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I Don't Like Goodbyes

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    Last Day On EP

    This will be my last day on EP (FOR REAL) I was once Jenn2222 and right now I'm Jerseygirl1. I'm not from Jersey although, my sister went to school there and I used to visit and stay weekends. Jersey Girl is the name of a Springsteen song. My real name is Susan and I first found...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2013

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    They Make Me Cry

    I think goodbyes are so final. They make me cry when I'm sure the goodbye is forever. I have said too many goodbyes over my lifetime. The worst part is, usually when I say goodbye, I never get to say goodbye to them, they leave beforehand, and I'm not always meaning deaths.
    doglover1984 doglover1984 26-30, F May 6, 2011

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    Painful

    I know I can't stand goodbyes, they are very painful, and even though I don't cry often, one thing that makes me cry are goodbyes. Yet, I believe they are necessary, in an airport, or at the cemetary. It's a sane way to move on.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 1, 2012

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    I Never Understand Why We Have To Say It......!!!!!

    how does ''Goodbyes'' feel to me...........hmmmm, very painful!!!!!!! it feels like suddenly a brightly lit blue sky is clouded by darkest clouds, like i was walking on sand and suddenly a thorn pierced through my heel, like on a Diwali night i was lightening the candles but...
    destinygirl22 destinygirl22 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Damn The Goodbyes...

    I hate saying goodbye, but I guess it's bound to happen sooner or later.  It's cool though.
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M Feb 11, 2012

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    A goodbye letter's response Dear Joan,

    I found your goodbye letter last week. I've been carrying it around for thirty, unaware of it's existence. A half - written baby book with this sad little missive tucked into it's forlorn pages. I pulled it out and read your words. I tried to make sense of what you were...
    chastewhisperer chastewhisperer 41-45, F Feb 6

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    I Miss You.

    I knew seeing you off would be hard, and i knew i would be sad. I DIDNT know that i would be lost. Like i have no reason for anything. Im not in the mood for fun, plans or even to talk on the phone anymore. i miss you, more than i can ever describe or try to explain. Its like...
    taleijahrae taleijahrae 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    They Kill Us Inside.

    Goodbyes are hard, especially if it is to someone you love, and have a deep connection with. My grandfather has been battling with cancer over the past few years and during this, he has had a heart attack and has had Cardiac Bypass Surgery. He has been trying to stay alive, but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 14, 2011

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    Bye Crocodile

    It's so hard to say goodbyeto someone you love,but sometimes love is not enough.And even though my tears may flow,and my heart may ache for sometime to come,I will stay strong and know that I am grateful for the time we had together.I don't regret loving you.I once asked you to...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    Ode To J

    You were the first to witness the first time i came out of my shell, a place where i am most comfortable, I wasn't prefect and probably should have said a few things differently, i'm not to sure how to date, so please excuse my manners, I only pushed you away, because i didn't...
    justasia justasia 18-21, F Nov 24, 2013

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    Hate Goodbyes

    I hate having to say good bye. There's that awkward moment sometimes when you stand there and depending on who it is, you don't know what to do; hug them, shake hands, just wave? lol But I hate the moment of departing. If you're by yourself afterwards it makes you feel all...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Jul 8, 2012

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    I'M Not Good With Goodbyes

    A quality I hate most about myself is that I get attached way to easily. I'm not just talking about guys but people in general. If I get close to you no matter who you are, when the time comes for the goodbye I become an emotional wreck. I'm starting to think that's why I don't...
    alwaysintheshadows alwaysintheshadows 16-17, F Jun 19, 2013

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    Good Bye To A Dear Friend

    I had a friend whom I had only known for a few months,we talked every day,we laughed and cried together,we knew our deepest secrets,though we only talked at my work place,the day I left and moved away she was walking to the exit,stopped and turned around with a tear in her eye,we...
    nightowl199 nightowl199 31-35 Jun 30, 2012

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    I Never Knew How Much Until Now

    I love you and I always will. Every moment we have shared has been precious to me. We have shared so much together; I have seen your triumphs and felt immense pride and I have seen your hurts and felt the deepest pain imaginable because I knew I could not take it away. As I think...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 29, 2011

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    Goodbye, My Friend...

    I played in a friendly golf tournament on Monday. I was partnered with someone, who I am known for over 15 years. We have been business acquaintances and friends over a long span of time. He had cancer earlier on in life. It went into remission but it came back aggressively in...
    Theta99 Theta99 46-50, M 1 Response May 24, 2013

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    Undecided

    Did you ever have a time where you just didn't know what to do? I feel weird today. It's bothering me
    Stargazinggal Stargazinggal 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    Hate Good Byes

    I said this Once to a friend who I nr saw again so I always say talk 2 u later because that way I hope In my heart I always will!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 20, 2012

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    A goodbye letter.... My Daughter,

    La Juana No matter little one where you are or may go, I still love you. Some things have to be which we aren't suppose to question why. Bob and I loved you so much of course. You were so young at the time. You brought us happiness now sadness which goes deeper than anyone...
    chastewhisperer chastewhisperer 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    But I Have To Say It...

    That dosen't matter how much you wanted to hold on to yr loved one.... if he/she decided to leave then you have no better choice...:( ppl come in life like spring and wen they leave its fall in life...and the flowers that are withered in fall never bloom wen the spring comes back...
    lalakhan90 lalakhan90 22-25, M 4 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    Every Time................

    you have to leave it gets harder....and I miss you more..love you darling xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 
    sparklingdiamonds sparklingdiamonds 31-35, F Feb 8, 2011

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    A Different Metaphor

    I believe feelings are so complicated and overwhelming that we never succeed to express them properly. When we say we are "in love", does it come even close to how we feel for the other person? To the mixture of highs experienced when being in their company, and the lows that...
    sweetmeisje sweetmeisje 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2011

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    I don't goodbyes because

    that means you're going to leave me alone. Goodbye means you want to go separate ways from me… Don't say goodbye but instead say "See you next time" because it makes me feel that I'm not gonna be left alone.
    SecretsNeverHidden SecretsNeverHidden 22-25, F Mar 23

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    Hate

    I think goodbye is the most horrible word ever invented.
    howsab howsab 31-35, F Jun 15, 2011

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    Bittersweet

    II don't like good bye's, even the ones that are only for a couple weeks. The time has come, I must leave for training. 6/23/2012, our last day for a couple weeks. The goodbye was hanging over the whole get together. We meet, it is so good to see her. My life lights up when I see...
    1changingheart 1changingheart 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 25, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    It's definitely more so the unavailable than don't like me. In this story I'm going to talk about several different guys. I'll mention their name at the beginning of each story...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Apologies in advance: this is a longer rant. Most sitcoms disturb & anger me because much of the humor is mean-spirited & involves humiliating other people. I like witty, creative...
    LuminousMotes LuminousMotes 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I have demonstrated I don't care about the pervert EP community that don't like I get their stories remove that promote ********* content. They are upset they don't have the same...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Mar 27

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    Hello guys, I hope you're all doing well. I sort of hesitated about the idea of posting my experience here but I decided to do so. I sort of think that I have been a schizoid my...
    Bloodyshrines Bloodyshrines 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I think I don't like them because they seem too busy for me most of the time. I don't care so much that they're busy but if I go to a doctor, I want them to listen to me, listen to...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't like seeing rude comments anywhere! Come on people - step it up a little. People who come here and poetically pour their heart out don't do it to get rude comments! They...
    GeekyLittleThing GeekyLittleThing 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I can sense negativity in the things i say. It may come across as rude, and i notice almost immediately, but i am too awkward and anxious to smoothly correct the statement, i just...
    theMETAmonologue theMETAmonologue 18-21, F Mar 20

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    My in laws hate me yet they don't know me. They blame me for everything my husband does or doesn't do that they don't like. I've been with my husband 5 years yet I don't think I've...
    l2thedoublej l2thedoublej 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I... I don't like players, I'm just usually not in the same game they are and it's like I'm that dumb bird who's flying around the baseball field and almost gets hit with the ball...
    fearlessbae fearlessbae 16-17, F Mar 25

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    It's crazy. If you could see me in the flesh, you might say I am not fat and you'd tell me to stop whining and all but I just don't like the way my belly bulges.Honestly, I'd agree...
    baseCharlie baseCharlie 18-21, M Mar 27

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    I don't exactly dislike everyone; I just don't like most people. I don't expect most people to like me either.
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't care if you don't like me...I don't even like you too so stop minding my business and get a life of your own.
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I wouldn't say I don't like eating per say. I just don't know the aftermath. I have ednos and I know I should eat, but I feel like once I do, I won't be able to stop. My mind says...
    PanicAtTheDiscount PanicAtTheDiscount 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    It's just a pet peeve of mine. Yes, "I do like Cookies". No. I don't like cookys. That's just an example. I also hate it when the groups don't make any sense or even when the...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It's not in a 'i'm too good for people' kind of way, its just that i don't feel any connections to them. I don't like relationships that are entirely based on small talk and i hate...
    grungehippy grungehippy 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Yep that's pretty much what I'm feeling right now, I don't care if you don't like me, or my sense of humor. I think I'm pretty dang awesome and that's all that matters.
    IheartCupcake IheartCupcake 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I don't like my body. I think I'm a bit fat.. I exercise every evening to get a flatter stomach and less round hips. But I still see no difference. It's demotivating. I'm searching...
    SkateDutch SkateDutch 16-17, M Mar 21

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    They terrify me. I'm really a huge chicken. Of winds. I always think it will develop into a tornado. I'm like that with life. I don't like the tornado so much might become. "Might...
    jeresey jeresey 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It's not that I don't like him... It's i fricken hate politics.
    Awesome5790 Awesome5790 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I feel the same way I think they don't like me because of my race what's your reason
    beingamermaidismydream beingamermaidismydream 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I love her she is my mum but she is a horrible one she has been in and out of prison abusive and thinks I need to respect her even when it hurts me. I don't like her as a human...
    Mybiscuits Mybiscuits 16-17, F Apr 1

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    OMG THIS SO MUCH. Idk maybe I'm just self-conscious or smth???? Idk but I don't like being touched by strangers. Especially when we sit in the hall & my knees touch another person...
    ELSAhugsyou ELSAhugsyou 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I don't like to be drunk. It's the worst feeling ever
    LucyPerez LucyPerez 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    i like a lot of people then when we talk for a bit i don't like them because they have some pretty bad qualities. like racism,prejudice,thievery,or wanting to commit an horrible...
    TheSouless TheSouless 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I don't like people who make fun of anyone. Like, shut up. That's so hateful.
    lifelesswine lifelesswine 13-15, F 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I have been told some of the most random things on here. Guys will send me a message to look at their wife, tell me about how they saw their daughter do this or that, helped some...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Apr 2

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    I know I'm not hideous, nor mentally deficient, nor excruciatingly boring. I know I'm average. But to me, average equates boring. Just because I'm not ugly doesn't mean I'm not...
    shafaz shafaz 18-21 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I really hate spending time with my husbands mother and sister . They come across as very superficial, and I literally feel exhausted from trying to make conversations with them...
    Ajbean Ajbean 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 6

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