I Dont Love My Husband Anymore

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    I don't think I love my husband anymore.

    After the alcohol abuse, verbal abuse, and emotional abuse I asked him for a divorce. And then he decided to become a changed person. Lost weight, started going to church, dresses better. All in hopes of me wanting to be back together. After my mothers sudden death I let him in...
    Liz0143 Liz0143
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 4, 2014

    Where Did It Go?????

    Been married 29yrs and finally realised my lack of feelings for my husband.  I know the problem is with me not him.  He still loves me very much to the point of smothering and clingy.  very cute when you are young but bloody annoying later on.  Havent had sex...
    leeber leeber
    46-50
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2008

    I look at him and it's like seeing a stranger.

    I mean I recognize him but I don't have any feeling. I'm not angry just over it, you know?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 30, 2014

    I feel guilty, I do,

    but I breathe so much easier when he is gone. Truth is, I think the kids do too...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 29, 2014

    We've been married 21 years,

    he's a good man, not abusive in any way but I have no feelings for him anymore. I've tried to explain this to him but he just ignores it & doesn't want to talk about it. He says that it's just a phase... Really??? At 48 I'm having a phase?? He thinks if you ignore something it...
    Newlife48 Newlife48
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2014

    I want to ask a question of those

    who have left a spouse or been the spouse to say they wanted to leave. You can read my previous posts for background. I'm in love with someone else, yes, but even without that, I think I know I need to be separate from my husband. There are no promises in my other...
    scarletone scarletone
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

    He's just not interested in me,

    simple as that. He thinks he loves me because he needs me to take care of him, to validate him and to support him. But he has no interest in knowing me, learning more about me or trying to understand me and what I'm going through. I feel like I deserve someone who does. Is that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jun 3, 2014

    I married when i was really young.

    I was too young and when I look back now, I married for all the wrong reasons. I married my husband to get away from all the abuse I was getting at home from my dad and stepmom. At that time, it looked like the only solution to me. Obviously my family thought I was way too good...
    ayamoiyah ayamoiyah
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2014

    Where Did It Go?????

    Been married 29yrs and finally realised my lack of feelings for my husband.  I know the problem is with me not him.  He still loves me very much to the point of smothering and clingy.  very cute when you are young but bloody annoying later on.  Havent had sex...
    leeber leeber
    46-50
    1 Response Dec 5, 2008

    I think he's mad about something.

    ..not sure because he can't/won't talk about anything. Is it terrible that I'm just glad I get the bed to myself tonight?
    Sweetdaisymae Sweetdaisymae
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2015

    Here goes..... I've been married 13 years.

    A little personal background..., I married my best friend right after college, but I knew I didn't want to. My mother was terminally ill and all she wanted to do was get out of the hospital to walk me down the aisle. Big wedding all planned but I was in love with someone else...
    scarletone scarletone
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 27, 2013

    Another fight the other night

    because I was mad at him. I was mad because I had to work late doing stuff for our kids school. Got home at 745pm and the kids are asking me what's for dinner! He works from home! He was playing video games and had fed himself of course. The kids are 11 and 8! So I get home and...
    scarletone scarletone
    41-45, F
    Jan 30, 2014
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