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I Don't Like To Hold Grudges

Why Bother? Life Is Too Short For Crap Like That 166 People

    Grudges

    Grudges,Hate 'em,Why hold 'em,Waste of time,Energy,I've better things,To do with my time.
    mrraincoat mrraincoat 46-50 Aug 13, 2012

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    A Waste Of Time

    There's no benefit and the only person it hurts is yourself.
    IamGone IamGone 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 5, 2011

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    I Get Over It

    I learned that from my dad. I used to hold grudges against him for everything and some of those grudges lasted for decades. I am glad I don't anymore, it's such an unhealthy way to be and live.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 17, 2011

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    I don't like to hold grudges

    but I do sometime anyways Im trying to be a goodsport on 'ep' not that I dont get good feedback and make a new friend here and there but theres always that one person that just irritates the **** out of you and suppose you block them yes its better that way so the tension wont...
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M Aug 9, 2014

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    I Just Don't See The Point

    Life is too short for crap like that I will not forget But I can forgive I would rather be the bigger person And forgive We all make mistakes We are only human after all
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 26-30, M Jan 1, 2010

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    Unlike Scorpio I Know

    I know it is totally unlike Scorpio to not hold grudges but I really don't. It takes a bit for me to block someone, I don't throw my right to block people around left and right. Plus I feel that hatred or anything along the lines of such an emotion is generally not a healthy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 20, 2010

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    In Life

    "In life there are people that will hurt us and cause us pain, but we must learn to forgive and forget and not hold grudges. In life there are mistakes we will make, but we must learn from our wrongs and grow from them. In life there are regrets we will have to live with, but...
    HayBail HayBail 26-30, F May 28, 2013

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    If I Can Forgive Them, So Can You!

    I had a very difficult childhood growing up. My father was abusive with me and the rest of my family, I was molested when I was four years old by my babysitter's son, and the only family member that I ever felt close too was constantly in and out of prison, and yet still he was...
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F Jan 11, 2012

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    This is a really good example on how it's

    such a waste oh energy to be angry with people, especially when they don't even know it....
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Aug 8, 2014

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    Useless

    Just bad memories and bad attitudes. If you hold grudges against anyone, you need to readjust yourself.
    Vancity89 Vancity89 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    My family hasn't really been there for me. Maybe I'm wrong, but a dad shouldn't hit his son for making a mistake. He also should watch his temper and what he says cause on a child...
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    HelpIneedsomeone HelpIneedsomeone 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I've ranted a lot about the reasons I don't like/want children, so I'll just give this shorter condensed version. They get underfoot. Their high-pitched voices hurt my ears...
    Stratosara Stratosara 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I'll make this short as I can. My mother is a narcissist. Being around her is and has been slowly affecting my general well being. She's the most miserable person I know. Everyone...
    IvanaVine IvanaVine 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Let's start with the beginning: I am the last child of 3. My childhood was not pleasant nor sad. My dad took care of us while my mom was working. My siblings were protecting me and...
    GirlWithNoFamily GirlWithNoFamily 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I've been getting this frequently. Someone will message me just saying "hi." Then I message back and then they say "never mind" or don't message me back at all afterwards. If you...
    musicman99 musicman99 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    like wtf? chill. I don't know you and you don't know me.
    mightyhealthy mightyhealthy 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Yes...this makes me feel anxious and annoyed... like can you stop? you don't even know me!!
    froofykittenxoxo froofykittenxoxo 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I believe it was two days ago me and a really good friend were talking about how these religious people were verbally attacking someone because they were transgender. Their reason...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm not anybody's babe or hun. It's ******* annoying and I don't like it. Go somewhere else with that ****.
    spaghetti12 spaghetti12 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'm a Christian but I don't do that. It's quite hypocritical of people because some religions (like mine) try to make it seem like they're perfect and they don't make any mistakes...
    ab4801 ab4801 13-15, F a week ago

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    I don't like wearing pants and when I'm at home I just wear a shirt and my diaper or just my diaper if I can get away with it.
    tylerlovesdisposablediapers tylerlovesdisposablediapers 16-17, M a week ago

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    My name is Amanda Lynn Paige. I don't really like Amanda because it sounds like I'm introducing myself as a man. (a man- duh!) {thank you rachel from friends} My mom wanted me...
    BunheadSalamander BunheadSalamander 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I'm 15 and 5'11-6ft. When I first came to high school all I got was stares and 'wow you're so tall." Like I already don't know. I've had tall guys measure themselves against me...
    wildestdreamsxx wildestdreamsxx 13-15, F Aug 23

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    My mother doesn't respect my opinion, and takes everything I say as an attack. She spends all her time drinking with her ******* friend who has no respect for anyone including me...
    Adamdfrazier Adamdfrazier 18-21, M Aug 23

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    never have! yuck! I like onions, but I don't like liver!!!
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 22

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    My parents (actually my mom because I don't talk to my dad so much) say that they love my sister and I equally but they don't. It's clear to me that my mom likes my sister more...
    sk761921 sk761921 22-25, F Aug 22

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    For me,Christmas is the time of year to get a little pissed up,but that's it.I don't buy anyone gifts and I don't "get into the spirit". What I want is one of those Eastenders...
    KurMujun KurMujun 18-21 Aug 21

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    I really don't! I jus want a peaceful life! I don't like arguments!
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 21

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    Especially conflicts online. I completely understand that your personal opinions might not gel with the next person's but I don't see it as a reason to go apeshit and start...
    KarlKadaver KarlKadaver 31-35, M Aug 21

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    If I don't know you do not attempt to touch me or my hair or any part of my body because I will punch you in your face. I love my personal space and don't try to get in my bubble.
    hinatahyuga809 hinatahyuga809 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    How should I respond to my boyfriends mom? Here is the story of what is going on. My boyfriend has learning disabilities(reading,writing,) but he can function. He can hold a...
    AtadbitLost AtadbitLost 22-25, F Aug 20

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    I stopped shaving when I was 15. I had learned about No-Shave November and I understood it was about guys not shaving their facial hair, but I participated too and stopped shaving...
    hiddenkitty hiddenkitty 18-21, F Aug 18

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    Please spare me your insecurities. Must people who result to giving "life lesson" need that type of energy to feel complete. It's like their pleading that you accept their train of...
    PopeNova PopeNova 18-21, M Aug 18

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    I really don't like being told to smile. I'll smile when I darn well feel like it! If I walked around with a giant grin all the time, I'd look insane. It reminds me of this story...
    XlizrocksY XlizrocksY 22-25, F Aug 17

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    Especially celebrity fandoms. I get it... you like some celebrity... maybe you admire some of their characteristics, their ability, etc. But to get so caught up in such fandom to...
    ComplicatedWounded ComplicatedWounded 26-30, F Aug 17

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    I don't even like using the word 'goodbye' so instead simply say 'see you later'. It just seems so final...
    HiddenGemm HiddenGemm 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Especially if they are unexpected but sometimes they are necessary. When you have reached a point where things are stagnant and there's no growth it's the only option if you wish...
    LVibes LVibes 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I love animals, but not in the house. I wasn't raised with them in the house, and I thought my Mom was cruel because she wouldn't let me keep my kitten, or puppy, whatever in my...
    JustLookinforlove JustLookinforlove 56-60, F Aug 16

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    I am a simple person and i don't like lie.if one say lie than i never forget him or her.And people lie to me than i get angry.Than i don't know what i am saying..
    Haquemasum Haquemasum 18-21, M Aug 16