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I Dont Like It When People Add You But Never Communicate

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    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    If We Don'T Speak What'S The Point?

    If I end up deleting you from my circle it's because we never speak. I don't see a point in us being friends if we don't even communicate with each other in one form or another. If you are just trying to build up your numbers I won't even bother adding you to my circle. I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    What is up what this?

    A competition for who has the biggest circle? This isn't facebook. Talk or get blocked.
    XantheoftheStar XantheoftheStar 22-25, F 1 Response May 27

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    At least talk to me once

    if you add me lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 16, 2014

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm here to meet and talk to new people.

    ... not add as many people as possible to look cool...
    GreenEyess GreenEyess 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I can't stand when people do this.

    It's called a FRIENDS list, not a people I never want to talk to list. Why even be on a site where talking to people is a big part of it and not talk to people?
    Vaultgirl42 Vaultgirl42 26-30, F May 22

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    Doesn't make sense to add people

    unless you communicate with them that's what the idea is, to make connections with others.
    animallover412 animallover412 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Is not a friendship day I'm just cleaning my

    circle sorry if one of you is drop.
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2014

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    Yes! I only add someone

    if I want to talk with them and it seems like some never do I also hate when you comment on there stories and they never reply
    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M Jan 25

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    I hate it so much, I don't want to be added to

    your circle if you don't want to talk to me
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 30

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I can't stand that. So I block them.

    Why come on here and do this if you aint gonna talk? are they retards?!
    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    DON'T BE SHY.

    There's a reason why you ADD me to your circle right? Will if there is.. start talking and introduce yourself .. you can start from : Hi or How are you? and how you doing? Something like that, I will Respond back to you, but if you only ADD me and don't say anything, then you won...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Hayley13T15 Hayley13T15 13-15, F Mar 23

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    This and todays shallow definition of the word

    friends is why I do not add anyone who doesn't measure up over time. Im not here as a Fakebook collector. I will converse with you. But dont expect to be an instant edition.
    TsavoHunter TsavoHunter 36-40, M 4 Responses Nov 11, 2014

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    I only added this because I am one of "those"

    people. I just can't stand all the creeps. Yes, I have kinky likes...no that doesn't mean I want to talk about them but if I do, I'll bring it up.
    iwontbeg4it iwontbeg4it 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    I Should Clean Up My Circle...

    ...I always say I'm going to clean it up but I never take the time. Why do you suppose people add you but don't communicate with you? ...wants to see your photos ...wants you to see their photos ...wants to read your stories but not communicate ...waiting for you to speak to...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 1, 2013

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    Why do people add you to there circle

    when you have never spoken to them ???
    Chunkyal Chunkyal 46-50, M 5 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    Silence Intolerable

    I too dislike being added and not spoken to. I really support this group.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 8, 2013

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    This is just as bad as people

    who u try and talk to after they add u and they just ignore you I mean if you're going to add someone, at least try and talk to them. Otherwise what was the point in adding them? To make it look like you have more 'friends' than you actually do?
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    A note to the people

    that have added me but never bothered to message or chat to me. I think it's time to clean out my circle, sorry in advance your *** is about to be deleted ;-)
    Roxy72 Roxy72 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 23, 2014

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    I get people who add me say a few lines then

    never chat again why add me if you don't wanna chat, also I use the app so I don't use a pc to access this site the app is fine for me
    lovebustyladies lovebustyladies 41-45, M 2 Responses May 8

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    Yep

    I really do hate it...........................I'm constantly cleaning people out of my circle for this very reason. I'm here to meet like minds, get to know people, and share. I want people in my circle who do the same.
    girlfaith girlfaith 36-40, F 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    If you add me, come talk with me.

    I will be very happy to have conversation with you! ;) :P But, if you don't want talk with me, don't add me or delete me please. Thanks in advance! :)
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson 18-21, F Apr 19, 2014

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    If you add me to your circle

    and have never spoken to me you will be blocked. I dont mean to be rude but if you cant talk to me before just adding me I have no desire to have you follow my post and stalk me. Its simple. Talk to me first or get blocked. Plenty of other women out there who may not care if...
    Lexyness Lexyness 22-25, F 2 Responses May 27

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    What is the point of adding someone

    if you do not intend to talk to them?
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 1

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    It'S Kind Of Annoying

    But I don't really care. It's dumb to go around adding people just to see what they are up to. Why not just talk to them and you'll find out a lot more.
    KoriOkami KoriOkami 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2013

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    Honestly, if you add me I always look at the

    other people you've added as well. If you only add girls and I'm just another face for you to stare at, I will block you. Have some respect.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 23

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    Nothing worse than people who

    as you,,, but don't even talk. Except those who add you and then ignore you when you try and chat to them
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 Response May 21

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    Checked one today. Asked

    why she not posted. She probed me for info. Me said read my posts. She said me was a mistake she made. She super private. Me posts too much. And me is the mistake. Wow. Thats crazier than my former clients.
    Converted Converted 46-50, M 2 Responses May 4

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    I have had several people add me

    who I have never even come across on here. I find it quite strange. I also find it strange if they add me after a couple of messages have been exchanged. If I don't know much about you I won't be adding you. Another pet peeve "hey have you got Facebook?" Yes I have but I'm not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 14

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    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 14

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    I am new to this, so perhaps I am too anxious.

    I have been added to a number of people's circles but have never heard from them. I don't understand why they would want to follow me if you haven't taken the time to get to know me. Perhaps I am overthinking the process.
    Ailill Ailill 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    DrexelFloriene DrexelFloriene 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    There are lots of them!

    I can only presume their motives. I will need do some housekeeping. Anyone without a photo, and without a story. I saw another girl on here use these criteria.
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Please Don'T :)

    I am friendly and easy to talk to. I add pretty much anyone cuz I'm looking for a variety of friendships. I stay at home for now with my son, therefore am able to have some real friendships on here. Since I joined almost a month ago I have met some pretty cool people. However...
    sizzzlin69 sizzzlin69 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    penguinproblems penguinproblems 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    I was scrolling through someone's experiences

    just now and found it and thought "wow I should totally add this" so I clicked the add button but I already had it._. One of the worst things about having over ten thousand experiences is not having the fun of adding more experiences
    YouCantEscapeMyDemons YouCantEscapeMyDemons 13-15, M May 31

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    Don't add me if your just poking around

    and never say hello! Tonight I'm cleaning my circle.
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    From 106 down to 41. As my circle of friends

    on EP widens, I wonder why some people add me on here, but never bothered to talk to me - even just a simple Hi/Hello. When I signed up here, it has been my social protocol to accept almost all friend requests. Six months onward and I have only had proper conversation with 10...
    Fr0z3nY0gurt Fr0z3nY0gurt 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    I do get rid of people

    who don't talk to me. Just saying.
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 3 Responses May 5

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    I hate when random people add me

    but then never message me or say something it's so weird.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 26

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    You could at least say hi

    or tell me why u added me lol
    Angelalahaha Angelalahaha 18-21, F 5 Responses May 17

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    Indeed, I Do! It's True!!

    After reading a new friend of mine's story I thought that I should write about this as well. This is very annoying to me. I hate when I add someone, we talk for a few days, then all of a sudden there is nothing ever said, no gestures, WB posts, etc. After awhile I remove people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    Sooo Damn Pointless!!!

    Why do people even do this don't waste your time sending me a friend request if you are like that!!!I hate friend collecters like this isn't fb people get with it!
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 15, 2013

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