I Don't Like My Mother

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    She Couldn't Love Me

    My mom isn't happy. There fore she doesn't want anyone else to be. She told me for years that no one could want me because I'm not tall and thin like her. Whenever I found something that made me happy I tried to hide it from her so she wouldn't try to take it from me. When I met...
    little3M little3M
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2013

    I'm 14 years old and i just don't like my mom.

    Im not even sure if I love her. It sounds horrible I know. I am thankful she takes care of me and stuff like that but we are just too different. I have some anxiety problems and she just doesn't understand that she puts so much stress on me but tells me i dont understand how...
    Zoenepsa Zoenepsa
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    What now Mom? Why not

    when the kids were babies? Or showing up for my graduation, or any child event for that matter? Why now are you chasing me all over the country? I resent you now. When I REALLY needed you, you were nowhere to be found. Locked in your room for days sometimes, I learned to...
    blueleafy blueleafy
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 15, 2014

    She pretends to be nice

    but is a user and always slips in back handed compliments. She is 75 overweight and never graduated high school. She is jealous of most of her daughters including me. This partly why I believe she watched her first husband rape my half sister when she was only 6 yrs old and then...
    Halemah Halemah
    May 13, 2014

    I Dont Like My Mom

    My mom is always on my case im 14 finna be 15 in a month and ive dated boys before and kissed and all that but none unappropriate. But ive never got to well like to connect with my mom about my relationships , its very hard for me too cause if I tell her something she's all over...
    LisaaMaarie LisaaMaarie
    18-21, F
    Nov 16, 2013


    Would you, could you, be with her on a boat? I could not, would not, on a boat. I will not, will not, with a goat. I will not be with her in the rain. I will not be with her on a train. Not in the dark! Not in a tree! Not in a car! You let me be! I do not like her in a box. I do...
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2013

    I don't really know why I feel like this

    but I just don't. She cheated on my dad when I was young and ever since then I haven't forgiven her (it's been over 8 years now). We always fight, she always yells at me and I feel like I can't rely on her because she always comes up with so many excuses for everything she does...
    lillypadd lillypadd
    22-25, F
    May 22, 2014

    I Can't Connect With Her

    I've never got on with my mum from as young as 7. she as always controlled small aspects of my life down to what degree I should be doing at University. So now I have graduated with a 2:2, jobless an living back at home with her. Being back hs been hell. I told her I don't want...
    Valleydoll Valleydoll
    22-25, F
    Sep 7, 2013

    Right now I have the choice of

    either going hungry or inviting my mother over. I'd rather go hungry.
    AlexandreRoslyn AlexandreRoslyn
    22-25, F
    May 9, 2014

    Up Date..on I Dont Like My Mother

    After I put my experience on this site...it was just great to know I am not alone..and just givinig voice to what I truly felt...then someone responded with some very wise words..."YOUR PRESENT IS YOUR PRESENCE" (Seesue)  and It was amazing...It helped me put the focus  back on...
    cyn9157 cyn9157
    51-55, F
    1 Response Aug 27, 2011

    My mother and I have never really got along

    very well. She always says things which brings me down and which are mostly negative, and she always points out at my flaws all the time. She is also a very closed and reserved person and tries to keep most 'adult talk' away from me even though i'm 22 yrs now. I think i've got...
    Bloomer112 Bloomer112
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2014

    I Hate Her!!!

    I just can't stand here! She calls me a hoe and *****. For no reasons at all! Se treats my lil sis like a princess but she treats me like dirt! She's like a ***** I mean it!!!!!
    EleanorVan EleanorVan
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2012

    Can't Stand Hearig Or Looking Or Being Around My Mother

    I feel bad, I can't stand my mother, she's religious I am not but I feel like she forces it on me, she is very ignorant, she thinks everything she says is right because of her religious beliefs, she always tells me what I should do,I constantly feel like she is judging me, I am...
    Rose896 Rose896
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 19, 2012

    It's A Love-hate Relationship

    I feel guilty that I'm even posting this. However, I currently harbor deep resentment towards my mother. Here is why. 1. She has obsessive compulsive disorder and frets over insignificant details. The house must be immaculate and every hint of disorder must be investigated like a...
    burnbrightly burnbrightly
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 2, 2013

    My mother has always been a

    rather unpleasant person to be honest - when I was a child she would occasionally hit me and as I got older she would be a little more creative, once taking the bulbs out of the headlights of my moped and letting me go out, knowing I would have to return in the dark. She has...
    Fedupdaughter Fedupdaughter
    61-65, F
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2014

    Hate is a strong word.

    I would say I dislike her as a person, but probably love her in someway. I find the way she freaks at tv characters during shows or movies. Yelling at them critically and getting all worked up over fake things. I think she looks and is behaving ridiculously when she does that...
    merrygentry merrygentry
    31-35, F
    Jul 28, 2014

    My mum and I have never really got along

    but when my mum and dad where together it was normal arguments and things.. However since my mum and dad split up (dads fault) I haven't been able to have a civil conversation with her she recently moved into my house and my dad moved out she does everything for me and I try to...
    axxd axxd
    18-21, F
    Apr 2, 2014

    And Then There Was Me

    So. If you are reading this, let me warn you: this WILL be long. This will pretty much be a shortened version of my life story. I might even start using this site as a diary, since my "life story" is still being written. I'm not looking for pity. I don't know what I'm looking for...
    NotTheItGirl NotTheItGirl
    18-21, F
    Sep 27, 2013

    Am I Wrong For Feeling This Way About My Mother?

    Growing up, my mom was so immature even to this day now that I am 20 and she is turning 51. I literally cannot stand her. Everything about her I cannot stand... don't get me wrong she cares about me and she sacrifices a lot for me, but there is so many bad qualities that i can't...
    Kimahkatchan7 Kimahkatchan7
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 9, 2013

    I'm pretty young and most teenagers say they

    don't like their mom because they didn't buy them a new phone or any little reason like that. I don't like my mom because she is the most heartless woman I have ever met. Since I was little I always remembered her getting really angry about stuff that toddlers get mad at. For...
    Oxidant Oxidant
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2015

    I Just Don't Know

    I mean I do care for her she is my mom after all. I just don't like her. We recently had to move in with my aunt, and it is very stressful house. I find myself spending more and more time alone, and truthfully, I like it. But, my mother doesn't. She insists I spend more time with...
    1 Response Jan 21, 2013

    I won't get into a huge sob story about my

    childhood. Long story short, my mother and I stopped speaking a few years ago after I found out she was abusing my social security number...putting bills in my name and what not. I hadn't lived with her since I was in high school. It was the final kick that ended our minimal...
    silencedfears silencedfears
    1 Response Feb 6, 2015

    She's Emotionally Abusive

    Any time I deviate from 'the plan' she dreamt up for me before I was born (University>Lawyer/doctor>Three kids and a house with a white picket fence), I am verbally abused. Daily, I am called a worthless, useless loser who she wishes had never been born. I used to nod my head...
    wordlesswordsmith wordlesswordsmith
    1 Response May 25, 2012

    My Mother Transforms Me Into A Monster!

    Have you ever really yelled at someone? You know, the kind of yell where you are no longer yourself, but more like the primitive barbaric animal deep inside. During this process you loose yourself to the yelling. All self control is left behind, and what remains is inner most...
    sumsum7777 sumsum7777
    4 Responses Dec 20, 2011

    Not Sure Why She Embarresses Me So Much

    ever since i was alittle kid she spanked me but at 12 she did it in front of a room full of females some friend others family she pulled the towel off me first and spanked my butt when i was naked .she always says if you get in trouble i'll show your tiny penis  to evryone...
    victor16 victor16
    10 Responses May 28, 2010

    I really don't like being around my mother,

    she is the most hurtful person I have ever met. the things she says are just unbelievable at times... I really don't know what happened. Growing up, my mother and I were the closest. I was the only child and we would do everything together and go everywhere together. and even...
    veezus veezus
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 5, 2015

    It's a relief this page is here.

    I'm a 32 yr. old female, as a child I always thought highly of my mom. She's never abused us, she's never used illegal drugs or alcohol, nor even smoke cigarettes. She did however marry 4 times, and yes all 4 times while I was still a kid. I was never abused by any of her...
    suzanne014 suzanne014
    36-40, F
    Dec 18, 2013

    Maybe I'm Not Fit For Heaven Because I Don't Want To Be Close With My Mom

    This morning, my mom called again. I told her I was still not comfortable with the idea of visiting her, because of my concerns about her trying to force her views on me. She cried half the time on the phone, saying "When are we going to have a better relationship? Why can't...
    myownwoman myownwoman
    36-40, F
    Nov 18, 2013

    I Really Don"t Like My Mother

     I put the entire statement I really dont like my mother into the search box...and lo and behold I was very encouraged that I was not alone.....My mother thrives on fear and high drama about other family members. plays one against the other.I have flashbacks when she  was in...
    cyn9157 cyn9157
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Aug 21, 2011

    Not sure how to say this.

    I'm usually always nice, quiet, & sweet all the time. I have never done anything majorly wrong when I was younger. I never invited boys in the house when my parents were gone nor yelled back at my parents, let alone any adult. I usually bottle up everything inside because I...
    Whitney4234 Whitney4234
    22-25, F
    May 15, 2014

    She pretends to be nice

    but is a user and always slips in back handed compliments. She is 75 overweight and never graduated high school. She is jealous of most of her daughters including me. This partly why I believe she watched her first husband rape my half sister when she was only 6 yrs old and then...
    Halemah Halemah
    May 13, 2014

    Rite. I'm bloody pissed off.

    I am an only child. (29) and I resent my mum. My mum has no boyfriend or friends. She works as a post lady. She is always moaning about her job. She is 62. All she has in her life is me. And my dad . My dad is seperated from her around 24 years ago. And he has his own life and...
    Sophieeames Sophieeames
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2014


    For as long as I can remember I have hated my mother. Some of my first memories are feeling irritation and resentment towards my mother. I honestly do not know how I could have grown into the person I am today with her as my mother. We are complete opposites. She is lazy. She is...
    TallTallTrees TallTallTrees
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 4, 2013

    Anyone Who Does Is Lucky,

    because that means she hasn't been mean to them. My mother is not fun to live with. She overreacts to everything and will overreact when you say she overreacts. She says things to hurt people, is addicted to drama, starts arguments for fun, abuses my dad and I emotionally, is...
    chococat159 chococat159
    5 Responses Jun 5, 2011

    So.. My Mother?

    Can remember dreading to go back home from school. Everyday it would be silence. Or insults. Or lies. Or sobs. Maybe a mixture if I was lucky. She would tell me she had to go to "in services" for her job to keep her license. I think she had in services but not as often as she...
    kennedyhensen46 kennedyhensen46
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2013

    My mother is so mean,

    I am not even kidding. She accuses me for the most bizarre things, cusses so much, calls me stupid, compares my sisters and I to other kids, hits us really hard, and tells on us to my dad for every little thing so we can get into trouble. I mean sure, I talk back most of the...
    FireFliticDream FireFliticDream
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2014


    My mother and I are total opposites. She is weak, I am strong. She is uneducated, I am educated. She isn't outgoing, I need to get out! Everything about her just irritates me and it seems to get worse as she gets older. From as far as I can remember, I have never liked my mother...
    Cherine Cherine
    8 Responses Nov 15, 2011

    I Can No Longer.

    Since my childhood, my mother is the symbol of problems. She is so full of hate and a terrible person. She was a terrible wife ( my father got a divorce last year) and terrible mother. No one in the family like her. I have hated her for a long time, but after almost 40 years, I...
    Lugaer Lugaer
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2013

    I Don't Like My Mother.

    I had to move back home when I was about 24 because I had a baby in a failed relationship. My mom used this as an opportunity to bully me because I had no choice but to take it. She would wait til my dad went off to work, and talk my head off about politics, and when I would...
    blueyedsoul blueyedsoul
    31-35, F
    Oct 24, 2013

    My Little Secret

    I'm writing this out here... because I feel like if I tell any of my friends and family they'll think of me as a really bad person.  So here it is.  I just don't like my mom.  She's not a horrible abusive person.  She buys me things (I think in an effort to get me to like her...
    baddaughter22 baddaughter22
    8 Responses May 13, 2012

    I Wish I Could Like My Mom...

    I absolutely feel like a horrible, mean and ungrateful daughter. My mom has done her best to raise me and my brother as a stay at home mom while my dad always worked. And to her credit, considering the lame-brain socially/emotionally challenged parents she came from, she's done a...
    Aurora2003 Aurora2003
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2013

    On one hand she is a caring,

    supportive individual to all her loved ones, friends, and extended family. Almost a doormat. She always had a stable career, although we moved a lot. But, she was able to work no matter where we lived. I was with babysitters often. She remarried after divorcing my father. So...
    beauty1000 beauty1000
    Sep 7, 2014

    I Can't Stand Her!

    When my mother got pregnant she becames a horrible mother and wife. I'm the daughter of nine so se has a lot of children that she is suppose to love and nuture. As soon as she becomes pregnant she becomes so emotional no one can stand her. She's always nagging and guilt tripping...
    candycane4721 candycane4721
    1 Response Sep 18, 2011

    I Just Don't Like You

    I'm sorry to say that while i love my mother, I've never really liked her. Well actually a little more than that, I don't respect her as a child should respect their parent or as a person. She's a person with good intentions but with severely warped directional sense. Well to...
    Mephistos Mephistos
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2013

    I guess I just thought my relationship with my

    mother as an adult would be different. We could be friends and talk and give advice, but the truth is i don't really want to be her friend. She is lazy and i don't respect her at all. Sure she will babysit my kids for me if I ask in a pinch because something came up. But she...
    madaboutmom madaboutmom
    31-35, F
    Feb 28, 2014
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