I Dont Like It When People Add You But Never Communicate

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    I was scrolling through someone's experiences

    just now and found it and thought "wow I should totally add this" so I clicked the add button but I already had it._. One of the worst things about having over ten thousand experiences is not having the fun of adding more experiences
    YouCantEscapeMyDemons YouCantEscapeMyDemons
    16-17, M
    May 31, 2015

    sure, I get a lot of people adding me to their

    circle and never talk to me. i dont add them because they dont communicate with me.
    noaht43 noaht43
    46-50, T
    1 Response Feb 5, 2016

    Yes totally why make a friendship

    if there's no communication ?????
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 4, 2016

    I have a few people in my circle like this.

    They added me, but they never speak to me. They don't even heart or comment on my stories. I'm not complaining, I just don't understand it. I even had someone add me before, but she blocked me when I messaged her. It was just a "Hello! How are you? Thanks for the add."
    Jononymous Jononymous
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Mar 17, 2016
    SebasF13 SebasF13
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 16, 2016

    Oh my god I hate that ****!

    It's the Facebook syndrome, in futile efforts to win the "who has the most friends trophy list" competition, the most pathetically asinine reason to add someone. "Hey guys, look! I reached my 1000th Facebook friend that I've said to Hi to once in the past 5 years!". SCORE!
    TwistedCognition TwistedCognition
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 4, 2016

    If We Don'T Speak What'S The Point?

    If I end up deleting you from my circle it's because we never speak. I don't see a point in us being friends if we don't even communicate with each other in one form or another. If you are just trying to build up your numbers I won't even bother adding you to my circle. I would...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Apr 24, 2013

    I don't expect everyone

    that adds me to talk to me. I know that when someone adds you, they can then see your stories. So if that's all they are adding me for, that's fine with me. If I had to answer everyone that added me..that would take days, if not weeks!! LOL I know that I can't answer...
    RubyLane RubyLane
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    Don't add me if your just poking around

    and never say hello! Tonight I'm cleaning my circle.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2014

    I would rather not be added personally then

    when you do see there recent activities they have added God knows how many after you lol so thinking they actually wanna chat is really far from it
    teddyboylovesboobs1 teddyboylovesboobs1
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2016
    0reZ 0reZ
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 17, 2016

    From 106 down to 41. As my circle of friends

    on EP widens, I wonder why some people add me on here, but never bothered to talk to me - even just a simple Hi/Hello. When I signed up here, it has been my social protocol to accept almost all friend requests. Six months onward and I have only had proper conversation with 10...
    Fr0z3nY0gurt Fr0z3nY0gurt
    70+, F
    4 Responses Jan 9, 2014

    Never might be too strong.

    I try to touch base, if only to say I hope you're well. Or if I see your light on.
    grower629 grower629
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 1, 2015
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

    Please Don'T :)

    I am friendly and easy to talk to. I add pretty much anyone cuz I'm looking for a variety of friendships. I stay at home for now with my son, therefore am able to have some real friendships on here. Since I joined almost a month ago I have met some pretty cool people. However...
    sizzzlin69 sizzzlin69
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Feb 4, 2013

    I do not mind anyone adding me to their circle

    but I am not going to add someone I have not talked to or have nothing in common with. I do not care if my friend list is tiny, those are people I have shared more than one tap with on my iPad. And there are a few fans out there I would love to get rid of, you know who you are...
    DanteAsiir DanteAsiir
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 7, 2016

    Why would you add me then never talk to me?

    I guess it's bc you want to look as if you have a lot of women clamoring for your attention, which is pathetic.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Sep 5, 2015

    I can't stand when people do this.

    It's called a FRIENDS list, not a people I never want to talk to list. Why even be on a site where talking to people is a big part of it and not talk to people?
    Vaultgirl42 Vaultgirl42
    26-30, F
    May 22, 2015

    What is up what this?

    A competition for who has the biggest circle? This isn't facebook. Talk or get blocked.
    XantheoftheStar XantheoftheStar
    26-30, F
    May 27, 2015

    I admit. I haven't stop by to say hi to my

    whole circle. to have over 80 friends is tough. heck some of them I made a mistake adding them but only a few. I think I might wanna clean my circle in a little bit. but yeah, it's kinda depressing to have someone in your circle they don't wanna talk to you _-_ and half is my...
    ZardaF5 ZardaF5
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    I hate when random people add me

    but then never message me or say something it's so weird.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 26, 2015

    Or they do but all they ask is a pic of my

    Brazilian butt. Don't these guys have anything intelligent to say. It's getting OLD 😤😩😖
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 7, 2015

    I am new to this, so perhaps I am too anxious.

    I have been added to a number of people's circles but have never heard from them. I don't understand why they would want to follow me if you haven't taken the time to get to know me. Perhaps I am overthinking the process.
    Ailill Ailill
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Apr 18, 2014

    I was added to a group conversation a bunch of

    times but everyone was not chatting. It annoyed me because everyone was supposed to be talking but it was like everyone was dead and they expected me to be dead too.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 17, 2016

    You could at least say hi

    or tell me why u added me lol
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses May 17, 2015

    I have had several people add me

    who I have never even come across on here. I find it quite strange. I also find it strange if they add me after a couple of messages have been exchanged. If I don't know much about you I won't be adding you. Another pet peeve "hey have you got Facebook?" Yes I have but I'm not...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2015
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2015
    Lissy13 Lissy13
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2016

    There are lots of them!

    I can only presume their motives. I will need do some housekeeping. Anyone without a photo, and without a story. I saw another girl on here use these criteria.
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 5, 2015
    fauxlady fauxlady
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    I only added this because I am one of "those"

    people. I just can't stand all the creeps. Yes, I have kinky likes...no that doesn't mean I want to talk about them but if I do, I'll bring it up.
    iwontbeg4it iwontbeg4it
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 1, 2015

    I don't get the point in adding someone If u

    will never talk to them or bother messaging them
    BlueMoonx BlueMoonx
    18-21, F
    Aug 6, 2015

    Honestly, if you add me I always look at the

    other people you've added as well. If you only add girls and I'm just another face for you to stare at, I will block you. Have some respect.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 23, 2015

    If you add me, come talk with me.

    I will be very happy to have conversation with you! ;) :P But, if you don't want talk with me, don't add me or delete me please. Thanks in advance! :)
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson
    22-25, F
    Apr 19, 2014


    I really do hate it...........................I'm constantly cleaning people out of my circle for this very reason. I'm here to meet like minds, get to know people, and share. I want people in my circle who do the same.
    girlfaith girlfaith
    36-40, F
    9 Responses Feb 15, 2013

    Its frustrating to be added

    after good conversation or open talk and then not too talk again Its cool I was lied to no worries
    deleted deleted
    Aug 9, 2015

    Is not a friendship day I'm just cleaning my

    circle sorry if one of you is drop.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014
    emswift emswift
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    If you add me to your circle

    and have never spoken to me you will be blocked. I dont mean to be rude but if you cant talk to me before just adding me I have no desire to have you follow my post and stalk me. Its simple. Talk to me first or get blocked. Plenty of other women out there who may not care if...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 27, 2015

    Indeed, I Do! It's True!!

    After reading a new friend of mine's story I thought that I should write about this as well. This is very annoying to me. I hate when I add someone, we talk for a few days, then all of a sudden there is nothing ever said, no gestures, WB posts, etc. After awhile I remove people...
    deleted deleted
    13 Responses Jan 4, 2013

    Consider this a sign,

    mysterious adders!
    TheMindBlower TheMindBlower
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 4, 2016

    That is why I won't add people

    which never talked to me before. So give it up people. :)
    Miridia96 Miridia96
    18-21, F
    Aug 31, 2015

    So, I have been added by MANY new people in the

    past few months, some have reached out a bit then disappeared, in a manner of speaking, some NEVER communicate. What's the point? Just to collect friends? I don't expect that I'll hear from every friend, but perhaps I'll just weed my friends list down to people I've actually...
    lizardking22 lizardking22
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 20, 2015

    Why do people add me to there profile

    and never talk if your not a chatty person de friend me ..... If you have added me and you see this say hi or unfriend me x
    ilovebustyfemales ilovebustyfemales
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    It's kinda like being at school I know I'm not

    on EP a lot but if you don't want to speak to me, you can just remove me from your circle y'know, i'm just sayin cause all this kinda hurts my feelings.
    nobodynumbah8 nobodynumbah8
    16-17, F
    Apr 11, 2016
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