I Don't Like Having Hatred In My Heart

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    I can't stand the way

    that being upset with someone forces you to live with them on your mind everyday.
    sahmmama sahmmama
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    there's one thing that I don't like about

    myself. and that's being too easily attached to someone. I'm like a bloody leech. easy to attach but hard to release. ps: worst still I tend to get attached to wrong guys.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 8, 2015

    So I don't. I don't harbour hate towards anyone

    who has wronged me. I take the outlook that they have helped to mold me in to who I have become. That they have touched my life and influenced my story. As they say, always find the silver lining
    Happinessismine Happinessismine
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 12, 2015

    I don't want to elaborate

    before finding people to trust. But, I have a lot of hatred for my girlfriend's father. It's more than hatred. It's sickening. It's fantasies about torture and death. It makes me feel evil how much I hate him, but by no circumstance can I just simply let go of this hatred. It's...
    PoeticJay PoeticJay
    18-21, M
    Apr 19, 2015

    One who has hatred in their hearts will soon

    become a host of Wrath, a Deadly Sin. Too much will drive you to the point of insanity, I would like to keep mine. Thank you.
    AmaterasuNoOkami AmaterasuNoOkami
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    Wasted Time

    Its easy for someone to say they hate someone. Its hard for some people to say "I forgive you" and then forget. Hatred is a waste of valuable time, and leads to revenge and time wasted about getting even. We don't have to love everyone, we can dislike them and stay away, but...
    carriewpd carriewpd
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 9, 2011

    Quite Frankly God And The Devil Are Now Raging Inside Me.

    I think there is too much bullshit hatred in this world but I Can tell you about somewhat large groups of people I wouldn't mind being marched off a clfif like lemmings, and i mean that in a very if it was real and it was set up like lemons I would not help them kind of way...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix
    26-30, M
    2 Responses May 28, 2012

    But I want him gone. I don't believe he

    deserves any happiness, or even calm contentment, after the way he treated me.... I'm STILL waiting with extreme impatience for Karma to come around to him....
    AloneInUniverse AloneInUniverse
    26-30, F
    Jun 28, 2015

    I Refuse To Hate

    I don't hate anyone- not even my worst enemy. I understand that any hateful thing anyone does, is usually stemmed from a dark and empty pain-place deep inside that person, or they are mentally imbalanced. Either way, it is not my place to hate or judge them, only to hope and pray...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2011

    Counterproductive

    I realize that hate in my heart is about me and not about the person I am feeling that emotion for.  I also know that holding on to emotional hate is counterproductive for my future and only hurts me. I try hard not to feel this emotion but sometimes it just happens.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2010

    It's Dangerous!

    Hate can sit and build quietly within until it is large enough to start consuming someone, then others around them!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 3, 2011

    But I want him gone. I don't believe he

    deserves any happiness, or even calm contentment, after the way he treated me.... I'm STILL waiting with extreme impatience for Karma to come around to him....
    AloneInUniverse AloneInUniverse
    26-30, F
    Jun 28, 2015

    I Must Learn To Forgive

    Hate and anger eats you from the inside out. It can have a real negative effect on your health. It can effect your relationship with everyone. If you allow it to fester long enough it can change who you are and not in a good way.I have been trying for years to let go of the anger...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
    36-40, T
    1 Response Mar 29, 2013

    I am trying to stop hating my boyfriend.

    We have been together almost 6 years and we have both hurt each other a ton. I am prone to hateful outbursts toward him and then I hate myself and think I am a terrible person. I cringe when he touches me. I feel dead inside regarding my positive feelings for him. I can only...
    altabe43 altabe43
    41-45, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2014

    Have Only Ever Hated One Person In My Life

    this was when i was eight and at sunday school and something happened i was sexually abused by my sunday school teacher she terrified my at the time so have never told anyone at the time have recently told a really good friend on here but besides that this is the first time...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2011

    I Don't Like It

    Even though at times I do...I Don't want it....it brings me pain and baggage. :(
    JnRxRockz JnRxRockz
    16-17
    Feb 4, 2011

    My Mothers Mom

    So, first post, so I will make this short, for now. I absolutely hate my grandmother. Yes, she's dead. Died of complications from Alzheimer's and other things. She was a mean hateful woman. No one in my family like her, except my mother, her only daughter. She cherished her. And...
    Alexis2484 Alexis2484
    31-35, F
    May 19, 2013

    I can't do it because it takes

    so much energy. But I feel it every time I interact with my mother. We have constant conflicting feelings and are very different people. I try to keep my distance, but she bribes her way back into my life and I fall for it every time.
    MissPandpet MissPandpet
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    Life Is Too Short

    I feel its wrong to HATE! I have had people to do and say some pretty mean things to me nevertheless I dont hate. I feel that what people do wrong is not a reason to hate. I had a aunt that was killed and that was a terrible experience yet! I do not hate the person that shot...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    Nov 28, 2011

    Hatred

    You can hate me, do harm me and I will still be me and I won't hate you for it.  I may dislike or disagree with what you're doing but hatred in my heart= Never.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    Jun 24, 2011

    I'm getting married in 50 days.

    My older sister isn't in the wedding and is hurt and angry. I didn't choose her for various reasons. The last 2 months she has been keeping her kids from me. Last night I received her RSVP and she is coming to my wedding. When I read that, I got sick to my stomach. She's mean...
    mygoddesssm mygoddesssm
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2014

    I Was Wrong: I Used To Believe I Was Incapable Of Hating.

    I am struggling now with hatred and anger. Anger is something I have rarely ever felt, and hatred is new to me. I really didn't think I was capable. It is shocking, disappointing, to learn that I am. I went through the first 43+ years of my life miraculously avoiding hatred...
    accomplice accomplice
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2012

    =)

    i have big heart but there is no room for hatred n it :) there are enuf ppl that put out bad energy & hatred n the world i WILL NOT b 1 of those ppl I want to put out good energy & love & kindness If i dislike someone I dont hate on them & let it get to me i just cut myself off...
    wolfspider wolfspider
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2011
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