be non confrontational especially if you really are
    theluckyduck theluckyduck 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 4, 2009

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    Drama.

    I Hate Getting In Fights Or Arguing With People. Most Of The Time I Just Walk Away. And I Dont Get In An Argument Unless i Know I Am Right.     I Always Stand Up For What I Believe.
    cry7 cry7 22-25, M Feb 27, 2009

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    I Have To...

    I don't enjoy arguments or confrontations... I suffer from anxiety, so these two things makes things difficult for me and send me into panic attacks and have my life spiraling out of control. Sleepless nights, lots of tears, not eating, and jumpy too. :-( So, I try to avoid both...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 20, 2008

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    Hate It

    I hate conflict but there comes a time when you have to stand up for what is right.  I will always stand up for the underdog.  I will always stand up for abused persons.  I will always stand up for children. There are many things I believe in and will risk the...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Reluctantly, But It Must Be Done

    i don't like arguments. i don't like confrontation.   " If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything".   i definitely have beliefs and principles that i will stand up for, whenever and wherever the situation demands it. i will also stand...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 5 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    I Stand Up For What I Believe.

    I don't push my beliefs on other people but when I feel like my toes are getting stepped on I will say something. One thing that bothers me, for example, is how some people are offended by stuff like people celebrating Christmas or other holidays. I think everyone should be free...
    monsterdog81 monsterdog81 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 30, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I did have another id where I posted stories but they were used against me, either to make fun of me, or to be preached at by religious people. So, now I don't write my stories...
    LonePony LonePony 36-40, F 2 Responses 55 mins ago

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    But that does not mean I don't support them. or respect them. These days there are a number of police here in America (U.S.) that have gotten out of hand. When a man is running...
    AceWarbringer AceWarbringer 31-35, M Apr 13

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    It's not that I don't like chocolates but, I'm not much into it. You might find this weird but yeah, I don't like much about the sweetness of chocolates... It somewhat feels like...
    jiwonlim jiwonlim 13-15, M Apr 15

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    I don't like my butt on a place that some strangers butt was just on. I use the covers, if they don't have those, I will hover. but most of the time will wait
    tiffsica tiffsica 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just don't like the pompus **** for brain ******** that tries to pick a fight with people.
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I often state MY feelings, thoughts and beliefs about MY love and truth of God and then devil worshippers come on to MY EXPERIENCE and day "don't tell me what to believe in"...um...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 17

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    I will continue to share MY truths, beliefs and knowledge of God know matter how many times non believers criticize me for it. If you don't like it...oh well. My God is worthy!
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was sitting in the living room with my mom last night and we ended up on the subject of children. I mentioned that I don't really like kids and she rebutted with you only like...
    TheKristaJo TheKristaJo 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I think vulnerability is a mistake most of the time for me. I don't like being vulnerable and allowing others to know how I think and feel. It's a hard enough time getting people...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I can't stop thinking about something that just happened. One of our neighbors placed a note on one of our cars that was parked on the street. They didn't sign their name but...
    Petiteblonde Petiteblonde 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    For romance. I don't like them dark, light, mixed. Any black I don't like. I'm black so I'm not racist, all my bffs are black. They make awesome friends but are very unattractive...
    TrackStackz TrackStackz 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I constantly have dreams of going to the dentist and all my teeth fall out. I don't like people all up in my grill, or my mouth.
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell 16-17, T 1 Response Mar 27

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    I don't like how I have my International Politics midterm tonight. 1) I wish it would be thursday and tonight would be my global history midterm instead. 2) I don't like how we...
    thehonestgentleman thehonestgentleman 18-21, M Mar 31

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    This is the generation I live in. Instead of crying in front of friends and family I am crying behind a computer screen hoping to get sympathy from strangers. I don't like my life...
    secretheartpanda secretheartpanda 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    there's one thing that I don't like about myself. and that's being too easily attached to someone. I'm like a bloody leech. easy to attach but hard to release. ps: worst still I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 8

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    I really don't like children. When I look at Babies-I have ZERO feelings. I may even find them ugly. I do not have any children and know I may regret it one day..but just the...
    fijifranny fijifranny 13-15, F Apr 12

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    Don't Like Going To The Dentist At All but still go
    hope1022 hope1022 22-25, M Apr 13

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    I don't like soda, to me it just tastes like salt water or a weird combination of salt and sugar water.
    Shirousa Shirousa 22-25, F Apr 13

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    Don't like the feel of the latex and it is so much better to FEEL my man inside me skin to skin. There is little better than when he ********** inside me, feeling his warmth...
    teresa0685 teresa0685 36-40, F 15 Responses a week ago

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    I am a Sagittarius and a sassy southern woman. I speak my mind all the time. it has gotten me in trouble. Today I hate to bite my tongue to keep from telling off my ex husband. I...
    BeyondGreenEyes BeyondGreenEyes 31-35, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    If your asking for my opinion and you don't like when I said you have to deal with it, I don't care.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    because i probably don't like you either i have a very unique personality and it takes a very openminded person to be able to handle being around me
    chaspowell chaspowell 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't like anyone touching me, period. Say, save for a few selected people.
    AriGALAXY AriGALAXY 13-15, M Apr 10

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    ...at the moment. (This rant is being shared after someone felt one of my posts was not in compliance with the EP's standards.) I want to start this by saying: I appreciate the...
    igivefreelove igivefreelove 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I kinda just got in a argument with a guy because I didn't share the same beliefs as him. I still don't. Going back in forth with him didn't make me feel good because I knew we...
    londepV londepV 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    in my housekeeping department this has always been a big issue. coworkers talking about other coworkers how they don't do the job right or someway or another. like they are the...
    peppit peppit 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I've always been a loner. Ever since I was a child I remember not wanting to play with others. I do just fine by myself and really don't need people around me. In high school I...
    Clumsy25 Clumsy25 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Walking up the stairs this morning at school, some Senior boy I don't know decided it would be funny for him and his friend to smack my butt since I was waking ahead of them. I...
    babyllove21 babyllove21 18-21, F Apr 11

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