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I Don't Like To Date Clingy People

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    Don't Smother Me

    My last girlfriend was this type. She had to be joined at my hip everywhere we went, and she often invaded my physical personal space- draping herself around me in public, interrupting conversations I was having with another person, etc. We lasted a month. I could not handle...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Apr 3, 2010

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    Space. Please.

    I'm sorry, but I don't need you hanging off of me every second of the day.  Snuggling while watching TV/Movies is one thing, but practically groping me in line at the super market is totally unacceptable.  I'm not going to vaporize if we aren't touching every second...
    SpiritualFighter SpiritualFighter 26-30, M 9 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    And Won't

    I like having my space even when I am in a relationship. I don't want a man that is following me around like a puppy dog and hanging on my every word.  I want him to have his own interests and to pursue them.  If I feel a person is being too clingy I quickly start...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 7 Responses Feb 13, 2010

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    courtneyyyx331 courtneyyyx331 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Clingy People

    Clingy people,Can't stand 'em,Would never date one,Once you're started,Too hard to break off,For me,No thanks.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Dec 18, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I really feel that ppl come here because they have their own problems. .they want to share their feelings with others. .or try to forget their pain for some items. ..sometimes they...
    Smunai Smunai 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    It's sooo creepy but I don't know why and why do people do that? haha I can't eat while people do that... Just Stop!!!! lol.
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate it when people stab you in the back and when you do the same they be like ' how could you do that and s**t ' and act like they never did it . Like c'mon be real and honest...
    annagab16 annagab16 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I think it's childish and often collusive "My fren blocked you so im blocking you too 'cos my fren says im not her fren if i don't do what she does and she's my fren so i...
    mickyisback mickyisback 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 23

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    It's because I believe in forgiveness. But if things get out of hand, and you continually harass or perv on me, I will block you. But that will take something serious for me to...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I really don't. Especially if we used to be in good terms in the past. That's why I try my best not to argue or be rude to people so that I can always have good memories with each...
    iAteYourCrayon iAteYourCrayon 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I've worked in a shop for nearly 3 years and people could be so rude for like no reason. And the worst is, that no matter how nice you treat them, they're just gonna go on like the...
    spash spash 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I like to think of them as template answers, Some of my least favourite types of template responses are from the Kiss-*** template, the Sook template and the pointless flirting...
    xCoinx xCoinx 22-25, M Sep 6

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    I don't like it when people treat me one way when I'm alone with them, than if we were around others or in public. I'm the same person no matter what. Are they ashamed of me...
    Saram1985 Saram1985 26-30, F Sep 5

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    I just really really don't like other people (aside from my mother and sister); being around anyone at any time, talking to anybody, anything like that... I hate going outside...
    TriforceTapioca TriforceTapioca 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    People constantly need to be told why I don't like my birthday. Why's the reason such a big deal why dont people agree to just not celebrate it. They act like I'm depriving them...
    lex2414 lex2414 16-17, M Aug 20

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    I wish the title of this group didn't include the word 'sorry' because I'm not sorry. Of course I have met a small number of them who are good, interesting, intelligent people but...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    Over years I've had my share of break ups and people leaving. I've learned one thing from,people leaving me. They hate being chased after. It's hard for someone like me,I tend to...
    rosesee rosesee 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    Please refrain from messaging me if you have the intention to trade inappropriate pictures, save up a little bit of time in my life, I don't want to take the time to block you...
    zlkwbzlkw zlkwbzlkw 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Apparently people are messaging me because they have problems with my satanism. If you don't like it then stay FAR away from me and just ignore it okay?!! :) Most likely i won't...
    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I don't like my body I'm fat and ugly. I hate my body. Y can't I be beautiful like other people?
    Kelnea Kelnea 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I don't think that when people grow up, they will become morebroad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's aselecting process, knowing what's the most important...
    QearlLee QearlLee 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Why do people always want me to chase them ? Message them ... Call them ... Keep asking them if they wanna talk to me or not ... I don't like it . Stop talking to me I'm that...
    Hardeepsinghkallu Hardeepsinghkallu 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm 57 years old and I still don't understand why "We" lie? Are we embarrassed? Are we ashamed? Or is it pride? What ever the reason, I don't like it and I really don't think...
    PhotoJose PhotoJose 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    Another bullying experience. In our institution, a Viber group was created for easy information dissemination and communication. But, for some, it is used otherwise. It is used as...
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I am 29 and finally admitting to myself that I don't like or really love my father. On paper he's the perfect Dad. Despite the divorce with my Mum and periods of separation he...
    wombattle wombattle 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    well, i just have put some of pictures in some weblogs, ( and so do some of my friends) but i don't like to trade pictures. i deeply believe in inner beauties.
    Martin7470 Martin7470 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Spare me all the self absorbed flowery meanderings. And, permit me :- "I don't like poetry, actually". There, no 'Star Trek' split infinitive now.
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M Sep 5

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    I really don't like snakes. Warning to all you snakes out there: Come near me, I'll kill you!
    letmespoo4u letmespoo4u 51-55, M Sep 7

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    I don't like talking on the phone. I feel uncomfortable every time I ask the other person to repeat themselves bc I either can't understand or didn't hear them. Thats why I prefer...
    Lekat Lekat 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    The epidemic levels of school violence tell me that more and more kids are growing up without a conscience. TV is their mother and father, and TV says if someone does something you...
    missbellelettres missbellelettres 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Thinking back the other day about my childhood, I admit that I was a handful and needed some of the "whoopings" that I got, other times I needed a parent to talk to me. My...
    Cryingcorner Cryingcorner 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    Besides my fear of always being judging by people I have come to realize I somehow rub people the wrong way, or maybe my social anxiety comes from the fact I rub people the wrong...
    GrimCreeper0150 GrimCreeper0150 22-25, M Aug 17

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    I don't think people like me for who I really am. I don't think such people should matter. I get lonely a lot, and that forces me to question my thoughts. Am I friendly enough? Am...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Favor ? Help? Are they both the same? Most would say No but for some it may feel like asking for help is asking for favors. But there's a difference if we see it differently...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M Aug 28

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    I don't have a problem with people not liking me. I just hate when they pretend that they do.
    SupremeEbonyGoddess SupremeEbonyGoddess 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Why do so some people who have backyards never use them? Instead, they insist on doing everything out front, on the porch, and annoy the hell out of me and the rest of the block in...
    Cristofori Cristofori 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    Is anyone else scared of drunk people? I am terrified of men, and found others, but not about drunk people? I get panicky and suck. As a child occasionally my father would drink...
    Bcori1999 Bcori1999 13-15, F Aug 30

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    Last night I decided to go out with my cousin who I haven't spoke to in what feels like years. We use to be very close and told each other everything. Im surprised that we both...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F Sep 6

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    But....what's with the influx of "not checking profiles" or blocking someone if they don't answer your perverse questions or answer it with sarcasm. I don't mind chatting with...
    thesilentchef thesilentchef 26-30, F Aug 15

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    I actually like talking to people. It makes me happy to have a nice convo. ^ ^
    marisemarrs marisemarrs 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Tip #5 against bullying: [ Don't let the noise of other peoples' opinions drown out your inner voice . ~ Steve Jobs]
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F Aug 17

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    This is just one of my observations. Some women I've seen use their emotions to manipulate a man into doing what she wants him to do. I find this behavior to be repulsive...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I don't lol. I have done law and philosophy so am used to people being able to argue. A guy who refuses to see that his point could be wrong... or who believes if he just raises...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Some favors just aren't worth the hassle. People offer to do something for you and you never hear the end of it!
    traceyj77 traceyj77 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 28

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    now don't get me wrong, blue eyes are cute but they're just not a desirable trait for me. i know most people will do anything for them but i don't understand all the hoopla. i...
    ajgamer ajgamer 13-15, M 5 Responses Aug 31

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    I put my profile as waves cause I don't want people to see my face and like do some weird stalker **** on my ***
    nicoleR98 nicoleR98 16-17, F Sep 4

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