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I Don't Like To Hold Grudges

Why Bother? Life Is Too Short For Crap Like That 160 People

    I Just Don't See The Point

    Life is too short for crap like that I will not forget But I can forgive I would rather be the bigger person And forgive We all make mistakes We are only human after all
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M Jan 1, 2010

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    If I Can Forgive Them, So Can You!

    I had a very difficult childhood growing up. My father was abusive with me and the rest of my family, I was molested when I was four years old by my babysitter's son, and the only family member that I ever felt close too was constantly in and out of prison, and yet still he was...
    ladyzantorian ladyzantorian 18-21, F Jan 11, 2012

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    Useless

    Just bad memories and bad attitudes. If you hold grudges against anyone, you need to readjust yourself.
    Vancity89 Vancity89 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 1, 2010

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    I don't like to hold grudges

    but I do sometime anyways Im trying to be a goodsport on 'ep' not that I dont get good feedback and make a new friend here and there but theres always that one person that just irritates the **** out of you and suppose you block them yes its better that way so the tension wont...
    heyyo1234 heyyo1234 22-25, M Aug 9

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    Grudges

    Grudges,Hate 'em,Why hold 'em,Waste of time,Energy,I've better things,To do with my time.
    mrraincoat mrraincoat 46-50 Aug 13, 2012

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    A Waste Of Time

    There's no benefit and the only person it hurts is yourself.
    IamGone IamGone 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 5, 2011

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    I Get Over It

    I learned that from my dad. I used to hold grudges against him for everything and some of those grudges lasted for decades. I am glad I don't anymore, it's such an unhealthy way to be and live.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 17, 2011

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    In Life

    "In life there are people that will hurt us and cause us pain, but we must learn to forgive and forget and not hold grudges. In life there are mistakes we will make, but we must learn from our wrongs and grow from them. In life there are regrets we will have to live with, but...
    HayBail HayBail 22-25, F May 28, 2013

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    This is a really good example on how it's

    such a waste oh energy to be angry with people, especially when they don't even know it....
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Unlike Scorpio I Know

    I know it is totally unlike Scorpio to not hold grudges but I really don't. It takes a bit for me to block someone, I don't throw my right to block people around left and right. Plus I feel that hatred or anything along the lines of such an emotion is generally not a healthy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 20, 2010

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