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I Don't Love My Boyfriend Anymore

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    I Don't Love My Boyfriend Anymore

    I took me a lot of effort to acknowledge this, it's hard for me because he really is a nice person and loves me very much, however, i think I am beginning to experience life as the real person that I am. This is sad because we've lived so many things together and I really don't...
    exploring exploring 31-35, M 19 Responses Jan 25, 2007

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    Just Left Boyfriend Of 3 Years...

      Just two months ago I was trawling these sites with a similar issue, I had been with my ex for three and a half years and whilst I cared deeply for him I didn't love him any more. I think I must have felt that way for the last year but was in denial. It was the hardest...
    Clarke82 Clarke82 26-30 4 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    When The Glitter Wears Off

    Recently, my boyfriend of 8 months told me he loved me and I had a terrible realization in that moment. "I Love You" should come with butterflies and fireworks but instead all I felt was dread. I mean I really care about him, he makes me laugh and I love spending time with him...
    InFp32 InFp32 22-25, F Sep 27, 2013

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    Confused, I Dont Know What to Do

     ok so i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now.  he's my brothers friend and he has liked me for a few years now.my family kept pressuring me to go out with him but i didnt want to, a) because he was my brothers friend, and b) i didnt want to be pressured...
    confused05 confused05 18-21 2 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    Not In Love With My Boyfriend Anymore

    This started out, with lots of love. I've known him since the beginning of the summer, and we slowly 'fell in love' over the internet over the next few months. Problem is, we've been 'official' for about a week now, and he's already so in deep that I don't know if he'll ever get...
    Supernaturallyundead Supernaturallyundead 16-17 Aug 23, 2011

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    Break Up For No Reason?

    So I've been with my boyfriend for year and a half. At first I really loved him, and literally would do anything for him, or to be with him. Then, as months passed by, I felt that my love for him was fading away, and now I'm pretty sure I don't love him anymore. I lose interest...
    iaco iaco 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 15, 2013

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    Emotionally Confused

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 months now. This is my first relationship. He has been in several before me and he is a year younger than me. Lately ive just been confused about how i feel about him. When we text he is always so romantic and says the sweetest...
    angeliceyes11 angeliceyes11 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 5, 2011

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    I Don'T Love My Boyfriend Anymore

    Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 1 week . At the start I only liked him I never actually loved him. But he is crazy for me and even yesterday he was about to beat up a guy because that guy was making fun of me. I really appreciate that but now he wants to kiss me...
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    I Don't Know If I Love Him

    I don't know if I ever loved him.I suffer from mild social anxiety so it is very hard for me to meet people.I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about 4 months now. Its a weird relationship, but also my first. I met him at my old place of work and when I quit I...
    Cecil1989 Cecil1989 22-25 1 Response Feb 3, 2012

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    If I wasn't pregnant with my boyfriends child I

    wouldn't be with him anymore. I already have one kid & i want to do it right and be a family this time but i'm starting o not care anymore.. He's just so mean all the time.
    djohnson91 djohnson91 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Lost

    my boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months, in the start it was great. He was there no matter what and I loved that. Around four months he moved in with me and we found out I was pregnant soon after. Things started getting rocky a little while after that. He admitting to...
    sickandhurt sickandhurt 18-21 1 Response Feb 22, 2012

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    I Don'T Think Love Him Anymore

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years plus now and things were great when we met, however the more I got to know him the more I found out about his personality. He is a great person overall but he is a very big pushover and very passive with a lot of people who he...
    Giathuclam Giathuclam 26-30 2 Responses May 9, 2013

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    I Don't Know If I Should Stay..

    I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years now. We started dating when we were very young, and i don't know if i love him anymore. Everything he does starts to get on my nerves, and i have seemed to developed severe mood swings over the past year. It's been immensely...
    APMisnothere APMisnothere 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 22, 2009

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    I Need To Make The Right Decision

    So i've been in a perfect relationship with this guy for the past 3 years.When we started dating,i used to love him a lot but all of a sudden i feel like i dnt anymore,no attraction,i feel like i dont care about him anymore and now i have to pretend everytime i see him because i...
    kacyluv kacyluv 22-25 1 Response Sep 20, 2011

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    I Don't Know

    I don't think I like/love my boyfriend anymore.......It all started a years ago when I became his rebound girl and I didn't mind; It lasted 4 months and then he broke up with me for some stupid reason, which was because he was a senior in high-school and I was a freshman in...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F Sep 6, 2013

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    He Wants to Get Married and I Want to Break Up!

    My story is a complicated one. It started off weirdly and continued in such a matter. When I got together with my current boyfriend, I was still not over my ex. He broke up with me because he went off to college and felt that he needed to have the full college experience...and a...
    crazygirl321 crazygirl321 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 24, 2009

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    I Don't Love My Boyfriend Anymore

    I have been in a long-term relationship since I was fourteen; things between us were difficult but lasted two ½ years. Eventually I got the courage to leave him because he wasn’t the safest person (if you catch what I am talking about). Not a week later I started...
    Roothie Roothie 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2009

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    I don't even know if I'm in the relationship

    per say. I've tried to leave five times. He stalks me until I eventually relent and give in. He only has hit or pushed me a few times, now it's moreso of an emotional abuse. Before him, I dated the love of my life and when that ended I just threw myself into this one so the...
    CaptainClueless117 CaptainClueless117 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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    It Was Love Now I Feel Its Being Used To The One Another

    My boyfriend and i met 6 years ago at the time i was 16 and he was 21 and we clicked. He was married and i didnt know about this until later but i was already in love so i didnt care. He has twins with this woman and eventually picked her over me because he told me that she...
    Taniadeblasis Taniadeblasis 22-25 2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I Woke Up One Day And Realized I Didn't Love Him

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years.  After several bad experiences dating men who were abusive and/or unstable, I thought I'd really found the one.  We were even looking at apartments together last fall, and discussing getting married after we finished...
    cimbeline cimbeline 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2010

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    New to This

    I have never done anything like this before but don't know what else to do. I am hoping that some advice will be helpful. I am only 24 years old but have been with my boyfriend (who is the same age) for over 5 years. We both are currently in graduate school, live together, and...
    confused321 confused321 22-25 2 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    I Feel Like The Worst Person In The World

    I apologize if swearing offends you. It started off when found out this boy liked me. I was like diiiiieee coz I didn't like him back. So I talked to him more and blahblahblah I thought MAYBE I like him a little.... Then he got kinda obsessive, in my opinion. And my friends tbh...
    xXsilentscreamXx xXsilentscreamXx 13-15, F Oct 27, 2011

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    Do But Don't

    I do have love, it's just so tangled up in all these other emotions. It seems there is just too much hurt, anger, resentment, fear, and suspicion to undo. Our love is knotted up so deeply inside this tangled mess we've made.  I'm not sure we can ever untie it, free it.  I'm...
    LG76 LG76 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 7, 2011

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    Afraid Of Hurting My Boyfriend

    I had been single for over a year and a half and so i decided to give my current boyfriend a chance considering he persisted. It turns out i was just so desperate and tired of being alone that we became official and i was happy for a few weeks i suppose, but that was...
    megalo915 megalo915 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 22, 2010

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    I Think I Have Fallen Out Of Love With My Boyfriend

    am after some advice. i live with my boyfriend of 2years and really i moved in to help him out with money and things and i think it was the wrong thing to do as we argue all the time about stupid things and my feelings for him have changed. i love him but i dont think i am in...
    butterfly1986 butterfly1986 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2009

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    I Don't Love My Boyfriend Like Before Anymore...

    I am a foreing girl and I met him in USA ... we made our relationship work even though we were separated for months until we could finally be together here and there together for some other months... He came to my country while I was finishing a long project and he lived here...
    neavila neavila 22-25 2 Responses Mar 12, 2012

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    I don't know if I ever really loved him to be

    honest, but I don't know why. He treats me really well and is a good provider, but I don't want anything to do with him anymore. I think I fell for him because he did treat me so well. But now, after 2 years together, I don't want him to touch me. I just want to be friends...
    jennifer111984 jennifer111984 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 10, 2013

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    Confused

    I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years now and I feel like I don't love him anymore.  And I have absolutely no good reason not to.  He loves me so much, would never EVER cheat on me, he tries really hard and he's really good to me.  I feel like...
    adele87 adele87 18-21 4 Responses Mar 12, 2009

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    Too Comfortable

    well, a year ago my boyfriend who i loved more than anything left me and after that romance has been pretty difficult. but i met my current boyfriend a few months ago who is just perfect for me, it was amazing and everything is good with him. however he went away on holiday for a...
    rosiejacobs rosiejacobs 16-17, F Aug 11, 2011

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    Indecisive Boyfriend Wants Both His Ex And Current Girlfriend

    I'm a divorced woman who has been going out with a 50+ man for the last couple of years. He is never married but has had several live-in relationships. The last one was with a mentally disabled woman living on social assistance. He lived with her for 3 years and then moved out...
    stubbornmen stubbornmen 46-50, F Feb 25, 2012

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    My First

    I started dating my first boyfriend in my junior year of highschool... pretty late, i know, but i just wasnt really ready to do anything with guys before then bc i was really shy. well, he was my first real kiss, my first tocuh, and who i ended up losing my virginity to. I...
    shelbyalise shelbyalise 18-21 2 Responses Aug 24, 2009

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    I mean, who does not want to

    or does not have the need to talk to your girlfriend?? Why should I also suffer your silent wrath?? You give the most idiotic excuses ever for your behaviour. Please do not WhatsApp me again, like ever!! By the way, I am in love with someone else. He can never wait to see me...
    Nail1inyourCoffin Nail1inyourCoffin 18-21, F May 8

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    Infidelity Ends Love

    Well,  what can I say I fell in love with my boyfriend at a young age without even wanting too. I always rejected the fact that I loved him because I knew I was in love with the wrong person from the moment I meet him. He was a very mean guy from the very beginning , I always...
    cutemomma cutemomma 18-21 May 13, 2011

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    I Dont Love My Boyfriend Nomore

    Hey im confused and depressed, okay i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and it has been good the first year. well i got pregnant and had a beautiful son. but my mind and heart is telling me that i need to leave him. It all started when i was having my son, well in the...
    Peglegmeg22 Peglegmeg22 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2011

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    Dating For So Long

    I've been with my boyfriend for 4.5 years and we've experienced a lot of things together, a big chunk of our lives, our firsts, vacations (dating since high school). But this last year or year and a half I just don't feel right in the relationship. I don't love him anymore and...
    piknight piknight 18-21 3 Responses Dec 16, 2010

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    Are We Just Too Different?

    Well I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, but it has been long distance the entire time. I moved to Europe with my parents when I was in high school and have really grown to love my new life there. I did travel back and forth between the US and Europe pretty often. I...
    Inka25 Inka25 18-21 Aug 7, 2011

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    Saddly I Dont Think I Can Be With A Person That Doesnt Love Me As I Deserve.

    I don't know where to start, and it feels weird to write what i had been holding in my chest as a secret for months. I have been in a 6 year relationship with my boyfriend, a fun, nice, good looking guy that at the moment i loved with my heart and everything. we have two kids...
    lonelygirlinUSA lonelygirlinUSA 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

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    He Was My Best Friend, And My Soulmate... What Happened?

    I was crazy obsessed with my boyfriend for two years on-and-off before we got together. I never dreamed someone like him would give me the time of day... He was so funny and charismatic, and I knew I was hooked the moment I laid eyes on him. I'd fawn over him with my friends...
    teenangers teenangers 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2011

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    Can't Sleep..

    Well, I have been dating my boyfriend for over 3 years, and I have lived with him for two. I feel now, as if I am lost...  It's not a matter of love, I know that I love him with all my heart, in fact, thats the problem. For the past few months his attitude has completely...
    Cirkaty Cirkaty 18-21 4 Responses Aug 27, 2009

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    I Don't Love My Boyfriend The Way That He Loves Me.

    My bf and I met during a 6 week training course. He was in a terrible marriage, and I was in a bad relationship. At the time we became friends and classmates. It was obvious that we were attracted to one another but, we knew the other was in a relationship. On the last day of...
    Nuvia13 Nuvia13 31-35 1 Response May 7, 2011

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    So Very Confused.

    My boyfriend and I have a complicated story behind our relationship. We met about a year ago. When I first met him, I wasn't attracted to him, but when we started hanging out a lot I fell in love with his personality.We started dating a few weeks later. Then three weeks after we...
    saraviviana saraviviana 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 6, 2010

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    I'M A Bad Girlfriend

    okay. this sounds so bad. ive just started dated my boyfriend like 2 weeks ago and i was good the first couple days.. then me and his bestfriend started talking and texting all the time.. we talk in school all the time, more than me and my boyfriend.. we even text more than me...
    Brittanybabe03 Brittanybabe03 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2013

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    Where Have My Feelings Gone?

    I don't know what to do. I met my boyfriend while working part-time before university. After 2 months of knowing him, he asked me out and I said yes because I liked him. 3 months down the road and he's serving the nation in army while i'm starting a new life in uni. Now I'm...
    alicerant alicerant 18-21, F Sep 23, 2012

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    Help. I Care For Him But Don't Love Him.

    I don't know what to do. I feel trapped right now. I care for him so much ...when I shouldn't. I love what he used to be but I don't have the same feelings I once did. We haven't been on the same page. Things aren't working out, we're on the fence and I'm pretty sure I want to...
    ladyhart18 ladyhart18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2012

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    Here's The Thing....

    Most girls sit and try to convince themselves why they should leave. I'm sitting here trying to convince myself to stay. My brain figures if you have to make reasons to stay then its your best bet to leave. My heart says I love him for all that he's done for me and my son but...
    Nupheonix Nupheonix 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    I Don't Know If I Love Him Anymore

    Our relationship has been far from perfect from the beginning. He cheated on his old girlfriend with me, which I'm not proud of, and then we started going out pretty soon after they broke up. We have officially been together for two years and now we are living together and have a...
    ed92 ed92 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    It's Not That I Don't Love Him...

    I do love Paul. I really really do. We've been friends for about a year and a half, and have dated for the past 2 or 3 months, and have only become official a week ago. I love being around him and playing music with him (we're in a band together) and it's just a lot of fun. I...
    PaisleyDays PaisleyDays 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2011

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    I Used To Be So In Love, Now I'm Not

    When my bf and I started to go out, I just came out of a bad relationship. My bf was sweet, kind and very shy but I was never physically attracted to him. But I thought 'he's a nice guy, stable going to college, what am I to complain about, am i going to find a great guy like...
    renvsner renvsner 18-21 2 Responses Sep 27, 2010

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    Desperate Much?

    I have a boyfriend. He used to be my ex 2 years ago. I was still very young when i became his girlfriend. He is 2 years older than me. We got back together last month and unfortunateky he already has a girlfriend. He asked me if he could have two girlfriends and i was kind of...
    Beckylovey Beckylovey 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2012

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    This is sort of a really sweet

    but sad story. I started dating this boy about 4 years ago, and i was super in love with him. I mean head over heels but i was in 9th grade and my mom, who is a mega control freak, found out and actually went to the school to talk to him. She told him that we were to young blah...
    yaritza16 yaritza16 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    Just Not Feeling The Love, But It's Not His Fault

    My fiance and I have been together almost 3 years now, it started off amazing. I couldn't imagine my feelings dieing the way they have. He still feels the same about me as he did in the beginning, and I believe him, but in the past year I've found i feel distant, uncomfortable...
    urialmorte urialmorte 18-21 1 Response Feb 23, 2012

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    What To Do?

    My boyfriend is such a great person. He's very good looking, funny, charming, sensitive, intelligent- all the things people look for in a partner. But the question I have been asking myself lately is this- why don't I love him when he has all this great stuff going on? I will...
    seriouslyconfused seriouslyconfused 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 10, 2010

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    Man Up

    I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4years, it's generally been the best relationship I've had bar a few issues; he constantly lies about everything and sometimes talks to me like I'm scum. We haven't been right for months now, we've had 'space' twice recently and the most...
    technorocker technorocker 26-30 1 Response Sep 3, 2011

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