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I Don't Like To Play Relationship Games

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    That'll Never Happen

    Oh hell no..I'm good at relationship games.  Good at spotting them, that is.   Actually it's  easy to see the old pattern setting up, again.  Hearing the same excuses or there lack of.  No no..If things seem weird, reminding me of a rerun I...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 5 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Nope I'm Not That Petty

    If I come across a guy that does, I try to tell him I don't appreciate it and if he refuses to stop, I just make myself unavailable to him. I have better things to do than try to keep a man like that amused. I am getting better at recognizing some of the games men like to play...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F May 4, 2010

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    It Messes

    with your heart.... Heartbreaks are not fun.   
    nitid nitid 16-17, F Aug 18, 2010

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    Like I Never Learned Anything

    I offered to not contact her on her vacation so that she could focus on her husband. I told her if she took me up on that, I would assume that was the end of the relationship. So she took me up on it, except she told me how anxious that made her feel, knowing she loved me...
    Attatyme Attatyme 51-55, M 3 Responses Jun 17, 2011

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    Games why. Why love games.

    Love is love. Proof can be hunted by talks. Communication. Compromise. Reciprocation. And a chat on the review of steps seen.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 25

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    Don't Play Those With Me

    It messes with my heart and I don't like to get my heartbroken. It hurts. 
    reset reset 18-21, F May 22, 2010

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    Doesn't Work On Me

    No matter what the relationship is . . . I don't play stupid head games. Doesn't work on me. Frustrates the hell out of people but I won't bite. You want to deal with me be straight up . . . if not you'll only get frustrated and ignored.  No more head games . . . .   
    maltesemermaid maltesemermaid 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2012

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    God No

    I won't be played by anyone, respect me...
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M Aug 29, 2010

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    Relationship Games

    I think relationships are not meant to be played. It's something we need to nurture and understand, we capture each moment when we talk or say "hi" with pleasure and seriousness. I don't understand why others would think relationships are meant to be a joke. 
    arianne19 arianne19 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    I Just Don't

    I don't play games with anyone, but especially in relationships. I grew up a long time ago.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 14, 2011

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    Nope.

    i have no desire to play that game, i have watched others play it and in my younger years i even wanted to play it myself but i have no desire to now and i now have a disgust for it...it seems so petty and shallow.  what is the overall point?  why play a game that serves no...
    lmpulsive lmpulsive 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 1, 2011

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    Hey everyone one! Let's here your best breakup

    lines!! I'll start!! Here's one for you guys/gals: "It's been real and it's been good, but it hasn't been real good!! Haha ouch!! My Aunt got told this! :(
    BlondeBrightEyes BlondeBrightEyes 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 28

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    Smunai Smunai 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I'm 57 years old and I still don't understand why "We" lie? Are we embarrassed? Are we ashamed? Or is it pride? What ever the reason, I don't like it and I really don't think...
    PhotoJose PhotoJose 56-60, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    I wish the title of this group didn't include the word 'sorry' because I'm not sorry. Of course I have met a small number of them who are good, interesting, intelligent people but...
    Bewail Bewail 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 4

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    I just really really don't like other people (aside from my mother and sister); being around anyone at any time, talking to anybody, anything like that... I hate going outside...
    TriforceTapioca TriforceTapioca 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I love my mother, but I definitely don't like her. She doesn't talk to me much, and when she does, she says things that breaks me down. She talks a lot more to her lover than to...
    InLoveWithDarkness InLoveWithDarkness 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    lex2414 lex2414 16-17, M Aug 20

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    Spare me all the self absorbed flowery meanderings. And, permit me :- "I don't like poetry, actually". There, no 'Star Trek' split infinitive now.
    SLdale SLdale 51-55, M Sep 5

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    I don't like it when people treat me one way when I'm alone with them, than if we were around others or in public. I'm the same person no matter what. Are they ashamed of me...
    Saram1985 Saram1985 26-30, F Sep 5

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    Over years I've had my share of break ups and people leaving. I've learned one thing from,people leaving me. They hate being chased after. It's hard for someone like me,I tend to...
    rosesee rosesee 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 7

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    Why do people always want me to chase them ? Message them ... Call them ... Keep asking them if they wanna talk to me or not ... I don't like it . Stop talking to me I'm that...
    Hardeepsinghkallu Hardeepsinghkallu 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I really don't like snakes. Warning to all you snakes out there: Come near me, I'll kill you!
    letmespoo4u letmespoo4u 51-55, M Sep 7

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    I don't like talking on the phone. I feel uncomfortable every time I ask the other person to repeat themselves bc I either can't understand or didn't hear them. Thats why I prefer...
    Lekat Lekat 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    The epidemic levels of school violence tell me that more and more kids are growing up without a conscience. TV is their mother and father, and TV says if someone does something you...
    missbellelettres missbellelettres 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I hate it. I can't remember when it all started. All I know is, I don't like being touched. The worst part is hugging. I hate hugs because sometimes, people hug too tight or they...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This is just one of my observations. Some women I've seen use their emotions to manipulate a man into doing what she wants him to do. I find this behavior to be repulsive...
    AquariusLife AquariusLife 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Thinking back the other day about my childhood, I admit that I was a handful and needed some of the "whoopings" that I got, other times I needed a parent to talk to me. My...
    Cryingcorner Cryingcorner 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    At first I thought he was going to be cool everything was going well the first week he was nice and generous, however I am a light sleeper and during the night he starts being an...
    jackclan jackclan 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    On one hand she is a caring, supportive individual to all her loved ones, friends, and extended family. Almost a doormat. She always had a stable career, although we moved a lot...
    beauty1000 beauty1000 41-45 Sep 7

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    Pushing guilt and pity on someone just to talk to them doesn't get the right anything. It gets u wrong relationships whether it's a friendship or any other. It just attracts the...
    Georgievh Georgievh 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I think it's childish and often collusive "My fren blocked you so im blocking you too 'cos my fren says im not her fren if i don't do what she does and she's my fren so i...
    mickyisback mickyisback 51-55, M 4 Responses Aug 23

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    It often gives me the impression that no-one in my family seems to know me one iota! I suppose it doesn't help that I don't know what I want 95% of the time I'm asked. However...
    Sundance89 Sundance89 22-25, F Aug 28

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    I don't think people like me for who I really am. I don't think such people should matter. I get lonely a lot, and that forces me to question my thoughts. Am I friendly enough? Am...
    kiddishguy kiddishguy 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 4

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    Last night I decided to go out with my cousin who I haven't spoke to in what feels like years. We use to be very close and told each other everything. Im surprised that we both...
    Monoka14 Monoka14 18-21, F Sep 6

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    I don't mind if my friends touch me like a hug. But random strangers No. There's this tenth grader and I'm a ninth grader that always touches me he hugs me ,when I'm wearing a...
    cchristinaa cchristinaa 13-15, F Sep 9

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    I don't lol. I have done law and philosophy so am used to people being able to argue. A guy who refuses to see that his point could be wrong... or who believes if he just raises...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    At least I am being honest. I don't pretend like I love them like others do. I hate baby talk, I hate kids yelling. They are so annoying. They are like little demons. They have no...
    AmberDD AmberDD 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    It's because I believe in forgiveness. But if things get out of hand, and you continually harass or perv on me, I will block you. But that will take something serious for me to...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Do not change your nature... "An old man saw a scorpion drowning and decided to pull it out from the water. He calmly extended his hand to reach the creature. When he did, the...
    samemay54 samemay54 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I've had an argument with my closest boy bestfriend, and now we don't talk anymore, it has made me realise that I have feelings for him, I am so distraught and upset
    emilyjones987 emilyjones987 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I don't have a problem with people not liking me. I just hate when they pretend that they do.
    SupremeEbonyGoddess SupremeEbonyGoddess 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Favor ? Help? Are they both the same? Most would say No but for some it may feel like asking for help is asking for favors. But there's a difference if we see it differently...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M Aug 28

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    I really don't. Especially if we used to be in good terms in the past. That's why I try my best not to argue or be rude to people so that I can always have good memories with each...
    iAteYourCrayon iAteYourCrayon 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Why do so some people who have backyards never use them? Instead, they insist on doing everything out front, on the porch, and annoy the hell out of me and the rest of the block in...
    Cristofori Cristofori 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 30

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