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I Don't Live In a Sexless Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 55 People

    I Live In Sexless Single-hood...

    I know that the "I live in a sexless marriage" group is almost the biggest group on EP and I've come to realize that there are a lot of people that struggle with intimacy with their partner and that having a wife or husband does not guarantee sexual fulfillment. Nearly...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2009

    I Am Grateful

    I certainly feel sorry for those who do. I feel that sex is not just about the act, at least, not ideally. It is a way of caring for your partner's needs and getting closer - the closest possible. If there is a physical reason why a married couple can't have sex, it's...
    PewterFantasy PewterFantasy
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 22, 2008

    I Too Don't Live In A Sexless Marriage

    AFTER GETTING MARRIED RATHER  EVEN BEFORE THAT THE UNION OF TWO SOULS PHYSICALLY IS A NEED CREATED BY NATURE ITSELF. THEREFORE, IT ESSENTIAL TO DEVELOPE SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP AS FREQUENT AS POSSIBLE PHYSICALLY AS WELL AS MENTALLY. THERE IS NO PLACE FOR SHYNESS OR OTHERWISE...
    lall lall
    56-60, M
    Apr 9, 2010

    We Were Coming Close A Few Years Ago To Being Sexless But...

    Our marriage started off like most.  Lots of sex in the beginning, then children and careers got in the way and it tapered off.  After 10 years it was down to nearly once a week.  Then the children's activities came in the way on the weekends so it got to twice a...
    LiddelPegger LiddelPegger
    51-55, M
    1 Response Feb 26, 2010

    1 Year Yesterday

    Yesterday was my one year anniversary of my marriage to my husband.  When i got home the lights were out and candles were lite everywhere.  We went to the bedroom and got naked and massaged each other for hours.  The sex was splendid.  I have nothing to...
    kaf0201 kaf0201
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2008

    I don't live in a sexless marriage

    because I'm not really married. The divorce proceedings are happening and the draft is on my attorney's desk. She's been moved out for 2 months now and for some odd reason it doesn't feel like anything has changed much aside from the morning routine. Is that odd? Not for my case...
    flibsley flibsley
    31-35, M
    Mar 21, 2014

    Not Married Either

    I'm not married but I do get sex once in a while (I wish it were more but that's another story for another group).  I can't believe there are far less people in this group than the 'I Live in a Sexless Marriage' group!
    Morgause Morgause
    41-45, F
    Aug 14, 2008

    B/c I'm Not Married At All.

    Haha! Got'cha! I don't have sex, & I'm not married.   ***As u punkerz know, I'm just clowning around, right? I know I'm NOT funny.
    otad12 otad12
    31-35, F
    Aug 14, 2008

    Not At All

    Jeez I just finished reading most of the stories in that sexless marriage group! And I wondered, is it me, or is it them? It's definitely them. I think my wife is actually getting hornier as the years go by, and she appears to want only me. How long have I been married? Forever...
    respectable respectable
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 15, 2007

    I'm Sexless and Unmarried...but Refuse to Live Without Love

    I would just leave a spouse that didn't show me love. I know the group is about sex, but touch and emotional support is sex to me. I was in a sexless relationship for a year because my ex was impotent due to anti psychotic meds, but I knew he still adored me. Nobody should suffer...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jul 28, 2008

    This Is Sad......

    there are over 2,000 members in the 'sexless marriage' group....   and only 10 members in this 'don't live in a sexless marraige group'....   how sad is that - and i wonder if they are all still having sex....
    thatweirdromanguy thatweirdromanguy
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2008
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