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I Dont Like Seeing People Being Left Out

Its not nice n people can be mean. 3,883 People

    I see so much pain in people's hearts.

    Everyone feel out of their own pain the need to cut people out of there lives. I have a hard time dealing with the fact that I can't help another person because they wear pain like clothing.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 29, 2015

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    Especially because I know how it feels to not

    be invited. The worst part about social media is when you log on and you see pictures from a party no one told you about. You feel such sadness yet can't help yourself from looking through all the pictures of them having a good time. You know you are torturing yourself but you...
    Thatonegirl53 Thatonegirl53 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    i have been left out

    and been called names i am also looking for a boyfriend (13 years old plz or 14 dose not matter between those)
    akittels akittels 13-15, F 23 hrs ago

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    When we take my grand daughter to mall

    and play she will ask do you wanna play with me and some say no and walk away. I hate to see anyone hurt or left out. I told her don't ever treat people like that, cause it feels real bad when it is done to you. Besides its just wrong.
    lilprincess09 lilprincess09 56-60, F Sep 3, 2015

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    Come On

    i hate seeing anyone being alone or left alone. i dont like seeing a big group of kids all laughing and a kid standing alone. i dont like to see that group of people saying that the person cant join in. thats when i step in. i like to make people smile and feel included so i will...
    VictimOfCircumstance VictimOfCircumstance 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 1, 2013

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    i myself have clear memories about being left

    out of some things, all the way to kindergarden. not many, but a few clear ones. Maybe it became an sorta mentality of my own in the end, "i cant join", "they wont like having me there". but life is full of events where somebody will be kinda left out. I myself would not like...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 2 Responses May 3, 2015

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    I believe a little kindness goes a long way.

    I hate feeling left out so I like to reach out to quiet, shy people and do what I can to make sure they feel comfortable and included ^_^
    oliviyah oliviyah 22-25, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    i hate seeing people

    that i know left out of things. if i was left out i would like my friend to include me in some way. i dont even like to see puppies being left out. if i play with one i have to play with them all.
    Aeril Aeril 18-21, F 1 Response May 1, 2015

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    This is the moment when I put my heart on my

    sleeve lol I know the feeling, as a little girl. Being treated differently because I was too dark, too skinny, too nappy, too quiet. ... I don't like to talk about this, as tears are about to fall... I kinda grew up sheltered, with little to no peer interaction. I just knew...
    NaomiSunshineJourney NaomiSunshineJourney 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2015

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    I was left out and sometimes bullied in school,

    so I know how it feels I wish I was the person that I am now, back then. But I cant do that what I can do is help people like me or who are going through the stuff I went through. To share my experience and to say there is still hope. You can and will have a better future just...
    sagard1994 sagard1994 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 20, 2014

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    I Don'T Like It Because It'S Always Me

    Yeah, sure, we've all been left out once or twice but I think some people just have "outcast" written across their face. Time and time again they are the ones left out and they begin to wonder, "what's wrong with me? Am I really that ugly? Do I smell bad? Do I have a strange...
    YourRemedyMyPoison YourRemedyMyPoison 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    It'S Sad To Be Left Out.

    According to my friends, I'm a "popular" person. But if I don't try to sit in with people at lunch, I end up sitting alone. There was this one guy, in my grade that always sat alone. Like ALWAYS, it was sad. So one day me and my friend went to go sit with him. We said hello and...
    HappyHuffy HappyHuffy 16-17, M 4 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    I was always that kid

    that got left out. Either I was picked last for kickball or my friends were all together and I was at home. At home I was always left out. Always the black sheep. Now that I'm older I don't get left out much. People that neglect me or leave me out now have a very short chapter...
    LovelyyLexii18 LovelyyLexii18 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 3, 2015

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    I read today that there are 10 million people

    around the world who have no nationality officially because the country they live in does not recognize them. Usually due to discrimination of ethnicity or race. These are people that have no right to go to grade school or obtain other social services. Really sad.
    HoneyBeeOfRedMountain HoneyBeeOfRedMountain 26-30, F Sep 29, 2015

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    Cause I Was

    left out several times growing up.   Last kid picked for the team cause I wasn't the captains "friend", first kid dropped off after the activity so everyone else could go enjoy ice cream or doing something that was extra... Since I had to endure it when I was...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 9 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    When I first started College I noticed how

    there was a few people by themselves and even though it wasn't my place to get involved I spoke to them and have now formed a massive group with them, we're all very different in personality and its so refreshing to be with them.
    Meirin Meirin 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 28, 2015

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    I always try to include those

    that get left out as I know exactly what it's like to be left out! When I see someone on their own and i'm with others I always try to get them involve! If i'm on my own and i see someone sitting alone I tend to sit on their table, look over what they're doing and try make a...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F Jul 9, 2014

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    at times growing up and into adult hood i was

    that person who was left out. the kid who was chosen last. the so called out cast. so i know how that feels and dont like seeing others going through those same feelings and experiences. so i try to include everyone when i doing things. no one needs to be feeling like they are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 14, 2015

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    I always want them to join into a convo I'm

    having, but they either decline or I'm too awkward to ask them...
    MildImplosion MildImplosion 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

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    I'm usually someone being left out.

    So I know how it feels. My family are very out spoken. I can start sentences and stop and it won't be noticed.
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 2 Responses May 3, 2015

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    I hate seeing it too.

    If I'm in a circle and someone is just standing there awkwardly ( or doesn't know anyone) I'll be the first to introduce myself and try to include them. I hate when people take someone out with them and their friends and don't introduce them or include them. I also try not to...
    Streptococcus Streptococcus 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 27, 2015

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    I hate when someone is excluded

    or left out but ironically enough I'm always the one excluded and left out. I don't have any real friends to begin with. Old ones I had would always exclude me from everything.
    ChrisTheHero ChrisTheHero 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    needales needales 18-21 May 29, 2015

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    I'm 53, and still recall being the awkward shy

    kid, and feeling that emptiness. I've taught my teen sons to be especially thoughtful for the ignored and overlooked.
    CallMeSal CallMeSal 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    :'( It Hurts

    i have been there my whole life ,, i am not kidding , i swear , from when i was a lil girl , when we have a group of friends they always per up and leave me alone , always , i thought it might be some kind of a curse XD now i am trying to help those who are left out , and like...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 7, 2013

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    It brings me to tears

    when I see someone, anyone at all, being left out, shunned or anything like that. Sure, sometimes it's the person's own fault, but sometimes it's more complicated than that (Autism, disability, etc). I would try to get close to them, but somehow things always turn out wrong. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 31, 2015

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    When i was in school i was one of those people

    who sat with loners. If i saw someone sitting by themselves at lunch i would leave my table and friends just so he/she wouldnt feel left out. I thought it was nice. And so did they :) Im not always a popular snob. Lol :)
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 11, 2014

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    ever since high school I have always made sure

    people who were in my friends circle or not felt left out.
    peppit peppit 36-40, M Aug 16, 2015

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    A word from your mouth will make a person's day

    so go ahead and spit the honey from your mouth.Telling someone that you are pretty orI like your outfit will make her feel satisfied .The mountain she's going through will make it shorter .This will make her forget all the things that made her feel ugly.
    Senaya Senaya 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I don't like seeing it

    because when i was younger I was very shy and unsocial. I was always everybody's last choice at everything. That's what caused me to get depression at such a young age. It didn't end until i was 17.
    velloric velloric 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 29, 2015

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    If someone gets left out of something I will

    let them take my place in a heartbeat but no one ever says anything when I get left out of stuff but that's okay, it would be nice if they acknowledged me at least but it doesn't matter
    Fred363 Fred363 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 2, 2015

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    When I was in middle school our PE teacher had

    this drill that we run around the gym and when he called out a number that's the size of a group we had to form as fast as possible. Looking back I think it was cruel because of course friends always got in groups with other friends but what about if you had no friends? Me and...
    Morrgin Morrgin 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 10, 2015

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    FallenOptimist22 FallenOptimist22 22-25 3 Responses May 5, 2015

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    I get angry at society

    when people are being left out, and I dont know what to do because I cant help everyone. I sympathise with people who get pushed away because I've been there, Ive always felt like there was something wrong with me because people at school would ignore me like I was never worth...
    GingerHolmes GingerHolmes 16-17, F 2 Responses May 8, 2015

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    Especially in school.

    I know how hard it is to make friends when you're... "Different" from other people. Whenever I see someone by themselves, I always smile at them and ask them if they want to join me/us.
    ijustwantahug ijustwantahug 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2014

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    even though I'm usually the one being left out.

    wich is why when I'm not and I see someone who is I get the strength usually and go tell them they can be with me
    dathglas dathglas 13-15, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Even when including those left out people

    really makes everyone's life a misery when I include them lol even so there's still no excuse to make people feel alone or left out in general life. Obviously if they're convicted rapists, paedophiles, terrorists, homophobes or racists then shun them to damnation ;)
    Fozzyuk34 Fozzyuk34 36-40, M Jan 9

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    I still remember those kids back in school

    that never had anyone to hang out with. They would stick around the groups and try to get a word in or two but no one really cared about them. They were tolerated but no more than that. I befriended one of them and he was actually a great guy. My friends didn't understand why...
    milkmilklemonadee milkmilklemonadee 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    When i see people left out it truly touches my

    heart. i hate when they have the look of desperation and angst. or just plain sadness. i believe it provokes insecurities and paranoia.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 14, 2015

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    Growing up I was always the quiet child.

    Never talk to much unless I had too not shy but I'm a introvert. As an artist I go through so many challenges with expressing myself with my artwork. Now that I teach art to kids at a local elementary & middle school I see so many kids who remind me of myself. Their not loud...
    DaCreativeChild DaCreativeChild 22-25, F Apr 28, 2014

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    I was the one always being left out

    so I know how it felt. But now I just see people who leave others out as not worth my time. And when I see someone being left out I am first to talk to them.
    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 18, 2015

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    I have. A friend that believes that.

    I'm psychic just because he has clarified that I can see auras...can anyone relate? He below in shamanism I nee to know where I can find the correct information
    martinamar martinamar 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26, 2015

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