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I Don't Love My Boyfriend

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    Sadly, No.

    I do not love him.  He could care less about me, so why should I love him?!?  It's only been two months anyway.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2010

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    I Dont Love My Boyfriend

    Its really wierd ive never loved or even cared for my boyfriend. Hes 17 and im 15 theres no point going out with some1 you don't even like.   I don't know what im supose2 say 2 him without hurting his feelings or feeling really bad. He is really rough even though...
    LiiLMiZzGoRjUs LiiLMiZzGoRjUs 16-17 4 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Can you like and care

    for your boyfriend, but not actually love him? I'm confused.
    shegi20 shegi20 26-30, F 1 Response May 3

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    at first i found him very attractive.

    infact i was the one who hit on him. but after we began our relationship he started doing little things that turned me off BIG TIME. like talking in a little boy voice, trying to be cute/funny. i told him to stop that it was really annoying me and i ended up hurting his feelings...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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