I Don't Like To Lean On Ppl Cuz I Don't Want To Be A Burdon

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    i don't like to lean on people, because i don't want to be a burdon to others, i don't want to be the one who makes other people feel overwhelmed, and i don't want to be the reasons why someone feels troubled, i really don't like to lean on people. =/
    deleted deleted
    Oct 29, 2009

    I Don't....

    I don't like to lean on people at all. I don't want to be a  burdon to them, and even if they say im not, I always feel like I am. I also don't like to lean on others because i don't like showing myself to be that weak, so I do alone, all alone, and I deal with it whatever...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 24, 2010

    I Think It's Just In My Head.

    My friends and my roommate especially keep telling me that it's ok to ask them for help. They know I barely have enough money to pay my bills, but I still insist on paying my own way when I go out with them. I get by, but by the time payday rolls around, I'm almost always...
    KaBe22 KaBe22
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 15, 2010

    I Don't

    i don't like to be a burdon on anyone . i don't want people to think that i am weak or can't do anything for myself . that is why with my medical problems it is a real struggle to ask E for help on my bad days.
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    Feb 22, 2010


    One thing I don't want to be is a burden I am the kind of person who will help you with any problem you have you can call me at 3 in morning I will try my best to help you but when it comes to me I will hide my problems pretend everything is ok I will put on a smile and try to...
    TheDevilsOwn TheDevilsOwn
    22-25, M
    7 Responses Feb 22, 2011

    Who To Trust, When To Share? Too Hard To Know, So Id Rather Not.

    Me too. I think that is why this site is so important to me. It is not that I have something so "secretive" to say so much as the fact that I don't want to put all my guts out there for someone to feel as if they have to clean it up? and here...I can say what ever fleeting silly...
    deleted deleted
    May 22, 2010

    I Think I Am Too Much

    I hate the thought of being a burden to ppl. I try SO hard to be a good person to everyone. I do everything I can. But when it comes to ME, I just find it so very hard to lean on someone else. To allow myself that weakness (which I crave) is hard for me...
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 8, 2009

    I Love My Husband...

    I want to lift you up, not bring you down...you deserve better than to be constantly worried about me...all I want is for you to be happy...
    sabergirl08 sabergirl08
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 22, 2009

    I Run Away....

    I don't like to lean on people, because I don't want to be a burdon, or a bother. I don't like going to people when I need them the most. I hate that I push people away when I need them the most, but I much rather, push opeople away, and have them mad and hate me, rather than...
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    1 Response Aug 14, 2010


    It's the precise reason I keep it to myself when I am in a dire depression. They have their own problems- they don't need mine added to them.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    Mar 11, 2010

    Dont Wanna Bother Anyone

    i guess i jus want to please others. i sometimes dnt feel worthy of things like that...im not sure why. i kno it has to do with being insecure and just not understanding why anyone wuld be interested idk. but it has to do with why i dont like to lean on anyone cuz i dont wanna be...
    ullnevakno ullnevakno
    18-21, F
    Jun 29, 2010
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