I Don't Like Needing Help From Others But Sometimes I Do

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 308 People

    I Wrecked A Car

    I wrecked my car this summer. So badly actually, that I had to say goodbye to it and let it go to the heaven of cars. In theory it could have been fixable, but the car was so old (from year -96) and seen a lot of world that the repairs would cost way over the actual value of it...
    Fearofsilence Fearofsilence
    18-21, F
    Sep 12, 2011

    Sadly Yes

    I'm constantly helping people pay for things. I like doing it. It makes me feel like a better person. But as soon as anyone tries helping me pay for something I shut down. I don't want their help. I don't want to feel in their debt. Even if it's only a dollar or two I don't want...
    DemonVampire180 DemonVampire180
    18-21, F
    Dec 13, 2011

    Can Anyone Help?

    I came here  with the intentions to make a new happy life. I am 53 with 8 children 5 of who live on an Indian rez in NYS. I am on SSI for fibromalgia and chronic fatigue syndrom-also I had a thyroid removed from cancer. I lived many years with domestic violence. I cant seem...
    mountaintransplant mountaintransplant
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

    It Is True.

     i have neurological problems and when they flare up i do need a little help.i get so stiff and hurt so bad.i am glad that there are people who will help me.thank god there are still people out there who are willing to help others.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself
    Jun 29, 2009

    This Is Because...

    I just... I don't want people to see my weaknesses. I don't want anyone to know that I need help with anything. I just always have wanted to be able to help people like I alway have, without me needing them. That way, I wouldn't have to care about anyone too much.  ...
    MistressOfJade MistressOfJade
    13-15, F
    Jun 29, 2009

    I Hate Admitting To People When I Need Help.

    But sometimes I must admit it. Even when it makes me feel so ashamed.
    Greenlander Greenlander
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Sep 6, 2010

    Mutual Help Is Always Good

    In our life, we always need help from others..sometimes emotional, mental, physical, spiritual and financial. I have gone through tough life and it has been an uphill struggle. earlier sometimes, i used to feel frustrated and discouraged, losing all hopes. But then i started...
    moksha18 moksha18
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2010

    I Screw Things Up Quazi Often

    It's generally trial and error. I find that the best way to learn new things. I am not one of those people who usually get it right the first time, and if I do, it's a little messy. I prefer that to having someone stand over me. I really don't like people around when I am...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper
    26-30, M
    Apr 23, 2010


         I don't like asking for support from my friends, nor do I like asking for help from time to time, but there are those times, that you have to ask for it, or you are going to find yourself going crazy, and going to end up losing control over your emotions, and...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 6, 2009
More Stories