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I Don't Love Her Anymore

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24 People

    So I Lied-

    I still love her, and i always will.  I'm a sucker that way. It's hard now that i get to talk to her on-line. Because then it seems a little bit more like it used to be- we talk about real things with substance, or BS- but none of this dragging through a long tunnel with no...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Mar 25, 2008

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    When you fall in love young you never consider

    that one day it'll be over. I didn't. But the days keep rolling by and I keep waking up next to her knowing that she feels something I don't, knowing that I can't be hiding my unhappiness well, and that apparently she is content to just hold pat. She's a good woman in her way...
    jjsdaddy86 jjsdaddy86 26-30, M Dec 24, 2013

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    Not Quite Like Anything Else

    As such, many people just aren't going to understand what i have to say here.  That is why i made a different group to tell this story.  Because, she's never been my "girlfriend, or my best friend.... She was my lover, and my sister, and my mother and my daughter...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2007

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    Trying to Be "Normal"

    It sucks- when you have a parting of ways of this magnitude, because it's never "really" over. Because the fact of the matter is, when you've been turning to the same person for 16 years of your life (and you are only 24) you aren't going to stop. You are going to try...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2007

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    Daydreams Lost

    I never in a million years imagined a life without her.  In our minds we planned out the future, and sure much of it was fantasy but- it was the kind of fantasy you can live in. I never expected to live further than 100ft from where she was, she was going to be right next...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2008

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    Reflections

    She made me old before it was my time.  She's made me want to stay inside a shell where it is warm happy and safe. She has made me doubt my faith in humankind. I cant say she led me there, but she reminds me of stupid people, stupid decisions, and jackass...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Jan 13, 2008

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    For the Last Time

    I saw K. yesterday, probably for the last time.  She is moving in with her boyfriends parents far towards Kansas. While it's okay to visit her when I'm in the area and have some time. I cannot bring myself to go out to where she is living so i can be reminded of the way she...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2008

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    Missing Her Today

    I wonder sometimes, if there will ever be a time in my life that i wont miss her.  When i wont feel a big empty gaping hole in my life where she is missing. It's humbling to admit how much i need her in my life and how lost i feel without her effortless reassurances. ...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Mar 31, 2009

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    Mutual Friends

    I think that as far as "She" goes- mutual friends are the hardest thing right now.   We were together for so long that some people almost see us as a 2 headed creature- we always know whats going on with one another and the like. It's hit me hard right now...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Jun 2, 2008

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    Dear K.

    Why aren't you the girl i feel in love with?  Why cant you be who i thought you were, who you said you were?  Instead, looking at me is a stranger.  A stranger i never knew. I need you so much now.  I'm lonely and afraid and hurting.  All i want is to...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Feb 1, 2008

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    I Went to See Her

    So I went to see her while I was on my christmas holiday. well not really her specificly.. iwent to pick up my neice for family christmas and spent some time there... It was kind of surreal... being in this worn-out trailer with probably $4000 worth of enternainment equipment in...
    Shierke Shierke 26-30, F Jan 16, 2009

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    AbbyRose25 AbbyRose25 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for six years, mostly bad than good, and the bad times were really bad phases. He was my first serious boyfriend and I have lost my virginity...
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    I don't understand. People tell me they don't want to be alone, but if they are "with" someone they don't love they are still alone, they are just alone together... . It's a...
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    I can't stand being with my boyfriend any longer, but I don't know if I can leave him...I'm too afraid to let go. So this is our story: We're at a long distance relationship...
    Bitterlove Bitterlove 16-17, F Feb 10

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    I don't trust people easily. Sometimes I don't know what to believe anymore. I mean it's like a person is very nice but then they show their true colors. Smh..
    ArtLover24 ArtLover24 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 25

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    Be wise. Guard your heart. Pray for guidance. Remain careful about who you allow in your life, and don't let past experiences with people who treated you unfairly make you bitter...
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F Feb 21

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    It's like I don't fit in. I'm some sort of other alien species.
    Cutieheart Cutieheart 22-25, F 7 hrs ago

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    We are often let down by the most trusted people and loved by the most unexpected ones. Some makes us cry for things we haven't done, while others ignore our faults and just see...
    lovinglife699 lovinglife699 51-55, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    I know this must sound fake but I married a man 49 years ago that I never really loved. I have never told anyone this. I kept making excuses that he was a good husband a good...
    blufftongal546 blufftongal546 66-70, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    This quote tells everything what i want to say.
    JerryJerryA JerryJerryA 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I've been in a situation. My personal space was MAJORLY violated. The best way to avoid the situation is to hang out with multiple people at the same time, outside of houses...
    mkmoore mkmoore 16-17, F Feb 19

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    Too many people have been showing friendly reactions to regular actions in my life. But when i achieve something away from their abilities, they show my an ugly face until i fall...
    Kielroader Kielroader 22-25, M Feb 21

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    A woman with trust issues is a woman who’s heard “i promise i’ll never hurt you” too many times with actions that told otherwise... slw
    submissivelittlewoman submissivelittlewoman 41-45, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I am such a creep and weirdo. Everyone else is so ******* special but not me. Everyone is so pretty and I am just yuck and gross I wish I was ******* special !!!
    Katt007 Katt007 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    It's weird how I never include you in my plans that I make up in my head. Maybe I don't love you anymore, but honestly who knows, there might still be some spark somewhere. Sad...
    BrokenCats BrokenCats 26-30, F Feb 11

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    I think marriage is for life and always wanted my first marriage to be my only marriage but it has broken down so badly now that I feel divorce may be my only option. my husband is...
    kimathy86 kimathy86 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 19

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    I'm jealous of my sister. Everyone thinks she is so pretty. People come up to me asking me if she is my sister all the time and tell me how she looks like a model or something. I'm...
    classAteam classAteam 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Not like it matters anymore... I complain to much about this. I just don't get it. I don't get her. I meant everything I said. Everything I did. I would have done anything to make...
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M Feb 10

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    A long time ago i messed up, made the wrong choices, now she's here, not for long, how do I tell her I'm sorry? that I don't want her to leave? I've waited a long time to show how...
    bleedingouttheeyes bleedingouttheeyes 31-35, M Feb 13

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    I don't chase people anymore .I have learned that I'm here ,I'm important ! I'm not going to run after people to prove that I matter ! :)
    DaddysCupcake DaddysCupcake 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I take care of others before myself, so much that I don't know me anymore. It's not that I care what others think about me, I just like making others happy, I like to treat others...
    Sweetbeotch Sweetbeotch 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    It's so cliche... but I really don't know what to do with my life. I'm in the first year of law school. I find it interesting but it's too much for me. Ikeep failing in EVERY...
    notcoolmarvin notcoolmarvin 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, this is my first post. Here it goes. It's crazy really, I'm not sure if this is depression or what but I get sick of being...
    anontori32 anontori32 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I can't say it. I don't think its right of me to confess my love to someone and it not be true. Its crule say you love someone when you don't. Love is a BIG word! And the word...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 9

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    Once again AM HERE.. has anyone felt lately. an urge to look up at the skies.. I found myself looking up ..just standing my whole body feels. strange . after hours. .while in bed...
    angeleyes2820 angeleyes2820 36-40 1 Response Feb 23

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    I honestly don't! But here's what I look like without it 🙆
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 15

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    The bad thing is, most of the people who say these words have no idea what they mean. People throw these words around like its candy. My boyfriend and I are very much so in love...
    LostandFading LostandFading 18-21, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'ts odd, really... It's not that I'm in a bad situation or anything, yet... Yet I can't find a reason to get out of bed today. I keep trying and trying to motivate myself, yet at...
    JetSetQuin JetSetQuin 18-21, T 2 days ago

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    PLEASE DON'T JUDGE ME FOR THIS POST, I AM ASKING FOR ADVICE, IF YOU HAVEN'T BEEN IN THIS SITUATION THERE IS NO WAY YOU CAN UNDERSTAND IT! I HAVE 2 YOUNG STEP DAUGHTERS AGES 6 AND 8...
    xbeautifulx xbeautifulx 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13

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    I get absolutely NO enjoyment out of being a part of a family, especially. "Oh, it's Christmas? So that means I have to see my cousin? Why?" No thanks to obligatory family...
    FrauTeller FrauTeller 26-30, F Feb 22

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    I am so lonely. I've always been lonely, but I don't think I've ever been as much as I am now. I love being alone, but it's because I can't be left alone that it makes me feel...
    BlueRio BlueRio 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Like my younger sister used to be verbally and physically abusive towards me and then about two years ago I started being mean to her and now she acts like the victim... And I hate...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F Feb 17