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I Dont Like It When People Add You But Never Communicate

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    You could at least say hi

    or tell me why u added me lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 17, 2015

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    Well, that's me 😅😅 I guess I should just

    dislike myself then, aha. Idk, I add them because they seem interesting and like I'm shy asf and awkward as hell.. Plus I don't think I could be as cool as them, so yeah... The struggle :s
    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't expect everyone

    that adds me to talk to me. I know that when someone adds you, they can then see your stories. So if that's all they are adding me for, that's fine with me. If I had to answer everyone that added me..that would take days, if not weeks!! LOL I know that I can't answer...
    RubyLane RubyLane 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 23, 2015

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    Oh my god I hate that ****!

    It's the Facebook syndrome, in futile efforts to win the "who has the most friends trophy list" competition, the most pathetically asinine reason to add someone. "Hey guys, look! I reached my 1000th Facebook friend that I've said to Hi to once in the past 5 years!". SCORE!
    TwistedCognition TwistedCognition 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    A note to the people

    that have added me but never bothered to message or chat to me. I think it's time to clean out my circle, sorry in advance your *** is about to be deleted ;-)
    Roxy72 Roxy72 41-45, F 9 Responses Apr 23, 2014

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    Its frustrating to be added

    after good conversation or open talk and then not too talk again Its cool I was lied to no worries
    Michelle41011 Michelle41011 41-45, T Aug 9, 2015

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    that's why I don't add you,

    if you have too many friends. I keep checking my list. if I haven't communicated with you in a while I'll remove you.
    daysleeper2 daysleeper2 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 4

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    So, I have been added by MANY new people in the

    past few months, some have reached out a bit then disappeared, in a manner of speaking, some NEVER communicate. What's the point? Just to collect friends? I don't expect that I'll hear from every friend, but perhaps I'll just weed my friends list down to people I've actually...
    lizardking22 lizardking22 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 20, 2015

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    Consider this a sign,

    mysterious adders!
    TheMindBlower TheMindBlower 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    If you add me but don't talk to me within a day

    or so, I'm sorry but I'm unfriending you. I'm sick of people adding me and just leaving me in their circle, never sending me a message. And for those who are in my circle and talk to me but suddenly stop, if I don't hear from you in a few days or so, I am unfriending you, too. I...
    Silverfeather1993 Silverfeather1993 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    If We Don'T Speak What'S The Point?

    If I end up deleting you from my circle it's because we never speak. I don't see a point in us being friends if we don't even communicate with each other in one form or another. If you are just trying to build up your numbers I won't even bother adding you to my circle. I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 15 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    What is up what this?

    A competition for who has the biggest circle? This isn't facebook. Talk or get blocked.
    XantheoftheStar XantheoftheStar 22-25, F 1 Response May 27, 2015

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    I can't stand when people do this.

    It's called a FRIENDS list, not a people I never want to talk to list. Why even be on a site where talking to people is a big part of it and not talk to people?
    Vaultgirl42 Vaultgirl42 26-30, F May 22, 2015

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    I hate when random people add me

    but then never message me or say something it's so weird.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 26, 2015

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    Never might be too strong.

    I try to touch base, if only to say I hope you're well. Or if I see your light on.
    grower629 grower629 51-55, M 3 Responses Sep 1, 2015

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    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 14, 2015

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    Or they do but all they ask is a pic of my

    Brazilian butt. Don't these guys have anything intelligent to say. It's getting OLD 😤😩😖
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 7, 2015

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    So stop it already!!!

    So annoying!
    chloegoldmine chloegoldmine 18-21, F 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    That is why I won't add people

    which never talked to me before. So give it up people. :)
    Miridia96 Miridia96 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2015

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    If you add me, come talk with me.

    I will be very happy to have conversation with you! ;) :P But, if you don't want talk with me, don't add me or delete me please. Thanks in advance! :)
    AlwaysBeAGoodPerson AlwaysBeAGoodPerson 18-21, F Apr 19, 2014

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    Why do people add you to there circle

    when you have never spoken to them ???
    Chunkyal Chunkyal 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 15, 2014

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    I am new to this, so perhaps I am too anxious.

    I have been added to a number of people's circles but have never heard from them. I don't understand why they would want to follow me if you haven't taken the time to get to know me. Perhaps I am overthinking the process.
    Ailill Ailill 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Please Don'T :)

    I am friendly and easy to talk to. I add pretty much anyone cuz I'm looking for a variety of friendships. I stay at home for now with my son, therefore am able to have some real friendships on here. Since I joined almost a month ago I have met some pretty cool people. However...
    sizzzlin69 sizzzlin69 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 4, 2013

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    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    Indeed, I Do! It's True!!

    After reading a new friend of mine's story I thought that I should write about this as well. This is very annoying to me. I hate when I add someone, we talk for a few days, then all of a sudden there is nothing ever said, no gestures, WB posts, etc. After awhile I remove people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    Yep

    I really do hate it...........................I'm constantly cleaning people out of my circle for this very reason. I'm here to meet like minds, get to know people, and share. I want people in my circle who do the same.
    girlfaith girlfaith 36-40, F 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Yes totally why make a friendship

    if there's no communication ?????
    riderz4christ riderz4christ 36-40, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    emswift emswift 18-21, F 14 Responses Dec 10, 2015

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    If you add me to your circle

    and have never spoken to me you will be blocked. I dont mean to be rude but if you cant talk to me before just adding me I have no desire to have you follow my post and stalk me. Its simple. Talk to me first or get blocked. Plenty of other women out there who may not care if...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27, 2015

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    I was scrolling through someone's experiences

    just now and found it and thought "wow I should totally add this" so I clicked the add button but I already had it._. One of the worst things about having over ten thousand experiences is not having the fun of adding more experiences
    YouCantEscapeMyDemons YouCantEscapeMyDemons 13-15, M May 31, 2015

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    I get people who add me say a few lines then

    never chat again why add me if you don't wanna chat, also I use the app so I don't use a pc to access this site the app is fine for me
    lovebustyladies lovebustyladies 41-45, M 2 Responses May 8, 2015

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    I admit. I haven't stop by to say hi to my

    whole circle. to have over 80 friends is tough. heck some of them I made a mistake adding them but only a few. I think I might wanna clean my circle in a little bit. but yeah, it's kinda depressing to have someone in your circle they don't wanna talk to you _-_ and half is my...
    ZardaF5 ZardaF5 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    From 106 down to 41. As my circle of friends

    on EP widens, I wonder why some people add me on here, but never bothered to talk to me - even just a simple Hi/Hello. When I signed up here, it has been my social protocol to accept almost all friend requests. Six months onward and I have only had proper conversation with 10...
    Fr0z3nY0gurt Fr0z3nY0gurt 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 9, 2014

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    sure, I get a lot of people adding me to their

    circle and never talk to me. i dont add them because they dont communicate with me.
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I have had several people add me

    who I have never even come across on here. I find it quite strange. I also find it strange if they add me after a couple of messages have been exchanged. If I don't know much about you I won't be adding you. Another pet peeve "hey have you got Facebook?" Yes I have but I'm not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 14, 2015

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    Why would you add me then never talk to me?

    I guess it's bc you want to look as if you have a lot of women clamoring for your attention, which is pathetic.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 5, 2015

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    I only added this because I am one of "those"

    people. I just can't stand all the creeps. Yes, I have kinky likes...no that doesn't mean I want to talk about them but if I do, I'll bring it up.
    iwontbeg4it iwontbeg4it 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2015

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    I don't get the point in adding someone If u

    will never talk to them or bother messaging them
    BlueMoonx BlueMoonx 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2015

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    Why do people add me to there profile

    and never talk if your not a chatty person de friend me ..... If you have added me and you see this say hi or unfriend me x
    ilovebustyfemales ilovebustyfemales 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 18, 2015

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 23, 2015

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    I do get rid of people

    who don't talk to me. Just saying.
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 3 Responses May 5, 2015

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    There are lots of them!

    I can only presume their motives. I will need do some housekeeping. Anyone without a photo, and without a story. I saw another girl on here use these criteria.
    Astrucbmt Astrucbmt 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 5, 2015

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    Don't add me if your just poking around

    and never say hello! Tonight I'm cleaning my circle.
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Honestly, if you add me I always look at the

    other people you've added as well. If you only add girls and I'm just another face for you to stare at, I will block you. Have some respect.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 23, 2015

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