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I Don't Like Women That Use Good Hearted Men

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    Uh Oh

    Oh dear. Possibly for the first time in my entire life, tonight I met a truly good-hearted man.  Oh hell. Now my personal standards of behavior are about to be tested.  Not often that you run into a test of what you say you believe in.  I am going to admit that this is simply...
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F Nov 16, 2013

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    I know this whole "good hearted man"

    intellectually, but yet in practice...have yet to meet one. My father, well, he is NOT. My exes...a-holes. So...where does one go to meet said "good-hearted man?" I'd really like to know.
    notthis78 notthis78 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    While i support femenism

    and empowering women, everything can go to far at times. I see efforts to prevent raceism creating more of it. But what really is on my mind is i found the woman of my dreams, i have an still do try and treat her like an angel, especially w all the crap that shes been through...
    willshadestrider willshadestrider 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 22

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    But Then Again, They Choose Those Women Themselves!

    I'm a very nice, "good" girl. I have never been into the bad boy type. All my life I've fallen for the "nice guy" and strangely enough, those guys always seem to go for the bitchy, manipulative, selfish women... and I ended up hurt in the end. So I dont know if I can really blame...
    untethered90 untethered90 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 9, 2013

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    A Poem

    Friend of my soul this goblet sip, Twill chase that pensive tear, Tis not so sweet as woman's lip, But Oh! Tis more sincere. [Tom Moore]
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 10, 2013

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    Women who use good men irritate me.

    That's exactly why good men turn bad or they give up and when that right one finally come along. They just can't do it cause of females who ****** them up😒
    WoundedDreamer WoundedDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I Dont Like Men That Lie To Make It Look Like You Are Using Them Either

    Yes there are alot of women that use good hearted men I am sorry to say . But they are big boys and we all get used at some point and time unforuntally . I stumbled across this story and i actually have a ex bf that is claiming that i used him to his new gf whatever he knows its...
    pam422003 pam422003 51-55, F Jul 1, 2013

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    Evil Woman Stay Away From Me

    Let me just say for the record that I don't like women that use good hearted men for they're own personal gain. And if some of you women are reading this right now, Im just letting you know how I feel about you, not all of you of course, but some of you. And if your feeling...
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M May 31

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    Did Anyone See On Tv..

    This bridezilla thing. There was this woman, I think she was italian. She was screaming at her husband cause they did'nt get 1st class and the ring was'nt expensive enough and all this, he finally gave into something and you see her turn around and smerk, WTF? he's like, its...
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 22-25, F 3 Responses May 5, 2010

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    It Happens, Everytime

    It is all the same scenario, your kindness will never be appreciated, but even the slightest mistake will be blown out of proportion
    flunker flunker 31-35, M 2 Responses May 13, 2011

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    Within my old group of friends,

    whom have kicked me out lf the group, a lot of the girls overlooked many of the guys in our group because they weren't attractive enough or were too weird. To me they were kind, smart, sensitive guys and I didn't understand why they would even think to treat them that horribly...
    sammichs sammichs 16-17, F 2 Responses May 28

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    They Need A Kick In The Pants

    Seriously, what are these girls thinking? I have seen it time and again. It's even happened to a few friends. All I can think is how horrible these girls must be to act like that. There is no excuse for it. You know what I would give to be dating a wonderful guy? I've been on the...
    Yonne Yonne 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2011

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    Aye!!

    Yea, I just don't. I honestly don't know how to use a man. Well, I know how to charm them. . but i don't know how to use them. How should I use them? What for? Financially?? Umm. . my family and I have enough money thank you very much. A slave? Why the heck should I do that? I'm...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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    Argh!

    I see so many of my male friends getting used and abused by women and it ****** me off. I wish that the minority of women that do this wouldn't because it makes it harder on the rest of us that are genuine and caring. Argh!!!
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 8 Responses Apr 19, 2010

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    Here is Practical Explanation about Next Life,

    Purpose of Human Life, philosophical/religious facts, theories etc. ___________________________ *********** Practical Explanation ( For Example ) :- `1st of all can you tell me every single seconds detail from that time when you born ?? ( i need every seconds detail ?? that what...
    bolt0 bolt0 22-25, M Dec 8, 2013

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    This is not meant to put women in a bad light,

    hence my use of "many women" and not just "women", but simply felt like making this public so I can blow off steam. Im not going to state that banal cliché that I love women. Yeah, if you're a heterosexual or bisexual man, chances are, you will love women, no ******* doubt...
    jollygoat jollygoat 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    Hate Users

    There is no fault that is strictly male or female. Both genders are capable of any bad act. Both genders commit acts of physical violence, adultery, sexual assault, **********, passive aggressive acts, emotional abuse, and so on. Okay, so some of these are predominantly...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 1 Response Apr 11, 2013

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    There's Too Much Stock Being Put Into A Woman's Good Looks. There's More To It Than That.

    A beautiful face is a beautiful soul?  Not always.  A beautiful woman is a beautiful soul?  Not always. How about often?   No. Not even often. In reality, sometimes. Yes, we men have a tendency to fall in love with women or get infatuated with women through our eyes...
    rob6585 rob6585 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 6, 2011

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    The Few Experiences I've Had Have Been Bad Ones

    So I'm a painfully shy, depressed 35 year old who really hasn't been out there despite efforts to do so. I've also never had a girlfriend, because I have been rejected every single time I have asked ... and then other times just didn't have the courage to do so. But the one thing...
    forestlaw77 forestlaw77 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 2, 2013

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    A Lifetime Of Hating Girls Who Love "bad Boys".

    Since the very beginning of my attraction to women, I noticed that they weren't attracted to me. I remember this girl Mandy who went to school with me and lived in the same trailer park. She was so pretty, and I wanted to get to know her right away. I started talking to her...
    JTjustice JTjustice 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Admired Dad

    I hate when a woman uses a good hearted man by using their kids against them.... I feel bad that a few of my friends missed out on having a great dad because of their mom's selfishness. Now they either have no father/a strained relationship with their father and they resent their...
    sacredkisses sacredkisses 22-25, F Feb 5, 2012

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    Ugh I Can't Stand It!

    I hate women who try to whip men just because they want to use him as their toy. It sickens me, no it disgusts me. I still wonder why the nice guys fall for women who just end up using them and dumping them. :/ I've seen that happen all too often. It makes guys much less likely...
    wack1985 wack1985 26-30, F 9 Responses May 5, 2010

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    That's unfair of course.

    But what I dislike is the fact of that happening, independently of the person's genre.. Men* who take advantage of women* (* any combination is possible) are equally awful in my opinion.
    lila5 lila5 22-25, F Dec 13, 2013

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    Heartbroken

    I Need True Love,it is so sad that the one you truly love will be the ones to see you cry, it is so sad after showing people love they will never reciprocate your love back
    Davies90 Davies90 51-55, M Sep 25, 2012

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    Taking Advantages

    my last girlfriend took advantage on my goodness and kindness
    josesalazar josesalazar 16-17, M Oct 3, 2011

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    So I have had some stories about how men

    disrespect women I figure I should state this one. There are some women out there, who use their assets to use good men. They use them for money, they use them to lie and manipulate... the use them to carry their things ... all in the name of expecting it. And when they are done...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 4

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    It's Not Easy To Be Me

    I have to say it is really hard being yourself sometimes when you were raised to treat people with respect or at least it feels that way, I really don't know how to act around women as I am told by society and most women that you need to be a jerk otherwise you come off as a...
    surfking67 surfking67 22-25 Mar 29, 2012

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    Much Too Suspicious

    I don't think ill ever trust a woman in any way I've trusted one before, just cos of these type of women. One of em really did a number on me a while back. She worked at our schools tuckshop & I would go out of my way to talk to her, really worked to get to know her. It felt...
    beloe beloe 22-25, M Jun 13, 2011

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    He Is Too Damn Good For Her!

    I despise women who do this. Just like I despise my so called "sister-in-law" who is married to my only other sibling in the world. My brother Gary. Me and my brother are 16 years apart and by different daddies. My mom was 35 when she had me. But anyways. My brother Gary has been...
    Cyliste Cyliste 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    The Army Wife

    Let me tell you what I'm absolutely SICK of. I've been in the US Army for almost 6 years. I am so tired of these military spouses who treat their husbands like absolute garbage. Their husband deploys to a warzone for a year and the wife is back here sleeping around with every...
    gwynmama gwynmama 26-30, F Oct 24, 2010

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    Holding Hands And Kissing:)

    It was 4 years ago and I was 15 years old and he was 17. It was winter-time and he took me to a park. After he had given me his coat we both sat against the brick wall at a basketball court outside. Sitting so close I could feel his breath, we talked for about an hour and it was...
    cantmakeupmymind cantmakeupmymind 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    Grrrrr....

         I can't stand when I see a really nice man that I know with a woman that treats him like crap! You see it all the time. You wonder why they ended up with them in the first place. This one guy I know that I would see at my work about a couple of years ago, was just the...
    DraygenD DraygenD 36-40, F 17 Responses May 8, 2010

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    He Deserves Better!!!!

    I really hate it when women use good hearted men. I have a brother that is a awesome guy he treats his wife like a queen. He is such a romantic and a lot of men are not like that. She doesn't know what she has and she doesn't appreciate what she has which is really sad. He gives...
    wildflower65 wildflower65 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2011

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    User

    I am very frustrated about dateing right now because I have only found women who use kind hearted men. How can they be capable of loving A man when they need to use the first man that drives by just to use. They are insecure about themself, relying on someone else for aid...
    1woody 1woody 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 15, 2012

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    I've known many women like this.

    .. I even fell in love with a couple of them. They're sick, evil beings.
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 7

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    Heartless

    I have seen my good friends get suckered in by gorgeous, heartless women who use sex to weasel their way into the lives of my friends and use them up until they are broken. It makes me horribly angry, but I guess we all live and learn, and my friends make their own choices. I try...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 4, 2010

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    I'm Probably To Nice For My Own Good,...

    but I refuse to let any amount of setbacks change me. No matter how much I get used, I will stay the same. The moment you change is the moment you admit defeat, the moment you let all of those who have wronged you finally corrupt you. If you are a good man, you deserve better...
    terrancemu terrancemu 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    I Never Could See How It Was So Easy

       I really don't get it sometimes, in a world where we hear that all guys are a$$holes and don't have feelings or treat someone right, why is it that the decent lot of us that would do anything for you and would never lay a hand on you, why do we get walked over? All...
    MiracleWhipTrickster MiracleWhipTrickster 18-21, M 10 Responses Oct 17, 2010

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    Unbelievable Hatred To Cheaters

    I love my daddy VERY much, as a lot of people should know-my ex stepmother (his second wife) used to use my dad so she wouldn't have to help out around the house, take care of her own son, or even be the mother figure in her own family.  My ex stepmother never really cared...
    HaleyBloodRedRose1995 HaleyBloodRedRose1995 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    I don't like being touched at all. I hate when people put their hands on my shoulder or try to hug me. In less I'm crushing on you or you're hot, then I guess it's okay. But nay...
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