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I Don't Like the Pat On the Back Gesture

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    Ummm - I had never gotten the pat on the back gesture until yesterday and now I've gotten 2 of them.  Kinda weird.  Gotta say that gesture seems condescending to me. ...
    ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton 36-40, M 35 Responses Feb 24, 2009

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