I Dont Like When Men Dont Look Beyond My Body

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    Do I Try to Look Good Or Not?

    I like looking good but I hate when I get looks, whistles, rude comments. I don't want someone to like me for my looks. Sure, I do want people to think I look pretty but when someone tells me that it's just not gratifying to hear it. I either don't believe them, think it's...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses May 3, 2008

    My boyfriend never says he loves me.

    It's always I love your butt or I love your breasts. It's always a body part. He says I'm pretty and smart but all this body talk has me not believing him .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 2, 2015

    Yeah

    Anytime a stranger compliments me on how I look, I think about how it isn't really a compliment to me; It's to my parents; to the circumstances allowing them to meet at the time that they did; to the diet that allowed my father's ***** and mother's egg to grow so strong; to the...
    Mdear Mdear
    18-21, F
    Aug 6, 2011

    I Can't Take It As a Comliment

    I have a very hard time when it comes to my body.  I am short and have a nice enough shape, even if it is a bit too muscular for a girl.  There's nothing that kills a man's libido faster than realizing I have bigger biceps - and I NEVER work out my arms (for that reason...
    littlesisterofthesun littlesisterofthesun
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 26, 2009

    I'm Just More to Love

    I'm a bigger guy, I've mentioned that before..  I think I'm a fairly attractive guy though, and I'm very caring and fun.   I don't have much trouble finding dates or people to hang out with.  Problem is, it still REALLY bothers me in a way when someone says...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel
    31-35, M
    7 Responses Jun 2, 2009

    I Am a Freak of Nature

    I have enormous breasts, and yes, they are real.  The rest of me is pretty proportional, but there's no hiding them -- right there for your viewing pleasure, ladies and gentlemen, a foot or so below my eyes! I don't mind it when guys sneak a peek when I'm walking by...
    edgargeorge edgargeorge
    41-45, F
    15 Responses Apr 14, 2009

    Do you see what I see?

    So many people worry about being over weight. They should  for their heart sake.  But, what do people think about us who are small.  Do you know how people look at us? You are not alone, it feels the same sometimes.  Instead of them say, Wow! she fat...
    mmcelwain mmcelwain
    31-35
    2 Responses May 28, 2009

    Boy Do I!!!  That Sayi...

    Boy DO I!!!  That saying,, beauty is only skin deep, it's whats inside that matter,,   Well, as tru as that saying is,, it's so not accuate as most of us get judged on our looks, and that's really a shame.
    justANNIE justANNIE
    46-50, F
    1 Response Apr 6, 2009

    I Want the Real Me to Be Seen

    About 2 years ago I was severly overweight but I had big breasts Men would not look at me they would look at my Breasts. Other than that they did not want to know me. I have lost the weight now and I feel really good about that I just want to be treated like an individual like...
    princessv71 princessv71
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 6, 2009
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