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I Dont Like It When People Add You But Never Communicate

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    I really hate it when people add me

    or send a message if I could add them but don't reply at all. I hate those kind of people. Don't add me if you don't want to chat!
    Dragonwarrior01 Dragonwarrior01 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Same Here...

    I guess I am guilty, not because I was collecting faces, but I guess I may have forgotten about them while they were so silent. But it's no excuse because I too hate when someone I found interesting became a ghost friend. I like to participate in discussions and posts that appear...
    JustaTouch JustaTouch 51-55, M Jun 26, 2013

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    Personally I think people add me only

    because that is the only they can view my pictures. Once they see my pics and don't like what they see, I never hear from them.
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M Jan 4

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    I Should Clean Up My Circle...

    ...I always say I'm going to clean it up but I never take the time. Why do you suppose people add you but don't communicate with you? ...wants to see your photos ...wants you to see their photos ...wants to read your stories but not communicate ...waiting for you to speak to...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    I think I your going to add someone

    why not communicate other wise it's pointless isn't it?
    sugarplumfairies sugarplumfairies 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    What Can I Say?

    i do it as well does not mean i think its good
    romanticmike romanticmike 26-30, M Mar 6, 2013

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    Silence Intolerable

    I too dislike being added and not spoken to. I really support this group.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    This Is Not Facebook, So You Can Say Hi...

    Seriously, this is a support network and I'm pretty much open to any chat with intelligent reasoning A few important things: I will not exchange explicit sexual pics. I'm an ex Professional Dominant I'm a peaceful anarchist I have Cerebral Palsy and use a wheelchair. I am vegan...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 2 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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    Reshuffling

    I keep checking my friends added with me in my circle and delete friends who are just added with me but we never talk, they are online and do not reply my pm's. That is very rude and I don't like it. The logic is if we do not talk then y are we in the same circle DAAA
    Tommtomy Tommtomy 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    People Who Try To Add Me But Dont Talk To Me Wants They Do.

    You know what i really hate about this site? people who try to add some one as a friend an they just cilck (add friend) ...-_- like they dont even send you a message first saying they wanna be your friend. Then when they add your @ss they don't talk to you like come on man! that...
    KaylaPetrova92 KaylaPetrova92 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    Don't add me if your just poking around

    and never say hello! Tonight I'm cleaning my circle.
    Bluejec19 Bluejec19 41-45, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Oh One Friend Request, Accepted

    Well , before i was on facebook I know this girl from like kinder-garden she added me and i accepted..I said Hello, how are you you? and it's been awhile.. No response... No response.... No RESPONSE! Didn't she just add me? Therefore I waited for awhile checking my wall on...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 8, 2013

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    DON'T BE SHY.

    There's a reason why you ADD me to your circle right? Will if there is.. start talking and introduce yourself .. you can start from : Hi or How are you? and how you doing? Something like that, I will Respond back to you, but if you only ADD me and don't say anything, then you won...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Sooo Damn Pointless!!!

    Why do people even do this don't waste your time sending me a friend request if you are like that!!!I hate friend collecters like this isn't fb people get with it!
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses May 15, 2013

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    From 106 down to 41. As my circle of friends

    on EP widens, I wonder why some people add me on here, but never bothered to talk to me - even just a simple Hi/Hello. When I signed up here, it has been my social protocol to accept almost all friend requests. Six months onward and I have only had proper conversation with 10...
    Fr0z3nY0gurt Fr0z3nY0gurt 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 9

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    Me

    i used to pick up some people to new places that was my job at first one day i had to wait someone in a street it was late but i need to borrow new shirt from that friend then a man old like 37 years old man came to me and he put the Blade on my neck and push me to his car and...
    TiagoRodriguez TiagoRodriguez 22-25, M Feb 14, 2013

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    If you add me, please send me a message

    so I know you're interested in actually talking to me and getting to know me. I'm very approachable. :) and sorry whoever I've added and haven't talked to :P I'm kinda bad with it too to be honest.
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Feb 4

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    I find people who add then block You

    or add You and don't communicate either are stupid or just don't care so if You add Me and are not going to get to know Me at all then please DON'T ADD ME!
    prettypoppiesbaby prettypoppiesbaby 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    Talk To Me

    I know im not around much and it vaires day by day but please if you like me and add me please send me a message i will get back to you i promise just please dont collect me for fun
    brokenandalone brokenandalone 18-21, F Jan 26, 2013

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    It's kinda like how someone sits across the room

    and stares like they want to talk but get up and walk out without ever saying anything. Creepy too I suppose you could say.
    PartyCrazyGenius PartyCrazyGenius 18-21, M Dec 3, 2013

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    I am new to this, so perhaps I am too anxious.

    I have been added to a number of people's circles but have never heard from them. I don't understand why they would want to follow me if you haven't taken the time to get to know me. Perhaps I am overthinking the process.
    Ailill Ailill 36-40, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    It'S Kind Of Annoying

    But I don't really care. It's dumb to go around adding people just to see what they are up to. Why not just talk to them and you'll find out a lot more.
    KoriOkami KoriOkami 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2013

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    If We Don'T Speak What'S The Point?

    If I end up deleting you from my circle it's because we never speak. I don't see a point in us being friends if we don't even communicate with each other in one form or another. If you are just trying to build up your numbers I won't even bother adding you to my circle. I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    Lurkers Lurking

    I enjoy communicating with people in my circle and do not care much for those who lurk for the sake of watching and not adding their voice at all.Lurkers are far to quite and do not add to the culture of being online. People who do not talk comment or answer are a risk because...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2013

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    What are they trying to prove, whats the point?

    Why do people add people as friends but never talk to them? Friends are for being friends, not a status simple by who can have the most! Example; I went through a phase a few years back on facebook. I messaged all my "friends" and said a general message, how are you, whats new in...
    BlueTiger57 BlueTiger57 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 12, 2013

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    Why Add Me If You're Not Going To Talk To Me?

    I will never understand why people add people to his/her page if you not going to talk to them. I love making new friends and when I add someone to my page I would like to take the time to get to know him/her. If you not going to talk to me, don't add me.
    holly8081 holly8081 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    If You Don't Want To Talk, Why On Earth Would You Add Me?!?!

    This really frustrates me! Why would you add someone if you had no intention of EVER having a conversation with them? I understand you might not be able to message every day or even every week, but if you've been my friend for 4+ months and haven't expressed any desire to chat, I...
    MyLifeMyChoices MyLifeMyChoices 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 2, 2013

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    If you add me, come talk with me.

    I will be very happy to have conversation with you! ;) :P But, if you don't want talk with me, don't add me or delete me please. Thanks in advance! :)
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    What's The Point?

    Let me start off by saying that I'm still amazing at what I do and how I do it. Because nobody can do it like me, yep I'm the coolest of the cool on experience project.One thing that I don't like is when people add and they don't even bother to communicate with me, I mean how...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Jan 3, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    This has been going on for way too long that I don't even remember when it began anymore. It just seems that no matter who I'm speaking to, they all have one thing in common...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F Apr 6

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    Im a monster im bald have sharp teeth my skin sheds like snake i eat people and molest them sometimes also i ♥ milk tea they taste so good wintermelon for the win!weeee :3...
    yaysandwich yaysandwich 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I hate it so much. I will block you. Don't even try.
    sarahjade123 sarahjade123 13-15, F Mar 31

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    When ppl yell at me, I don't appreciate it.
    Illuminaty Illuminaty 13-15, M 2 days ago

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    Don't even get me started I get yelled t constantly I try to ignore it and it just kills me inside makes me hurt brings me down really low I'm not trying to seem deppresing I'm...
    angeleyes2107 angeleyes2107 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    At least talk to me first.
    FrappAttack FrappAttack 13-15 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    WTF? Was it something I said?
    MookieTheBezt MookieTheBezt 13-15, M Apr 1

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    Please don't. Such awful feels.
    ClarkeForMayor ClarkeForMayor 18-21, F Apr 6

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    Why is it so hard to just tell me what it is that I've done wrong. What could I have possibly done wrong to have you not return my calls and messages all of a sudden after a life...
    LadyCinephile LadyCinephile 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    It's not that I can't accept criticism, oh no...it's just...whenever I come up with a clever idea for something there's always some negative ninny who calls it unoriginal for some...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 29

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    I get messages and random people that add me all the time. I wont add you if i see that all you are doing is adding people and have no experiences and your profile looks suspicious...
    Batsandstars Batsandstars 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Because I am a cautious woman, I will check out you profile before I add you to my circle of friends. There are so many people who wanted to be added and they have nothing in...
    susan33109 susan33109 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Definitely I do that before I add you... I respect people... So I accept decent thoughts from friends...
    chethaki chethaki 22-25, F Apr 10

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    "Maybe you're depressed and having all these problems in your life because you strayed from God," my sister told me. What bullshit. Even when I was religious, I was depressed...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I always check out profiles before I add someone to my circle or start messaging them a lot. I usually got through the first 3 pages of experiences. I think that's enough to get a...
    GirlLearningHowToSmile GirlLearningHowToSmile 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I will not add you just because you add me
    Darkmoon65 Darkmoon65 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I will not add you just because you say you want to be friends. It would be nice if you try to get to know me first and not just say hi. I also won't add you just because you added...
    TeenHannah TeenHannah 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    That isn't what I want to talk about, but that was the closest thing I could find. I get annoyed when people say "YOLO". My friends at school are like,"YOLO, then yodo, you only...
    Mokuba Mokuba 13-15, F Mar 23

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    I am a barista, so a lot of people make small talk about the weather. I find it very frustrating when people say they are unhappy because it is raining. Rain is important too. I...
    innerself000 innerself000 18-21 Mar 30

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I finally deleted you, you know? All that time & energy wasted on listening to your LIES. I think the reason you "disappeared" is because lies are simply too hard to keep up and...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Apr 4

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    I usually check 3-4 pages of experiences before I decide if I can add you or not. As well as, sometimes check the pictures to see. Here to make friends, not cyber or any of that...
    MrsGrisham MrsGrisham 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    No what I really dont like is people who have to justify to everyone every time they are blocked by making a question about it in q&a. boohoo such and such blocked me blah blah. I...
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    When people call me "Cute, your pretty." I just don't buy it. I don't have long hair but I did. I cut my hair in a pixie style and I've never felt more confident about myself. But...
    vanmaury vanmaury 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    ''You should be lucky to have parents, some people don't have them.'' Lucky? I would be luckier if I didn’t have people who I call mom and dad, maybe then other people would...
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F Mar 26