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I Don't Like Goodbyes

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    They Kill Us Inside.

    Goodbyes are hard, especially if it is to someone you love, and have a deep connection with. My grandfather has been battling with cancer over the past few years and during this, he has had a heart attack and has had Cardiac Bypass Surgery. He has been trying to stay alive, but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 14, 2011

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    A Different Metaphor

    I believe feelings are so complicated and overwhelming that we never succeed to express them properly. When we say we are "in love", does it come even close to how we feel for the other person? To the mixture of highs experienced when being in their company, and the lows that...
    sweetmeisje sweetmeisje 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    Undecided

    Did you ever have a time where you just didn't know what to do? I feel weird today. It's bothering me
    Stargazinggal Stargazinggal 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    I Miss You.

    I knew seeing you off would be hard, and i knew i would be sad. I DIDNT know that i would be lost. Like i have no reason for anything. Im not in the mood for fun, plans or even to talk on the phone anymore. i miss you, more than i can ever describe or try to explain. Its like...
    taleijahrae taleijahrae 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    They can bite too hard.

    Or never come from jerks. Or require we lie about liking jerks. They really bite too hard.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Jul 18

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    I could honestly say you've been on my

    mind Since I woke up today I look at your photograph all the time These memories come back to life And I don't mind I remember when we kissed I still feel it on my lips The time that you danced with me With no music playing I remember the simple things I remember til I cry But...
    jeannetjayy jeannetjayy 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    Damn The Goodbyes...

    I hate saying goodbye, but I guess it's bound to happen sooner or later.  It's cool though.
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Feb 11, 2012

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    Good Bye To A Dear Friend

    I had a friend whom I had only known for a few months,we talked every day,we laughed and cried together,we knew our deepest secrets,though we only talked at my work place,the day I left and moved away she was walking to the exit,stopped and turned around with a tear in her eye,we...
    nightowl199 nightowl199 31-35 Jun 30, 2012

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    I Never Understand Why We Have To Say It......!!!!!

    how does ''Goodbyes'' feel to me...........hmmmm, very painful!!!!!!! it feels like suddenly a brightly lit blue sky is clouded by darkest clouds, like i was walking on sand and suddenly a thorn pierced through my heel, like on a Diwali night i was lightening the candles but...
    destinygirl22 destinygirl22 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Hate Goodbyes

    I hate having to say good bye. There's that awkward moment sometimes when you stand there and depending on who it is, you don't know what to do; hug them, shake hands, just wave? lol But I hate the moment of departing. If you're by yourself afterwards it makes you feel all...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Jul 8, 2012

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    Ode To J

    You were the first to witness the first time i came out of my shell, a place where i am most comfortable, I wasn't prefect and probably should have said a few things differently, i'm not to sure how to date, so please excuse my manners, I only pushed you away, because i didn't...
    justasia justasia 18-21, F Nov 24, 2013

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    I Never Knew How Much Until Now

    I love you and I always will. Every moment we have shared has been precious to me. We have shared so much together; I have seen your triumphs and felt immense pride and I have seen your hurts and felt the deepest pain imaginable because I knew I could not take it away. As I think...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 29, 2011

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    My friend and I had been friends

    for over 6 years. But when we started secondary school she changed. She wasn't her usual self anymore. She bullied me severely, I was pushed to breaking point. I don't know what I did wrong. I finally decided to stand up for myself against her. I knew I had to say goodbye to her...
    AutumnMagic AutumnMagic 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Hate

    I think goodbye is the most horrible word ever invented.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Jun 15, 2011

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    But I Have To Say It...

    That dosen't matter how much you wanted to hold on to yr loved one.... if he/she decided to leave then you have no better choice...:( ppl come in life like spring and wen they leave its fall in life...and the flowers that are withered in fall never bloom wen the spring comes back...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    "goodbye" the harshest

    and most awful thing you can say to a person you care about. it pierces right through your heart. specially deep down you know that he/she will never say hello again that as time passes, little by little he will soon forget you.
    sheshka sheshka 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 20

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    I'M Not Good With Goodbyes

    A quality I hate most about myself is that I get attached way to easily. I'm not just talking about guys but people in general. If I get close to you no matter who you are, when the time comes for the goodbye I become an emotional wreck. I'm starting to think that's why I don't...
    alwaysintheshadows alwaysintheshadows 16-17, F Jun 19, 2013

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    Bye Crocodile

    It's so hard to say goodbyeto someone you love,but sometimes love is not enough.And even though my tears may flow,and my heart may ache for sometime to come,I will stay strong and know that I am grateful for the time we had together.I don't regret loving you.I once asked you to...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Failure

    As soon as you left I wanted you to come back. The words rising from the wells in my heart wanted to prevent you from opening the door and even more from closing it, leaving me inside in a silence that is endless like a prison of freedom and shackles alike. Those words...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 24, 2011

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    Wen u wid sum1 u care bout

    and u hav to leave dem n go Goodbye is d worst thng
    Confusedpersonality Confusedpersonality 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 27

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    They Make Me Cry

    I think goodbyes are so final. They make me cry when I'm sure the goodbye is forever. I have said too many goodbyes over my lifetime. The worst part is, usually when I say goodbye, I never get to say goodbye to them, they leave beforehand, and I'm not always meaning deaths.
    doglover1984 doglover1984 26-30, F May 6, 2011

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    I don't goodbyes because

    that means you're going to leave me alone. Goodbye means you want to go separate ways from me… Don't say goodbye but instead say "See you next time" because it makes me feel that I'm not gonna be left alone.
    SecretsNeverHidden SecretsNeverHidden 22-25, F Mar 23

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    Ever

    One day you sawthat I was not on my knees.One day you noticed thatI was not waiting.One day you saw my lifeinstead of yours.It was the day the sundid not move for a while.I felt a chilly windand I felt you felt it as well.It rose from the depthand swept something,light like silk...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 3 Responses Feb 21, 2011

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    Every Time................

    you have to leave it gets harder....and I miss you more..love you darling xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 
    sparklingdiamonds sparklingdiamonds 31-35, F Feb 8, 2011

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    Painful

    I know I can't stand goodbyes, they are very painful, and even though I don't cry often, one thing that makes me cry are goodbyes. Yet, I believe they are necessary, in an airport, or at the cemetary. It's a sane way to move on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 1, 2012

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    Smoke

    The silence sets in. It entered on its socks and suddenly stood there, like a specter to be touched. As soon as its presence was felt, things became different and the meanings shifted. Beauty and innocence, giving and taking changed as if there was another weight in the balance...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M Feb 21, 2011

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    Hate Good Byes

    I said this Once to a friend who I nr saw again so I always say talk 2 u later because that way I hope In my heart I always will!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 20, 2012

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    Wind

    For a reason unknown I was sad all of a sudden and I felt blue as if the sky had changed. I knew that roads were parting soon, I knew it wouldn't stay since spring doesn't last longer than a season. You couldn't see this shift, this subtle new direction and I did not want to...
    moreandless moreandless 56-60, M 11 Responses Feb 20, 2011

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    Last Day On EP

    This will be my last day on EP (FOR REAL) I was once Jenn2222 and right now I'm Jerseygirl1. I'm not from Jersey although, my sister went to school there and I used to visit and stay weekends. Jersey Girl is the name of a Springsteen song. My real name is Susan and I first found...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    The most painful goodbyes are the ones

    that are never said and never explained.
    ConcealedWildheart ConcealedWildheart 13-15 1 Response Jul 19

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    Don't ever say goodbye ,

    that means bye for forever . Say cya later so the other person knows your not leaving
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F Jul 18

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    Bittersweet

    II don't like good bye's, even the ones that are only for a couple weeks. The time has come, I must leave for training. 6/23/2012, our last day for a couple weeks. The goodbye was hanging over the whole get together. We meet, it is so good to see her. My life lights up when I see...
    1changingheart 1changingheart 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Goodbye, My Friend...

    I played in a friendly golf tournament on Monday. I was partnered with someone, who I am known for over 15 years. We have been business acquaintances and friends over a long span of time. He had cancer earlier on in life. It went into remission but it came back aggressively in...
    Theta99 Theta99 51-55, M 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend.

    You have been the one. You have been the one for me < 3
    lottie1996 lottie1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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