I Don't Like to Depend On Others

I think one of the main reasons for this is that I had to depend on my mom for everything for such a long time. She did everything for me. I didn't have a car in high school, so she drove me around all the time. I seldom ate out or...

Ironically, when I am in some form of trouble and can't get out, first alternate solution that pops into my head is asking for help assistance from my family and close friends.
But that is the exception. I will ask others for...

its fucking annoying it makes me feel like im weak and little!!!

I had to join this group...I'm not saying it's right or wrong, but I have always taken care of myself (and others). That is just how it's been for me. My husband had good intentions but got sick and I took care of him for the last...

I don't like to depend on others, because I don't want to feel weak, or like I can't handle things on my own. I don't like having to count on someone else, to keep me from falling down hard, and crashing. I like being independant...

And sometimes it's really good, when I see they don't mind helping me out. Feels like life is not that bad after all.

I really have a feeling of not bothering others and not being bothered. Sometimes, it's just a small stuff, still I don't want anybody to be bothered. But as seen, it seems that I am misbehaving. often, I want to change this bad...

I don't like to depend on others. Too many people offer help and ultimately they will be looking for something back in return. People have forgotten the meaning of charity and therefore i don't like to depend on anyone but myself...

Why have someone help if there's a way to do it myself solo?  Involving other people in things ALWAYS calls for chaos and confusion and complaining and I have enough of that crap working alone!  Most people are unreliable...

My mom was completely depending on my dad and he left. So she was nothing.
Now she is a strong, independant, caring, realistic woman. And she taught me to be completely independant at all times.
It doesn't mean I want to be alone and...

I was raised to be self sufficient so it's no big deal, however, it seems a lot of times I start relying on someone and they flake out on me for one reason or another.  If it involves getting something done for my job and I'm...

For taking me places, getting me things, giving me money..ect. It's really aggravating because half of the time the people who I'm depending on mess up or can't do it. It's bullshit. I would happily do whatever it is I need to do if I...

I've always been self-sufficient, even when I was a little girl. My parents could leave me all by myself playing in the living room and do their own stuff and I didn't really need their attention. I could always find something to do and...

Now I suspect that I may have some issues with ego. Having to need people to help me makes me feel helpless and inferior. Even having my parents helping me fork out money as a teenager made me uneasy. And I do admit that it's near...

I have a hard time letting people do things for me.  I don't want to bother them or put them out of their way.  I like handling my own but that isn't always healthy and its been pointed out that its good to allow people the...

Two years ago i got married. I really wanted to go to law school and we decided, what the heck right, why not apply. So i got a full scholarship AND a living stipend. SWEET lets go my husband says. Except now i am NOT working...

I had been depended on my lovers, parents, and everyone for all of my life. From now on, Im gonna start a new track of my life. I just graduated bachelor and now looking for the right job. I need to support myself and even wanna...