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I Don't Love Her Anymore

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    Reflections

    She made me old before it was my time.  She's made me want to stay inside a shell where it is warm happy and safe. She has made me doubt my faith in humankind. I cant say she led me there, but she reminds me of stupid people, stupid decisions, and jackass...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Jan 13, 2008

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    Mutual Friends

    I think that as far as "She" goes- mutual friends are the hardest thing right now.   We were together for so long that some people almost see us as a 2 headed creature- we always know whats going on with one another and the like. It's hit me hard right now...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Jun 2, 2008

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    Missing Her Today

    I wonder sometimes, if there will ever be a time in my life that i wont miss her.  When i wont feel a big empty gaping hole in my life where she is missing. It's humbling to admit how much i need her in my life and how lost i feel without her effortless reassurances. ...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Mar 31, 2009

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    Trying to Be "Normal"

    It sucks- when you have a parting of ways of this magnitude, because it's never "really" over. Because the fact of the matter is, when you've been turning to the same person for 16 years of your life (and you are only 24) you aren't going to stop. You are going to try...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2007

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    I Went to See Her

    So I went to see her while I was on my christmas holiday. well not really her specificly.. iwent to pick up my neice for family christmas and spent some time there... It was kind of surreal... being in this worn-out trailer with probably $4000 worth of enternainment equipment in...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Jan 16, 2009

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    Not Quite Like Anything Else

    As such, many people just aren't going to understand what i have to say here.  That is why i made a different group to tell this story.  Because, she's never been my "girlfriend, or my best friend.... She was my lover, and my sister, and my mother and my daughter...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    Daydreams Lost

    I never in a million years imagined a life without her.  In our minds we planned out the future, and sure much of it was fantasy but- it was the kind of fantasy you can live in. I never expected to live further than 100ft from where she was, she was going to be right next...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2008

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    So I Lied-

    I still love her, and i always will.  I'm a sucker that way. It's hard now that i get to talk to her on-line. Because then it seems a little bit more like it used to be- we talk about real things with substance, or BS- but none of this dragging through a long tunnel with no...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Mar 25, 2008

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    For the Last Time

    I saw K. yesterday, probably for the last time.  She is moving in with her boyfriends parents far towards Kansas. While it's okay to visit her when I'm in the area and have some time. I cannot bring myself to go out to where she is living so i can be reminded of the way she...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2008

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    When you fall in love young you never consider

    that one day it'll be over. I didn't. But the days keep rolling by and I keep waking up next to her knowing that she feels something I don't, knowing that I can't be hiding my unhappiness well, and that apparently she is content to just hold pat. She's a good woman in her way...
    jjsdaddy86 jjsdaddy86 26-30, M Dec 24, 2013

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    Dear K.

    Why aren't you the girl i feel in love with?  Why cant you be who i thought you were, who you said you were?  Instead, looking at me is a stranger.  A stranger i never knew. I need you so much now.  I'm lonely and afraid and hurting.  All i want is to...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Feb 1, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I've got a lot to say, so I guess I'll just start, and finish whenever I finish. None of my memories are special. I don't have memory of anything that was extra special, or...
    JHomesick JHomesick 18-21, M Mar 20

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    I'm sure when I was little, I loved my mum, dad and sister a lot. But as I've grown up, and especially now that I've got a boyfriend and am getting closer to all my friends, I don...
    Chez98 Chez98 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    I've been with my 10 yrs older than me fiance for few years now. When I met him I was young and already had a child. He loved her like his own. She calls him daddy. 3 years after...
    KJJ1 KJJ1 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    Or atleast when I don't desire it as much. Things come to me when I stop chasing after them. Then when I get em I'm not satisfied. I like a chase. I guess sometimes fantasy is...
    weeklyrubbishcollection weeklyrubbishcollection 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I don't really know what happened? The first 6 months was so much fun. We did things together, we partied and our sex life was amazing. When we moved away together that all changed...
    teeballz teeballz 18-21, F Mar 28

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    You don't know what I have been through regardless of who the person was, It wasn't a bad experience, never that. Peroooo I learned from it. You can always have that one friend who...
    DDanaaax3 DDanaaax3 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I trust no one sad but true i have had my fair share of people breaking my trust, and making a fool out of me, so now i call the shots, i protect myself by building up walls, i get...
    TrueBlueyes TrueBlueyes 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    I don't look upon anybody as a friend or lover or as anything involving emotional commitment and emotional gambling. I have no more friends. I have allies. They get me what I need...
    sorrowfulmind sorrowfulmind 18-21, M Mar 24

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    So me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and we had the most amazing relationship we had fun and things were great but something happened and we ended up...
    guessitsjustmexo guessitsjustmexo 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Not that I don't have dreams, I just rarely have dreams. I wonder if it has anything to do with the loss of interest I've had recently with a lot of things. My problems seem so...
    dramirezs23 dramirezs23 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    To people who read my posts they are probably used to the fact that I never send out any negative vibes, but there's a first time for all. I have learnt that trust is a very...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Apr 10

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    She's consuming me again. It's funny how somebody, who you haven't seen or talked to in months, can have such a profound effect on you. They don’t have to do a single thing and...
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M Apr 10

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    One percent of all human beings act primarily out of Inventor Instinct. We are born that way. Perhaps the reason why we don't feel like we belong, is because there are so few of...
    InventorInstinct InventorInstinct 56-60, M Apr 3

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    I think my parents love me, but I always put it this way: they, especially my mom, were like little kids who wanted a puppy but don't know how to take care of it. I have no...
    ashleymaggie ashleymaggie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Meaning if I was forced to get married with someone, I wouldn't. Because if I can't be with the one I love, what's the point? Although...I don't have to worry about that...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I don't like to waste my time on meaningless fake relationships that are a lie.
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 Apr 11

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    I hate that all my friends think that they know me and what i want. If i dont want to be with him then im not going to be with him because they want me to. If he's so damn perfect...
    sweetshadows15 sweetshadows15 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    So I dated this girl I was cool with back in school recently. Didn't really go well and lasted just 2 months. Only wanted to date because I had money while she just sat home. What...
    HottRoddTX HottRoddTX 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 23

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    As much as I want to trust the good in people, I never trust anyone completely anymore, but again I try not to depend on anyone to begin with, I guess it just makes things easier...
    Joungar Joungar 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    After taking a week off from school and work, which I really couldn't afford, to spend time with an ex boyfriend of mine who resides in a different state I have come to the...
    pinkjag pinkjag 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    Why won't he fight for me the way I fight for him? Why does he put me in the dark? Why did I fall for such a damaged man?
    Shaw137 Shaw137 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm so stressed about my future , I have always had a dream , to live in norway and I have to pursue it . I'm learning norwegian and gave some friends from norway but I feel so...
    sotiris97 sotiris97 16-17, M Apr 3

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    Studies have shown that a baby's love comes more from warmth and comfort and cuddliness of the mother rather than from the fact that the mother provides food. Just because you feed...
    Qwerkyqwerty Qwerkyqwerty 16-17, F a week ago

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    I've never been in love. Maybe it's because of my high standards or the fact that, I've just never met "the one". But I feel as though people out there (especially girls) are...
    beesboo beesboo 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I really can't be with that person if I do not have feelings for them. I have real life experiences and even after 13 years my answer was 'no'. I am very clear with what I want...
    donotfollowme donotfollowme 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I find it is pointless to trust anyone after my past I learned to trust no one.
    WolfForLife WolfForLife 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I trust myself, all others...please pay cash..
    SweetNancy SweetNancy 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is a long story, i'm not sure if i'll write it out in much detail. I'll try though. First of all, i'd like to say i'm not looking for advice or anyone to feel bad for me. I...
    aJason23 aJason23 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    I'm a 16 year old girl. My whole life I have been trying to make my parents proud, but I've never been able to socialize properly with kids my age, I was always numb or upset...
    AGirlSearchingForAnswers AGirlSearchingForAnswers 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I'm a 35 year old African lady, married with four lovely kids, even though people see me and think I'm 22, never married let alone 4 kids . I will be married for 13 years in April...
    Imasadwife Imasadwife 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Can't figure out what happened in our marriage. It was so perfect to the both of us, until a year ago. Since than he has stopped telling me he loves me and tells me he loves me as...
    OneWayHisWay OneWayHisWay 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    This is something I think about every now and then. I have PCOS which doesn't make it impossible to have children but in some women it can cause infertility. So I have adjusted to...
    hayleyRebeccaE hayleyRebeccaE 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I don't bother hiding anymore I love me and I love how I look. I still can't help but cry sometimes from the ridicule though.
    cj165 cj165 22-25 1 day ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 4

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 4

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 6

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    I love her she is my mum but she is a horrible one she has been in and out of prison abusive and thinks I need to respect her even when it hurts me. I don't like her as a human...
    Mybiscuits Mybiscuits 16-17, F Apr 1

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    Not even sort of. There was a time when I did, but then I thought long and hard about it, and you know something, I DON'T need her. Life is too short to waste on people like that!
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M Mar 31

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    I hate being judged because I'm skinny. There are these girls at school who talk about everyone. The are extreme rumorists. They tell me I'm anorexic or bulimic and that I don't...
    Musicgirl32558 Musicgirl32558 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago