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I Don't Like My Father

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    I - Today I realized how much I have surpressed my negative feelings of my father.I was molested by my dad. For years now I have been codependent. I always put other peoples...
    acfclc3 acfclc3 31-35 1 Response Apr 2, 2012

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    Can I Sever My Relationship With My Father? - i have never much liked my father. growing up he was basically a bully, to my sister and myself but mostly my mother. i was going to...
    en29 en29 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2013

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    I Very Much Dislike Him - My father pretty much abandoned my brothers and me during my entire teen years. He didn't only abandon us, he cheated and abused my mother and threw us...
    EroLoli EroLoli 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    Posessive Father - My parents are separating. My mom hates my fathers gut and Vice Versa. But the problem is, who am I'm going to stay with? So me being a teenager, I been dealing...
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3 13-15 1 Response Nov 6, 2013

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    I Do Not Like My Father - It feels weird saying that, but it's just the truth. He acts like he's the best father in the world, and tries to make me feel guilty anytime I disagree...
    slonim slonim 18-21 1 Response Oct 25, 2013

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    Son Of A Man-child - My father's a douche-bag man-child. He was born into a privileged life, and I think it gives him a grand sense of entitlement. He's now broke, but he refuses...
    Leatherwood Leatherwood 22-25, M Feb 12, 2012

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    I Never Do It Right - My father does a lot for me, and if he needs my help, I'll help him. However, I don't like him. Every time there is something I'm doing wrong, or not good...
    MrSandvich MrSandvich 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 11, 2013

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    Haven't Talked To My Father In Years, Because He's A Jerk. - I wasn't sure of the age range in this group, but decided to join and post anyway. I haven't talked to my father in...
    rudegubmintworker rudegubmintworker 36-40 3 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    Fireworks - On 4th of july we had fireworks going off. But not outside, but in our house. Theres four kids and the two oldest are dads favorite. He told my sister and I that day he...
    penpalwriter penpalwriter 41-45, F Jul 9, 2013

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    He Comes And Goes - Since I can barely remember from childhood, the only image of a fatherly figure I had in my life was my mother. My mother was a single at the time barely had...
    helen40033 helen40033 18-21 Sep 4, 2012

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    Cause he acts like he's always right in all situations, when my dad cheated he wasn't even sorry, and he still have the guts to bring my half brother in our house ... Well being...
    Stillintoyou Stillintoyou 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    My Father The Addict - I am the youngest child of two. As a child I can remember my father physically abusing my mother. I have a few graphic memories and I believe I blocked the...
    adalek adalek 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26, 2013

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    I Hate My Father - my father used to yell and hit a lot. he ruined my childhood.
    idksarah idksarah 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    We Dont Talk Anymore - Looking back, he was a real jerk. He was mucho, arrogant, a cop, selfish, he liked to party with booze & women. I will give him this..he did the best he...
    WindyCityCat WindyCityCat 41-45, F 7 Responses Aug 8, 2010

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    Vicariously - My father lives vicariously through my brother and I hate it. It seems that when ever I need something he forgets. He is always weary about loaning me money, even...
    MDrap MDrap 18-21 1 Response Feb 3, 2012

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    Admirable, Yes. a Father, No. - My father... I hate him. He is so intelligent. But yet, so stupid. What the hell; I cannot enunciate. He is a grand master at chess; yet a failure...
    OneGungHoSOB OneGungHoSOB 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 17, 2009

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    He'S So Demanding - I guess I should start by saying that my father left when I was about 3 or 4 years old. I vividly remember him walking out the door with his suitcase. I'm...
    Alaysia Alaysia 16-17, F Feb 2, 2013

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    I've Lost All Of My Respects On My Father - I had little or mediate respect on my father, since my childhood. I tried my best but I'd found out that I can never like him better and...
    chantha1991 chantha1991 22-25, M 3 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    Nope, Meh, Not At All. - Nah, I don't like him. Never have, never will. I actually absolutely hate him, his side of the family, the cousins I have because of him, every single...
    Strikerfreeze Strikerfreeze 18-21, M 8 Responses Feb 24, 2010

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    I Love My Dad But I Don't Always Like Him - My mom and dad had me at a young age, 19.  They were married for a few years but then my dad cheated multiple times. My dad was a real...
    Amber1985 Amber1985 26-30 1 Response Jun 5, 2012

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    Emotionally Drained, I've Reached The Decision Not To Give A **** - I don't love him but I don't hate him either. Sometimes he's there sometimes he's not. He seems to care about...
    Octio Octio 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2013

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    Dont Like My Father - hi im in my late thirties ihave a brother 8 years younger than me.my father left my mother 30 years ago for a woman 15 years younger than him.my dad is now 64...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Apr 26, 2011

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    I Feel Like I'm A Disappointment - When I was a bit younger, I started taking Saxophone lessons, purely for the fact that I thought it would please my father. I saved up my money...
    kamiar kamiar 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 9, 2013

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    I was 4 it was a week before my 5th birthday and we went to a different state to visit my cousins and we stayed in a hotel with a indoor pool but they had so many chemicals in the...
    Br0KenWhisper Br0KenWhisper 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Dad's Temper - My dad has a crazy temper- he'd yell in his loudest and shrillest voice when mad. When I was a kid, I would always liken it to what I would imagine the devil to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 3, 2009

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    Daddy Why?.... - Daddy why did you leave mommy when you knew I was going to be born? Why did you abandon me? You left me alone. You never wanted me. They say a girl's first...
    jadedlilly jadedlilly 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2011

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    I Hate My Dad! He Ruined My Life! - Hello everyone! Let me tell you about a story on my relationship with my dad since I was kid. He was born to be "strict" and "mean" when he...
    bogartkick bogartkick 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 30, 2010

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    I really hate my dad.......... he has not done anything in his life so removes his frustration on me he has kept his good name in society but in reality his a evil I did my...
    RMALHO RMALHO 18-21, M Feb 4

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    Hey Guys - my story is much more messed up than anyone can fix it,I just wanna tell my story so I can share it.my father had two wives and we are almost 15 children and I am the...
    setare setare 18-21 2 Responses May 23, 2011

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    I Am Disgusted By Him!!!!! - he has never done anything a person expects from his/her father... infact everything... he does.. is irritating... why did he ever marry in the first...
    cognition cognition 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 24, 2008

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    Starting To Touch My Anger! - I am so glad I found this site. I am at a point in therapy where I am finally getting in touch with my feelings....the happy and sad ones in the...
    kckass kckass 41-45, F Aug 26, 2012

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    I Could Never Accept My Dad, Because... - My Dad plays favorites. He favored my brother over my sister and I. He even bought and built a house just for him and my brother. When my...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T Aug 25, 2012

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    When I tried to kill myself, I left him a note. It read "Dad, just die". I still have yet to have him follow through on that either.
    hellpuddle hellpuddle 26-30, F Jan 1

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    My Dad's Not Responsible - My Dad probably never heard the word "responsibilities". He's not responsible of us kids once we're over 21. Like when Hurricane Rita hit my sister's...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T Aug 27, 2012

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    Nope Not At All - Hes a lazy, benefit scrounging, skiving, lying, cheating, fat, greasy b@stard. He says one thing to your face and another behind your back. Never happier than...
    Gemzaayy Gemzaayy 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2012

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    My Dad Sucks. - My dad doesn't let me go any do anything except for school work or work. i hardly ever get to see my friends who go to a different school because my dad says NO...
    taylorashleigh taylorashleigh 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    Father With An Attitude - Father has a serious attitude problem.....always right,never wrong.the favouritism is pretty sad too.....come to the stage now where enough is enough for...
    angrymumma angrymumma 41-45 1 Response Mar 1, 2012

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    I Need A Father Who Cares - My story well i am a 15 year old kid. I believe my father is very irritating. I don't know if i HATE him because that is a very strong word. All i know...
    yapchay4 yapchay4 13-15 3 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    I Don't Like Him!! - For what he was.. what he is.. and what he is pretending to be!!    
    cognition cognition 18-21, F 1 Response May 26, 2008

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    Dear Father - I don't hate you but damn I really wish I could. I'd stop having expectations that always lead to disappointment and pain. I never understood how you could resent...
    AwkwardnessCentral AwkwardnessCentral 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2013

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    My Dad Is "That Guy". - Most men have dirty magazines and/or movies.  I am not ignorant or uptight about ***********.  What any man wants to do in the privacy of his own...
    KellyK KellyK 26-30 3 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    He Wants To Control - At the moment i am not working. I have never asked my father for any help because i know he will always want me to do what he wants me to do. The few times i...
    Tk03 Tk03 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    Scumbag - Long story short, I'm not fond of my father for a few good reasons. One, he never did anything to take care of his family. All he did was sit on his *** all day bitching...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Aug 29, 2011

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    Dad - My father was the authoritarian and disciplinarian of the house.  There are a lot of kids in my family, and dad just didn't have the time or patience to get to know us...
    bingobastard bingobastard 36-40 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    I Don'T Know If It'S Hate Yet... But It'S Not Love - Long story short, my dad abused both me and my brother as a kid. Only me and my brother (I have a sister whom he layed off for...
    christine718 christine718 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2013

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    Like Is Different Than Love - I couldn't bring myself to join, "I Hate My Dad" because hate and love are opposites, plain and simple. And I do LOVE my dad, but I don't like him. To...
    Storiesforme Storiesforme 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 4, 2013

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    I Can't Get Along With My Father -  My father is not  a very agreeable person. no matter how hard i try to get along with him he'll always be an *******. he 's always...
    skullsncrossbones skullsncrossbones 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2010

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    Am I A Bad Person? - Ok i am a 15 year old african americn female. i have never done one of this blog type of thing so please bear with me ok? I ...jeez i dont even noe if i dont...
    jamienoelpatterson jamienoelpatterson 16-17 3 Responses Jul 29, 2011

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