I hate surprises. Absolutely hate them.
Please don't do the following to me:
- show up at my door unannounced.
- throw me a surprise party.
- plan an intervention of any kind around me.
- bring home any object, animal, or person without telling me about it at least an hour...
[read the bold to get the gist and not wade through the verbose mud]
so I came across this website TODAY when I was looking for information on narcissistic personality disorder.
and I am Telling You!!!! When people Talk about NPD!!!!!
I TRULY feel like I have found a friend...
I have never much like getting surprised by things-- especially so-called "surprise birthday parties" and the like. Other kinds of surprises aren't particularly attractive either, and I recognize that I am simply not a very spontaneous person, in most ways.
Recently my father had a medical crisis and had to have two emergency surgeries within a two week period.
I live a state away from him. So , I had to travel back home and experience this emotional rollercoaster along with fighting and arguing with my eldest brother who is a...