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I Don't Like People Who Are Downers

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    They Make Me Feel So Helpless

    A bit of background - for 4 years (2005-2008) I was clinically depressed. I was very secretive about it, and was torn between feeling that any show of emotion other than happiness was a weakness, and frustration that nobody seemed to notice how miserable I was inside. I won't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 28, 2010

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    Soooo

    Let's all be uppers!!!! LOL
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Ugh.

    Not that I expect everyone to be all sunshine & roses all the time, but c'mon! Smile once in awhile! Cut all the "woe is me" bullshit & live a little! :p
    VendettaVita VendettaVita 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 27, 2010

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    Especially Myself...

    when I am a downer... I try to not be around others when I am feeling down....because I don't want to bring others down.... Yep...I would rather be an upper...lol......Guess I better go find those darn happy pills...
    deleted66 deleted66 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2010

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    Don't Bring Me Down

    I try not to bring others down   so don't bring me down  
    librakitty05 librakitty05 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2009

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