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I Don't Love My Husband

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    I Have Tried To Love My Husband - I thought I loved my husband when we first married. I knew I wasn't madly in love with him but there was a since of respect and friendship. We had...
    ILBATM ILBATM 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    I Feel Sick - I'm married with 3 kids and trapped in a marriage with the most irritating man ever now every thing about him ****** me off. I like girls and I have been in denial...
    helpme1983 helpme1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2013

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    I love him, but I don't. We have a 1 and a half year old daughter and I love him because of the time we have spent together...I don't love him for how he doesn't make me feel, and...
    carriebeths carriebeths 26-30, F Jan 27

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    I Dont Know What To Do? - If you are in the same boat as me.....please leave me your email :-(
    vlg85 vlg85 26-30 Oct 3, 2011

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    Nods From My Heart - I tried to be civil with him and be happy when the kids are around because I don't want them to suspect that they already have a broken home. Their innocent...
    0fairytalePrincess 0fairytalePrincess 36-40, F 10 Responses Apr 27, 2011

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    Why Do I Stay? - I cannot believe that I am doing this but I don't know what else to do. I have been married for almost 11 years to a man that has treated me like his child and NOT...
    jojo14 jojo14 31-35 11 Responses Jun 30, 2008

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    How Do You Get Through?? - How do you get through the days when you know that you no longer love your husband? He tells me he loves me and he's very affectionate. Everytime I...
    Lollie01 Lollie01 22-25, F 7 Responses May 31, 2012

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    I Dont Love My Huzbent - I think i dont.love my huzbent. He was my first boyfriend. Ane every boy was hating on him becos he had me as the most beutiful girl of all his friends. We...
    Victoraa Victoraa 31-35, M Aug 27, 2013

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    I Feel So Evil And Alone - 9 years ago I married a Lovely man who really loves me, but I'm afraid to say that I know I Have only ever loved him as a best friend, I know this...
    Cherrytomato Cherrytomato 31-35 9 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    I Should Have Never Married Him - I thought it was cold feet. My gut told me to run, but where would I go? I was eloping. I had no family to turn back to. My life was going...
    NevilleLongbottom NevilleLongbottom 26-30 2 Responses Apr 5, 2010

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    No More Love - I can't believe this forum exists. How nice to be able to share how unhappy and sad I feel. It's so hard to talk about my lack of love for my husband when everyone...
    notinlove notinlove 36-40 4 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    Coughing.... - Now he is complaining that I cough every time he uses the phone. 1. That's not true. 2. Even if it is true it would be because I have asthma and at any given...
    katnipkitkat katnipkitkat 41-45, F Jul 20, 2012

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    My Eternal Boyfriend - After a bad break up I did what most men do. I landed in the hands of my current bf. I've been with him for 11 years. I feel that I don't love him and...
    nancyfancy nancyfancy 31-35 Aug 20, 2012

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    How Convenient? - I feel guilty, depressed, and envious all at the same time.  To start with, my husband is a wonderful man.  We don't fight, we talk about everything, we...
    CatalystChilde CatalystChilde 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    After 34 Years I Finally Said It I Don"t Love You - Well last year on the anniversary of my mothers death, I told my husband. I DON"T LOVE YOU. What drove me to it. I married him...
    trailsendcabinstore trailsendcabinstore 61-65 4 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I Never Loved My Husband And Now.... - Hi.  I am 48 years old, married for 15 years with 2 children. Ages 14 & 10.  I never loved my husband they way I should.  I...
    whatdoido6 whatdoido6 46-50, F 8 Responses Feb 23, 2010

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    I Care For My Husband As A Brother But I Don't Love Him - I have been with my husband for 27 years now. He was my first boyfriend. He was / is honest, hardworking, salt of the...
    Swsplash Swsplash 41-45, F Aug 14, 2012

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    Shot Gun Wedding - I am so confused and so very unhappy. I do not know what to do. I am 27 years old and have been married for 10 yrs (together for 12 years) and have 2 beautiful...
    cutiebee1985 cutiebee1985 26-30, F 2 Responses May 28, 2012

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    The Talk - At long last I had the talk with my husband about braking up and it wasn't as bad as I excepted but saying that I do have to wate cupple of month before I can escape...
    helpme1983 helpme1983 31-35, F Apr 1, 2013

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    Time For You to Go - How do you keep almost 11yrs brief? I doubt I can but will do my best. We met in Nov 98, I was a single mom with 3 kids working 2ND shift at a local hospital...
    strawberry1969 strawberry1969 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 19, 2009

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    My Husband Was My Best Friend. - I don't really know where to start. I am 31 and have just recently seperated from my husband. Firstly, I need to explain that my ex husband was...
    Iwanttowantagain Iwanttowantagain 31-35 3 Responses Oct 11, 2012

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    It Is What It Is - We got married young--I was 20, he was 25. He's sweet and charming. We'd been dating for 4 years. Seemed like the thing to do. I thought I loved him, and I...
    yabooyaboo yabooyaboo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    I am not in love with my husband - I am 46, on my 3rd marriage and regret many bad decisions that I have made in my life. My current husband is not my soul mate, although...
    3strikesanddownandout 3strikesanddownandout 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2009

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    Limbo Is Hell - Hi, my story is long so I will try to summarize.I have been with my husband for 22 years,16 of those have been alright.I am in a personal hell right now I want to...
    Madbunny Madbunny 36-40 4 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    I Dont Anymore - I am so glad I found this site.  I have no one to talk to and nowhere to turn.  No one seems to understand me and I get judgment wherever I turn. I don...
    Mimi101 Mimi101 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    I dated him for a year and knew he wasn't for me. I was about to end the relationship but he got a call to deploy. I couldn't break up with him then because I didn't want him...
    Wantit2bover Wantit2bover 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    I'm So Confused, I Don't Love My Husband Anymore.. I Think I Have Never Loved Him.... - I am so confused that any advise is good... I'm 23 yo I met my now husband when I was 18, we...
    lsd89 lsd89 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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    Losing My Hope - I don't love my husband. The sentence makes me breathless and it makes tears prickle in my eyes.  But, I think it's true. I've been married to my husband...
    Nightspirit Nightspirit 22-25 5 Responses Oct 28, 2008

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    I Need Help I'm In A Mess. - I've been with my husband 10 yrs now and we have 3 daughters. I really don't love him anymore, I have told him all about how I don't feel anything for...
    Messymaz Messymaz 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 14, 2011

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    So Confused... - My husband and I were married when I was 21 and he was 34. We knew eachother about 2 years, but had only been dating for 7 months. We eloped. Shortly after, my mom...
    ElleBelle13 ElleBelle13 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2012

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    Im Pregnant And Not Inlove. - I'm only 22 years old and have been with the same guy for 2 years. I thought I loved him at first but I was totally wrong. Despite the fact that I...
    Marifaye Marifaye 22-25 2 Responses Sep 16, 2012

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    Just Ready To Be Alone - This is my first posting, I have been married for 5 yrs now and I always come to the conclusion that I do not love my husband and never really did. I love...
    alyciamr alyciamr 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    Really Confused - I have been married for 21 years to a wonderful man. He is kind and such a good father. He used to be my best friend but lately I just feel lost and lonely.  He...
    tabea1 tabea1 41-45 2 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    I Love Him, But I'm Not In Love With Him - I married my husband of almost 5 years now for the sake of my baby daughter back then.  Her father and I got separated back in 2003...
    ursescot ursescot 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 12, 2009

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    20 Yr Old College Student With A 4mth Old Child .... I Love School & Work More Than My Husband. - I can't remember why ....Why i got married..Why i fell in love with my husband...
    deeshaff deeshaff 18-21 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    I Don't Love My Perfect Husband - I got married at the age of 20, to a nice guy, who I am not in love with and never really was. I don't have one logical explanation for why I did...
    FrozenSTILL FrozenSTILL 22-25 8 Responses Aug 11, 2011

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    How I Got My Husband Back - hello everyone this really worked and i am proud to testify also. i saw a post on how a lady got her husband back and i decided to try this prophet...
    stephanievcent stephanievcent 31-35, F Oct 27, 2013

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    As A Friend. - I don't want to hurt him. I don't want to hurt him. If I say it as a mantra, will it change anything? Thirteen years and I need so much more... I feel so deeply...
    ScyllaAndCharybdis ScyllaAndCharybdis 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    Do All Men Hit Their Wives? - This is my second marriage. I was nineteen when I got married first time. It was all fun for first few months and then it faded. I continued my...
    Meg3812 Meg3812 36-40 4 Responses Jan 7, 2012

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    I think my parents love me, but I always put it this way: they, especially my mom, were like little kids who wanted a puppy but don't know how to take care of it. I have no...
    ashleymaggie ashleymaggie 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Meaning if I was forced to get married with someone, I wouldn't. Because if I can't be with the one I love, what's the point? Although...I don't have to worry about that...
    ladypirate108 ladypirate108 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I don't like to waste my time on meaningless fake relationships that are a lie.
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 a week ago

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    I hate that all my friends think that they know me and what i want. If i dont want to be with him then im not going to be with him because they want me to. If he's so damn perfect...
    sweetshadows15 sweetshadows15 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Studies have shown that a baby's love comes more from warmth and comfort and cuddliness of the mother rather than from the fact that the mother provides food. Just because you feed...
    Qwerkyqwerty Qwerkyqwerty 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I've never been in love. Maybe it's because of my high standards or the fact that, I've just never met "the one". But I feel as though people out there (especially girls) are...
    beesboo beesboo 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really can't be with that person if I do not have feelings for them. I have real life experiences and even after 13 years my answer was 'no'. I am very clear with what I want...
    donotfollowme donotfollowme 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I'm a 35 year old African lady, married with four lovely kids, even though people see me and think I'm 22, never married let alone 4 kids . I will be married for 13 years in April...
    Imasadwife Imasadwife 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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