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I Don't Like Seeing A Friend Hurting

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    The End Of Heartache

    I don't like seeing a friend hurting, because in turn it causes me to hurt too. I have no problem sharing the pain with my friends, lightening their load so to speak. But it destroys me. I can't stop myself from experiencing their pain as I would my own. I blame it on my...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F May 13, 2013

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    My friend accidentally shot himself in the leg

    with a .40 caliber pistol. Usually the title refers to emotional pain - but I feel bad about physical pain too. He was wearing a concealed carry holster, and apparently was actually going hunting. This is pretty strange though - but either way, he's not hunting with his...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M Nov 26, 2014

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