I Dont Make A Big Deal Out Of My Birthday

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    used too back then but

    as I got older parents made it less exciting as they would for a baby or kid
    apperentlyicanthavemynameagain apperentlyicanthavemynameagain
    22-25, F
    Jan 2, 2016

    I wish I could do something ritualistic

    for my birthday like hike to the same tree in the forest and make a small mark on it every year. It's as pointless as our existence but it's these little things that get us through the aching void. I think on my birthday I will miss my hometown the most. I've been away from it...
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    1 Response Jan 25, 2016

    My birthday would most definitely be the worst

    day of this year :D. Too much freaking attention.
    trayceetrace trayceetrace
    Jan 2, 2016
    PanHead1989 PanHead1989
    26-30, M
    5 Responses Feb 12, 2016

    birthdays, and christmas are

    for kids. if I want something I get it. or save then get it. kids cannot do this.
    cbt13 cbt13
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2016

    I did when I hit 18 and 21

    and wished for a bit more attention when I hit 40, but otherwise I don't care. It's just another day.
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    1 Response Nov 1, 2015
    Mossonarock Mossonarock
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 23, 2016

    So my birthday is tomorrow

    and what I had in mind for the day it won't happen and I don't think I ask that much I just wanted to spend the day out 😔. And what I say I didn't want is probably what is going to happen and that is a freaky BBQ (I like bbq it just that I don't feel like having one tomorrow...
    jen1992 jen1992
    26-30, F
    Jan 1, 2016

    I even always changed my birthday on social

    media. I onced celebrate it and it's not a good feeling i hope to get from my friend or family. So i celebrate my birthday alone with treating myself with stuff and cake. I know it's kind of sad but i feel comfort with this :)
    sunflaw sunflaw
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2016

    In my chemistry class there is no escape from

    birthdays. My teacher writes your name on the board and makes the class sing to you ( ; _ ; ) it was horrible. The day AFTER my birthday in my Spanish class we had to write an essay on what we did the day before. I just haaad to ask how to say "my birthday was yesterday" And my...
    RachelDare RachelDare
    1 Response Mar 3, 2016
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    1 Response Jan 15, 2016

    Every year a try not to talk about the day of

    my birth just to see if my parents will forget its my birthday but my siblings bring the hype up to much
    Rhea03811 Rhea03811
    16-17, F
    Jan 2, 2016

    Today is my birthday

    and I don't care. When I was little birthdays were fun and I didn't have to worry about any responsibilities because I was young. I still had many years to worry about what my future goals might be. Now it just feels like another day of the week. You get up and go to work. Than...
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22
    22-25, M
    Oct 29, 2015

    What do you do when someone calls you to sing

    happy birthday? or Worse when someone throws you a party, and they start singing ? where do you look what do you do???
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    1 Response Jan 16, 2016

    Once your grandparents

    and parents are gone, birthdays don't matter anymore.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 16, 2015

    It is tomorrow.. the 23rd of March.

    . and I have made ZERO plans. Maybe I should invite some people over?
    jacob3171 jacob3171
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 22, 2016

    I think it's kind of weird

    that I don't and I don't even remember why I started it. To be in a certain mood in my life, probably. But I'm on the cakes again, so bring the whipped cream and the marzipans! ;)
    mercedes810 mercedes810
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2016

    I don't feel or think there's any need to make

    a big deal. That only draws attention to yourself and I don't need that attention.
    Gambler715 Gambler715
    51-55, M
    Jan 3, 2016

    One year closer to death,

    so why celebrate it~
    kaybe7 kaybe7
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 11, 2016

    It's just another day

    but with a bunch of ppl stressing me out. Like fr. The most thank you's I give is on that day.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 3, 2016

    my family never remember my birthday ,

    so it always passes like a normal day
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    Mar 23, 2016
    justmyself11 justmyself11
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jan 5, 2016

    I couldn't care less about my birthday Christmas

    or anything else as it's something I learnt not to enjoy as I feel hurt and pain over how many years I had bad ones and how many of them was on my own or how people could not care less about me. so to me it's another day nothing special and I am happy that way I don't feel...
    Leylandlad Leylandlad
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016

    it'll pass.. its just one day.

    .. but the memories it gives.. some deff hurts.. the happy ones are far long gone...
    TheaRhyss TheaRhyss
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2016
    iReallyLoveJorgie iReallyLoveJorgie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2016

    My birthday is in September,

    the beginning of the school year. Before anyone cares about birthdays yet. Plus I don't have many friends, so nobody knows it's my birthday. Ever.
    LanelJaento LanelJaento
    16-17, T
    1 Response Feb 11, 2016

    Its my birthday today.

    ..no big deal tho
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    2 Responses Jan 17, 2016

    I'm not sure what the big deal over birthdays

    are. It is just another day. I appreciate the presents and parties for the effort they took, but to me, I'd be just fine without them. :)
    TheRedTie TheRedTie
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 18, 2016

    When I turned 15, I got my first piercing.

    ..that same evening, I lost a good childhood friend to a gun. He was raised in a foster home, the only reason I knew him was because his foster family attended the church my family did. He was this little chunky boy with spiked hair who absolutely loved to pick on me. He was...
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    3 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    Just like the wind, it breezes right past me

    unnoticed. Last celebrated it in 2012
    dollarsigns dollarsigns
    18-21, M
    Mar 23, 2016

    My parent actually wanna celebrate with me,

    but I was like nope just buy me a knife and I'll be okay
    Bryanisflyinglol Bryanisflyinglol
    18-21, M
    Jan 2, 2016

    I never make a big deal out of my birthday,

    I just treat it like a regular day
    deleted deleted
    Jan 2, 2016

    I still don't understand birthdays.

    All I did was be born, why do we have to celebrate that?
    deleted deleted
    Jan 16, 2016

    And This Bothers My Mother

    My birthday is not a big deal. I have never liked birthday parties- not even as a kid, when birthday bashes were all the rage. My mom threw me a party a couple of years, but all it did was embarrass me and trigger my social anxiety. So she stopped.Now, I am 32 years old and will...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 27, 2013

    I don't want to get older.

    I pretty much stopped aging at 17, I don't even look different.
    greatgost greatgost
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 3, 2016

    My parents never celebrated my birthday.

    So to me it's just another day...
    Kezio Kezio
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 3, 2016

    Uhh... It's basically a reminder

    that we are closer to our mortality. Nothing to celebrate about.
    Lvcifyre Lvcifyre
    1 Response Dec 9, 2015

    I don't really think it's

    that important... Plus when I was younger nobody really have me big gifts and made that big of a deal about it so it's never really been something that I've made too big of a deal about.
    Lovelovelove1234567 Lovelovelove1234567
    18-21, F
    Mar 25, 2016
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