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I Don't Like Seeing A Friend Hurting

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 459 People

    When my closest friend got the news

    that his brother was shot twice in the head our freshman of college...I felt his pain and I hated seeing my other friends feel it too.
    dynamight1 dynamight1 22-25, M Jul 7

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    There are so many people sad

    and hurtin here i wish i could jus put my hand on their hearts to show them its gona be ok
    JennaRee JennaRee 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    My friend accidentally shot himself in the leg

    with a .40 caliber pistol. Usually the title refers to emotional pain - but I feel bad about physical pain too. He was wearing a concealed carry holster, and apparently was actually going hunting. This is pretty strange though - but either way, he's not hunting with his...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M Nov 26, 2014

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    Kaiya I'm so sorry for your loss,

    it's hurting me seeing you like this, I'm here for you if you need anything. R.I.P baby girl.
    ItsNikitaa ItsNikitaa 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The End Of Heartache

    I don't like seeing a friend hurting, because in turn it causes me to hurt too. I have no problem sharing the pain with my friends, lightening their load so to speak. But it destroys me. I can't stop myself from experiencing their pain as I would my own. I blame it on my...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F May 13, 2013

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