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I Don't Love My Boyfriend

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    Sadly, No.

    I do not love him.  He could care less about me, so why should I love him?!?  It's only been two months anyway.
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27, 2010

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    I Dont Love My Boyfriend

    Its really wierd ive never loved or even cared for my boyfriend. Hes 17 and im 15 theres no point going out with some1 you don't even like.   I don't know what im supose2 say 2 him without hurting his feelings or feeling really bad. He is really rough even though...
    LiiLMiZzGoRjUs LiiLMiZzGoRjUs 16-17 3 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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